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Stephen Byrnes Obituary
He was born Aug. 9, 1986 in Danvers, Mass. the son of Stephen Byrnes, Sr. and the late Kimberly (Rubchinuk) Byrnes. He proudly owned a home in Gonic.
Stephen was a BA welder, who was proud of his craft. He didn't consider it "work," but a labor of love. He most recently worked for the company, Decco as a pipe welder and it truly was his passion.
Stephen was an excellent provider and a devoted husband to his wife Chelsea (Trefethen) Byrnes and adoring father to his children, Garrett and Raeya.
Stephen's other passion in life was getting high off music. When Steve was around, music was around (and it was usually loud).
He was well loved by many friends and family, especially his best friend, Alex Sullivan.
We are proud of the fight he put up against his disease. He never gave up, he just didn't win.
Please do not let Stephen's death be in vain. If you are struggling, please ask for help. You are loved.
SERVICES: Family and friends may visit Tuesday, 4 to 6 p.m. at the R.M. Edgerly & Son Funeral Home, 86 South Main Street, Rochester, N.H.
A memorial service will follow at 6 p.m. in the chapel of the funeral home.
To sign the online guestbook, please visit www.edgerlyfh.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Byrnes
Ray Byrnes
August 26, 2024
I´m the daughter of Stephen byrnes he was an amazing father amazing person, a great welder, and overall the best dad in the world
Donna Potter
November 13, 2023
Chelsea and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you! Praying all is well with you and your children.
Anniversary´s of our deceased loved ones can be hard just focus on the good memories.
Jordan Ziegra
March 7, 2021
I’m not sure if it is too late to say something, but I just wanted to say I didn’t know Stephen well... but I suffer from this wretched disease and I fight. 6/18/19 I got clean for the 10th ( hopefully last time) Stephen’s comment popped up on a friends page so I clicked and clicked and here I am... this disease steals dads from their kids and sons from their parents, husbands from their wives... I am so sorry I didn’t know until now.... I bet he radiate through his daughters and I honestly thank you for mentioning his fight against this horrible disease... awareness saves lives ❤❤❤❤ He hasn’t died in vain his struggle touched me today, and I know it will keep another addict from using today. ❤❤❤
Jordan
March 7, 2021
I’m not sure if it is too late to say something, but I just wanted to say I didn’t know Stephen well... but I suffer from this wretched disease and I fight. 6/18/19 I got clean for the 10th ( hopefully last time) Stephen’s comment popped up on a friends page so I clicked and clicked and here I am... this disease steals dads from their kids and sons from their parents, husbands from their wives... I am so sorry I didn’t know until now.... I bet he radiate through his daughters and I honestly thank you for mentioning his fight against this horrible disease... awareness saves lives ❤❤❤❤ He hasn’t died in vain his struggle touched me today, and I know it will keep another addict from using today. ❤❤❤
November 28, 2018
Can not imagine your incredible loss. I pray for you and all families fighting addiction. Cherish the memories.
Cheryl Marston
November 23, 2018
I'm sorry for you loss.
Larry Nadeau
November 21, 2018
So sorry for your loss.
Jenn Grosso
November 21, 2018
My Condolences to the family and friends of. Stephen,Jr. Prayers
Michele Juza
November 20, 2018
May God give you peace during this time...
Nancy Poulin
November 20, 2018
So sorry for your loss, I knew Steve well while he grew up with my son John. I pray that the Lord will bring you peace during this tragic time. Stevie was an awesome person and he will always be with you through his children.
Lisa Mantsourani
November 20, 2018
So sorry for your loss . My thoughts and prayers are with you alll
Joni van Gelder
November 20, 2018
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Barbara & Harry Krekorian
November 20, 2018
Rest Easy Steve. Prayers for your family.
Sheila Meeker
November 19, 2018
Chelsea - I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sonny and Linda Ridley
November 19, 2018
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Darcy Dore
November 19, 2018
My condolences & deepest sympathy. Prayers.
priscilla shaw
November 19, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong, give your children lots of hugs and know you are in my prayers
November 19, 2018
Love, Debbie
Victoria Webster
November 19, 2018
So sorry to hear this. Condolences to the Byrnes family. Thank you for sharing his struggle with addiction.
Louanne Fernald
November 19, 2018
Such a sad loss. Prayers to his family and friends. Knew his mom and dad very well. Such a sweet guy.
November 19, 2018
Love and Peace to Stephen's family.
Angie Fogg
November 19, 2018
We are deeply sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
November 19, 2018
My heart breaks for all his family so young & so much to live for RIP
Donna Potter
November 18, 2018
Chelsea and family, I am so sorry for your loss.
You and yours are in my heart and in my prayers.
I pray that you feel the outpouring of love and prayers you are receiving, may it be a source of comfort and strength during this time of need.
November 18, 2018
My Sincerest condolences for your loss. May precious memories of your dear loved one, along with encouraging words such as those found at John 11: 25 & 26 be of comfort to your family as it has me.
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