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THOMAS O'BRIEN Obituary

THOMAS M. O'BRIEN, 70, of Fort Wayne, died Saturday, Jan. 5, 2019, at Visiting Nurse Hospice Home, Fort Wayne. Born May 31, 1948, in Fort Wayne, he was a son of the late William and Winifred O'Brien. He was a graduate of Central Catholic High School, volunteered for Saint Vincent and Saint Therese and will be remembered for his roll as a coach for the Bishop Luers girls basketball team and girls and boys golf team. He also enjoyed spending his retirement playing golf and pickleball. Thomas is survived by his wife, Elisabeth O'Brien; sons, Robert (Krista) O'Brien, Bret O'Brien and Richard (Freya) O'Brien; daughter, Kristi (Benjamin) Moster; and grandchildren, Andrew, Rachel, Jacob Thomas, Samantha, Jeffery, Cameron, Brandi, Brayden, Kaylin, Willow, Thomas, Carlos, and one on the way. He was also preceded in death by his brother, Robert O'Brien; and grandchildren, Conner and Becky. Mass of Christian Burial is 11 a.m. Saturday, Jan. 12, 2019, at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church, 10700 Aboite Center Road, with calling one hour prior. Visitation also from 4 to 7 p.m. Friday, Jan. 11, 2019, at Divine Mercy Funeral Home, 3500 Lake Ave., Fort Wayne. Burial will be in Catholic Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to the Bishop Luers girls basketball team, boys and girls golf team, St. Vincent de Paul or St. Therese. To sign the online guestbook, visit www.divinemercyfuneralhome.com

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Jan. 9, 2019.

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Andrew (Mike) Sullivan

January 3, 2020

When you are friends as long as we were, starting in grade school, the memories are many. I miss talking Celtics, Browns, and sports in general. You are missed old friend.

Will Pape

January 12, 2019

Mrs. O'Brien,

I am really sorry I could not make it back for the funeral. Coach was always kind to me on and off the golf course. He loved golf, and I learned so many valuable lessons about golf and life from him. His passion for golf was infectious and listening to him talk about the game instilled a love of the game in me. He kept the most amazing golf stat sheets I have ever seen for all of his players from our putting averages to how many sand saves we would have in a round. I still mark down those same stats everytime I play because of him. I deeply appreciate all of the knowledge Coach bestowed upon me, and I will miss him. My condolences to you and your family.

BLAINE IMEL

January 10, 2019

Liz,
Sorry to hear about the passing of Tom.
Blaine and Jane Imel

Nancy Kill

January 9, 2019

Liz and family, so very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Oh those softball years what fun we had. You are in my prayers.

Matt Lindsay

January 9, 2019

Rest in Peace, Coach Tom. Your dedicated contributions to so many programs at Luers will long be remembered, especially for the golf and basketball teams. Your tireless efforts with youth girls basketball had much to do with the tremendous success of the Lady Knights for almost two decades. Matt Lindsay

Sincere Respect Bouquet- VASE INCLUDED

Karlene Krouse

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Bob Palmer

January 9, 2019

While I haven't seen Tom since H.S., I remember him as being a gem of a guy. My sincere condolences to his family.

January 9, 2019

I would like to offer my sincere condolences to Thomas' family, sorry for your loss. Jeremiah 29:11, 12 assures us that God is thinking thoughts of peace towards us, to give us a future and a hope, and that if we come and pray to Him, He will listen to us. May that bring you comfort at this difficult time.

Julie Hanchar

January 9, 2019

Liz and kids, I am so saddened for you in the passing of Tom. He shared so many of his talents with the Bishop Luers students. He will be swinging that golf club in Heaven till his heart is content.

Andrew/Mike Sullivan

January 9, 2019

Tom is my oldest friend. Going back to grade school at St. Joe's. His legacy is his family and that is indeed a wonderful legacy. He will be missed beyond simple words. He will be in our hearts forever.

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