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Thomas Benecke Obituary

THOMAS A. BENECKE, passed away Friday, Oct. 17, 2008. He was born Aug. 1, 1954, in Fort Wayne, to the late James Sr. and Victoria Benecke. He was an Accountant and an avid boater. He is survived by his loving wife, Anna; two brothers, Dr. James Benecke (Barbara) and Dr. Steve Benecke (Cindy); and many other extended family members and friends. Visitation is from 4 to 8 p.m. Monday at Ratterman Brothers Funeral Home, 3711 Lexington Road, Louisville, Ky. Memorial contributions in Tom's memory to The Healing Place.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Oct. 19, 2008.

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David Gochenour

October 13, 2022

Anna, Tom is watching over you and all of those he Loved. Blessings and Peace.

Thomas Davis

December 5, 2019

Tom, Rob Roehm and myself (Tom Davis) were the "Barefoot Brothers of Big Long" back in the late 60's early 70's
Miss Tom

Pam Scott

October 27, 2008

Anna,
You know I love you and also loved Tom. I will be checking on you periodically, and don't hesitate to call and talk.
Love Pam

Trip Ruoff

October 25, 2008

Anna,My prayers are with you and Tom as I set here and remember my first meeting with Tom on our very first day of school as 5 year olds.He left me with many memories that I have shared with others over the years and I will never forget Tommy.

Angela Kay Holliman (Register)

October 21, 2008

Anna....my prayers and condolences are with you..... I knew Tom when he was a young man....may he now enjoy a kind of peace than can only be had with God. Prayers are also with you Jim and Steve.

Kimberly Pickerill

October 21, 2008

Anna, we were so sorry to hear about your loss. May Jehovah God be with you during your time of need. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to call us.

Janie Moran

October 21, 2008

Anna:

Sending you our deepest sympathy.
I can only imagine the reunion going on in heaven right now. Tom will be watching over you now. We pray that your wonderful memories give you peace in the difficult days.
love,
Janie, Brian, Erin & Katie

David Gochenour

October 21, 2008

Anna, Freedom comes only in
God's time, Tom is finally free, to be with our Lord. May the peace of our Lord God lead you in your path.

October 21, 2008

May God be with you Anna, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss him so much, but he is in a good place with the Lord, watching out for you forever. If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. we love and miss you, our deepest sympathies are with you.
Chad and Lori

ardell finken

October 20, 2008

with our deepest sympathy for your family with the loss of thomas. ardell knew thomas from the post office and worked with his father at the post office. so sorry.
ardell and marian finken fort wayne in.

Sylvester & Vanessa Hines Sr

October 20, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Chris & Anne Fajardo

October 20, 2008

Anna,
Anne and I will miss Tom. You are in our prayers and thoughts.
Love,
Chris & Anne Fajardo

Dana Franke

October 20, 2008

Oh, Anna, if you only could see Tommy fly through the air holding on to a ski rope you would know he's been so close to heaven many times over! He finally made it! The fondest memories are adrenalin filled still! Heading toward Big Long Lake from the hilltop in little plastic boats (whose bottoms eventually wore through by the end of the fun from the stones, roots, and other earthly matter) Tommy (and us all) defied calamity! Most of us actually made it between the trees...you understand what a thrillseeker he was because chances are you had these personality traits in common! On my blackboard right now it reads:
"We will be called to account for every permissible pleasure life offered us but we refused to enjoy while on earth."
I'll miss Tom, but I'll never forget the happiness he gave us, and you and your love. Peace be with you. xox, cousin Dana

Shari Kinslow

October 20, 2008

Anna,
I know this has been a very trying couple of years for you. Keep the faith, you'll pull through. If you need anything you know where we are. Our thoughts are with you in these trying times.

Shari and James

Carolyn Houghton

October 19, 2008

I have lost one of my best friends. Tom was like my little brother, and we talked almost every day. I will miss him terribly. Anna, you know how I felt about you both. You are part of my extended family. If you need help, I am just across the street.

Carolyn

Dennis & Diane Duly

October 19, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Neil Kodithuwakku

October 19, 2008

Dear Anna:
Please accept my deepest sympathies. Tom has gone to a better place. My prayers are with you
at this difficult time. Blessings in Jesus' precious NAME!
Neil Kodithuwakku
H&R BLOCK IROQUOIS MANOR OFFICE

Cindy (Lusk) Emmerich

October 19, 2008

My condolences go out to Tom's entire family. I was glad to be part of his past and have many spectacular memories growing up with the entire Benecke family! Jim and Steve- you are in my heart and prayers.

Rebecca Houchens

October 19, 2008

Anna,

So sorry to hear of your loss. Keep the faith. We all love you and will be here for you. Take care of yourself.

Becky Houchens

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