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Thomas Wellin Obituary

INTERLAKEN - Thomas F. Wellin, 60, of Interlaken, passed away on September 10, 2012, at home after an extended battle with heart disease.
A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday (September 15) at the Interlaken Reformed Church.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Interlaken Reformed Church or Lifetime Care (Hospice of Wayne & Seneca Counties).
Born on March 9, 1952, Tom graduated from South Seneca High School in 1970 and attended Delhi Technical School. He worked as a contractor and operated his own contracting business for many years. Tom served many years as chairman for the Republican Committee for the Town of Covert. A lifelong lover of the outdoors, he enjoyed hunting, fishing, and spending time with his family at their camp on Interlaken Beach.
Tom is survived by his wife of 42 years, Lauri Burlew; daughter, Sarah (James) Oppedisano; son, Luke (Jamee Hageman) Wellin; grandchildren, Angel, Ella, Liam, Thomas, and Mira; and brother, Stephen Ovecka.
He is predeceased by his parents Frederick and Irene Wellin, and his beloved dog Indy.

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Published by Finger Lakes Times from Sep. 13 to Sep. 15, 2012.

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Glenn & Casey Parker

September 18, 2012

We are so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He will be dearly missed on Interlaken Beach. Our thoughts are with you.

Shari & Jimmy Carter

September 17, 2012

My heart is saddened to read this. Laurie, Luke & Jaymee, Tom touched the hearts of anyone that knew him even if it was short term friendships. I so enjoyed Tom and all of you playing Euchre. I am so glad we got to spend fun time together and that I got to meet such a loving man. Prayers for you all. I won't be there because we now live in Alabama, but you are in my thoughts & prayers. RIP Tom RIP!

Julie Pelto

September 16, 2012

We are all grateful to have had the opportunity to spend time with you and your family. We love you all dearly,

JR Westervelt

September 15, 2012

Tom and I spent many hours together at the "Beach" in our high school days and he even taught me how to water ski behind his 14 foot aluminum boat with a 18 hp Evenrude. My thoughts and prays are with you all and I'm certain that Tom is at the best fighing hole in Heaven right now.

Kevin Dempsey

September 15, 2012

My sincerest condolences are extended to the entire Wellin Family. I played Football with Tom in High School and during that time he was a good friend to me. I have many fond memories to reflect on. May God Bless Tom and your family in this time of sorrow.

Doreen & Tommy Burns

September 14, 2012

Our thoughts & prayers are with Tom's family and friends. Keep your fond memories in your heart and he will forever be with you.

John Kinne

September 14, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Tom. We graduated from high school together. He was a friend that will be missed. My heart goes out to the family. RIP Tom .

September 14, 2012

So Sorry for your loss. He was such a nice man! You will all be in my thoughts and prayers! ~ Jen (Millspaugh)Harris

Updike Family

September 14, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult and sad time.

Linda Zall

September 13, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing and your great loss. My family will miss him so very much, Linda Zall

Lauri and Jerry

September 13, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Lauri and family. So sorry for your loss.

Jerry Jones And family

September 13, 2012

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

M Hayward

September 13, 2012

Prayers and sympathy to the families.

Melissa Granger

September 13, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

Mary & Bryan Cady

September 13, 2012

Sorry for your loss. We're thinking of your family.

Joanne Brand

September 13, 2012

To the Family and Friends of Tom Wellin: Tom was my first landlord years ago on Cold Springs Road. Good man with a good heart; I never forgot him. I'm deeply sorry for your loss; may God bless you during this difficult season.

Todd & Jen Porter

September 13, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May your memories bring you peace in the days ahead.

Jerrod Prevost

September 13, 2012

Lauri,
I'm very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jerrod

Ann D'Attilio

September 12, 2012

To all of Tom's family and friends,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. You are in our thoughts.
Ann & Mike D'Attilio

Dale McLean

September 12, 2012

Hi Lauri, you now have a new Angel looking over you. Tom will always be with you. God Bless and take care of yourself!

Peace & Love,
Dale McLean

September 12, 2012

Laurie,
I am so sorry to read about Tom's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Janet Brust Freese

JIM BORDEN

September 12, 2012

sorry to hear of your loss he will be missed he was a good man.

Heather (Seymour) Armstrong

September 12, 2012

Lauri, Sarah and Luke (and families), Even though I haven't see you in many, many years I remember having fun watching the kids and I had fun getting to know your family. I also remember all of us riding in a truck Christmas caroling around Interlaken. I was so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. I will pray for each one of you today and in the days ahead.

Pat Cooke

September 12, 2012

Dear Laurie
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I know he will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you and your family.

Pat Cooke

September 12, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I know he will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you and your family.

Sharon Durfee

September 12, 2012

Laurie, my prayers go out to you and the children. Tom was a great guy and he will surely be missed by all who knew him.

Jody (Seymour) Andrew

September 12, 2012

Lauri, Sarah and Luke - I am heartbroken and so very sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

September 12, 2012

Dear Wellin family, truly sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you during this time.
Charyl

Leslie Larsen

September 12, 2012

Lauri, I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Carin Rundle

September 12, 2012

Lauri
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carin

Lori Radcliff-Woods

September 12, 2012

Lauri: My deepest condolences to you and your family. Please know you are in my thoughts daily.

Sandra Goodwin

September 12, 2012

Lauri,I am so sorry for your loss. I have very fond memories of Tom. It was a pleasure spending time with both of you. I am sure he will be greatly missed.

Donna Jenney

September 12, 2012

Lauri, my heart goes out to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers now and in the days to come. Donna

Jeannie Barnaba

September 12, 2012

Dear Lauri and all of Tom Wellin's family: Please accept my condolences on the loss of your dear family member. Lauri, I was very saddened to learn that your dear partner Tom had passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your loved ones. Sending a big Jeannie hug your way!

Combs

September 12, 2012

Thoughts and Prayers to the Wellin family.

Pam & Tom Hayward

September 12, 2012

Laurie & Family,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.

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