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Paul Martel Obituary
Born in Dover, April 10, 1928, he was the son of Wilfred J. and Pauline (Labrie) Martel, and attended Dover Schools and had resided here all of his life. He was a U.S. Army veteran of the Korean conflict.
In 1968, he founded the successful plumbing and heating company that bears his name, Martel Plumbing and Heating, Inc., which he operated until his retirement in 1992 and where he still worked a few days a week. He gave a start to many of the tradesmen that now serve the area.
A true family patriarch, he always put those closest to him first. He was a great listener who could be counted on for sound advice, but always preferred to teach and to lead by example, he loved his family. Never one to be cooped up inside, he loved to be outdoors, especially the North Country of his native New Hampshire. With his sons and brothers he built and owned camps in both Pittsburg and Dummer. He loved to go camping in the White Mountains, it didn't matter if it were a tent or an RV as long as there was a campfire and family and friends to share it with. In the winter, he could be found snowmobiling through the woods and across frozen lakes, always in the lead.
He was a gentleman farmer with a great love of animals. As the owner of successful show horses he enjoyed attending competitions with his youngest daughter, Kris. He was an avid collector of die cast cars. He enjoyed doing projects with wood, loved country and western music, road trips with his brothers, and traveled extensively to places like Germany, Ireland, Hawaii, Holland and London.
With an active mind he was a builder and problem solver at heart who always had multiple projects in the works and the God-given talent to complete them.
A devoted husband of 55 years, who had found his one true love, he is survived by his wife, Katherine (Hughes) Martel; two sons, Paul J. Martel, Jr., Peter L. Martel and wife, Leslie; two daughters, Lynda J. Robidas and husband, Ed, and Kristine E. Chagnon and husband, Mike, all of Dover; nine grandchildren, Lyndsay Martel and fiance, Frank Salantri, Zak Robidas and girlfriend, Kendra Riordan, Sadie Martel and boyfriend, Matt French, Laci Robidas, Seth Martel, Sydney Martel, Noah Chagnon, Olivia Chagnon and Anna Chagnon, and two great-grandchildren, Jaiden Robidas and Ava French. He also leaves four brothers, Robert Martel and wife, Yvonne, of Dover, Emile Martel and wife, Ruth, of Barrington, Richard Martel and wife, Susan, of Strafford, and Bert Martel and wife, Louise, of Somersworth; three sisters, Pauline Lemieux and husband, Jerry, of Nashua, Theresa Hartford and husband, Gerry, of Somersworth, and Rita Chase of Dover, and nieces and nephews.
He was predeceased by two brothers, Raymond and Wilfred "Pete" Martel.
There are no calling hours. Friends are invited to a graveside service Wednesday, Nov. 18, at 1 p.m. at St. Mary Cemetery, Dover Point Road.
Memorials in his name may be made to St. Jude Children's Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9956, Multiple Sclerosis Society, 1361 Elm Street, Suite 106, Manchester, NH 03101 or Wentworth Homecare & Hospice, 113 New Rochester Road, Dover, NH 03820.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Martel
Demetrios Raizes
December 11, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Robert J. Martel
November 30, 2009
On behalf of our family Yvonne and I would like to extend our condolences to Pauls family, We grieve with you, Paul will be missed by everyone who knew him,
Thank you Kay for the care you gave my Brother during those difficult times keeping him at home is something he wanted so very much, You were the best,
Thank you also to his Family for being at your parents---Mem and Peps side around the clock those last few days you made them proud you're Dad didn't speak much those last hours but he knew you were there,
I have many fond memories of growing up in a family of ten childre Paul was the third of seven Sons myself the fourth he was like a guiding light to me always there when I needed help or a shoulder to lean on I was overwelmed the day he asked me to be best man when he married Kay the Love of his Life,
I spent many enjoyable weekends with family and friends at Pauls camp on Indian Stream in the Town of Pittsburg, Snowmobiling,hunting,and my favorite weekends in the fall cutting firewood for the winter months ahead,
I recall a picture Paul had in his living room many years ago of a home in a country setting with a phrase at the bottom that read, Let me live in a home by the side of the road and be a friend to man,
You've lived up to that phrase Brother and then some you were a friend to everyone you met,you,ve been an insperation to me, you were my hero,my idol, and my best friend, Life won't be quite the same without you,We may have lost you but you've left us with enough memories to last a lifetime
God Speed Brother, I Love You
Bob
Chris Williams
November 29, 2009
How many times over the years have I thought of you and your family growing up on Tolend Rd! So many memories of a wonderful childhood and with the Martel family. I send my love across the miles to you all.
Christopher Williams - HEAD HONCHO OF THE TOLEND ROAD GANG
Ron Nadeau
November 22, 2009
Dear Martel Family,
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerly,
Ron Nadeau and family
November 20, 2009
Paul,
You were my friend, my boss, my next door neighbor, my father-in-law, and my second dad. As a friend you were always a great listener whose advice I could be assured came from the heart. As my boss you gave me my first full time job. You encouraged me to broaden my horizons and always learn more even though it meant I’d eventually leave the company you founded and ran so successfully. As my next door neighbor you were always there to help with a project, loan a tool, or just walk the property line and chat about our big ideas. As my Father-in-law words can’t even begin to express how welcome you made me feel in your family, you must have been rolling your eyes when I came into your daughters life. As my second dad you lead by example, were never judgmental, and supported all my crazy plans even when you didn’t agree. I first met you when I was seventeen and knew everything; I can honestly say I wouldn’t be who I am today had I never met you. You had such a positive impact on so many lives, I’m so proud to have known you these last 24 years, rest assured you are alive and well in my memories.
M
Bob and Shawn Schuyler
November 20, 2009
Doing business with Paul for many years we saw his conscientious and always professional side. One always knew he stood firmly behind his work. Fortunately, his example is still being followed today.
Our sympathy,
Bob and Shawn Schuyler
Laci Robidas
November 19, 2009
Peppie,
I just want to say im so thankful to have been able to have you as my Peppie. You are one of the most amazing people i have ever known, and i want to thank you for being the phenominal person you were.
I have many beautiful memories of you, and i will cherish them for the rest of my life.
Im so glad i was able to spend your final days with you. Although they were hard days, i wouldnt trade them for anything in the world.
I miss you more than words can ever say, but im happy you're at peace.
I love you so so so much!
Have fun camping <3
Love always,
Laci
Jim & Elaine O'Donnell
November 19, 2009
To Kris and the entire Martel family,
Sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. He touched so many people.
Lori Metivier-McBride
November 19, 2009
Great Aunt Kay and family......My thoughts have been with you all through this tough time. His warm and friendly smile will always be remmebered.
Love
Lori Metivier-McBride
Joe and Jody LaBrie
November 18, 2009
To the entire Martel family,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Paul was a great man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Penny & Steve (Martel) Poligni
November 18, 2009
Aunt Kay,Paul jr.,Peter,Linda & Kris, our hearts go out to you all at this very difficult time.Today turned out to be a beautiful day, i will remember Uncle Paul's Big smile forever,he lit up the beautiful blue sky looking down on us today, I just know he was with us. Why else would there have been a fox snooping around in broad daylight?? (lol) coincidence? I think not. Uncle Paul was loved & cared for by many people,may you all find comfort in knowing that there is no more suffering & pain ,a wonderful man that he is & was is finally at peace & looking down on his loved ones. We will miss you Uncle Paul.
Dan & Sue Grimes
November 18, 2009
Paul,Peter and the rest of the Martel Family. Sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. Will never forget the day that Paul SR. visited Mr Downings auto class. Our thoughts and prayers are with you All in this time of sorrow.
Jim Shecter
November 18, 2009
To the entire family, we are sorry for your lost.
Jim and Melissa
Sharon Latture
November 18, 2009
Rest in peace Uncle Paul.
Sharon & Bob
Peter and Connie Shaheen
November 18, 2009
To the entire Martel family, we send our deepest sympathies. So many people search for words to say at a time like this, but unfortunately there really arent many words that can comfort the pain of your loss. So to you all, we say the relief to your grief lies in the hands of God, pray to him and he will help mend your pain, and take solice in the fact that he is in a far better place now.... God Bless You All
virginia charbonneau
November 18, 2009
sorry for your loss
william Charbonneau and
virginia lampros charbonneau
November 18, 2009
Thinking of you during this difficult time.
Call me .
SIncerely, Delores Lothrop
November 18, 2009
Kris and family,
I am so sorry to hear about her dad, it sounds like he was a truly amazing man. I hope all your great memories and family support will help you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Melissa Cunio "Mathewson"
Peter Gregorakos
November 18, 2009
Paul, Peter and the Martel family. My deepest sympathies on the passing of your father. May God bless you all during this very difficult time.
Dierdre Estes
November 18, 2009
To A Truly Wonderful Family...
May you find comfort in each other, hope in moments of great sorrow, and joy in the many beautiful memories of your Dad, husband, Pepere, Uncle and friend. Sent with love and respect...
Paul Adams
November 17, 2009
To Pete and family,
Sorry to hear about your dad. May your memories of happier times get you through this time of sadness.
November 17, 2009
As time goes on we all seem to go our separate ways/living our lives, but memories of our childhood will always be clear. How lucky we were to grow up on Tolend Rd with such wonderful families, the Martel family being one of them. I will always remember the time spent at your house, it was like a second home/family to me. How fortunate I was to be included in the fun as you welcomed me to join your family in attending Red Sox games, and let’s not forget the snowmobile trips, one very vivid memory was Pittsburgh, (the out-house) that was scary, and cold. Our visits of late were far and few in between, but I am so glad I had the opportunity to recently spend time visiting you, reminiscing about the past brings back so many wonderful memories. I will never forget you Mr. Martel.
P.S. sorry about all the loud sleepovers!
Love you always,
Cindy Breton
November 17, 2009
I miss you soooooooooo much. Who could have a better pepe than you.I love you more than anything:) olivia
Sheila O'Connor
November 17, 2009
Aunt Kay, Paul, Peter, Lynda and Kris,
I was so sorry to get the news from my Dad about Uncle Paul's passing. Although it's been years since I've seen most of the Martel clan, I will cherish the fond memories I have of Uncle Paul. Always smiling! Memory Lane is a wonderful place to keep near our hearts and on our minds.
You're all in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
Sheila (Martel) O'Connor
Tina Lent
November 17, 2009
Kris,Mike & Family,
So sorry to hear of your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Love
Tina Lent
November 17, 2009
Dad - I don't even know where to begin. All I know is that I could not have asked for a better Dad...I am blessed. Although I never said it out loud, and now wished I had, I always considered you my biggest hero. I could always count on you for guidance and security. You were the first I'd go too if I needed advice and you were always there to listen. I so fondly remember Saturday trips to McDonald's (and you'd always send me in because you didn't like talking at the drive thru!), you always buying me my favorite, a maple square, at Dunkin Donuts, riding around with you on the back of the Cub Cadet while you mowed the lawn on Tolend Rd., all the snowmobile excursions, trips to both camps, camping, always finding "space" for me in the company...but the one thing I am so grateful for is that I got to share my love of horses with you. All the years of horse shows we had...I can't tell you how appreciative I am for all that, how lucky was I to have had that opportunity thanks to you and Mom. To this day I so miss hanging out with you in the barn. Words cannot express how thankful I am to have had you for my Dad. Paul said it best when he said you were the "ultimate father". There are no words to describe what you meant, and still mean, to all of us. I don't know what we will do without you. I love you Dad, and miss you so much already. Don't worry about Mom, she is in good hands. Say Hi to Seamus for us - Love your youngest, Kris
November 17, 2009
Kris and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
The Pelchat Family
Linda, Bill, Brianna, and Lucas
Dover, NH
November 17, 2009
To Kay and family
With our deepest sympathy for your loss, we love him and miss him very much. Words cannot express our feelings for the wonderful man that he was.
All our love
Bert and Louise
November 17, 2009
Dear Kay and your family,
We are saddened to hear of Paul`s passsing. Hang on to the wonderful memories, for strength and sustanance.
Albert and Valerie Locke
Carolyn Kidney
November 17, 2009
Pete and family. It is with a heavy heart that I am writing this today. I am so sad to hear of your loss. What a nice friendly person your dad was! I enjoyed talking to him way back in the day. I know how difficult losing our parents is, especially around the holidays as I lost both of mine during the holiday season. My love to all of you at this very difficult and personal time. May you all find peace in knowing that he is no longer in pain, and can watch over you from heaven as well as he did while here on the earth! On behalf of Dougie and myself, please accept our love and condolences at this very sad time.
Mike and Michelle Burton
November 17, 2009
Kris,Mike and family: We are so sorry to here about your loss.Unfortunately Michelle and I never had the pleasure of meeting your Dad but your stories about him told the story.Thoughts and Prayers: Mike and Michelle
Tyler Foss
November 17, 2009
God's fingers touch'd him, and he slept.
- Tennyson
To old friends, well loved.
I am very saddened to hear Mr. Martel has passed from us. I will remember him with smiles and prayers for him and for those he loved best - his own ones.
I will always remember his quiet, gentle strength and that broad, happy smile of his.
It is rightly said that 'all men die....not all men really live.' Paul Martel really lived and he lived well.
Words seem so inadequate at such times. When I think of the great childhood I lived and the life beyond it God has allowed me, I shall remember many great kings and queens... men and women who loved me and guarded me. Mr. Paul Martel was one of these - a great and loving king.
May God keep you always.
Kristopher Martel
November 17, 2009
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kristopher and Tria Martel and Family
Kelly Martel
November 17, 2009
To the Martel family - I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I didn't know my great Uncle very well, but I know that he was good man. Good memories are a wonderful thing to have and can get you through the most difficult time in your lives. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you Lynda
November 17, 2009
Dad, you have givin me the best possible life ever. I wouldn't want to change a thing. Very comforting, full of love, huge caring hands to tuck me in at night. I miss you soooo much. Great camping memories. The best childhood memories. So much to say. I Love You Dad to the Moon and back.
Michelle (Labrie) Maple
November 17, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
November 17, 2009
Dad,how fortunate i was to have you as my father,you were the ultimate teacher,you taught me everything i know dad,from aquiring a good work ethic,to learning how to live with humility and serenity.The memories i have of you and me together are many,and they all bring a smile to my face,tref's on saturday mornings,building mike's house,working along side you in the company.you left some awfull big shoes for me to fill dad,my only wish is that i can walk in your footsteps.you never realized how you affected other people,and if you did you would just shrug it off and figure it was no big deal.you were greatly loved dad,by all kinds of people,and especially me,although i know i didn't show it lol(something else i got from you lol).I'm gonna miss you dad,more than any body will ever know,you have meant so much to me.You were the ultimate father,a goal which i have yet to attain,but i promise you that i will do you good.I miss you dad,and love you.I will be there for ma and peter,so don't worry,you can count on me.good bye dad your no#1 son paul
Christine Paquette
November 17, 2009
Kris and family,
During this very sad time, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Chris and Bob Paquette
Corey Harnish
November 17, 2009
Kay, Paul, Peter, Lynda, Kris and the entire Martel Family,
May you all know you are all in my thoughts and Prayers during this sad time. Your father was a wonderful, gentle man and will be missed dearly. And Kay please know you have such a wonderful family to comfort you and share ALL the fond memories of such a full rich wonderful life you have had with Mr. Martel. There is no doubt he will be missed but never ever forgotten...He is at Peace now.... God Bless you all.
Love, Corey
November 16, 2009
Mrs. Martel and Family,
We are very sorry for the loss of a great and wonderful man. He will be sadly missed but never forgotten. I am sure he and my father will be telling tales of all us kids growing up.
Hold onto those memories, they will live on forever.
Love Lisa, Sam, Justin, Joshua and Heather
November 16, 2009
Kris and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your Dad. Please know we are thinking of you and your family.
Rob and Denise Diharce
Sue Foss
November 16, 2009
So sorry for your loss. You will all be in my prayers.
Nancy Roy
November 16, 2009
My thoughts are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort in the days to come.
Kirk Purington
November 16, 2009
My Condolences to the entire family, I am saddened for your loss. May you all be comforted with wonderful memories and love. You are all in my Prayers...
November 16, 2009
Uncle Paul, words can't express how deeply you will be missed. Your memories will remain in our hearts forever. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.
Love Always,
Amber Martel
November 16, 2009
sorry for your loss. carol nye
Becky Sherburne
November 16, 2009
So sorry....I will keep you in my prayers. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by many.
November 16, 2009
Our Love and Prayers to Aunt Kay and Family. We will all miss him.
Love,
Kevin, Cindy, Joshua, Jessica Albertson
November 16, 2009
My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Love,
Rod (Martel)
Tina Howard
November 16, 2009
Kris and Family,
I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. You are in our prayers.
Sent with Love,
Jason, Tina, Jake, Josh, Jonah and Julianna Howard
November 16, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of sorrow. Remember that he no longer needs to suffer and is at peace. I know he is in a great place with excellent company. Keep your wonderful memories close to your heart and he is there with all of you also. God Bless Love Sue (Breton) Beem
Lyndsay Martel
November 16, 2009
Pep,
Mere words could never truly serve a man like you any justice. You were the ultimate patriarch and the consummate gentleman. You always put our family first, even at the very end. Though it was by far the hardest thing I have ever done, I’m am truly grateful that I was able to be there and help you make it on your last "camping trip".
You have taught me so much, including the most basic of things, how to paint a fence, hammer a nail, or start a campfire. You have also taught me the meaning of humility and loyalty, kindness and love.
Some of the things I will always remember include our early mornings out in the barn, our Saturday morning trips to Duston’s for a maple round, our “just because” cakes, going outside at night to look at the stars,and of course, our years of camping and snowmobiling. I know you are gone from this world, but one thing that will never leave me is my admiration for such an incredible man, who loved and was loved more than anyone I have ever known.
We never had the chance to make you your seafood dinner once you got home from the hospital, but like Frank said last night, you can eat all the mussels you want in Heaven.
I love you and miss you already. Please, rest in peace knowing that we will take care of Mem and each other.
Love,
Lyndsay
November 16, 2009
You were like a second family to me growing up, only better – I don’t ever remember getting yelled at; I just remember having loads of fun at your house.
My most sincere condolences are with all of you.
Love,
Coleen Sheehy Ayers
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