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Mercedez McHenry-Sterk Obituary

Mercedez Kaydence McHenry-Sterk, 12, passed away on September 26, 2024, She was a bright light in the lives of her family, friends, and teachers. Known affectionately as "Kay," she touched everyone with her kindness, warm embrace, and quick-witted humor. Kay had an extraordinary gift for making others feel seen and cared for, always looking out for those around her. Her passion for helping others was evident in her role as a Leader in Training (LIT) at the local YMCA, where she joyfully guided and nurtured her younger peers. Kay's vibrant spirit was infectious, and she brought joy, laughter, and energy to every occasion, especially during treasured family gatherings. Kay had a deep love for music and embraced her artistic side, often spending her free time creating and sharing her art with those around her. Born in Fort Wayne, Indiana, Kay is survived by her father, Stephen (Darlene) Sterk, mother, Alyssa McHenry; siblings, Payton, Davallen, C.J., Justin, Landon; grandparents, Michelle (Matthew) Sterk, Larry (Linda) McHenry; aunts and uncles, Thomas (Katherine) Sterk; Kristina Lefevra, and her devoted dog, Remington. Kay was preceded in death by her grandfather, Eric Sterk. Kay's radiant smile, compassionate heart, and boundless spirit will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Mass of Christian Burial is 11 am, Friday, October 4, 2024 at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church, 10700 Aboite Center Road, with calling one hour prior. Calling also on Thursday, October 3, 2024 from 4 pm to 7 pm at FairHaven Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 6557 N. Clinton Street. Memorials may be made to Rachel's Challenge at rachelschallenge.org.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Sep. 30, 2024.

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April 12, 2025

I remember when me and Kay were in science whenever our teacher said something funny or stupid we would just look at each other and start laughing quietlyit was so much fun having her around and whenever someone sat in her seat in science I would get angry inside but I know now to let it go and just have the memory of her warmth and silliness in my mind.

Zali

March 24, 2025

I barely knew her, but I did from afar. I thought she was cool and I envied her for being confident. My friend texted me and told me what happened, i felt like everything i looked up to shattered. Everytime i realize she´s actually gone i break down. She talked to me like 5 times but i miss her

Natalia

November 25, 2024

When i complimented her shoes in the hallway and she smiled

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Your beloved friend, Sarah

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Chase harnden

October 5, 2024

And she was unique and was very caring of others she would stand up for others and that humor she had was the bast gift she had she was always chiring on people and had a gift of real good at art and I hope she is in a better place watching us from above

Chase harnden

October 4, 2024

This was the only photo I have of her

Carlee Tokos

October 3, 2024

Kay was such a beautiful girl, I will miss her so so much. Anyone who got to meet her is so lucky, she never failed to brighten someones day. She will be so so missed.

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Rick and Hilary

September 30, 2024

To Matt, Michelle, Thomas and family. We share your pain at this terribly sad time. Kay will forever be "our Little Missy". Always greeting me with a big hug and a story to tell.
She was so very special to both of us and brightened our lives each time she knocked on our door. No words can convey the loss we feel.

Mary Margaret

September 30, 2024

To Michelle, Thomas, and the entire family, Kay was an amazing person. She was a great friend to me and everyone around her. She always brightened the mood and came to school with a smile on her face. She always made me feel better and she always did her best to help me anytime I needed it. Kay will always hold a very special place in my heart and mind. She will never be forgotten and she will always be missed.
My deepest condolences,
Mary Margaret

John And Deborah Sterk

September 30, 2024

There are not words that can possibly console you at this time, and only time will ease the pain. You are all in our thoughts. John and Deborah Sterk.

Jeffrey L McBride

September 30, 2024

I'm a complete stranger,from originally,Indiana.
I'm sorry for the familys loss.Heart felt.....
You never get the time with that person that passes,too many things unsaid,so many things you wanted to do.I lost my Dad,I know first hand about heartbreak .
My sincere condolences to the family.

Keith Butts

September 30, 2024

To Michelle, Thomas and the entire family, I am so shocked and saddened to see the obituary for Kay. I am devastated as you must be to lose such a lovely child so young. I met Kay only a few times, yet she made a lasting impression on me as did Thomas and Michelle. You are all in my prayers and thoughts.

Keith Butts
Parrish, FL

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