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Donald McAtavey Obituary

Donald Joseph McAtavey

DOVER - Donald Joseph McAtavey, 89, passed peacefully on Wednesday February 18, 2015 at Langdon Place in Dover, N.H.

Don was born April 6 1925, in Dover, N.H. the son of James Michael and Mabel (Illingworth) McAtavey. Upon graduating high school Don enlisted in the Navy and saw action in both the Atlantic and Pacific during World War II. After returning from the war, Donald married his high school sweetheart Elizabeth Bowen of Somersworth NH and they made their home in Dover for their 48 years of marriage until "Betty's " passing in 1991. Together, they raised their four boys.

Donald was very involved in the community. He was Scout Master of Troop 170 at St Joseph church for many years in the late 50s and 60s. Later, he was elected to the local school board and served as secretary of the board for several years. He was employed for over 40 years by New England Telephone and achieved "Pioneer" status with them.

Donald's love of travel followed him through his life. It is common for former scouts to inquire about him and reminisce about their travels with the Troop to many destinations in the Northeast and Canada.

In 1992, Donald was blessed to find love again when he married Kathleen Letellier. Together they made their home at Fox Tail Ridge in Dover for 10 years and then made the move to "The Villages" in Florida for the next 10 years. During this time they enjoyed many ocean cruises the world over. As Floridians, they often hosted family making brief escapes from the cold New Hampshire winters. In June of 2013 they returned to Dover to spend their remaining days at Langdon Place.

In every sense of the phrase, Donald was truly a member of "The Greatest Generation"

Donald was predeceased by Elizabeth, his wife of 48 years; his second wife Kathleen Letellier McAtavey with whom he spent 21 years; a brother Richard McAtavey of South Berwick Maine; a daughter-in-law Trudy McAtavey; and a grandson Derek McAtavey.

He is survived by sons D James and Nancy McAtavey, Dennis McAtavey, Gerald McAtavey and partner Anne, Richard and Brenda McAtavey and the children of his second marriage Kathleen Letellier and husband Robert Gordon, Lauren Letellier and husband Christopher Atkins, Brandon and Marie Letellier, Mary Duffy, and Matthew Letellier and wife Thereseand several grandchildren.

The family would like to say a special thank you to Langdon Place of Dover and Life Choice Hospice for the wonderful care they gave Don.

Per his request, there will be no services, private family burial in the spring

In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to Boy Scouts of America or the charity of one's choice in his name.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Tasker Funeral Home. Please go to www.taskerfh.com to sign the online guest book.

Visit www.fosters.com/obits for an online guest book.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Feb. 20 to Feb. 23, 2015.

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Rick Foster

February 28, 2015

Richard, Dennis and Family, I'd like to extend to you all my condolences over the passing of your Dad.

Jane and Chris Bowen

February 27, 2015

It is with great sadness to learn of Uncle Mac's passing. I have so many wonderful memories of family parties and will never forget meeting Aunt Betty and Uncle Mac for the first time at Aunt Geraldine and Uncle Bill's pool party. I was terrified to meet the Bowen clan all at once and I recall Betty's warmth and Mac's twinkling eyes and infectious smile and instantly I knew what a wonderful extended family I would join! You are all in our thoughts and prayers and we miss you so very much!

Wendy Duvall

February 26, 2015

To
Dennis, Gerry and the McAtavey Family,
Sending condolences for your loss. May he rest in peace.

Saj

February 24, 2015

My sincere condolences to the family for the loss of your loved one. May prayers strengthen you and memories comfort you, and may our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father, who loves us, comfort your hearts and "make you firm". (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17)

February 24, 2015

I am so greatful to have known Don. Your family are in my prayers and thoughts

Leanne Buyck

Tom and Pam Dimon

February 24, 2015

Sorry to hear about Don,Pam and i worked with him for years.

John and Rhoda McAtavey

February 22, 2015

Jim,Dennis,Gerry and Richard
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

Karen (Smith) Breault

February 22, 2015

My condolences to the McAtavey Family, I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories bring some comfort in the days ahead.

Charles Rankie

February 21, 2015

Don was a good man. I worked with him at New England Telephone. He helped to make "The Telephone Company" a good place to work. Additionally, Don was happy to teach a young Engineer like me!

February 21, 2015

Jim and Nancy
I would like to extend my sympathy to you and your family. May fond memories of your father comfort you always.

Zoe Polychronopoulos

Crystal Rodriguez

February 21, 2015

I work at Langdon place and helped take care of Donald for the last 6 months. He was a joy and will truly be missed.

Bob Bickford

February 20, 2015

Dennis & Jerry,
I was sorry to hear that your Dad passed away.

Paula & Ralph Dagenais

February 20, 2015

We would like to extend our sincere condolences on Donald's passing. Ralph's Dad knew him for having worked for the telephone company. Ralph lost his Dad last October. Their generation sadly are leaving us! May your memories sustain you in the days to come.

Kathy and Rob Gordon

February 20, 2015

We were so happy to have had Don as part of our lives for the past 23 years.

We love and miss you, Donald!

Thoughts and prayers to the McAtavey family.

Darcie Russell

February 20, 2015

my sympathies go out to you and your dad, Susan. Please know that you are in my prayers. Take care.

Jason Hindle

February 20, 2015

To the entire McAtavey family,

Our sincerest condolences in the passing of Mac. I remember with great fondness the days when he and Betty would visit my grandparents and appreciated his sense of humor and love for life.

Thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

John Demopoulos

February 19, 2015

My condolences to the McAtavey clan. Growing up with Gerry and Dennis I had the great fortune to spend time in the McAtavey home. As a young adult I found I could always count on Mr McAtavey for good advice and a willingness to share his life experiences. We thought so much of him that when we graduated, we asked that he hand us our diplomas and congratulate us. He was on the school board at that time, and was on the podium. He of course graciously did so, and that meant a great deal to us all.
May he rest in peace and may his memory be eternal.

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