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Zackery Biberstine
July 9, 2023
I don't know if my entry I submitted earlier actually went through or not, so I'm rewriting this. I feel a lot better after getting everything off my chest. I plan to go to Racing School around springtime of next year so I can get my Racing License. I'll probably be in the Nascar Xfinity series for a while, but one day, I'll get into the cup series. I want you to watch me win, I want you to look down from heaven and smile as I burn rubber and kick some butt!
-Your Son that likes to go fast
Zack Biberstine
"I WANNA GO FAST" - Ricky Bobby
Zackery Biberstine
July 8, 2023
Hey Dad
It's been three years since my last entry, I just want to write down what's going on.
Last year in 2022, I graduated high school, I was so happy to finally be free from school. No one knows this but once I got home I cried. I didn't cry tears of joy, I cried tears of sorrow.
Knowing that you weren't there to watch any of your sons graduate really hit me hard. In 2023 on my birthday, Tyler finally encouraged me to get my permit so I can drive my mustang that I got
for graduating high school. I love the car despite all it's problems, I've been fixing it up and restoring it and I have many plans for it. While on the topic about cars, there are two things
I mainly want to do with my love and passion with cars, I really want to be a Nascar driver to make you proud, but Nascar has changed so much in the past years to where I don't even know where to begin.
The second thing I wanted to talk about while on the topic with cars is about the firebird you had. I really want to find the exact firebird you had, but I have no leads on that car anywhere.
I might just have to buy one that looks like yours but that isn't truly yours. I also want to confess another thing, on father's day this year I lied to Mom and I feel really bad about it.
When we went to the Dollar General here in Butler, I told her I wasn't feeling good, but I lied to her and told her that I must've gotten a stomach bug, but she asked me if it was because of father's day.
I laughed and pushed it off to not raise suspicion, but she was right. Every year on father's day I feel so empty knowing it's another holiday I cannot celebrate.
I belive it was last year but I had the privilege to watch some video tapes you took of Tyler and Sean, I watched them with Brandon, I had a cool face while watching the tapes acting like it didn't bother me, but hearing Brandon say that he was thankful to watch the tapes
because he was forgetting what your voice sounded like made me a little sad. I rarely show my emotions to anyone, I rarely ever cry in front of people and I feel terrible not being able to cry. There have been countless times at Funerals where I
wanted to cry but I just couldn't, I never felt so disconnected from Human Morales ever in my life. I try and try to cry but nothing ever flows, the only times I cry is when I read your obituary..
I don't know if anyone checks on the obituary much anymore, but I still look at it every year on the day you died, father's day, and Christmas. I really wish there was a thing such as time travel so I could visit you as an adult and tell you these stories in person and to hug you.
I visit Tyler a lot and I always notice how much care he shows for his children. It makes me happy knowing that he's a great father like he always said you were. He taught me most of the things I know about in life, especially about cars. He's the reason I fell in love with the 4th Generation mustangs.
I would love to talk to everyone in the family about my problems and how I feel about this, but I can never muster up the courage to do so.
On the way home from PA this week, Tyler lectured me about the future of my life, which is a common thing since I'm still unemployed at 19. He asked me if it was due to me being afraid of growing up, and the answer is yes. I obviously didn't tell him that, I like to make jokes about everything to help cope
with the pain. To answer his question from the car, I'm terrified to grow up, I'm terrified to disappoint you, I'm terrified to go down the wrong path in life.
I'm sorry for being an unemployed loser at 19, but I will make it one day. I will become either a Nascar driver or a content creator creating content with cars. I will make it in life eventually...
I really need help, I don't know what to do, I don't know who to talk to. I re-wrote this about five times in my notes before submitting it, but I really need help... I'm not okay. The tears won't stop coming as of typing this. I could really use a hug right now, I'm afraid of letting the depression win...
-Zack
December 1, 2020
Hey Dad,
It's been far too long since I signed this, if we are being real its been two years. I wanted to come on here to read everyone's kind words to help me cope with the pain of growing up without a dad. You left us way too soon and I wish we could've at least made some memories together. Growing up knowing that everyone in my family except me had memories with you really hurt me as the years went on, I wish I can just see you, but that won't happen for a very long time, but when that happens I'll be really happy. There's one thing that has been on my mind for a while now that I want to get off my chest. As every year goes by on I feel more and more empty inside; to the point where I don't even have emotions anymore, and that's terrifying. I miss you very much and when we finally meet each other up in heaven, how about we talk about everything from good - bad.
- Your youngest and most lazy son.
Zack Biberstine
Zackery Biberstine
February 13, 2018
Hi Dad, I know you won't be reading this but I miss you, I can believe it's been 9 years.
August 17, 2017
Hi Troy Boy,
I haven't signed your book in far too long but know that I think of you daily. I still miss you like crazy. I miss hanging out and your goofy personality. You were way too much fun.
Ryan and I are going to go to a Cubs/Mets game with Doug and Steve Giltrap. I enjoy hanging out with your friends. You have a great bunch of them.
Me and Grandma paid our respects to Dave about a month ago. It is sad to think he is not here anymore but he had been sick for awhile now. I am hoping you were there to help him pass to the other side. He never really got over losing you. He really loved you a lot. He spent numerous Thanksgivings and Easters with us after you passed. He enjoyed being around us and us around him.
I hope you and Chris have been reunited with Jeff. That is the only comfort I have right now is thinking you are all together. I cannot get over the fact that all 3 of my brothers have passed to the other side. It feels so lonely. Something constantly makes me think of one of the three of you or depending on what it is, all three of you at the same time. We watched a DVD of Cherry Valance at the 3rd of July party that you recorded. You are so funny trying to get the perfect introduction. It makes everybody laugh. And the filming is incredible. You did such a great job. It was a way to honor all of you guys this year and I may do that every year. It was like having a slice of the old days if only for an hour.
I love you Troy and I miss you so much.
Your sister and friend,
Julie
April 5, 2017
Hi T'Mems. Thinking of you as I do every day, and still missing you every day. Brandon and Tyler popped in last week. Was good to see them as it's been since January.Brandon is over 6 foot tall, 5foot 11 inches are legs. Zak wasn't with them. he was home playing on computer. Christie has been thinking about moving back into Fort Wayne. That would be nice, but a long way for her to drive to work.It's been raining, and the Troy hole on patio is full of water. Red and I laugh every time we see it. We miss you, honey. That will never change. It's hard to believe it's been eight years. Time marches on, and while the pain is still there, there's comfort knowing that you and Chris and Grandpa Jack are together. Heaven must be a happy place.
August 22, 2015
Just a note on the 2 boys. Brandon is 6' now. zack is excited about school. He's such a good student. You can be very proud of them. Christie has done a good job. Think of you every day, and miss you, your smile and your sense of humor. love yiu, honey. Mom
December 26, 2014
Troy,
Apparently, I really wanted to talk to you. So much so...that I signed it twice yesterday. HaHa. I am sure we both would laugh at this. Love you, Julie
December 25, 2014
Troy,
I want to say that another Christmas is here and we are missing you and Chris. It used to be so fun when we would all get together. It still is but it is just not the same. I miss your quirkiness and your friendship. I just want you to know that no matter how much time passes, I love you as much as I ever did. Unfortunately, I miss you more than I ever did.
Merry Christmas little brother,
Julie
December 25, 2014
Troy,
Another Christmas morning and another year without you. Christmas used to be so much fun when we were all together. It is still a lot of fun but we are missing so much. The loss of you and Chris is so hard for all of us. When we have family get togethers, your loss is so apparent. I miss your quirkiness and friendship. I just want to let you know, that no matter how much time passes, I love you as much today as I ever did. The only problem is I miss you more than I ever did. Merry Christmas little brother.
Forever in my heart, Julie
Patricia Strater
July 26, 2014
Hi my T mems.Still missing you lots. Haven't seen the boys hardly at all this year. Brandon played ball, but we never knew for sure where and when games were. Tiffany and Chontel were here for 4th of July party. Hadn't seen them in a long time either. It was nice having them here. Julie has been very busy taking T.L. around to doctor's appts, and his cancer treatments. I worry about her stress levels, so please keep watch over her for me. It will be our secret. Have not been in the pool 1 time this summer. Weird, huh? All the hours you and I would spend out there trying to stump each other with lines from movies. Got one for you....uh huh. And if you think....Remember? Love you, Troy. Miss you, always. Mom
Barbara Carney
April 9, 2014
Hey Troy...
I was just doing a little family research and came across this guestbook for you. It's so wonderful to see how many of your friends and family write here to remember you and keep you posted on your boys.
Aunt Lorrie and Uncle Mic brought Sean to Christmas this past year. It's amazing and uncanny how much he looks like you Troy. He's so smart and handsome. I know wherever you are, you are proud.
We had a pretty amazing Christmas this year. We finally got the whole family together in one place and played poker, pool and shuffleboard all night. The best part of the evening was the video that Uncle Keith put together. It was all the video he'd taken over the years at all the different holidays. You should have seen Sean's face light up when he got to see you talking and laughing, especially the video of you and his mom together. We were all transported back in time. You, April, Steven, Grandma, Great Grandma and Great Grandpa were all there. It was so surreal.
I miss being kids and camping at Pokagan. My gosh did we have fun. And trouble.. we always found trouble! You, Jimmy and Steven used to try to ditch us girls but we always seemed to find a way to follow you. I miss the swimming, the hiking and most of all roasting the marshmallows and playing hide and seek in the woods. It's not just Pokagan I think about either. I was thinking about the old trailer Mic and Lorrie had, and how we used to play volleyball, take hayrides and play tag. I miss that. I miss you, April and Steven so badly. I still struggle trying to understand. I know your dad and Lorrie still have a hard time too.
Anyways... This was nice. I really hope you can hear all this.
I miss you guy,
Barbie
Mom
January 4, 2014
Troy, still thinking of you, and loving you as much as always. Jeff gave us a dvd for Christmas, that was of you and the band. You were so silly at the beginning of it. Typical Troy. I kept waiting to hear "what's happening hot stuff," that's how silly you were. But it was WONDERFUL to hear your voice again! I hope you and Chris arelooking after each other. I miss you boys.
Mandi Sutorius
January 7, 2013
I am in complete and utter shock right now!! I was shocked when I heard about Chris passing away, he was an amazing man. I was his next door neighbor and Chris use to let my boys come over and play the drums!!
I just want to say I am so very truely sorry about your loss for such a wonderful man. I really enjoyed chatting with Troy, he was such a funny man and he was a great father to his boys!! I really dont know what to say because I am so heart broken I didnt have a clue. I will pray for your family and friends.
Tyler Oelrich
November 30, 2012
You were a huge part of my life, You were more of a father to me than my own father. I miss you a lot. I will never forget when you showed Brandon, Sean, Zack and I how far you could throw a football, and man today it still seems impossible how far you could throw it. I love you and I miss you a lot.
November 19, 2012
Hi Troy,
I just had to let you know that I hijacked the scarecrow. I took it early one morning when mom and Red were both already gone. I knew mom was working so I took it up there and seat belted him into her passenger seat. She sent me a text several hours later. She had thought Chris had did it but was very surprised when he knew nothing and figured out it was me. We laughed. They left him in the car until the next day. It was pretty funny. We felt good keeping one of your traditions going. This time of year is so hard with the holidays and your birthday. I have had your picture as my facebook picture the past couple of weeks. I sure do miss you. Ryan went to the hockey game with Dave last weekend. We enjoy seeing him and your dad. Anyway, just thought I would share the scarecrow story. Thanksgiving in a couple of days and your absence will be felt immensely. I tear up as I write this. You were definitely one of a kind. I talked to Don and Serena a few days ago. They miss you tons and I told them I would get some pictures of you sent to them. You have good friends Troy. I love all of them. And we all love you!!!!!
Until next time, Your friend and sister,
Julie
Dave Byers
November 15, 2012
Hi Troy
Your birthday just passed and I wish we could have enjoyed a few beers together. I see the boys pretty often and try to do things with them. Sean comes down for hockey----your seat in 202 is now his seat. Brandon and Zack go to games that Sean comes down to. The boys also have Sean over to Butler once in a while to stay the weekend and play video games together. About a month ago, Sean had the boys up to Michigan for the weekend. Sean is sensitive about losing you and sheds tears if the conversation goes down that road. Brandon and Zack mention things from time to time too. I went to Zacks "Parent Day" at school about a month ago. He made the Honor Role at school and the school had a breakfast
to 'honor' those students. I went to that breakfast also. Sometimes I take all the boys to the movies. Anything I can, I guess, to keep them together.
I miss you a lot Bud and think of you everyday. I will write more often, I promise. Love ya, Troy
August 21, 2012
Hi Troy,
It has been way too long since I have posted anything here. Although, oddly enoough, the last entry I had posted is now gone. I am not sure what happened to it. It was there one day and gone the next.
I have been doing well. I have put on weight which makes me lazy and sluggish and unhealthy. I need to get it together and start exercising again. Ryan and I did go for a bike ride this past Sunday and it was awesome. I had to stop and take breaks but we managed to ride about 9 miles.
This summer brought us some crazy storms and in one of the storms, the cul de sac lost power for a week. Of course it fell over the annual third of July party. We postponed it and celebrated it on August 4th. We had crazy storms that night too but the show must go on. We had a fantastic time. Ed Freiburger came. He informed me that he has been diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. I am so sad to hear of this. He began radiation on the brain last week and will start chemo next week. I care about him a lot and don't want to lose another special person. I hope he doesn't have to suffer too bad. All of my ex boyfriends will be hanging out with you. Junior, Mike, and probably Ed. Doesn't sound like a bad group to hang out with although all of you exited way too early. I miss you so much Troy!!
Dave asked me if I had written in here recently. I told him no and that I needed to. I feel guilty. I think you know I think of you each and every day. Most days it is with a smile but some days it is with tears. Today is one of those days. I just read Dustin's entry and it made me sob like a baby. You never know what the future holds. I wish I could learn to be a little nicer. I do or say things sometimes that I later regret. I hope I will be remembered for the good things I have done and not for my hurtful ways.
I finally went on a vacation. Me, Dustin, Rhonda, and a friend of Dustins went to New York City and Niagra Falls. That trip was amazing. It has been three weeks and I can't stop thinking about the cool things we saw and experienced. I am so glad Dustin and I built this memory together. I love to hang out with him. Life finds us busy and we don't see each other as much as I would like. It was great to spend quality time with him. The other two girls were a blast too.
Haven't seen much of the boys lately. This is the first summer I have missed taking them to Markle. With the power outage, the party delay, and my vacation, the summer kind of ended too fast. Me and Ryan want to pick them up on a Sunday soon. Go play putt putt and ride the go karts. They enjoy that. I always feel closer to you when I spend time with them.
I feel better after writing this. I sure hope it doesn't disappear like the last one. I am not sure if I had written something offensive to someone or what. I don't think so and certainly hope not. This is the last place I want to be a jerk.
I have plenty of flowers and the butterflies hang around the patio. It always makes me think you are hanging out with me. They say butterflies are a sign from heaven and I find solace in that. I sure miss hanging out with you. We had so much fun. We are all hanging in there. We talk of you often. We always laugh about something you did or said. The memories are so bittersweet. I miss you today as much as I did three years ago. You are always on my mind and ALWAYS in my heart.
Love you Troy,
Julie xxoo
Dustin Webb
August 17, 2012
Uncle Troy,
I was checking on my dads guest book and stumbled across yours. I sat and read through everyones entries and just cried. It breaks my heart to see everyone I love hurt. I know that you are with us all and when it counts. You hold a special place in my heart and I hold the conversation we had at our last Christmas together close to my heart. You were awesome and I am very privileged to have grown up with such an uncle. Please say hello to Grandpa Jack, my dad, and Grandpa George too.
I will keep you in my heart forever uncle troy. I love you.
Dustin
Dave Byers
September 19, 2011
Troy,
I haven't been very good about keeping in touch. Zach and Brandon are living in Butler with their mother. I don't see them very much. I did take Sean over to their house about a month ago to spend the evening with them. Sean is maturing a lot in his actions and thinking. He impresses Grandpa Norm.
I am getting ready to have more heart surgery soon. Hoping everything goes well. Want to get over to see Zach and Brandon, but they are busy with school. You can't believe Zach--he is becoming really intelligent.
Norm and Lorrie had a plaque made with your picture and a nice verse about you keeping everybody in your heart.
Sean and I both shed a tear. Well, I have rambled on here; just want to say I miss you so much and think about you every day. Until I write again, just want you to know you are not alone.
Dave Byers
February 16, 2011
It's been 2 years, and it still seems like yesterday, and a lifetime. God I miss you. We are all doing well, but would be so much better if we could just see your face again or hear your voice.
Mom
August 28, 2010
Troy,
Thinking of you today. Heard a song you used to sing as a kid, from an old Clint Eastwood movie, and I remembered when you and I went to see it.
Chris and I spent an afternoon this week running lines from "Seems Like Old Times," we weren't trying to stump each other, just coming back with the next line. He is pretty good at that, but I don'call and try and stump him like you and I did.
We had supper last Thursday with your dad and Lorrie. We had a good time. Your dad is thinking about retiring. It's a hard decision to make, there are so many uncertainties. We're still trying to get together once a month.
Julie is working. Thank you for the help from last letter. Have not seen the boys. I am working such weird hours any more, I hate it.
I love you and miss you so. Rest easy baby boy, we'll talk again.
Love, Mom
Dave Byers
August 23, 2010
Troy,
Just a note to let you know you are missed so very much by your sons, family,and friends.
I know you are so impressed with Zach, Brandon, and Sean as they grow up, as you should be--they are wonderful boys for anybody to be proud of. They miss you a lot, buddy.
I live, over and over, the last evening you were with us Troy. We laughed, cried, and hugged. I know our
friendship meant so much to both of us.
I promise to keep "in touch" better than I have. I miss you my friend, and think of you everyday. You are not forgotten.
Dave
August 2, 2010
My Dear Troy,
I haven't been able to "chat" with you in so long, outside of the daily conversations I have with you every day. You have been on my mind SO much lately.
The other day I had a line that I was going to be able to stump you with, and for just a brief second, it was like losing you all over again. It happens, I'm sure to all of us, at different times. I miss you so.
We are all muddling thru as best we can. Your brothers are both working for T.L. right now.Julie is looking for a job, and having a hard time of it. Could you perhaps send a gentle wind her way?
We all got together for Sean's birthday. He's finally starting to get a little taller. Zach and Brandon are just plain cute. Tiffany and Chontel are doing o.k. She's working, and I think she's really starting to do better, and I'm glad. Red misses you alot, and talks about you alot. Even Grandma D. was talking about you the other day, and you know how stoic she can be. You are not forgotten my baby boy. And you are loved as much today as you ever were, but not as much as tomorrow.
Dave
May 24, 2010
Hi Troy,
Komet Season is over for 2009-10. The team won the Turner Cup for the 3rd year in a row--a 3-Peat. Sean, your Dad and myself were there and were very excited.
Haven't seen a whole lot of Brandon and Zach. Zach came to a few games this season, but he doesn't like the loud noise. Brandon comes when he can. They hint that they are moving, but nothing yet. Tyler, Brandon, and Zach are supposed to go to the movies this coming weekend. It's the least I can do, Bud. The boys and your family miss you a lot. There is not a day or evening that you are not on my mind.
Sean doesn't say a lot--he asks questions about "Dad" and sometimes has tears. He takes a walk around the hockey rink before every game. Says its for Dad. He misses you so much. Til next time, please know that we all love you and miss you
April 27, 2010
Hi Troy,
I took the boys shopping for their birthdays on Sunday. It was great to see them and hang out with them. Zachie got a guitar and a bowling set. He sure does do a mean air guitar imitation. Ha. He had extra money to spend because he also had a gift card from Sean. He took his time picking the perfect gift for himself. He is a funny boy. Brandon didn't search for anything at Toys R Us as he knew he wanted to go to Game Stop and get a new game. And we did. We also took them to lunch. I enjoyed every moment of it. Brandon said he dreams about you every night and I told him that was your way of letting him know you were there watching him and that you loved him. He said " I miss him " and I said " me too." Zach said "Me three" and Ryan said " Me four. " It was very touching.
Went to the hockey game that night and for the second time, I got to sit in your seat. If Sean is at the game, he sits there. I took a picture of your dad and Dave. And guess what?? Icy came up and sat down on the step next to me and put his chin in his hands like I was doing and then....he put my head in his beak. It was great!!!! I think you hooked me up with that awesome moment and I thank you for it.
I passed the year anniversary of my heart attack. I am working and feeling good. Except for missing you that is. I have been thinking of you an awful lot lately. I want to hang out so bad. But it is things like the Icy ordeal that let me know you are here with us and that helps. Until next time....
I love you Troy,
Julie
NICK SPETH
April 8, 2010
hey troy its me nick ALL UR KIDSMISS U SO DO I A LOT U WERE A COOL GUY. WE LOVE IT DURING THE HOLADAYS U WERE ASOME WE MISS U MORE THAN VER
March 3, 2010
Dear Troy,
I sat in your seat at the hockey game the other night. It was totally awesome.
I love you,
Julie
Dave
February 11, 2010
Today is February 11, 2010. It doesn't seem like you passed away a year ago. So many times when your Dad, Sean, Brandon, Zack and myself are at Komets games, we can almost see you walking up to 202-11-17 with a beer in your hand and high fiving fans along the stairs. Seems like you are there every game.
The boys are doing great, they come to hockey when they don't have school. I try to see them often. Zacky has a tough time accepting your passing; Brandon and Sean are older and accept
the situation better. They all miss you so much and mention things you did together.
I think of you everyday and miss you also. I find myself thinking 'I need to go over and see Troy'. I will never forget you, my friend.
No time to clasp your hand,
No time to say goodbye.
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God knows why.
February 5, 2010
Hi Troy,
Today is February 5th and we are fast approaching the first anniversary of your death. This time last year, you were under going numerous tests to figure out where you might have cancer. The doctors were certain you had it, just couldn't find it. The more they searched and didn't find it, the more hope we all held out that it was some sort of mistake. Unfortunately, there was no mistake and you left us shortly after. It seems like an eternity ago, yet at times, seems like just last month.
You are missed so much. By your kids, your dad, mom, me, Chris, Jeff, Dave, and the rest of your family and friends. I hang out with Doug quite a bit and its so cool. After all, I was the one that introduced you guys. I see Lee occasionally too.
We got thru the holidays okay. They were good but not the same. Mom had to work, so we did Christmas on Christmas night. We still ate breakfast though. Can't change it all.
Bum spent Christmas at moms with us. He was missing you and his dad and I think he felt better just being with your family. He was certainly welcome as we all enjoy his company.
Wow, I still wish I could wake up from this "dream" and you would be here with us again. I really miss you a lot. We had so many good times together and I cherish those memories. I texted you at midnight on New Years Eve. You were the first person I texted because you were on my mind so much. I missed hearing Happy New Year from you as you never failed to contact me no matter the situation.
This next week is gonna be a hard one. It is leading up to those final moments we had with you. Not enough time, of that I know.
Please know you are in my thoughts and always in my heart.
I love you Troy!!
Julie
tammy brugh cardenas
December 9, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about troy just found out going threw the internet. hope you are all doing ok threw the holidays its just so sad. I feel terrible not knowing. im glad he had a great 37 years and got the chance to become a father he will be missed.
November 15, 2009
Troy
Friday being your birthday, it was a difficult weekend for all of us who were close to you. Sean is here with Dad and Lorrie, and Brandon and Zach went along to hockey--your sons had so much fun together. You are missed so much--the pain just doesn't go away.
I took a walk down the lane,
Needed time to spend with you.
I know my tears were not in vain....
Someone was beside me, I wonder who.
I will never forget.
Dave
November 15, 2009
Happy Birthday Troy,
I am a couple of days late. It has been a sad week for all of us. Not only does this time of year remind of us of you, but it was your birthday on Friday. We miss you more than we could ever imagine. Bum's dad passed away and we all went to the viewing on your birthday to pay our respects. Mike said he didn't realize that it was your birthday when he made the arrangements. Bitter sweet. We stood there talking of our memories of you and laughing. You were so funny and your humor is missed so much.
We went to the hockey game last night. Dave had all of your boys there. They are so cool and were having a blast being together. Of course your dad and Tiffany were there and it was good to see everybody. Its so weird that you are not there because for twenty plus years, you were a fixture in 202. Everybody misses you at the games but I think you are there and if I strain hard enough, I think I hear you yelling at a player, ref, or twister. Wow!!
I have decided to go ahead and have the defib implanted. I am so scared to do it but so scared not to. I will call tomorrow and find out when they can do it. I kind of hope they can get me scheduled this year as I would like to start 2010 on a brand new note. This year has been the absolute worst. I hope that you will keep me safe and calm during this ordeal. I am having a hard time. I think back to how brave you were during all of your testing and I think, " I can do this. " I am just afraid. And I know your were too. That makes me sad. We had no idea that things were as bad as they were. I guess that is a blessing as you still made us smile up until the end. And still do today, that will never change. Except right now, I am not smiling so much cause I miss you terribly. The holidays are going to be different without you. Once again, I believe you will be there, just in a different manner. It is just so hard some days. Somehow, we keep moving on. And I think that is how you would want it, right Troy? I think so. Please stay close, I need your presence.
I think of you often, I miss you, and I love you!!!
Julie xxoo
Dave Byers
October 12, 2009
Troy
Everyday brings memories
of good times gone bye.
Remembering all the fun we had.....
You were such a super guy.
Another hockey season is upon us, and your seat is there. I hope, in spirit, you'll be with us every game. All the people in the section miss you very much. It is difficult for Norm, Sean, Tiffany and myself to see that empty chair. How our hearts ache for your presence! You will never be forgotten, there is a place in my mind and heart where you'll always stay.
Dave
Morgan McComb
October 12, 2009
Julie, Jeff and Chris......
Wow.... I am so very sorry for your loss. It is very hard for me to find the words to say. I read through all the posts and just cried my eyes out. I will be coming to Ft. Wayne soon and maybe the 4 of us could get together? I would really like to see you all. Not sure exactly when I am coming but my cell #214-392-8419. I know you all have lost a piece of your hearts and for that I am so very sad... RIP Troy you are missed every single day as I know how close you all were...Lots of Love and Prayers!!!
Your Sister,
~Morgan
August 19, 2009
Troy,
I step outside in the evening and look up at the stars and talk to you. It's a time when we can be there one with the other. Zach is growing into a 'big' little boy, Brandon is getting his mind together. Sean is very intelligent and of course loves sports. I know you are so proud of all the boys. I bring Sean down every two weeks. He loves staying with your Dad and Lorrie. He is excited about the coming hockey season. I will make it a point to write more often. I miss you very much, my friend. I will never forget.
As always,
Dave
July 28, 2009
Hi Troy,
Too much time has passed again since I have written. I have thought about you so much the past week. I can't believe it is coming up on 6 months. I miss you everyday but I really really miss you right now. It has been three months since I had a heart attack and I am so depressed. I was released to return part time to work but my boss doesn't have any hours for me. For what ever reason, it just bums me out. I am sooooo ready to work but don't want to go thru all of that new job stuff. I just want to concentrate on my health and not have to worry about learning a new job and new faces.
I know I need to let it go but this year has not been very good to us. First we lost you and then we said goodbye to Grandpa Jack. My illness and mom losing Murphy. We wonder where it will end. You can't predict the future and I guess thats a good thing , but man this has been really tough. Health wise, I feel pretty good. Haven't smoked in 3 months and I walk about an hour every day. I walked two hours today. Took each dog for an hour walk. They love it and what else do I have to do?
I went to Brandon's last wildcat game last week. He hit the ball both times he was up to bat. Zachie was there watching too. He was sporting a black eye. As he told me " a baseball did it". He sure is cute Troy. I can't believe he will be starting kindergarten in a few weeks. I am taking Brandon to my softball game on Thursday. He seems excited. He likes hanging out with me which is way cool.
We all went to dinner for Sean's birthday. Your dad, Lori, Mom, Red, Grandma D, Chris, Bum, Dave, Me, Ryan, Christie, and the other two boys. Sean got quite a bit of cash and gift cards. As ususal, it was great to see everybody. That night, Brandon and Zack rode their bikes while me and Ryan walked and we went to the gas station and Ryan aired up the boys bikes.
Anyway, I have been rambling but why should this time be any different than any other time I talk to you? I just wish I could see your expressions or hear your responses. Maybe I am not trying hard enough. There really is no doubt in my mind that you are with us. I just want to hug you so bad. What prompted me to write in here was music again. " He ain't heavy he's my brother" was the song that got me thinkin. I do feel somewhat better after writing all of this but it is just not the same.
I love you and miss you with every inch of my healing heart.
Love, Jewels
June 3, 2009
Hi Troy,
I have not written for awhile and a lot has happened. On April 24th I had a heart attack. My heart actually stopped and I was brought back. I collapsed at home approximately 2 minutes after Ryan got home from work. His boss let him go home early that day otherwise I would have been home alone and the outcome would not have been the same. I go see the doctor next Weds. and find out how well my heart has healed. I spent a week in the heart center, not nearly the same amount of time as you. Its so weird that we were both there within a couple months of eachother. I am quite sure you were with me when I was there and for that I am grateful and want to say thank you. I wish I didn't have to thank you in this manner. It has been a long recovery and I have a lot of time to think. I know that you would have been calling me to check up on me and I wish for that so much. You were such a thoughful person, never forgot a birthday or special event. Man, I miss you so much. Me and mom have been having lunch with Doogie the past several Tuesdays and its awesome to spend time with your friends. Lee joined us last Tuesday and that was way cool. Your dad and Lori came to moms on Memorial weekend as did Dave. We all try and keep in touch. The boys ride their bikes down to moms once in awhile. We are picking Brandon and Zachie up this weekend to take them birthday shopping. Just a little late but under the circumstances thats about the best I can do. Today is Brandon's last day of third grade. It sure goes fast. Dustin graduates this Saturday and I'm happy and sad at the same time. And a lot relieved, LOL.
Anyway, I am sitting here listening to music and so many songs remind me of you. Right now its Cinderellas " Don't know what you got till its gone." I'm sad cause I really really miss you. I am trying to accept this as something that happened for a reason, but it is so hard. I know I have a guardian angel up there and that is comforting. I know you always have and always will have my back. I love you Troy.
Julie
P.S. I quit smoking, it will be 6 weeks on Friday. It feels good. Until next time, keep us all safe. XXOO
Dave
May 16, 2009
In the corner of my heart stands a jukebox.
I'll drop a few quarters and play some
Michael Schenker tunes, your favorite. I will not forget.
Dave
April 11, 2009
Troy,
It has been two months today since you left us. You were my friend, I will think of you everyday. I will never forget you. I see all the boys often, they miss you a lot. Your life has gone too soon, but I am so thankful you didn't suffer anymore than you did. I wish we could have done: another hockey season, another Cowboys game in Dallas,
another beer, another day. I saw you the last evening you were with us and I wish I would have sat with you and cried with you all night. I miss you.
Mom
March 29, 2009
Troy,
I have such a hard time getting to this site, but I finally got here again today.
We went to Brandon's birthday party last Sat. Christie has received her first check for the boys, so you know that they are being taken care of.
We are having dinner today with Grandpa Jack. Will be the first time since last fall.Time has a way of getting away from us. I have got to do better at getting things done.
We lost Murphy on the 15th of this month, as I am sure you know. Please take care of him for us.
I still find it hard to believe you are not here, but I'm glad Julie kept this web site, as we can at least "talk" to you.
Your Dad and Lorrie, Grandma D, Dave and Red & I all went to supper last week after the party. Strange group, huh? I talk with your dad and/or Lorrie many times a week--it helps.
We all miss you and love you very much. Til next time.
March 20, 2009
Troy,
Today is Brandon's 9th birthday. He came down for a visit last night. It was good to see him yet sad because he is a special reminder of you. He has already collected some birthday money and is excited about which game he might buy. This all still seems so unreal. We know you are not here yet we are not sure just exactly what it means. I have the pillow I gave you, " A brother is a lifelong friend" and it sits by my computer. I have the gray Dallas thermal shirt and the purple T.L. McComb #1 softball shirt. I will treasure these things forever. I decided to maintain this guestbook online so that I may write you as often as I want and others may do the same. We all miss you so much. I watched the guys jam last night and they sounded so good. I feel a little better when I am with Chris or Jeff because nobody else feels like we do. We are all just a little lost. Knowing you are in peace takes away some of the pain. Until the next time......
I love you,
Julie
Dave Byers
March 15, 2009
Troy,
Memories of our great friendship are gifts I keep in my heart. Laughter will keep them there forever. I miss you.
mom
March 11, 2009
Troy,
It's been 4 weeks today, and I still cannot believe you are gone. I would love to be able to hug you one more time. Or hear you say "what happening hot stuff" when you would call me.
I know you are at peace, and no longer in pain, and that helps.
We are all muddling thru, and we are able to laugh at some of the things you said or did. The first time I laughed, I almost felt guilty, but I guess there is healing in laughter, after all.
My heart aches for our loss, but rejoices in what you have gained.
I love you, my dear T'sers.
Lori Fitts
February 26, 2009
Pat, Red, Julie, Chris, Jeff and the rest of the family, I am so sorry for your loss. No words are comforting right now except to know that Troy was a great man and added so much to other people's lives while he was around. Troy was a goofy, fun-loving guy and I feel blessed to have spent many times having fun with him. I loved to see him at every band gig running the sound and glowing with pride at his brother's accomplishments. I have great memories of many Halloween parties where we were all dressed up and being silly. I have memories of Troy at the lake and camping with us. He was always quick with the one liners and it kept everyone laughing! Troy was an awesome guy and I will never forget him. I am so happy I have been blessed to be friends with your entire family! I know the times ahead will be rough for many including the kids. Hopefully, this will bring you all closer and you take care of each other! I will think of you all often, and Troy too.
June Kneller
February 24, 2009
Troy was apart of my extended family for the 37 short years of his life. I remember giving him his first haircut, what a handful you were. I guess Chris & Jeff had already warned you about "Aunt" Junie and your mom wanting your hair cut how she wanted it, not what you would want. But as the years pasted you finally got your say. And I am so sorry to say you were my last haircut. You always made me laugh and I will miss you so very much. And our volleyball games at your mom's will never be the same without you. And you'll be happy to know your "pink stuff" was a hit and someone even asked for the recipe. So we'll have to find someone in the family to continue on with your "pink stuff" to bring to all the family gatherings. Troy, you always made me laugh no matter and I will miss your crazy jokes and the time we had together while cutting your hair. You always made the sun shine alittle brighter when you walked into the room. And there will always be a reminder of you every time I walk out my front door onto the deck you helped Chris build for me. And as much as I will miss you I cannot wish you back to face all the pain you would have to endure. And I know Gammie will watch over you as will all the people who loved you and were waiting for your arrival. Rest in peace Troy Michael.
Love ya
Aunt June Bug
Julie McComb
February 23, 2009
Troy,
I was not prepared to have to sign this book in your memory. I could never begin to tell you how much you mean to me. I think you know how much I love you. I have so many good memories of you. We were very close, sometimes closer than others, but I always considered you more than just my brother. You were one of my best friends. I had some difficult times in my life and you were always there for me. I knew if I needed something, I could count on you. Years ago, we were both just recently single and the holidays were tough on both of us. We spent New Years Eve together that year and we hugged at midnight. I remember we were both so sad and we talked that we were glad that we had each other. From that year forward, you were always one of the first ones to wish me a happy new year. Some years we spent it together, other years apart, but you never forgot to think of me. I will always treasure that. Even this past new year, I guess you were not probably feeling that well, but you still texted me at midnight. I sure wish I would have saved that message. They say that you should live your life in a way that if was over tomorrow, there would be no regrets. My regret is that I did not get more time with you. I am going to miss you more than I can ever imagine. You touched more lives than you probably imagined. You have a great bunch of friends and I plan on keeping in touch with them. Not only cause I like them, but to feel close to you as well. The same with your dad and Lori. They are super people and your dad has the same goofy personality as you. I am glad you did not have to suffer more than you did. I cannot be selfish and want you here when you would have to hurt to do that. I am going to write you often and think of you even more.
I love you Troy, forever!!!
Your friend and sister,
Julie
tobin bradley
February 18, 2009
To the family and friends of Troy, I am very sorry for your loss. Troy will really be missed by people who knew him. Troy and myself went to Anthis career center. We used to ride to the job site for homebuilding together and always did things to have alot of fun. I have not seen him for a few years but the memories still remain like yesterday! My best wishes to the family he left behind. He probably has everybody up in heaven laughing and cracking up right now, even as I write this. knowing him!!! sincerely Toby Bradley
The Sims Family
February 13, 2009
Mic, Lori and Family we are sorry to hear about the loss of Troy. We hold many great memories.
Aundria Allison
February 13, 2009
My condolences go out to the family of Troy Biberstine. We were in the same graduating class @ Elmhurst.
donna patton
February 13, 2009
julie, bonnie called and told me about your brother,so sorry for your loss.my thoughts and prayers are with you girl.
Becky Redwanski-Kern
February 13, 2009
Chris, Jeff, and Family;
Im so sorry to hear About Troy, Debi and Scott informed me today of his passing.
Please know your in my thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie Niemeyer
February 13, 2009
Julie, Pat and family: I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. May your cherished memories of Troy bring you comfort in the days ahead. He will be forever loved and missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Stephanie
Tim & Lisa Carpenter (Didion)
February 13, 2009
Lori & Mic,
I'm sorry for you loss. You and your family will be in our prayers. If you need anything please let us know.
Troy and Patty Arnett
February 13, 2009
Our condolences to Troy's family - especially his children.
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