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Arnold Moore Obituary

Mr. Arnold Power Moore, 92, owner and operator of The Arnold Moore Funeral Service, died on Wednesday evening, April 28, at his residence in Bartlesville.
Funeral services will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Wednesday, May 5, in the First Baptist Church of Bartlesville. Rev. Andrew S. Odom, Senior Minister of First Presbyterian Church, and Pastor Joe D. Fowler, Senior Minister of First Baptist Church, will be the officiants. Committal prayers and interment will be directed in the Memorial Park Cemetery by The Arnold Moore Funeral Service. Full military rites by the James H. Teel American Legion Post #105 and Masonic Rites by the Bartlesville Masonic Lodge #284 A. F. & A. M. will honor Mr. Moore at the graveside.
A gathering for the friends and family of Mr. Moore will be held following the services at the graveside at the First Presbyterian Church, 505 S. E. Dewey Ave., Bartlesville, OK 74003.
A memorial has been established and those who wish may forward their gifts to the Bluestem Medical Foundation in care of Jane Phillips Medical Center, 3500 E. Frank Phillips Blvd., Bartlesville, OK 74006.
A native of Bartlesville, Arnold Power Moore was born on May 29, 1917. He was the son of the late David William and Josephine (Phillips) Moore. Arnold's father had a background in business and managed the Kansas Torpedo Company prior to operating his own business manufacturing nitroglycerin. Later, David William Moore owned his own stamp company in Bartlesville. The Moore family has had a rich and prominent heritage in Bartlesville.
When Arnold was nine years of age, he had a newspaper route, and often while delivering papers he would see a deceased animal. Having a strong compassion, he was motivated to bury the animals. He called himself "the cat and dog undertaker". Arnold's father built him a small funeral coach mounted on a red Sherwood wagon, to which he would hitch his German Shepherd and pull it around as he delivered his newspapers. Also, Orville DeLapp, Arnold's close friend and companion, accompanied him on the route and if they found an animal which had met tragedy, they would load it into the coach and take it home and have a funeral and burial for it. The neighborhood children often attended the funeral services and his mother never failed to be in attendance.
During grade school, besides his six newspaper routes, he also worked for the Kerr Drugstore and the Pioneer Drugstore as a fountain jerk and janitor. The paper routes for "The Examiner", as it was known at that time, paid him fifteen cents for the papers he delivered which he shared with the six other young men.
In 1931 when Arnold was in the seventh grade, he met Ruth Aileen Wheeler. Ruth knew immediately that she had met her future husband. He was graduated with the Senior Class of 1936 from the old Bartlesville High School. Mr. Moore attended the Worsham College of Mortuary Science in Chicago, Illinois and served his apprenticeship in the Cook County Morgue. He was graduated in 1938 and was the twenty-third person in the state to receive a funeral director's license. He and Ruth Aileen Wheeler were married on December 24, 1938 in Bartlesville. Mr. Moore worked for John McCallister of the McCallister Funeral Home. The desire to own his own funeral home led him to share with Ruth his dream. Ambition and desire drove Ruth and Arnold to succeed and they opened the Moore's Funeral Home at the corner of 5th and Dewey. During World War II, Arnold was enlisted in the United States Army and while he was in the military, Ruth managed the business in his absence. Following his return from his military service, the Moore's moved the business to its present location at the corner of Adams and Johnstone and it was renamed The Arnold Moore Funeral Service. Mrs. Moore worked closely beside Arnold for many years until failing health forced her retirement and they moved to their farm home in the Ochelata community. Ruth preceded him in death on April 20, 1991.
Following Ruth's death, Arnold returned to live in Bartlesville to their former family residence and continued his ownership and operation of The Arnold Moore Funeral Service, being a humanitarian and setting an example for citizens throughout Oklahoma and Washington County by his business practices. Arnold Moore is an extremely well known Funeral Director in many states. In addition to the Bartlesville funeral home, Arnold was also the owner and operator of the Arnold Moore - Barnsdall Funeral Home in Barnsdall, Okla. and the Arnold Moore - Dewey Funeral Service in Dewey, Okla. He was also co-owner of the Fitzgerald-Arnold Moore Ivy Chapel and the Fitzgerald-Southwood Colonial Chapel Funeral Homes in Tulsa; and the Mobley-Dodson Funeral Service in Sand Springs, Okla.
Arnold was active and supported many community and fraternal organizations during his lifetime. He had been president of the student body while he was in high school; served as state Master Counselor of the Order of DeMolay; a 32nd Degree Mason, having a perpetual membership in the Ramona Masonic Lodge #326 A. F. & A. M. and the Bartlesville Masonic Lodge #284 A. F. & A. M.; Scottish Rite, Valley of Tulsa; York Rite; Wasono Shrine Club and the Akdar Temple. He was also a longtime member of First Presbyterian Church of Bartlesville of which he had served as an elder.
Surviving are his son and daughter-in-law, John David Moore and Diane of Ochelata; two granddaughters, Dierbourn Mutch and Desiree Michelle Miller and her husband, Jason; and two great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his father, David William Moore; his mother, Mrs. Josephine (Phillips) Moore; three brothers, Dr. John W. Moore; David Llewellyn Moore and William Phillips Moore; his wife, Mrs. Ruth A. Moore and his daughter, Mrs. Mary Josephine (Moore) Mutch.

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Published by Examiner-Enterprise from May 2 to Jun. 2, 2010.

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J. T. (Terry) Holt

August 5, 2013

Always a gracious gentlemen, Arnold helped many families - including my own relatives - through both good times and bad. May he rest in peace now. No one will ever compare with him.

Kenneth&Margaret Grindle

May 22, 2010

Arnold always had a good word for everyone.. May he Rest in Piece...

Trena Cooper

May 19, 2010

Psalm 90:10 states, "in themselves the days of our years are seventy years, And if because of special mightiness they are eighty years..." Mr. Moore was blessed with longevity. Although, he lived a long life this does not ease the sorrow. May Heavenly Father give strength and peace to the family and friends of Mr. Moore during this time.

C DeBerry

May 19, 2010

Our Heavenly Father knows that losing a loved one to death causes us great pain. Your tears are not unnoticed. Although your deep pain will not easily disappear, prayer to God will bring comfort to you as you grieve. The Bible assures us God "is healing the broken hearted ones, and is binding up their painful spot." Please accept my deepest sympathy.

May 17, 2010

Dear, dear Arnold! What a privilege to have known such a special human being. My first memory of Arnold was when I was a teen and he commissioned an ambulance to bring my father home from Tulsa after Daddy had back surgery for a disc problem and had to remain in a body cast for 3 months. It was comforting to have Arnold in charge.

We were members of First Presbyterian as was Arnold. He was a greeter on Sunday and I always thought how handsome and impeccably dressed he was.

Arnold officiated at my parents, Ken's parents and Ken's Aunt Doris' funerals. Aunt Doris was moved to Bartlesville from her home in Topeka, KS. Arnold took a special interest in Doris as she was Catholic and so was his daughter. He officiated at her graveside service in Topeka which was especially meaningful to us.

I have fond memories of this elegant man and his professionalism. Our sincere condolences to the family.

- Ken and Gayle Williams Herring - Dallas, Texas

Debbie Newman

May 17, 2010

I am so sorry to have heard of Arnold's passing. i remember Arnold very well. He was not only a family friend, but also the man you go to for a funeral. He buried both of my parents and my mothers parents as well. I still remember from the time of my mothers death in 1985 to my grandmothers death in 1996, that at christmas time Armonld would send my grandmother something for christmas. And while i was away, my grandmother would call me and would say, you wouldn't believe who sent me a poinsetta, or a fruit basket, or whatever it was for that year. And of course I had to say Arnold Moore. He was a dear, and will cherish all of the memories that I have for him.

Coni Rakes (Dean)

May 16, 2010

I am saddened by the news of Arnold Moores passing. He was well known & well like throughout Washington County every since I was a child. He will be greatly missed by all were fortunate enough to have known this honorable, good and charitable man.

May 14, 2010

My family had great respect for Mr. Moore. He provided funeral care for a number of my family memebers and friends, and was always very professional.
Lesa R. Ward Entz

May 12, 2010

When I moved to Bartlesville in 1954 Arnold was one of the first business men I met. He was a great Friend of my uncle Frank Simone. Over my 79 years I have attended hundreds of funerals, but until you have attended one by Arnold Moore you really do not know what a funeral service should be. His attention to the small details made you feel so good. My wife once paid me a great compliment when she said " it takes you as long to walk a block as it does Arnold Moore. He knew everyone in Bartlesville and most of their relatives. He was one of a kind and I know by now he knows most of the people in Heaven

Charles Simone Mesa Arizona

Lynda Jones

May 12, 2010

John David & family, It is still hard for me to believe that Arnold is gone. What a blessing he was to so many. He had always taken care of our family's needs but it wasn't until I lost my husband & was widowed at the age of 36, did I truly see what a gift he had. He somehow guided me thru those awful days & made sure that everything was perfect, as only Arnold could. His ability to remember everyones name & what family you belonged to was unbelieveable. A few months after my husband passed away, I saw Arnold at the Dewey Fair Grounds where I was taking a dog obiedence class. A few days later I received a note from Arnold in the mail telling me he was glad I was doing OK & had my dog to keep me company. Only Arnold would take the time to do something so thoughtfull. Arnold was such a class act. I don't think anyone will be able to fill his shoes. May you find comfort knowing Arnold was loved & respected by so many. He will be missed. Lynda Jones, Bartlesville, Ok. 74003

Jean Smith

May 8, 2010

Arnold blessed so many with his kindness, compassion and thoughtfulness. My parents (Ralph and Vivian Smith) considered him and Ruth dear friends. My Mother fondly told me of her memories playing with Arnold as a child and going to his neighborhood funeral services for animals. Years later for a college paper, I interviewed him and asked why he became a Funeral Director. He said it was his calling in life to help people in one of their times of greatest need. Indeed...and he did for me as well. He was my anchor who nurtured my Sister and I when all seemed dark. He lovingly told us of stories of our parents whom he knew individually before they met and married. With Arnold you always felt taken care of and that everything would be ok. I will always be grateful for the time that he gave so freely. I've always been amazed at his class, intelligence and genuineness. My sincere condolences to his family and the wonderful staff at Arnold Moore Funeral Service. Bartlesville has truly lost a treasure.

Dr. Bruce Edgar

May 7, 2010

Arnold provided the funneral services for both my parents, Russell and Natalie Edgar. I remmember well that he drove my wife and I out to the cemmetery and told fascinating stories about Bartlesville, all while maintaining a constant slow speed. That last memory of Arnold will always remain with me.

Larry Hamilton

May 7, 2010

Mr. Moore buried my entire family over the years, most recently my father, and step-mother, and always did his usual outstanding and professional job. Mr. Moore will be sorely missed by many. May he rest with Jesus.

Muriel Welty-Faust

May 7, 2010

The Faust and the Welty families knew Arnold for many years. I trust that the Moore family descendants and friends find peace in remembering Arnold's smile and his kindness. He was especially kind to our family and we will remember that always.

AJ Quigley

May 6, 2010

I met Mr. Moore at various times during services for friends and various
other times. He was of the most courteous men I've ever met. Bartlesville has lost a most wonderful
citizen.

Rita Pratt

May 6, 2010

Arnold's ability to remember names and faces always amazed me. He was the best mortician I have ever seen. His work was always the best. He was a good man.

Christy Leigh

May 6, 2010

We Love you Arnie and will miss you Always, I never got to go through that photo album with you, but I wish I had... Some things are so precious we shouldn't wait around for the right moment, because it might be too late.
May God be with the family and all those who loved Arnold, and i know there are many...

Stephanie Tucker Howerton

May 5, 2010

I have known Arnold and his family my whole life. My grandparents, Joe and Eugenia Tucker were very dear friends with Ruth and Arnold. I remember spending the summers back there in Bartlesville and having sleepovers at their farm with Mary Jo and the family. I have so many great memories of Arnold, Ruth, Mary Jo, and John David. I am so glad I got to see Arnold when my sister and I went back there this past October. My thoughts and prayers are with you John David. Arnold lived a long and wonderful life.

David, Sue & Little David Forrest

May 5, 2010

I met Mr. Arnold Moore through my Grand-Father Ocie Baldwin. Arnold always spoke and had a smile for you. He just had a way of listening to you that made you feel good about yourself. He always called me by name even as a youngster. Bartlesville has lost yet another iconic figure. Our hearts and prayers go out to the family.

"Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep"

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.

Alonzo Adair

May 5, 2010

Arnold Moore will surely be missed. He buried all my intermediate family members. My condolences to the Moore family.

Elizabeth Lawrence

May 5, 2010

Arnold was one of my very best friends. We could visit for hours, and I never heard him say an unkind word about anyone. He was the epitome of Character and Grace, and I will miss him so.

Lynnsi Mutch Pettigrew, RN

May 5, 2010

Grandfather,
You will be dearly missed by the lives that you have touched. You treated me as one of your own when a woman that I was blessed to have had and privilged to call Mom raised me. You taught me to fish in the beauty of a rising sun, you introduced me to country clubs and fine dining. You took me to my first ballet and showed me history at local museums. I cherish my childhood memories spending summers at the ranch and holidays spent also. You will be forever missed. And never forgotten.

Bonnie Allen Williams

May 4, 2010

Arnold has been a beacon in our family's life...he knew my Dad as young boys and we grew up under his guidance in the Presbyterian Church. He handled both of my grandmother's funerals and my Dad and Mother's also. He guided us thru our grief - he was a wonderful man with a wonderful memory of all that has happened. We shall miss him.

Chenya Lemon -Henry

May 3, 2010

Arnold was a dear friend of my Mother and Dad... Rest in peace...

Bro. Babe Jones

May 3, 2010

I believe only eternity will tell the many, many deeds of kindness both openly and in secret that Mr. Moore performed. He was an astute businessman, indeed, who also knew the importance of familial love and concern. Yes, he was familiar with domestic work from which he did not shy away, and he flattered many a cook with his exquisite taste for the "pot of greens." I was personally encouraged in my youth to pursue and refine my keyboard talents by Mr. Moore's urging.

May 3, 2010

Thoughtfulness was not just a work to Arnold Moore. He lived thoughtfulness. My prayers are with you at this time. May he rest in peace.
Sister Susanne Bauer OSU

KATHY FERRY

May 3, 2010

MR MOORE WAS FAMILY TO EVERYONE HE SERVED. IT DIDN'T MATTER TO HIM HE WOULD COME IN TO THE KITCHEN AN START HELPING WITH THE COOKING OR WASH THE DISHES AFTERWARDS THERE WAS NO SAYING ARNOLD YOU DON;T NEED TO DO THIS HE WOULDNT LISTEN HE WOULD DO IT ANY WAY
I REMEMBER ONCE WHEN HE SERVICED MY GRANDMOTHERS FUNERAL HE WENT OUT SIDE GOT A GLOVE AN PLAYED BALL WITH MY BOYS HE WAS SUCH A WONDERFUL MAN THE LAST TIME I SAW ARNOLD WAS 2 YEARS AGO HE WAS AT MY AUNTS FUNERAL HE LOOKE DSO FRAIL BUT THE OUTSIDE NEVER COULD STAND UP TO WHAT WAS IN HIS HEART . I WILL TRULY MISS HIM BUT I KNOW ONE DAY I WILL SEE HIM AGAIN AN I KNOW HE BE STANDING THERE WAITING TO GREET ME WITH OPEN ARMS.

Elizabeth Lewis

May 3, 2010

I was saddened to hear that Mr. Moore passed away recently. When my parents passed in 2004 and 2006, he took great care to provide memorable services for both of them. His personal touch helped our healing process. My heart and respect go out to the Moore family.

Zoe Baldwin

May 3, 2010

I hope someone is kind enough to laminate the article and provide it to his family. As a friend of his daughter, I recall his kindness in this regard, back in the days when we otherwise could not digitally preserve news articles and memorabilia. May he rest in peace. My sympathies to the Moore family.

nee Laura L. Floyd

Tom Brown

May 3, 2010

I have known Arnold my whole life. He brought my mother and me home from the hospital when I was born. We lived across the street from Arnold and Ruth. He helped our family so many times over the years, it's hard to count them all. My sympathy to the Moore family.

May 2, 2010

John David and the entire family of Mr. Moore. He will be so missed. It was always a pleasure to see him in his black suit and white shirt and always with a smile that fit him well. He and my mother were very close friends. They always said they would go to Hawaii one day and get married. She also said that the only person that would put her in the ground would be her Arnold. Several members of my family have went through the home and we will miss him. My Husband worked at the Dewey Cemetery for years and we will always have a story to tell about the day he needed to have a service on a Sat. It was our Anniversary and he handed Mike 50 and said take that wife out to dinner on me. I love you kids. He didn't have to do the special things he did, but he did. Because he was a kind person and had a big kind heart. We pray that your family continue with his legacy and that you grow up and are the kind of persons he would desire you to be. We already miss you Arnold. Will think of you at the Mason Breakfast every two weeks and will drink a juice for you.. Pastor Michael and Deniece Bush, Copan, OK 74022

Andy Lee

May 2, 2010

My deepest condolences to the Moore family, Mr. Arnold Moore was a great family friend of ours. I went school with his daughter Mary Jo. Mr. Moore helped us when my parents past away and we all know that Mr. Moore is a helping man.
- Andy Lee, Tulsa OK.
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Frieda Jones & Family

May 2, 2010

Our deepest condolences to the Moore family and staff He helped our family after losing a loved one. It was very professionaly done. May he rest in peace.

Debbie Cannon Cunningham

May 2, 2010

I have known Arnold my whole life, my family owned Jack Cannons Cleaners and I saw him often as I worked at the cleaners growing up. Arnold was always so friendly he will be greatly missed. He lived a long and happy life. My condolences to the family, God bless.

Donna

May 2, 2010

My deepest condolences to the Moore family, Arnold will be dearly missed and as he served this community for so many years I can proudly say i got to serve him each and every sunday when he came in the restuarant i work at. i will miss him and the truely memorable stories that he shared with me. Rest in peace Arnie and we will meet once again i am sure.....

Kathy Kirtley Owens

May 2, 2010

My deepest condolences to the family and the community on the death of Arnold. I don't know how my family would have made it through the hard times of losing a loved one if it wasn't for the kindness and professional manners of Arnold. My dad was one of the neighborhood children who attended those pet funerals also. Week before last I lost my brother and this past week I am mourning a dear family friend.

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