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Jacob Lutz Obituary
He was a native of Mecklenburg County and the son of Phillip D. and Laura Helms Lutz.
FUNERAL: 2 p.m. Tuesday, Aug. 5, 2008, Christ's Evangelical Lutheran Church
BURIAL: Hillcrest Gardens, Mount Holly
VISITATION: Noon - 1:30 p.m. Tuesday at the church
Jacob was a rising senior at East Gaston High School where he was member of the School Concert Choir. He was a lover of nature and sports, fishing , hunting, and the mountains. He also worked for his grandfather at Buck Helms Builders, LLC, Stanley. He loved to ride horses and was returning from riding, walking along the road when he was struck by a drunk driver who had run off the road. He was a member of Christ's Evangelical Lutheran Church, Stanley.
SURVIVORS: In addition to his parents, sister, Emily Lutz; brother Matthew Lutz and nephew, Austin Lutz, all of the home; grandfather and grandmother, Buck and Ann Helms, Stanley; and grandfather Odell Lutz and wife Clara, Cleveland, Ga.
PRECEDED IN DEATH BY: Grandmother, Ellen Lutz and sister Caitlin Lutz
OFFICIATING CLERGY: Revs. Jack and Linda McHenry and Rev. Steven Lorimer
MEMORIALS: Mothers against Drunk Drivers(MADD), 5104 Western Blvd, Suite B, Raleigh, NC 27606
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Memories and Condolences
for Jacob Lutz
Jordan Sigmon
April 27, 2010
Jacob you're on my mind all the time. I miss you so much. I cant wait to see you again best friend.<3 Rest easy Jake. I love you always.
Stephanie Gaddis
February 24, 2010
Hey Jacob. I love and miss you. I think about you all the time. Wishing that I could see your face again! You always knew how to make me smile :)
Love, Stephanie
Lyndsay Carr
October 26, 2009
i miss you so much jacob :/
November 11, 2008
just to let you know Jacob is still greatly missed and will always be remembered stay strong were still praying for you!!
much love <3
Cody Rossman
September 26, 2008
jake I MISS YOU SO MUCH I wish i could see your smiling face again I love you man I hope we can meet again at the gates of heven
Hannah Black
September 16, 2008
Jacob Michael Lutz,
As I read all of these entries I smile, cry, hurt, and also find peace. I know there were times when you felt as if you were not loved, but boy were you wrong. There are hundreds of people that think of you everyday and send you letters, comments, etc.
You were such an amazing person! You had an amazing sense of humor, a beautiful, kind heart, the most gorgeous smile, the brightest blue eyes, the BEST ADVICE, and the most loving personality. You were not just my cousin, you were my brother and my best friend. Not one minute passes that you're not in my heart or on my mind. I love you so much Jacob Michael Lutz and miss you dearly. We ALL DO! I'm not sure how I'm going to make it through these years, but I know that I'm going to have to take it one day at a time and keep on smiling. I would never want you to look down from Heaven without seeing me with a smile on my face or being the person you knew me to be. Keep waiting for me, I know you'll be there to greet me with open arms. Then, I'm gonna come sit on your lap and give you the biggest kiss on the cheek like I always did. (: (: I love you always and forever! <3
PS. Aunt Laura, Uncle Phil, Matthew, Emily, Austin, and the rest of our family: There is nothing I can say or do to make the hurt or pain go away, but if anyone ever needs a shoulder to cry on or ears to listen I am here. I love you all SO VERY MUCH, and can't explain the impact y'all have had on my life. I pray for all of us everyday and I hope that y'all know I'm here. Whenever, wherever I'll be there!
Love Always,
Hannah
Pamela Deason
September 14, 2008
It was with a great sense of loss when we I heard of Jacob's death.
We wanted to let you know that you have our greatest sympathy, and our hearts are truly saddened.
Jacob was more than just a wonderful person; he was always so kind and considerate to us that we always welcomed seeing him at every opportunity.
And, we know that his passing will not only leave a void in our lives, but in the hearts of all those who knew him.
Jacob will always remain within our hearts, and we have included Emily and you in our daily prayers. May God give you strength.
If there is anything that we can do to help you in anyway, please do not hesitate to call us at anytime.
Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you.
With our deepest sympathy,
The Deason Family
Davana Moore
September 1, 2008
I am so sorry for your lose and I pray God wraps his arms around you and holds you and gives you comfort and wipes away the tears...my very deepest sympathy from my heart.
I lost my son and daughter to a drunk driver they were hit head on.Words cannot express the pain and hurt that I know you feel.This will never get easier but one day at a time it will become bearable as the Lord guides you days....again... My deepest sympathy..
Davana Moore
September 1, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Cody Rossman
August 25, 2008
Jacob i dont even know where to start. The moment i met you. you where awsome i was so happy that you where my cousin. You where not just my cousin you where my friend. I just wanted to tell the family how proud i was to get to met you guys. you will always be in my heart. Rest In peace Jacob and keep us all safe
Bonnie
August 13, 2008
I grieve for your horrible loss. I pray that God will comfort you and aid you, as you face this difficult time.
JANELL
August 12, 2008
alright so it took me awhile to write this bc its so hard to really come to it that he is really gone... BUT I know as well as u do that he is always and 4ever in ourhearts!! he is now with GOD watching over us and thats what helps ME EVERY day to know that GOD needed jacob for something great beacuse in order for god to take someone so special he obviously needed him for great things!! im so happy to have been able to talk to him and get to know him im so grateful that i atleast had that time with him!! i love you all and i hope that ur all doing alright i LOVE you JACOB!!!
chrissy brooks
August 11, 2008
i was a friend of his and will miss him very much!!
Debbie HARE
August 10, 2008
my heart goes out to you, you may not remember me i graduated with Phillip and was friends with Kathy, Laura's sister in school.my name is Debbie Hare (Lee) was my maiden name.I had a 15yr.old neice that got killed 5yrs.ago by a drunk driver,she was like a daughter to me so my heart goes out to you and your family.we just dont understand why things like this happen to good people especially so young.just want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers
celena self
August 9, 2008
my thoughts and prayers are with you. just look to god for the strength he will help you get through this. if theres anything i can do please let me know. matt im hear for you if you need anything.
Zara Khan
August 9, 2008
Jake every day i am thinking of you and your family. All the good laughs we had will never be forgotten. You were always in a good mood and brought my mood up again. I will never ever forget you and all the things you ever said to me. I miss you so much Jake but now youre safe in heaven probably muddin which you loved to do. My prayers are with you Laura and family. I will always be here for all of you. I love you all so much deeply. xxx
Dakota m
August 9, 2008
Im so sorry about what happened. words cant express how i feel about all of this i know i havent talked to yall as much in the past year but i remmeber being over their almost everyday since i was a kid and God bless u and i love all of u and im praying for u
michelle hill
August 7, 2008
sorry for your lost just rember he is your guardin angel now you all in mt thought and prayers may god bless you all
Sarah Duncan
August 7, 2008
Dear Lutz Family,
You have my deepest sorrow for your loose.Jacob was a wonderful person with the biggest heart.I am so sad that he is gone and he will be missed dearly by so many people.I wish your family the best and you are all in my prayers.
Misty Jones
August 7, 2008
there will be no more sadness, no sorrow, no more troubles we see.
he's at peace..RIP.
we will forever love and miss you!
misty jones
Scott Harris
August 7, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Tabitha Harvey
August 6, 2008
I, personally, do not know any of you but my mother is Beth Nance from Love Valley and when I was told of this tragedy just today, it so touched me to offer some prayers and support your way. May God be with you during this most difficult time and bless you each and every day with fond memories of your son, your brother, your grandson, and your friend!!!
Shirley Neal/Smith
August 6, 2008
Laura, Phillip, Emily & Matt also Austin:
For so many years you all have been a part of my family and I watched all the children grow up. All I can say is that I love all of you and think of you often (every day). My prayers are with you during this time.
Alan Stewart
August 6, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies at the tragic death of Jacob. Although I never knew Jacob, I was in school with his mother and his aunts. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Victoria Price
August 6, 2008
Im sorry for suh a tragic loss to your family. No words can express a death in a family but one thing we can say that we will rejoice with Jacob on the other side.
Beth & Charlie Nance
August 5, 2008
Dear Lutz Family
Please know that we are so heartsick over the tragedy of your son's death. Please know that our
thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
Kensie Hilton
August 5, 2008
Jacob was one of the funniest people I knew. His great sense of humor and his funny laugh will be missed greatly by everyone. The lives of the ones who knew him personally will never be the same. Rest In Peace Jacob--save me a spot in heaven! We all love and miss you dearly!
Jeff Lay
August 5, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
CRYSTAL ROBINSON
August 5, 2008
PHILLIP AND MATT THERE IS NOTHING THAT I CAN SAY OR DO TO BRING JACOB BACK BUT WHAT I DO WANT TO SAY IS HE IS NOW AN ANGEL IN HEAVEN WATCHING OVER YOU ALL. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME OF SORROW. LOVE
Summer Wortman
August 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are w/ you guys. May God give you all the strengh to get through this tough time. You never know what hand life is going to deal you, may you cherish all of the great memories you guys shared.
Kim, Keith and Kelli Costner
August 5, 2008
To such a precious family, you have all been a part of my family for as long as I can remember, Jacob was precious to me and he always had a good attitude and great personality and my heart goes out to you, may God bless you and keep you all in this time of grief and sorrow. Jacob will be missed so terribly but will always live in our hearts.
Dean and Vivian Chapman
August 5, 2008
To all the Lutz Family: We are so sorry for your loss and are praying for your family. We didn't know Jacob, but we know Buck somewhat through the building industry. We can't imagine losing a grandchild and our hearts are with you. My sister had just told me last night of one of her co-worker's son's life being taken by a hit and run driver. Her name is Malinda Mitaritonio. Then today I see that it is Mr. Helms grandson. May God help you through this time of heartbreak.
Floyd & Rita Farmer
August 5, 2008
Our prayers and thought go with you. God Bless You!
Floyd & Rita Farmer
Melissa Emory
August 5, 2008
I went to school with your son Matthew and I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my fiance last year the same way as you lost Jacob. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
David Berry
August 5, 2008
To the Lutz family. I am sorry to hear about the lose of Jacob, our prayers are with you.
August 5, 2008
I love you all very much, and Jacob will always have a special place in my heart. I watched him grow up and become a wonderful and thoughtful young man. I know that Jacob had recently become more involved in church and I am reminded of the bible verse: "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son that whoever believes in him should not perish but have ever lasting life." John 3:16. Although Jacob loved his life and family on earth, I am sure he is looking down on you and wondering why you weep for him. Jacob has his mansion in heaven and will never be hurt by man again. God loves Jacob and always has and I believe that is why he sent him to your family. He knew when Jacob was born, who his family would be. God knew that you needed Jacob as much as he needed you. Jacob loved his family and he knew that he was loved.
Jeannine Covington
August 5, 2008
Phillip, Matt and Family,
I am very sorry for you loss, my prays and heart are with you and your entire family at this time. May God strengthen you in your time of sorry.
Kim Stolar
August 4, 2008
Jacob: When Cody first told me you were coming up, I could see his face light up knowing he was going to be able to meet you. He talked about it for weeks, and when you came up he was so happy! I remember sitting in their driveway talking about how you wanted to join a fire department, and you asked for advice from me. You would have made a great addition to any department. From what I know about you, and observed myself, you were a very kind and caring person. I was so excited when I heard you all were trying to come and see us in topsail, and it hurts knowing that you won't be able too now. I'll miss our messaging on myspace, you were an amazing guy! And to the family: words cannot express how badly I feel that this had to happen. Just please take some comfort in knowing that he is now watching over you all each and every day. 17 years will never seem like a long enough time, but the memories made in those years are enough to last a lifetime. You raised a great son!!!
Rest in peace Jacob, we all miss you!
Victoria Kiser
August 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Your family is such an important part of our lives, and we hurt so badly for you. I wish for nothing less than to take your pain away, but I know that words and wishes simply cannot the fill the emptiness and loneliness you feel within your heart!
We love you all so very, very much, and if there is absolutely anything that we can do, please, please do not hesitate to ask!
The Kiser Family
Marshall & Barbara Clary
August 4, 2008
Michael's grandfather, Buck Helms, built our retirement home over 12 years ago and we have such great respect for him and his wife, Ann. We are so sorry for your loss of his life , but know he will forever be in you hearts. We wish we could have known him.
Our prayers are with your family and his friends who also will miss him.
Marshall & Barbara Clary
Lincolnton, NC
Greg Price
August 4, 2008
I am very sad to hear of Jacob's passing. I was a substitute teacher at East Gaston and jacob was in my class. Just from the time I got to know him I would say he was a fine young man, and I know he will be missed. May God let your sorry pass quickly, and your memories be all good. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie Lewis
August 4, 2008
May God be with you in your loss of a great young man. Who was well loved and very sweet he will be loved and missed very much. You are in my prayers.
Nathan & Terri Lovelace
August 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss. May God be with you and grant you the strenght you need.
Susan and Mitch Elliott
August 4, 2008
Phillip and Laura,
We are so saddened to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Lynn Nichols
August 4, 2008
Laura & Phil: You know how deeply we love you and your family, and you know that we will do anything within our power to help you through this horrible, senseless tragedy. Jacob was a very young man boy who brought joy to all who had the privilege to know him. His light will shine on in our hearts and in the memories that we hold. May God give you the strength you need to get through this. We love you -- Mike, Lynn, Heather & Nic.
Gail Warlick
August 4, 2008
God gave you a very special gift, a borrowed angel, for 17 years. He entrusted a beautiful baby boy to you and you helped him grow into a fun-loving and caring young man who truly loved his family. Your job is finished and God has brought his borrowed angel back home. Take pride in the young man that you helped mold.
Kimberly Guy
August 4, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. I have teenage sons and I couldn't imagine your devastation. I have known Jacob since he was a baby and have watched him grow into a great young man. That is due to the great family he has been a part of. Please know that I will be there if you need me.
WELLS LOGAN
August 4, 2008
I am sorry for your loss, he was a good person and a great friend.
Christa Schronce
August 4, 2008
My heart is broken for all of you. You are family to us and we will miss him greatly. You will be in our prayers daily. Love You! Len, Christa, Caleb and Mackenzie
Robin Largent
August 4, 2008
to all the family , i am truly sorry for your loss. jacob was such a great friend, he always put a smile on my face. i miss him so much, but i know he is in a better place now. i will keep you all in my prayers.
Lauren & Megan Kapitany
August 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Roger and Denise Hawkins
August 4, 2008
You are in our prayers. We are so sorry for your loss, but so thankful that we had the opportunity to know your wonderful son. He was a great fella and will be missed by so many. Lean on your loving family and friends. God is here...always. We love you.
Jami Crossgrove
August 4, 2008
I've only known Jacob since the first year we started high school at East Gaston. He was always a funny and caring person. When I was around him, he never failed to make me laugh. I will miss him dearly and my prayers go out to his family and close friends.
Lisa (Daniels) McGinnis
August 4, 2008
To All the Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss. Please find comfort in the memories you share. Jacob was a wonderful person and loved by everyone. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers in the days to come. Love Always, Lisa
Sherry Martin
August 4, 2008
Our prayers go out to the entire family. We cannot imagine your pain. Jacob was always such a delight to have when I would sub his class. The world was truly blessed to have had someone with such a loving personality. May the Lord pick you up and carry you through this most difficult time. Love in Christ, Sherry Steve Kristen, RickyDean, Jeff and Ashley Martin
August 4, 2008
I met Jacob thru Morgan Simril. My prayers will be with you. Jacob seemed to be a very nice young man the couple of times I met him. I am truly sorry for you loss. Seek God and let Him calm the storms. Only He can give you peace.
Your friend in Christ
Diane Beason
Mt Holly NC
tamica nelson
August 4, 2008
I don't know him personally but my prayers are with this family but the Lord is too wise to make a mistake and know to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord! Family, bond together and pray and know that one day if all the souls are right we all shall meet again! You all are in my prayers!
Pam Anderson Herman
August 4, 2008
May God give strength to your family in the wake of this senseless and terrible tragedy. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Bobbie Carpenter
August 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know that God can and will carry you through the days that are ahead of you. Unfortunately I have also walked down this road twice. Nothing is more devistating to a parent than losing a child. Please let me know if I can be of any help to you and your family.
kate finkenstadt
August 4, 2008
Our love, prayers, and strength go out to you and your family...Especially our dear friends: Doug and Sue Hawkins. We will pray for you all. Love, The Finkenstadt Family in New Jersey
Geri Mullinix
August 4, 2008
My heartfelt condolences go out to Jacob's family & friends. May the memories of time spent together comfort you during this time. You are in my prayers.
Joseph & Jessica Hinson
August 4, 2008
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all so much and if you need anything please let us know.
Bruce and Bobbie Hixson
August 4, 2008
There are no words that can express the sympathy our family feels for your loss. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through the coming days.
Beth Mckay & Larry Bolton
August 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
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