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Judith Coughlin Obituary

JACKSONVILLE BEACH FLA / WATERLOO - Judith Ann Coughlin (née Whitaker) Cherished wife, mother, grandmother, friend, and advocate for families tackling childhood cancer, passed away November 2, 2022, at the age of 77.

Judy was everything to her family. She was the confidante, the advisor, the negotiator, the chief financial officer, the chef, the chauffeur, the fan, but most of all she was mom and grandma. Judy never wanted to be the center of attention, but with her warm and loving ways, along with her beautiful smile, it was difficult for her not to be.

Whenever the Coughlin family moved, and we moved a lot, Judy instantly became everyone's friend. She was a force for love and well-being in the neighborhood. Our door was always open for anyone who wanted to stop by for a cup of coffee or a listening ear, and no one ever left without a hug or a kiss. When we moved away, our neighbors were always sad to see her go, but rarely even noticed she had a husband. Everyone loved Judy and everyone cried when she left. The enormity of her absence cannot be put into words, but the immense kindness she showed to others will always endure. Our hearts are broken, but we know she is finally free from suffering. After a long and courageous battle with progressive supranuclear palsy (PSP), Judy is at peace and in the arms of our Lord.

Judy is survived by her husband of 55 years, Tom Coughlin; their four children and their spouses: Keli and Chris Joyce, Tim and Andrea Coughlin, Brian and Susie Coughlin, and Kate and Chris Snee;12 grandchildren: Emma, Dylan, Shea, Cooper, Caroline, Marin, Wesley, Brennon, Clara, Walker, Ally, and Hartley; and one sister, Sandy Estep. She was preceded in death by her parents Paul and Eleanor.

The Funeral Mass will be held at 11 a.m., Thursday, November 10 in St. Paul's Catholic Church of Jacksonville Beach, Florida with a reception following.

Judy will have a private burial in her hometown of Waterloo, NY at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, we ask that you consider making a donation to the Tom Coughlin Jay Fund Foundation in memory of Judy who was a co-founder.

Please visit our online tribute at www.quinn-shalz.com, Arrangements under the care and direction of Quinn-Shalz Family Funeral Home, Jacksonville Beach, FL.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Finger Lakes Times from Nov. 5 to Nov. 6, 2022.

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Jim Newstead

November 7, 2022

Judy and her family were childhood neighbors, and she clearly reflected the outward behavior of love and affection for all people that her parents demonstrated. Trinh and I send our heartfelt condolences to Tom and his family, and Judy will make Heaven an even better place for eternity, for she will likely be the lady who greets you with a hug and that awesome smile! God Bless you Judy...

Marilyn Lahr Arnold

November 6, 2022

Tom and family,
Judy and I were classmates at Waterloo High and SUNY Brockport. I was so sorry to hear of her passing....Wishing you time's peace and love's memories.

Marilyn Lahr Arnold

Russ Purnell

November 6, 2022

Thinking of the family during this difficult time. Our very best. Russ and Jill Purnell

David Casmay

November 6, 2022

Another angel in heaven to help God coach

DAVE EOGERS FAMILY

November 6, 2022

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Nancy Caswell Burden

November 6, 2022

Tommy, today at church (UMC Trinity FL) we celebrated all Saints Day - both living and dead. When asked for saints who have passed this year I spoke "Judy Whitaker Coughlin" and our Pastor Kevin rang a bell for her. With love, she passes to a greater place.

Donna and Jim mott

November 6, 2022

Tom and family - Judy was always great and kind, So sorry to hear of her passing

Suzanne M Lee

November 6, 2022

Tom and Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find peace.
Doug and Sue Lee

Gene Emerick

November 6, 2022

Tom so sorry to hear of J7dys passin


Tom so sorry to hear of Judy's passing thoughts and prayers are with u and your family Gene Emerick

Donna C.

November 6, 2022

I'm so sorry for your loss, Many prayers of peace and comfort for you all.

Nancy Caswell Burden

November 5, 2022

Dear Tom and family. I remember Judy as a cheerleader. It seems that she has been a cheerleader her whole life for family and others. Blessings to you all as she goes to God´s arms. Nancy

Ray Lanphear

November 5, 2022

Tommy and family I am So very sorry for your profound loss. Prayer's for you and your family

George Lamson

November 5, 2022

So deeply sorry for the loss of Judy. Our condolences go out to Tom and his family!

Kathy Brockway

November 5, 2022

So sorry for your families loss. Thinking of you all.

Doug Judd

November 5, 2022

To Tom and her family, we are so sorry to learn of Judy's passing.

Bonnie Stewart Boyd

November 4, 2022

Judy sat next to me in kindergarten. Always jealous because she could color so well and I couldn't! So sorry for the loss of such a great person; prayers to Tom and her children as this tender time.

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