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Carolyn Tilghman Obituary

Carolyn Elizabeth Tilghman (Watkins), 72, of Spotsylvania went home to be with the Lord on October 19, 2025. She recently retired from the Naval Surface Warfare Center in Dahlgren after serving as a Systems Safety Scientist for 19 years. She was a devoted member of First Baptist Church of Love. Carolyn is preceded in death by her parents, Robert Cary and Gladys Hodnett Watkins; siblings, Gladys Stewart and Robert Watkins Jr.; and niece, Kathy Watkins. She is survived by daughters, Michelle Tilghman and Karen Mitchell; son-in-law, Marvin Mitchell; grandchildren: Serenity, Langston, Genevieve, and Kipling Mitchell; brother, Harold Watkins; former sister-in-law Gwendolyn Watkins; niece Kim White; nephews Bryant Watkins, Derrick Watkins, and Anthony Watkins. Services will be held November 1st at First Baptist Church of Love with Viewing 11:00 a.m. to 12:45 p.m., Homegoing 1:00 p.m.
Published by The Free Lance - Star from Oct. 25 to Oct. 26, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Carolyn Tilghman

Nov

1

Viewing

11:00 a.m. - 12:45 p.m.

First Baptist Church of Love

124 Bend Farm Road, Fredericksburg, VA 22408

Nov

1

Funeral service

1:00 p.m.

First Baptist Church of Love

124 Bend Farm Road, Fredericksburg, VA 22408

Nov

1

Interment

Glen Haven Memory Gardens

Warrenton Road, Stafford, VA

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200 Butternut Drive, Fredericksburg, VA 22408

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Bryan O'Meara

Yesterday

My condolences go out to Carolyn's family. I had worked with Carolyn for the past 27 years at CSC and with the Federal Government in Dahlgren. I will always remember her kindness and willingness to help her fellow colleagues. I will never forget her.

LaTanya Mason

October 28, 2025

Carolyn will truly be missed!!!
Some people shine not in the spotlight, but in the quiet corners - where kindness and care are most needed. Carolyn was one of those rare souls. Her light continues on in the lives she touched.
Condolences to the family- Love from her FBCL family

LaVern & Philip Pope

October 28, 2025

Our deepest sympathy

Joyce Hill

October 26, 2025

Condolences to the Tilghman family. Your mom was a sweet and caring person. She loved her girls, and always hold on to those memories.

Deborah Tripp

October 26, 2025

Carolyn was a beautiful, gentle, caring would. She was kind and generous with her time. She was a loving friend, mom and grandmom. We will miss you, Carolyn. Thank you for all your sharing and caring with our Spotsylvania Middle girls! You were the light of Christ and I will be forever grateful for you.

Erika Tripp

October 24, 2025

Karen and Bella, I will never forget the way your mom would say, “Michelle!”, how much she loved you and those sweet grandbabies, and how she takes her Carl’s ice cream. Love love love you, mama T

October 24, 2025

On behalf of A.L. Bennett and Son Funeral Home, we express our deepest condolences during this difficult time. We extend continued prayers of strength and comfort. Our thoughts are with your family.
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