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Jane Hastings Obituary
Jane was born on Oct. 22, 1929, in Winston Salem, N.C., to the late Walter Vaughn and Essie Wheeler Vaughn.
After she graduated from R.J. Reynolds High School and the Medical College of Virginia, she served many years helping others as a registered nurse, social worker, substance abuse counselor and psychiatric nurse. After retiring, Jane's desire to help others led her to volunteer at the Piedmont Triad International Airport for many years.
After retiring for a second time, Jane spent her time working word puzzles, was an avid reader and enjoyed keeping up with her many friends and family. Jane took great joy in giving back through charity and regularly supported organizations that help children and protect animals.
Survivors include her son, Vaughn Hastings and his wife, Kathryn; cousin, Jackie Wheeler (and her daughters); her 'family' at Wakefield Manor; many friends far and wide, as well as her beloved cat, Finnigan Aloysius.
A celebration of Jane's life will be held on Jan. 9, 2016, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at Mitchell Funeral Home, 7209 Glenwood Avenue, Raleigh N.C. 27612.
The family would like to express their heartfelt appreciation to the staff at Wakefield Internal Medicine and Rex Hospital for the care and compassion that Jane received.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Jane's name to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or to the charity of one's choice.
Online condolences can be left at www.dignitymemorial.com.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Jane Hastings
William Nale
February 9, 2016
Such fond memories of Mrs.Jane from my childhood. Super nice lady always enjoyed going to her house after school! Glad I got to see her a couple of years ago, still the same sweet lady. I know she will be greatly missed, you can tell from the pictures she was loved by all and will never be forgotten. Thinking of you all during this time... William Nale & Family
Jef
January 21, 2016
Vaughn & Kathryn,
I'm sorry I couldn't make it down for the service with the start of the semester looming. I love all of these photos in the gallery! She was so lovely, and always had such a great, authentic smile. I think I love her even a little more now that I know that her favorite beagle was named Duke. (That must hurt!)
I am so sorry for your loss. Personally, I will miss her smile and the great conversations we had. I think some people may have thought it a bit odd that I would chat so long on-line or on the phone with Miss Jane, but I really enjoyed her wit and sense of humor. She was smart as a tack and really so funny! And she could talk on the phone as long as I could (or was too kind to hang up on me), which made for some long chats. I remember cracking up completely the first time she called me "Dr Wow"; it came with a sharp twinkle in her eye when she said it. She often surprised me with how contemporary her thinking was, but I suppose that helps explain your even-keeled nature as well. I hate that I didn't see her on my last trip to NC, but I'm glad we had a nice long chat on the phone afterward. That conversation was one of those easy-flowing talks that we always had. It was like we had just seen each other the day before. She was one of those people you could talk to and pick right up where you left off, even if you did move to the Great White North and hadn't been around in forever. She was just so warm and easy-going. I see that in you every day.
I'm so sorry that you lost dear Jane, Vaughn, but I'm so happy that you had her -- as special as she was -- in your life for so long. You were lucky, and blessed... and so was she.
Much love,
January 14, 2016
Vaughn, The video and pictures showed yor Mom's wonderful smile and sense of humor! Thanks for the memories. Your Mom was so very proud of you. We loved the wedding pictures and hope to meet Kathryn one day. Your memories of Jane will be with you forever. God bless you...Ed and Phyllis Barker, Galax, VA
Rita Bolen
January 14, 2016
Beautiful!! Of all the things that Big Jane had to be proud of, YOU, Vaughn, were her most cherished. The love and pride she felt for you shows in every photo. You were both so blessed to have one another for so long.
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Brian Aman
January 13, 2016
Pictures looked great. Jane was very loved. The pictures of Vaughn and Kathryn's wedding with the family looked great. Glad the celebration was good. Hate Lisa ( Childs ) Aman and I couldn't be part of the celebration.
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January 13, 2016
Vaughn, the pictures are wonderful....Jane's smile, laughter, and facial expressions never changed. What a great sense of humor she had....through good times and bad. Thanks for the memories I had as I looked through your pictures...Look at the love in her eyes. You had a wonderful Mother, and she had a wonderful son. My heart goes out to you....Mariah Nunn, your Galax neighbor!
Sherry Shrewsbury
January 13, 2016
Vaughn these are beautiful pictures. Sounds like she was a wonderful lady. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you.
Kelly Kautz
January 13, 2016
I hope the memories you have of Jane bring you comfort and peace at this time. Although I never knew your mother, Vaughn, from what you have shared she sounds like she was a great woman. My condolences to you and Kathryn.
Rod
January 10, 2016
May you experience the grace and strength of GOD during this time of grief.
Wendy Velotti
January 9, 2016
May hope, love and memories be your strength now and forever.
Jef Lamoureux
January 9, 2016
Thinking of you and Kathryn today. Thoughts and prayers to you both. I will miss my chats with Miss Jane.
Anne & Bill Fowler
January 8, 2016
Vaughan and Katherine. We are so sad about Jane.
We so enjoyed her visit with us! Good Memories
will help with dealing with her loss. Love to
both.
Susan & Mark Decker
January 5, 2016
Vaughn and Kathryn going forward the end of each year and the beginning of the new year will likely have a new and different perspective. However, knowing how joyful Big Jane was, I hope when you reflect you will always remember the love and happiness she brought to you two and many others! When we are loved by the very special ones, we are truly lucky beyond words!
Barbara Moon
December 29, 2015
Sorry for your loss Vaughn,she was a very special lady and my book loving friend! I will truly miss her spirit..
Lyndi Lange
December 27, 2015
What a fantastic and inspirational women. I was a better person for having known her. I know she will be greatly missed by everyone close to her. Vaughn and Kathryn, Thinking of you guys.
Caroline Hurst
December 26, 2015
So very sorry for your loss! Keep the memories close at heart! Prayers for all!
Keith Barker
December 25, 2015
Vaughn, So sorry for your loss. Your mom was a great lady and memorable. I know she was blessed to have you and Kathryn and I am sure she was comforted you were there during her illness. You are both in our prayers during this time. Let us know if you need anything.
John Rios
December 25, 2015
Big Jane was a rock for all. I will miss you dearly. What an awesome lady.
Brian Aman
December 25, 2015
Sorry for your loss Vaughn. Mother's are very special. Just know you and Katherine are in lisa and my prayers.
Joseph Sizemore
December 25, 2015
When I think of Jane I think of the movie "Stand by me" and what Gordie said at the death of Chris....."although I have not seen him for years....I know I will miss him" I will miss you Jane. The earth will be a far less place without you on it....
Roger Absher
December 25, 2015
Vaughan
Am so sorry to hear about the death of your Mom. I know what it's like to lose your mother. You and Kathrine will be on my thoughts and prayers.
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