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Jane Frey Obituary

Jane Frey lived an extraordinary life of commitment to justice, beauty, community, and love. Growing up in Wadsworth, Ohio, she was deeply influenced by the pacifist teachings and egalitarian culture of the Mennonite Church. Her first protest was as a little girl, against the town's efforts to cut down the old trees lining the street of her neighborhood. While she only blocked their chainsaws for a few hours, she negotiated a promise to plant new trees in their place. At 13, after moving to Lake Forest, Illinois, her fire was further ignited, and she convinced her mother to regularly drive her to local protests against the Vietnam War. In high school she was introduced to the work of the United Farmworkers Union, who were endeavoring to improve the working and living conditions of migrant farmworkers in the United States. She was so inspired by the cause that at 17 she spent the summer in La Paz, California, learning to organize with the UFW, meeting Cesar Chavez, Dolores Huerta, Joan Baez and many other inspiring leaders. It was there she began to understand the relationship between community organizing and culture, and the fundamental necessity of using food, music, art, and joy as the bonding force of movement solidarity. Jane began her higher education at Mount Holyoke College in 1973 before eventually graduating with a BA in elementary education from UMass Amherst in 1980. During this time, she continued her work with the UFW lettuce and grape boycott efforts in Cleveland, Boston, and Holyoke. Once back, she fell in with the notorious 15 Hamilton Street crowd. This amazing group of friends living, playing, and organizing together became the basis of her social and political life for years to come. It was there she befriended the Sisters of St. Joseph, who were also dedicated to community work in the Flats and South Holyoke. She helped start community gardens, joined the efforts of New Unity (a worker-empowerment organization based in Springfield), helped start Womanshelter/Compañeras (a sanctuary for abused women), along with numerous other community activities. It was during this era that she met and married Carlos Vega and became stepmother to his son Aaron. After her son Jesse was born in 1978, she was inspired to become a nurse-midwife – both as a personal calling to meaningful work and to address the racially charged crises in prenatal care, infant mortality, and teenage pregnancy in Holyoke. She received her nursing degree from Springfield Technical Community College in 1983 and her MSN in nurse-midwifery from Yale University in 1985, the same year her son Nicolás was born. She proceeded to help create a dynamic midwifery practice in Holyoke with a devoted team of beloved compatriots that served the community for many years. Jane estimated that she delivered over a thousand babies during her career as a nurse-midwife. Over the ensuing years, Jane's life developed in many beautiful directions. She participated in various choirs: the Amandla Chorus, the Hampshire Choral Society, the Warren Plaut Memorial Singers, the Frey Family Christmas Choir, and, perhaps most influentially, Jane Sapp's Community Chorus. She traveled extensively through Latin America and Europe, even into the final year of her life. She always relished the opportunity to eat new foods, see more art, and experience the richness of human culture. She loved walking and hiking through natural and urban environments with friends and family across Western Massachusetts and around the world. She was a school nurse at Smith Vocational High School for several years and a long-time board member of the Carlos Vega Fund for Social Justice. All the while, she enjoyed working in her garden, decorating her home, and cooking delicious food for her family and friends. Jane died far too young and will be missed beyond measure. In these final years, she refused to call cancer a "journey." She felt it was cancer that was preventing her from her desire to keep exploring, learning, and sharing in the goodness of this great earth with all the people she encountered in it. She did everything she believed she could to push back against its journey-dampening force. It was yet another opportunity to protest, and in that determined effort she refused to lose her humanity and commitment to beauty and goodness. Jane leaves behind her beloved children, siblings Mary and John, cherished friends, devoted colleagues, and countless loved ones. She would want us all to carry forward with determination her ethic of joy, beauty, and kindness in the world. ¡Hasta la victoria siempre! A memorial service will be held in late September. In lieu of flowers, she asked that friends please make a donation to the Carlos Vega Fund for Social Justice. https://carlosvegafund.org/ Learn more about the history of midwifery in Holyoke, here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2BuZlll-xA

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Published by Franklin County Now on May 27, 2025.

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Steve Levine

August 27, 2025

I was so inspired to read Jane´s obituary. I have always had so much respect for Jane and am one of the so many that miss her!
My sincere condolences to Jane´s wonderful family.
Her memory will always be a blessing!
Steve Levine

J. Sermeno

August 25, 2025

Be at peace with your beloved Carlos, Jane.

Melissa

June 10, 2025

I met Jane at Providence Hospital in 1991. She was the midwife who gave me post natal care after I had my baby boy. She was kind and beautiful and had amazing energy. I remembered and thought of her through out the years. Meeting her, even briefly was a blessing.

Jill Rubin

June 8, 2025

I never met a person with a quicker smile or a bigger heart than Jane Frey. Thank you for all the laughter and conversations we shared. You made my time at Smith Voc something to look forward to each day.

Jane, you will be so thoroughly missed.

Bless your kind soul and may you bathe eternal in the same peace and joy you brought to so many. Jill

Deb Carver

June 2, 2025

A beautiful soul who was a pleasure to work with at Smith Vocational and Agricultural High School. Jane had a smile for everyone, every day.

Fritzi Frey Tracey

June 2, 2025

My eldest Cousin Jane, with your sweet smile and kind nature, you always lit up the room. You were the one who brought us all together! You will be so very missed, and always dearly remembered!

Becky Reed

May 31, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Jane's passing. I worked with her briefly at Tapestry in Holyoke and enjoyed her compassion and commitment. Please accept my condolences.

Kathy Unruh

May 30, 2025

I knew Jane at Mt. Holyoke, and joined the United Farmworkers with her in 1975. She was such a motivating force, and a kind and fun person. Her accomplishments are impressive!

Jessenia

May 29, 2025

It was a pleasure working & meeting a great most humble kind woman you will forever have a special place in my heart I will
Missed you dearly my friend more like family may your soul SIP

Donna Sroka

May 28, 2025

I´m grateful to have known Jane a strong, wise and gentle woman who shared her life energies with so many.

Susan Massad

May 28, 2025

Rest in peace, Dear Jane. You were a TRUE INSPIRATION to me during my 2 years working with you at the Elm St. Center. I ascribe my lifelong activism to your and Carlos's influence.

WALTER KOLODZINSKI

May 28, 2025

AS PART OF S VOC FACULTY SHE WAS A PLEASURE TO SEE ALMOST DAILY.
I'M SURE OUR SAVIOR AS FOUND A PLACE FOR HER IN THE HEAVENS

Jot King

May 28, 2025

I´m so sorry for your loss! Your sister sounds wonderful. No wonder you are so special John and were so close to your family. Sending my love Jot

Liz O'Dair

May 28, 2025

A life well-lived. I will miss my friend. Sending love to all who knew and loved her.

Susan Levitt

May 27, 2025

The helpers in our world do the good work, the healing and striving for human connection and love, without need for affirmation from others, just a fervent belief that to help others is why we are here. Jane was that.

Michael Brooks

May 27, 2025

Sweet kind women to work with
Rest in peace Jane.

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