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BEN OLLER Obituary

Ben passed away peacefully on January 8, 2014. Ben was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend. His two greatest joys in life were family and helping those in need.

Ben was born on March 18, 1938. He attended Tranquility High School where he made many lifelong friends. He then attended the University of California, Davis where he met his future wife and the love of his life Marilyn. They created a nurturing and loving home for their children. Ben retired early and relished his role as a doting grandfather to his three grandchildren.

Ben worked for Mobay/Bayer for thirty years in sales and management where he made many friends in co-workers and customers. He raised money for the Poverello House, donated close to ten gallons of blood, and helped out many people with his counsel and example. He was generous, gentle, and kind.

He enjoyed hunting, fishing, dominos, board games, poker, golfing with friends and being a member of SIRs, and tending to the roses. He was a good athlete and played football at Davis. He had a great sense of humor and enjoyed his many adventures with his wife, family, and friends.

Ben lived a full and rewarding life. He used his energy to build a loving family and worked in earnest to help those in need. We will all miss him and will carry him in our hearts forever.

The family would like to thank Dr. Paul Mello, Dr. Sachin Gupta, and the staff at Saint Agnes Medical Center for their wonderful care.

Ben is preceded in death by his parents M.B and Mildred; and his wife of 49 years, Marilyn.

Ben is survived by his daughter Lisa and her husband Alfred J.; son, Marty and his wife Dianne; sisters, Darlene and Shelly; brother-in-law Chuck; his grandchildren, Dyllan, Benjamin, and Mallory; and many cousins, nieces and nephews.

A Memorial Mass will be held at Holy Spirit Catholic Church on Tuesday, January 14, 2014, at 11:00 a.m.

The family requests that in lieu of flowers remembrances be made to the Poverello House, P.O. Box 12225, Fresno, Ca. 93777.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Fresno Bee from Jan. 11 to Jan. 12, 2014.

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Shelley Landrum

January 28, 2014

I will miss you daily. You will always be in my heart and in my prayers. Love, Shelley (aka Miss Kay)

Mike Smith

January 12, 2014

So sorry to hear the news on Ben. It's been years since we've spoken, but his words of wisdom and guidance has had a Profound Impact on my life. And for that I am forever Grateful to have gotten to know Ben

Wish you were here

Harry McMenemy

January 12, 2014

I've lost many friends in pasted years, but the lost of Ben Oller has been very difficult to handle!

Terry Vanzant

January 12, 2014

I didn't see my friend and high school pal much for the last fifty years but I knew him most all of my life and am saddened to hear of his passing. My condolences to hid family...God speed Ben.

Richard Nash

January 12, 2014

Ben was a gentleman in every sense of the word. I is an honor to having known Ben. Helped me in a very personal way. He was that kind of a person.

Kathryn Hansen

January 11, 2014

Lisa & Marty~ So sorry to hear of your dads passing. Please know we are thinking of you during this time. Both your parents have always had a special place in my heart. Love, Kathryn (Klein)Hansen

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Ree Smith

January 11, 2014

Marty,Lisa and family, I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad, my prayers go out to all of you. I have many great memories of your Dad and Mom and you kids growing up, they both will be greatly missed, Love Ree Ree

Richard Jury

January 11, 2014

Ben's and I grew up together and our family's were life time friends. He will be missed by all God Bless and RIP my friend
Dick Jury

Christmas 2013

lisa coelho

January 11, 2014

I love and miss my dad. my mom also. we had a great family. perfect blend of getting on each others nerves and fun. we always have fun xoxo

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