Name: Visitation for Terry Hershey
Start: 2023-01-27T18:00:00.000Z
End: 2023-01-27T19:00:00.000Z
Location: Thompson-Harman Funeral Home, P.A. - Middletown

Terry Allen Hershey of Middletown, MD passed away peacefully at the Dove House Hospice in Westminster, MD on Sunday, January 15, 2023. Terry was a high school English teacher and work study coordinator in Frederick County Schools for 39 years. Terry was born in Columbus, Ohio to Herbert Clover Hershey and Marian Conger Hershey on December 31, 1947. Terry is survived by his wife of 53 1/2 years Mary Christine Hull Hershey. Terry is also survived by brother Scott Hershey of Richmond, VA and his wife, Leigh, Nephews Ryan and Kyle, Kyle's wife Lauren, great nephew Mason and great niece Charlotte. Terry is also survived by sister-in-law Connie Parks and husband Steve, nephew Rory Parks and his wife Julie, great nephew Gavin and great niece Ava; nephew Zachary Parks and wife Elizabeth, great nephews Jadon and Jaxon, and great niece Aubrey - all of Winston-Salem, NC. Other surviving family members are brother-in-law James M. Hull of Kinston, NC, nephews Jimmie Hull and wife Julie of New Bern, NC and great nephew Adam and great niece Emma and nephew William and Crystal of Trenton, NC. Also in Kinston, NC, Terry is survived by brother-in-law Michael Hull and wife Sandy and nieces Anna and Abigail. Terry played on the tennis team at Rutgers University and received his master's degree from Hood College before beginning his teaching career. In addition to teaching in Frederick County Schools, Terry was the co-owner of the Blue Ridge Tennis Camp for young tennis players, and he coached tennis teams at Thomas Johnson High School, and he coached tennis teams at Mount St. Mary's University for many years. Terry gave tennis lessons to young players and adults at the Tuscarora Tennis Barn in Frederick, MD for many years. Terry and his wife Mary enjoyed many trips over the years in the United States, Canada, England, Germany, Switzerland, Austria and Italy and numerous trips to Bermuda and all the Caribbean Islands. Terry was a valued member of the Frederick County Tennis Community. He played in many tournaments over the years including singles, doubles and husband and wife tournaments. Terry participated in USTA Tournaments in Palm Springs, CA in 2002 and 2005. Terry will be very much missed by family, friends and many students from 1969-2008. Visitation for family and friends will be held on Friday, January 27, 2023 from 1:00 to 2:00 pm, at which time a Memorial Service will be held at the Donald B. Thompson Funeral Home, 31 E. Main Street, Middletown, MD 21769. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer's Foundation of America, 322 Eighth Avenue, 16th Floor, New York, NY 10001. Terry Hershey

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Published by The Frederick News-Post on Jan. 21, 2023.

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for Terry Hershey

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Ryan Hershey

August 3, 2025

Terry Allen Hershey-a man who brought so much light, laughter, and love into the world, and especially into mine.

There are people who walk into a room and instantly change the energy-Uncle Terry was one of those rare souls. He didn´t just have a smile; he was a smile. Warm, genuine, contagious. The kind of smile that made you feel like everything was going to be okay-even on the hard days. You always knew that if Uncle Terry was around, there´d be laughter not far behind. He was goofy in the best way possible, with a playful spirit and a twinkle in his eye that never seemed to fade.

He had that rare gift of making people feel seen, heard, and valued. He was charismatic-not in a flashy way, but in that magnetic, comforting way that drew people in without them even realizing it. Conversations with him could go from deep and meaningful to hilariously offbeat in seconds, and you never knew what he´d say next-but you always knew it would come from the heart.

Uncle Terry was more than an uncle to me. He was a friend, a role model, and someone I could always count on. Whether we were cracking jokes, watching a game, or just sitting in comfortable silence, he made every moment feel special. He made me feel special-and I know I´m not the only one who felt that way.

What I wouldn´t give for one more hug, one more laugh, one more memory made together. It´s hard to imagine life without him here, making us laugh when we need it most. But I know his spirit-his joy, his kindness, his love-lives on in every one of us who had the privilege of knowing him.

I miss him deeply. We all do. But I take comfort in knowing that love like his doesn´t end-it echoes. It echoes in our memories, our laughter, and in the way we show up for one another. I truly believe I´ll see him again someday. Until then, I´ll carry his smile in my heart.

Uncle Terry, thank you for being the best uncle anyone could ever ask for. You made my life brighter, funnier, and better just by being you. You will always be missed. You will always be loved.

Rest easy, and keep `em laughing up there.

With all my love,
Your nephew,
Ryan Hershey

Rick hassett

January 15, 2025

One of the craftiest tennis players i ever encountered.

Darlene Hedges

February 2, 2023

So sorry to hear, Mary. Sending love and prayers to you and your family.

Susan Mantell Cobb

January 31, 2023

I already left a message of condolence, but as I have read the other heartwarming (& totally justified) praise of Mr. Hershey, I must add more. He was kind, funny, talented & an expert at teaching in ways that didn´t seem like you were being taught-which went beyond the subject matter and helped shaped the characters of his students. I distinctly recall him standing at the door to his classroom greeting each student by name and making eye contact. He showed his students great respect and seemed genuinely interested in making certain we all felt heard. I wish we´d make more of an effort to tell the living the things we express in tributes once they pass.

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Heather (Shankle) Mossburg

January 30, 2023

Mr. Hershey was one of my most memerable English Teachers at Urbana High School. He nicknamed me DOC back in the 90's!! I have been out of school since 1999 and when there is a question of who was your favorite teacher, the answer is always Hershey!!! Rest in Peace Sir...

Chris Barry

January 27, 2023

My deepest condolences to Mary and the family. I will always remember so many great times as a tennis student of Terry´s as well as working as an instructor with him in Baker Park during the summers. His passion for the game and his fun and easy going attitude led many, like me, to have a lifelong love of tennis. I also will never forget Terry and Mary´s kindness and friendship over the years. He will be greatly missed.

Sheena Romasko

January 26, 2023

I was Mr. Hershey's work study assistant at Urbana. He was the nicest and most understanding teacher - always full of energy. I'm saddened to hear this news, my deepest condolences to his family.

Bill Marimow, Haverford High School (class of 1965)

January 26, 2023

Although I hadn´t been in touch with Terry since our days at Haverford High School, I remember him well as a good friend, a stellar tennis player and a key member of our 49-1 intramural basketball team, which we named Slippery Rock. It´s heartening to read about what a great teacher, coach and mentor he was because those skills were already developing during his teenage years.

Susan Mantell Cobb

January 26, 2023

I am so saddened to hear of the passing of Mr. Hershey. He was my English teacher at TJ in the 1980s. His enthusiastic, creative teaching style and willingness to be silly to get a concept to stick in our minds has had a lifelong positive impact on me-and, has been the model I have used to help my own child remember concepts. In my mind, I can still see him doing a little razzle dazzle dance & rhyme to explain the parts of speech. He was one of the greats! I am lucky to have known him.

Emily Lenz Austill

January 25, 2023

My thoughts and prayers are with the Hershey family during this time. I truly hope Mr. Hershey knew what an impact he made in so many kid´s lives. He was one of my favorite teachers. Mr. Hershey always had a smile on his face and a joke waiting for you.

Jen Tatanish

January 25, 2023

Mr. Hershey knew me bette than I knew myself in high school and guided me down the path of special education! Forever grateful for him, rest easy!

Jeffrey L Santacroce

January 24, 2023

Godspeed, Mr. Hershey. Thank you for your fun-loving demeanor and the joy to brought to the classroom. I hope your family is comforted by their memories of you and those shared in this forum.

Bill Van Hall

January 24, 2023

My thoughts and prayers are with you Mary. Terry was a good friend since 1978 when I first started at TJ. Throughout the years I would see Terry at school events, the tennis courts, Frederick First Fitness, and of course the Middletown Safeway. Terry was a great friend and good man.

Marcia Freas Lysher

January 24, 2023

Terry was a wonderful colleague, a dedicated teacher...Sympathy to his family...Marcia Freas Lysher

Janice Brown

January 24, 2023

I am sorry to hear of Terry´s passing. I took adult tennis lessons from through Frederick City Recreation many years ago. I still remember his humor and patience. Just an all-around nice guy.
My condolences to his wife and other loved ones.

Damion Dengler

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Dave Kepler

January 22, 2023

Mr. Hersey was a great guy. Had him as an english teacher at TJ high school and was on the tennis team, very likeable guy, really cared about his students. thoughts and prayers to his family

Lisa Loughry

January 21, 2023

Love you Mary. Peace to you my friend. As you know, Terry was my first Assistant Principal when I began teaching in Frederick County. He was a wonderful mentor and friend. Rest in peace Terry.

Karen Englebrecht

January 21, 2023

Great English teacher.
Karen Englebrecht, Tj class of 1975

Kathy Gipe

January 21, 2023

One of my favorite teachers from high school. Rest in peace.

Matty Neufeld

January 21, 2023

Terry Hershey will be missed. He was an amazing teacher and coach, and he was an overall amazing person. Thanks to Mr. Hershey for all that he accomplished for so many people in so many ways for so many years. Mr. Hershey, as we all knew him, will be missed,but he'll never be forgotten. A moment of silence today for Mr. Hershey.

Paul Dunford

January 21, 2023

Sending prayers that you find peace in your happy memories. It was a pleasure to have worked with Terry over the years. With sympathy, Paul Dunford

Deborah Kennedy

January 21, 2023

Coach Hershey was one of a kind! We loved him and respected him. He made every day and year at The Mount unforgettable and so much fun. To me and our team The Mount, Class of 1986..he was the greatest college tennis coach of all time! Rest in peace Coach Hershey, you were the best!

Norm and Anne Marie Crosby

January 21, 2023

Our deepest sympathies and prayers for peace and comfort to Mary and her family. Norm taught with Terry at Urbana, and Anne Marie had him as a teacher at TJ. Terry gave Anne Marie the confidence that "she could do it," and as a result helped her to fall in love with literature. For Norm, Terry was a consummate professional and a joy to be around; his sense of humor is legendary. He made everyone around him a better teacher and person. He will be missed.

Dawn Kelly

January 21, 2023

I had him for 10th grade Eng at TJ 1983. he was a great teacher and A lot of fun. RIP

Denise Achey Berry

January 21, 2023

Sending my deepest condolences to Mary and the whole family.

Anita Howard Ebinger , TJ Class of '81

January 21, 2023

He was a great teacher, one who left a lasting impression, one who cared about what he taught us like the 20 new vocab words each week so we could do well on the vocab section of the SAT. I am so sorry to hear this news and send my sincerest sympathy to his family and friends!!

Wayne Strine

January 21, 2023

I was blessed to be a student of Mr. Hershey's at TJ. He was a kind, thoughtful, and inspiring person who influenced me greatly. I pray God will comfort you with the peace that he is in Paradise.

Kelly Whitter Leclerc

January 21, 2023

Love and prayers to you Mary.

Rick hassett

January 21, 2023

One of the craftiest tennis players i came across. Condolences to mary.
Rick hassett

Donald Wachter Jr.

January 21, 2023

R.I.P. Mr. Hershey. , Donald E. Wachter Jr. T. J. Class of 1977.

Michael Bunitsky

January 21, 2023

My deepest sympathies to Terry's wife and family on your loss. I taught with Terry at GTJHS and always enjoyed his company and companionship. A talented man. He will be missed.

Debbie Baker

January 21, 2023

I'll always remember Mr. Hershey - my English teacher at T.J. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Debbie Santelli

January 21, 2023

With my deepest sympathy. May Terry Rest in Peace and may the family find Peace.
A great guy and my first boss at WHS.

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