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HARRY MATTHEW NEFF

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HARRY NEFF Obituary

HARRY MATTHEW NEFF, passed away Sunday, Dec. 3, 2017 in Naples, Fla. Born July 25, 1950 in Fort Wayne, Ind., he was oldest son of Betty and the late Jack Neff. Harry attended Central High School in Indianapolis and went on to receive a B.S. in mechanical engineering from Cornell University and an MBA from Indiana University. He started his professional career in 1975 in Fort Wayne as a bank loan officer, where he met his wife of 35 years, the late Marie nee Guertin, before entering the family business, Neff Engineering two years later. In 2000 Harry joined the other family business, PHD, Inc, as Director of Sales and Marketing and eventually became CEO of the company. While juggling his business life, he also focused on his family, proudly watching his son Matt become a highly successful business owner and his daughter, Nicole, and son-in-law Ernie IV, raise his grandchildren, Ernie and Alex, who meant the world to him. Most people are lucky to find true love once in their life but Harry fell in love and married a beautiful woman named Barbara on Oct. 1, 2016. Both being retired, they enjoyed cooking together, playing golf, watching sunsets at the beach, sporting events, especially his beloved Colts and IU, and traveling. Their time together was cut way too short. Barb brought so much joy to his life as well as his family members. Husband of Barbara nee Chiesa; father of daughter, Nicole (Ernest Lebo IV) Lebo, and son, Matthew Neff; proud grandpa of Ernest V and Alexandria; brother of Virginia Neff, John (Liz), Dan (Sally) and Jim (Julia); as well as uncle to many nieces and nephews. Harry will be missed by many friends, family members and business associates. Service is 10:30 a.m. Thursday, Dec. 7, 2017 at Hodges Funeral Home, 525 111th N, Naples, Fla., with visitation starting at 9:30 a.m. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to GI Oncology, MD Anderson, PO Box 4486, Houston (TX 77120) (please put "GI Oncology" on the check); School of Engineering, Cornell University, Ithaca, (NY 14850), or The Cornea Research Foundation of America, 9002 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis (IN 46260).

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Dec. 7, 2017.

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Tari Knuth-Haiflich

December 11, 2017

I worked for Harry 1980-1986 and he was the one that when I was not going on a straight path, he grabbed hold of me and made me fly straight. Harry could see potential in people. I am so glad I had a chance to see him before he left PHD, sit and talk and thank him for making me the success and responsible person I am today.
I will always have the utmost respect for this man.
Thank you again for taking that chance on me, I know I did not let ya down.

Carol & Ken Badenhop

December 8, 2017

Prayers to the entire Neff family. He will be dearly missed.

December 8, 2017

I lost a good friend today!
We were in our mid 20's when we started at Neff/Ft.Wayne office. Many good memories and good friendships. Truly will be missed.
Dan Banut and Family, Fort Wayne/ Rome City In.

Tamie Stark

December 7, 2017

I worked for Harry at Neff Engineering in 1998. My condolences to the Neff family on their loss.

Nicole Lebo

December 7, 2017

Love you and will miss you so very much.

Laurie (DeCamp) & Dave Sordo

December 6, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Neff Family on your loss. We very much enjoyed Harry's intelligence and wit as we got to know him better in recent years. We are deeply saddened by his passing and will always have fond memories of Harry.

December 6, 2017

Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Harry's passing is so very sad.

Mike Wesling and Family (Grand Rapids, MI

Dan Geml

December 6, 2017

Though I never got to Know Mr. Neff that well, I have a tremendous amount of respect for the man. I am praying for his entire family. God bless you all in this time of sorrow. Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him!

Andy Bogle

December 4, 2017

One of the greats of the Fluid Power Industry has passed. A sad day for all who knew Harry.

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