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Bessie Proctor Obituary

PROCTOR, BESSIE R.

Bessie Rubin Proctor died on November 23 at the age of 93. She was born in 1917 in Cordele, GA and, as a young child moved to Atlanta, where she grew up. Bessie graduated high school in Atlanta before attending business college and then worked as a bookkeeper. In 1948, she married Samuel Proctor, who became a renowned professor at the University of Florida. She lived in Gainesville Florida for 58 years where she was very involved in both the Jewish and the University communities. Bessie was an active member of the sisterhood at B'nai Israel Synagogue and Hadassah and she served as the financial advisor for the AEPhi Sorority at the University of Florida up until six years ago. She and her husband mentored many students over the years and welcomed them into their home. Over time Sam and Bessie became well recognized for their activities and contributions to the University of Florida and Gainesville community. They did a lot of traveling all over the world and made many wonderful friends.

After the death of her husband five years ago, following a marriage of 58 years, Bessie moved back to Atlanta to spend her remaining years with her family. Bessie leaves behind a son, Mark Proctor of Pensacola , Florida, a son and daughter-in-law, Alan and Susan Proctor of Atlanta, two granddaughters, Rebecca and Madison Proctor , two sisters-in-law, Bertha Rubin and Evelyn Rubin and many loving nieces and nephews and friends. Sign online guest book at www.edressler.com.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the University of Florida Foundation, Inc. for the Samuel and Bessie R. Proctor Fund for Jewish Studies. PO Box 14425, Gainesville, Florida 32604. A graveside service will be held Friday, November 26, 2010 at 10 am at Arlington Memorial Park with Rabbi Joshua Heller officiating.

Arrangements by Dressler's Jewish Funeral Care, Atlanta (770) 451-4999 .

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Published by Gainesville Sun from Nov. 24 to Nov. 25, 2010.

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William Feinberg

November 27, 2010

Dear Mark & Alan,
My sincere condolences on the loss of your Mom,Bessie
Bessie and Sam were a big part of my life growing up in Gainesville at B'nai Israel.
There was no better conversation in Gainesville than with your Mom & Dad and your mom was just a great person to be around ,Bessie and Naomi were quite a tag team back in the day .
The oneg shabbats at the end of friday night services in the original Bnai were legendary and the recipies in the cookbook were the best :)
Bessie always knew what I was up to ,and she was alwyas hip to my scams,to grab as many 7 layer cookies as i could get in my mouth at 1 time, and as part of the original Gainesville B'nai Israel crew, Bessie will truly be missed
It is the end of a great era and I wish both of your famalies the best in your time of Sorrow.
Bessie ,lived a great life and it was a joy to always see her smiling face. I always enjoyed being around both of your parents ,they were great people,and will be truly missed.
My Sincere Condolences on your loss
Bill Feinberg

Stu Blumberg

November 24, 2010

To Mark and Alan, your Mom and Dad impacted all our lives. They were are parents away from home and our mentors. Marlene and I cherish each moment spent as part of the "Proctor family". Florida TEPS have lost their true "housemother".

Marlene/Stu Blumberg and the hundreds of TEPS whose lives were enriched.

harry shorstein

November 24, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Proctor family. I was born only a hundred yards from Sam and his family. Sam and Bess were always a part of the Shorsteins. Both meant so much to Ann and me throughout our years in Gainesville and after.

Ann and Harry Shorstein

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