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Rosemary Neff

1948 - 2021

Rosemary Neff obituary, 1948-2021, Fresno, CA

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1948

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2021

Rosemary Neff Obituary

Rosemary Neff
May 31, 1948 - March 6, 2021
Fresno, California - Rosemary Hakes Neff passed away on March 6, 2021, following a 7-year battle with Alzheimer's. Born in Newfoundland, Canada, to Monica & Henry Hakes, she was the oldest of 6 children and grew up traveling across the United States and Canada while her father served in the United States Air Force.
Rosemary married Randy Neff on July 24, 1969. They welcomed their daughter, Amy, in 1976 and their son, Bryan, in 1980. Rosemary worked in real estate for nearly 40 years and retired as a Senior Escrow Officer in 2008. Those who worked with her described her as the utmost professional with strong ethics and eagle-eyed attention to detail.
Rosemary's greatest joy was welcoming her four grandsons, William, Treven, Andrew, and Dylan, between 2008 and 2011. They were truly the apples of her eye. She adored being a grandmother and her boys miss her deeply.
Rosemary is survived by her husband of 51 years, Randy, her daughter and son-in-law, Amy and Alex Balmanno, her son and daughter-in-law, Bryan and Stephanie Neff, and her grandsons, William and Andrew Balmanno, and Treven and Dylan Neff. She is also survived by her two younger sisters, Coleen Van Guilder and Trudy Brown, two younger brothers, Steve and John Hakes, her brother- and sister-in-law, Jerry and Karen Neff, and numerous nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, Monica and Henry Hakes, and her in-laws, Kenneth and Mildred Neff. She was there to greet her younger brother, Jim, who passed away on May 12, 2021.
Rosemary will be interred at the San Joaquin Valley National Cemetery and a celebration of her life will be scheduled at a later date. Remembrances can be made in her name to the Alzheimer's Association or to the organization of donor's choice.

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Published by Fresno Bee on May 30, 2021.

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Diane Moody

May 24, 2025

I know how lonely it is to lose your mate. I lost Hollis 1 1/2 years ago. We moved to Visalia 3 years ago. It is so strange not to know my way around in my hometown. Call me if you would like to talk 1-559-824-6436. We can talk about the good old days at Ma Bell.

Judy and Celso Bucay

July 30, 2021

Randy we are truly sorry for your loss.... please accept our prayers and deepest sympathy... you have our number..please if you can call us.. God bless you my dear friend...judy and celso

Bob Hillison

June 28, 2021

I remember Rosemary fondly. She was professional and a pleasure to work with.

Trish Winegar

June 4, 2021

Rosemary was such a loving, sweet friend, Co-worker, and neighbor. We had such fun times grilling out and hanging in the pool on hot summer days. (sipping our wine) I remember our trips for the various Conventions we went to for California Escrow Association and such fun times. She is truly missed.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief during this time. Wishing quiet times and peace for Randy, Amy, Brian and your entire family.

Hollis & Diane Moody

May 30, 2021

Randy & family: We are so very sorry to read of Rosemary's passing.

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