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JOHN PASHAYAN Obituary

John passed away at home on Sunday, March 6, 2011, at the age of 93. He was surrounded by his loving family. John was born on July 10, 1917, in Fresno Ca. to Sahag and Alice Pashayan. John was the second youngest of his seven brothers and sisters. Life for the family was difficult and challenging. John at the age of five and older brother Jake, would sell newspapers until 10:00 o'clock at night, to earn money for the family. John's spot was in front of Old Bank of Italy. After selling the papers he and Jake would go to Coney Island and buy a hotdog for five cents and split it and Jake would always make sure his little brother would get the bigger share. John would never forget this memory. John was raised with such a strong work ethic that in later life, it would make him the successful business man he became. John graduated from Fresno Tech and went to work at Ace Service working for his family. In 1940 John met Queen, the love of his life at a picnic in Kingsburg. Through intermediaries he went to Queen's house in Bowles, where he presented himself to Queen's family for approval. Seventy years of marriage later, it took his passing to separate them. However, World War II did separate them for awhile. Two years and four months would pass before they would lay eyes upon each other again. John was discharged from the U.S. Navy on October 14, 1945. The next sixty-six years they would be inseparable. John had joined the U.S. Navy after learning his brother Jake had joined. John was then sent to Texas to become a Radio Man after four months of intensive training, he earned the rank of Petty Officer Third Class. He then shipped out of San Diego and sailed to Pearl Harbor for deployment in the Pacific. John was on the ship USS AP 46. His ship shot down three enemy aircraft and were involved in many of the major battles in the Pacific. John would want this footnote added. In one of the battles, his ship was strafed and his best friend Goldie died in his arms on his 21 birthday, and that event never left him, whenever he reminisced about The War. He was very proud to have been a World War Two veteran. After returning from the War, his brother Charles offered he and Jake an opportunity to buy into the family business. While working he was approached by Mr. Cooper of Cooper's Department store to join the Kiwanis Club. Until then no other Armenian had joined. John was sponsored by Mr. Cooper and John became a member. When he had finished with the Kiwanis Club he became the Vice President, the President and then a regional Lieutenant Governor of California. Because of his successful efforts, he was asked to become the Kiwanis President of California but he declined this great honor because of the need to run the family business daily affairs. He was also the Boy's Scout Troop leader of # 25 and loved instructing the boys about the outdoors. He attained the position of Vice President of Ace Service and Trans-State Wholesale Dist. after years of hard work John retired from the businesses in 1980. At the time of his retirement the family business had twelve retail stores and over two hundred employees. John and Queen also traveled all over the world, but John's favorite place was his trip to Armenia. John is preceded in death by his brother's Charles, Sark, Jake, and Richard; and his sister, Zee Pashayan Garabedian. He is survived by Queen, his loving wife; his two sons and their wives Erica, and Rosie; four grandchildren, Mariam, Joscelyne, David Jr., and Johnny Jake; and four great-grandchildren. Visitation will be held at Wildrose Funeral Home, 916 E. Divisadero in Fresno on Thursday, March 10, 2011, from 6:00 to 9:00 p.m. A Funeral Service will be held at St. Paul Armenian Church on Dakota and First Street on Friday, March 11, 2011, at 1:00 p.m. Donations may be made to the Fresno Rescue Mission; or St. Paul Armenian Church.

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Published by Fresno Bee on Mar. 10, 2011.

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Charlotte Trabakoolas-Garber

April 7, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us remember the ones we love now and forever.

Mariam P.

April 4, 2011

My grandfather John, was a wonderful person, with such a big heart. He was full of love and happiness. He will be missed dearly. I thank God each day that he let me have a wonderful grandfather. Even though he is not here with all of us today, he will always remain in our hearts.
-Granddaughter

Ben Valles

March 10, 2011

It was John that guided me in Boy Scouts then working for Trans State for many years. Too all the family I send my dearest sympathy. I've lost all my budies from Trans State. Such a prfound loss.

Ben & Karen Valles
Monterey Ca

Don Pashayan

March 10, 2011

Uncle Johnny:

Spending this summer with you, Aunt Queenie, Timmy, David, Erika, Roza and the rest of the Pashayans was one of the most wonderful experiences of my life. I will never forget walking into your living room for the first time, seeing you stand up, look at me with your eyes, and welcome me--- it was like looking at my own father. I sit here right now in tears over your passing, but feel so so blessed for the Navy having sent me to Fresno for the summer and allowing me the gift of spending some absolutely wonderful time with you and your family. I now know why my father always referred to you, along with Uncle Deon, as his favorite uncle--- two wonderfully warm but pretty tough Armenian fireplugs. While I am so happy to have spent time with you all, I am so saddened by your loss. It has been wonderful getting to know your side of my family only only wish that we had lived closer to one another over the years. We will miss you, miss your family and will never forget you. God bless.

Love, the Pashayans
Don, Mollie, Jenna, Julie and Hailey

TERRY ALUISI

March 9, 2011

MY DEAR LIFELONG FRIEND TIM AND FAMILY. WE HAVE SHARED THE SAME BIRTHDAY OUR WHOE LIFE. WE HAVE ALSO SHARED A DEEP LOVE FOR OUR FAMILY. NOW..I AM SO SAD TO KNOW THAT WE SHARE THE PAIN OF LOSING OUR WONDERFUL FATHERS. I WISH THAT I COULD SAY SOMETHING THAT WOULD HELP EASE THE PAIN THAT YOU ARE FEELING...BUT , I KNOW THAT IT IS NOT POSSIBLE. PLEASE KNOW THAT I KNOW WHAT A WONDERFUL MAN YOUR FATHER 'IS' AND ALWAYS WILL BE. YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER WERE ALWAYS SO VERY GOOD TO ME AND MADE ME FEEL WELCOME WHENEVER I WAS IN YOUR HOME. PLEASE KNOW THAT ALL MY LOVE AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND DAVID AND YOUR LOVELY MOTHER. I AM PROUD TO CALL YOU MY FRIEND. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND BE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME OF NEED. YOUR FRIEND....TERRY ALUISI

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