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Judi & Howard Lewis & family
July 4, 2011
Richard & Tammy,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are w/you and your family. We met Nic severals ago at a ballgame w/you. Such a terrific young man. We are so sorry and I know words are sometimes hollow in this situation but please know we thank Nic and your family for our freedom!
June 28, 2011
Richard & Tammy,
You may not remember us,we moved away from NC several years ago, but we spend alot of time together while our boys were younger, between Pop Warner Football & Stanley Rec basketball. We have very fond memories of Nic as a young boy. Our son not only played ball with Nic, but Richard also coached our son, Josh. It was both our privledge and honor to have known Nic.
I can not express how deeply saddened we are for your loss.
The Dean Family,
Jerry,Kim,Josh & Lindsey
West Virginia
June 26, 2011
James Meadows
June 24, 2011
Thank you Nic for all that you did for us, and for your sacrifice we who know, are eternally grateful. Semper Fidelis
Marine.
Ann Velez
June 24, 2011
Thank you! All I can say is thank you. There are not words to describe the extent of unselfishness and heroism you must have had in your heart. Thank you!!
April Willis
June 24, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family!! Thank you Nic for giving me my freedom and my familys.
michelle wilson
June 24, 2011
Nic is a true hero! Thank you Mr. and Mrs. O'Brien for raising such a fine young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lynn Day
June 21, 2011
Dearest O'Brien Family...I remember his smile, I can still see him standing on 2nd base ready to move to 3rd, Senior night EGHS, they announced his name and where he would be headed after graduation, you could feel the pride in the stands of such an American Hero in front of us. Nic will always be in our thoughts, your son gave his life for all of us, what a true HERO...Nic we will always love you and carry you in our hearts. We only knew your son for a short while but what a priviledge to know Nic and how he felt about his country. Nic, a son, a brother, and friend... May GOD bless you O'Brien family and keep you close. Our hearts, our thoughts and our prayers are with you always...
Linda D.
June 21, 2011
Please sign Nic's page I did on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/pages/RIP-Lance-Cpl-Nic-OBrien/194569417261877?sk=wall
joan danaher
June 20, 2011
So very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. God bless.
Tammy Wright
June 20, 2011
I know there are no words to make this better, I can only offer my sincere condolences. I know the pain of burying a child and my heart has been broken for your family. While your precious Nic was a soldier, a hero...I know that before all that, he was your son. May God be with you in the time to come, may he flood your mind with memories when your heart is so heavy. God Bless You all.
Jocelyn Minter
June 20, 2011
I am thankful you raised a son to love his country. God will continue sustain you through the difficult times ahead. Like your son, I am proud to be an American.
Kathy Garmon
June 20, 2011
Although I do not personally know your family, I have been moved by his death and your loss. Your family is in my deepest prayers for strength and peace. Thank you and your son for his sacrifice to our country.
Joseph Gonzales
June 20, 2011
The Lord Jesus will hold your son and Marine Nic in his Loving Arms FOREVER. God Bless You ALL.
Dianne Banister
June 19, 2011
To the O'Brien Family and Haley Black, May GOD give you the comfort that only he can,Your Son gave his life for our Country , our Freedom, GOD BLESS AND THANK YOU NIC YOU ARE A TRUE HERO
Robin Patterson
June 19, 2011
Richard & Tammy,
It was great to be able to speak with you yesterday. Hopefully you'll remember the phone call as it will be too hard to remember all the faces for the next couple of weeks. Again, Rodney and Sweden also send their heartfelt thoughts to the both of you (and Haley) which we haven't seen for many years - our thoughts are with her as well. We graciously thank Nic for his service and sacrifice to our Country! How extremely proud you must be of your son! Tammy, Richard & Haley - Our Sincerest thoughts and prayers go out to you, now and always...
The Patterson's
Rodney, Robin & Sweden
Fort Mill, SC
sarah carroll
June 18, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss.I didnt know Nic but Im friends with Haley and I just wanted to say that the family and friends are in my prayers.Hes in better hands now and God has another angel. I love you Haley O'Brien.
June 17, 2011
I don't even know how to start to tell you how heart broken we are. I can't imagine having to face this kind of tragedy as a mother. As a part of the "ball family" that we have been privileged to be a part of, the loss of any of our boys is something we never thought we would have to face. Please know that you are in our hearts and our prayers each and everyday. I'm so thankful for the friendship that Nic showed and just as thankful for the friendships that we have because of Nic. His love for life showed in everything that he done. This world can take away a lot of things, but good friends and memories are ours forever.
Shelly, Patrick, Logan & Zeke
Zach Bumgarner
June 17, 2011
Nick was a true American Hero who committed the ultimate sacrifice for every American to live in peace. May God rest his soul and may he walk the streets of gold in the Kingdom of Heaven in peace for one day we will reunite with this fallen loved one again. My heart goes out to the O'Brien family and Hayley and the rest of the families affected. God Bless America!
Scott Family
June 16, 2011
Dear O'Brien family & friends: Our hearts are simply broken for you. We hold dear so many memories of the boys playing ball together over the years. We remember Nic's smile and cut-up character. Opponents often underestimated Nic because he wasn't the biggest on the team but when he hit the field they soon learned he had big talent and heart. We were blessed to know him. We will never forget him. We are profoundly grateful for Nic's service and scrifice. May the comfort and strength of God surround you today and always.
The Scott family, Mark, Lorinda,
Mark II, & Lane
Rene' Dzubay
June 15, 2011
Just found out .I am soso sorry.My son's in the army. May god comfort each of you in the sad time. I will be standing on the road showing my THANK YOU SOLIDER with my flag .GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY.
Sharon Stroupe (Meeks)
June 14, 2011
I have just learned of Nic's death, and I'm so very sorry. I remember Nic and Haley from school, and they both hold a very special place in my heart. May God comfort and help you. Sharon Stroupe (Sharon Meeks)
Gail Travis
June 14, 2011
Thank you Nic, and the O'Brien Family, for your sacrifices. May Nic rest peacefully. May his family be comforted by our appreciation, love and respect. May God's Gentle Arms hold each and everyone of you and ease your pain.
amanda travis
June 14, 2011
I just read about this, very sad! May God rest his soul, true defintion of an American Hero! May God Bless his family and many friends, please give them strength to cope w/ their loss. Thank you for serving Our Country and giving us Freedom! God Bless!
Chris Carver
June 13, 2011
Nic, you are a true American Hero. All of the good times that we had will never be forgotten. From Pop Warner football, to the basketball class at East Gaston. Its an honor to call you my friend.
Love you man,
June 13, 2011
Thank you to Nic and his family for their sacrifice. My husband is in the Army and I appreciate your son's service. Words cannot erase the pain you must be experiencing but know your son is a class act. May God bless you, give you peace, and wrap His arms around you during this time. Thank you again for the sacrifice your family has made to keep us all safe.
June 13, 2011
My sincere sympathy to the family members of Nik O'Brien. James Brennan,Major, USMCR(Ret)
June 13, 2011
To the O'Brien Family: I never knew your son, but I pray that you find comfort in the coming days in the memories you have of this fine young man. Rest easy, Lance Cpl. Nic O’Brien, knowing that your efforts are appreciated. May your strength, courage and bravery be remembered now and always. God bless you, soldier and thank you. Semper Fi.
~A proud American
Will Fraser
June 13, 2011
Thank you for your son's service on behalf of freedom in the world. Please accept my sincere condolences that he has been lost in this war. His character and service are an inspiration to all Americans.
Will Fraser Dallas Texas
Lauren Preston (Johns)
June 13, 2011
I went to school with Nic and Hayley. When i heard the news it really hit home since my husband is also in the marine corps. Nic was a great guy, and a great marine. I am grateful for his service to our country and taking the ultimate sacrifice. God bless the O'Brien family, and hayley black and hers. Semper fi.
Lynette Ingram
June 13, 2011
My heart and prayers go out to LCPL O'Brien's family. My borther, LCPL Cliff Golla died in Iraq Sept 1,2006. He was only 21 years old as well. My family and I know your pain. It is a pain that can not be explained and one that I still have after almost 5 years. Keep his memory alive and talk about him as much as possible. He is a hero and what he did not every man or women can do. He was an extremely brave young man.
O'Brian family, keep your heads high! Sempa Fi
June 13, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Your son is a hero to our country. My son Ryan Huneycutt graduated 2010 from South Point and played ball with Nic, he spoke of him often about what a fine young man he was. Our prayers go out to your entire family. Clyde, Kathy,& Ryan Huneycutt
Kelly Abernathy
June 13, 2011
Richard, Tammy & Haley, I was so sadened to hear about Nic. My thoughts and prayers are with you. He is a true "HERO" and will forever be missed.
Thank you Nic for fighting for my freedom.
Joe Franze
June 13, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this great time of sadness. God Bless!
Mike Martin
June 13, 2011
Our Son Mikie was friends with Nic at GCS. Mikie kept up with nic over the years and we have a few photos of nic, mikie, charles and zeb playing ball and hanging out. please email me at [email protected] if you guys want me to email you the photos. Nic will never be forgotten. I am so saddened by this, but remember we will see him again one day in heaven. May God comfort you in this tough time.
chrisq walker
June 13, 2011
Another Marine is Guarding Heavens Gates.
Semper Fi Brother.
Chris
Chase Carlyle
June 12, 2011
Richard, Tammy, Haley im praying for you guys. your son and brother was an amazing person, im proud and grateful that i got to know Nic through playing ball. Soon as the news got to me all the memories playing for richard and having nic as a teammate and a friend, i was lost for words and emotions. Richard and tammy you raised a great young man and i know you both are proud of his accomplishments but heart broken i cant imagine what you are going through. But i can say im proud to grow up around nic he was a great person and friend! R.I.P. Lance Cpl O'brien
Sheatina Sparks
June 12, 2011
Nic was my son, Corey's, best friend. His heart is broken and well as so many others. Nic was such a funny guy. I can't tell you how much he will be missed around here. Corey doesn't know how he will go on. Leaning on God is the only way. May the Lord bring peace to your family as only He can do.
daniel russell
June 12, 2011
Richard and tammy you are in my thoughts and prayers. Nic is a american hero and will always be loved
Sandie
June 12, 2011
May God comfort you in this most unimaginable time in your life. You should be so proud of Nic, as it seems everyone that has know him thought the world of him,
June 12, 2011
My heart and prayers go out to all of you....my son is in the Air Force and grandson is in the Army . I pray America understands the cost
to families as well as our precious soldiers. Please pray for all daily.
Martha Pasour Dallas NC
Gaynell Ottinger
June 12, 2011
Richard, Tammy and Haley, I can't tell you how sorry I am that you lost your son and brother. My heart has ached ever since I heard the news. I will never forget watching him on the ball field all those years. I have so much Respect for every Soldier, they are all my Hero's...but Nic is my Special Hero. I pray God will carry you through the next days, weeks, months and years. I pray for Peace you never felt before. God Bless all of you.
June 12, 2011
We are so sorry for your loss, but we understand what your son was there for.
Your family is in our prayers.
Tom & Cathy Ferguson
Det.750 of the Marine Corp League.
BILL & SYLVIA TURNER
June 12, 2011
WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.THERE'S NOT ENOUGH WORDS TO EXPRESS HOW DEEPLY SADDENED WE ARE. WE FELT A CONNECTION TO ALL THE BALLPLAYERS WE WATCHED THROUGH THE YEARS.THEY WERE ALL SPECIAL KIDS. ONE OF THE THINGS WE REMEMBER MOST ABOUT NIC WAS HIS GRIN. DURING THE GAME HE WORE THIS I MEAN BUSINESS FACE,BUT EVERY NOW AND THEN THAT GRIN WOULD PEEP OUT.NIC WAS NOT THE BIGGEST IN STATURE, BUT HE DIDN'T LET THAT STOP HIM. IT DIDN'T MATTER WHAT SIZE THE GUY ON BASE WAS, IF NIC DECIDED HE WAS GOING, HE WENT! IN THE OUTFIELD, THERE WAS NONE BETTER, IF HE HAD TO CUT A FLIP, TO CATCH THAT BALL, HE DID ! HE WAS A GREAT KID AND AN EVEN BETTER MAN. DOUBLE NICKLE ,YOU ARE MISSED.
Bruce Carter
June 12, 2011
On behalf of our entire Marine Corps League Detachment 750 in Charlotte, I would like to express our sincere condolences to the family and friends of Marine O'Brien. Our country is truly blessed to have men like Nic who are willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for all of us. We are sorry for this loss and know that the gates of heaven are now guarded by one more squared away Marine. Semper Fidelis brother.
Deanna Stroupe
June 12, 2011
Richard and Tammy: I doubt there's any words I can say to make you feel better but please know we are thinking of you, and we will miss Nic. I will always remember the great times we had throughout the years watching the boys play ball.
Jaden Reel
June 12, 2011
He was a good man. He is one of the greatest examples of a hero. He will always be remembered. He will always be in my memories. May he be at peace.
Robin Patterson
June 12, 2011
Hayley,
Rodney, Sweden and I are very sorry to hear about Nic. We haven't seen Nic in many years since moving from his neighborhood but have run into his Mom (Tammy) a couple of times and it was quite obvious how proud she was of Nic's decision to fight for our country. Our sincerest thoughts and prayers are with you and Nic's family.
Sincerely,
Robin, Rodney and Sweden Patterson
Crystal
June 12, 2011
I never knew your son but my fiance played soccer with him. I am a military member myself with one deployment to Iraq. My heart goes out to you and your family. He served his country as well as his fellow soldiers proud.. May he rest in peace
Shirlee Love
June 12, 2011
Words cannot express my sorrow. My son is a Marine headed to Afghanistan..and he, too, feels like it is what he was trained to do. I will never forget that freedom is never free.
Jeff
June 12, 2011
Although I never knew your son I would like to thank you for being the parents of someone who was proud enough to serve his country. I myself am a veteran and even though I have been there I still salute those who serve. Again thank you and God rest his soul.
Jimmy Wood
June 11, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go to the family. I went to school with nic. he was a very good boy and always had a smile on his face. he will be missed deeply.
kim fisher
June 11, 2011
I had the privelage of getting know Nic as a young boy at GCS (had him in after school care) . Nic ALWAYS had such an infectious smile and wonderful fun loving spirit! As a parent I cannot imagine your pain and feeling of loss, but I know you are EXTREMELY proud of the man he was. I pray for God's peace,as only He can comfort your precious family. What a special young man Nic was and an inspiration to so many! God bless you all.
Lynn Mayberry
June 11, 2011
We are so very sorry for the lost of your Son Nic. but also very proud of him, and so thanksful he served our counrty well, and with pride and no Fear! My son knew Nic and he was so sorry to hear of Nic's story but also very thankful and proud of him, Caleb said he was a well liked young man, hard for him to understand.. Our church and our family hold you in our prayers....
Lynn Matheney
June 11, 2011
While I didn't have the privilege of meeting your son, my heart aches for you.....praying that God Almighty will carry you during this time of loss and send you peace that passes all understanding.
Vanessa Bowens
June 11, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you remember such an exceptional young man.
Barry & Pat Braswell
June 11, 2011
Richard, Tammy, & Hayley, you are in our prayers. I know how proud you were of Nic. We will miss him.
christina ferrell
June 11, 2011
this is all so unbelievable. no words can heal the o'brien & black family. it kills me to see his friends and family and loved ones hurting. gaston county has something to be proud of. we have a hometown hero, who was a wonderful person with a wonderful soul. he was loved by so many, i didn't get the pleasure of knowing nic as well as others, but i have heard stories from doug about baseball, and for a short time towards the end of rec ball i was introduced to these guys who are incredible boys who've grown to be strong men. they have lost a brother. my heart and prayers go out to everyone who's heart nic has
touched. his memory will last forever and we all will see him again someday. god has a much bigger plan for nic. his soul was too good for the world. i pray that these next few weeks, months, and years peace fills everyone's heart. i personally thank you nic for serving this country for our freedom and rights. rest easy and in peace you'll see everyone again someday. only the good die young, right?
semper fi <3
Amy Blythe
June 11, 2011
Nic I'm glad that I had the chance to meet such a great man and soilder may you RIP. As for the O'Brien Family and to Hayley Black stay strong with the Lord He will help you through this journey Its going to be rough but your family and friends are all here for each and every last one of you. I'm glad I had the honor of meeting and seeing him at all our family gatherings.
Amy (Hayleys cousin)
JOHN O'BRIEN
June 11, 2011
Richard And Tammy I am so sorry to hear about NIC. He certainly died a hero.May God be with both of you in this time of need.My prayers are with you.Love John & Aileen O'Brien and Norma & John11
Eileen monahan
June 11, 2011
My son Luke Monahan a Marine died 10 days ago, I will add you to my everyday prayers!
Semper Fi
June 11, 2011
"Step forward now, you Marine,
You've borne your burdens well.
Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in Hell."
Judi Lewis
June 11, 2011
Richard, Tammy and entire family...please accept our sincere sympathy for the loss of your son Nic. I am at a loss for words to express how much this young man meant to my freedom. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers. And "thank you Nic for fighting for our FREEDOM! You are a brave young man!"
Kennette Holt
June 11, 2011
I salute your veteran. My condolences for your loss and gratitude for your loved one's service to our country.
John Aguirre
June 11, 2011
NIC you will always be remembered as a candid kid! always smiling and telling jokes, No matter how many laps Coach Johnson made us run, you were there cheering on the ones falling back with fatigue. May God be with you. You are my Hero.
June 11, 2011
I'm so sorry for your lost. Your son is a hero for what he did for us and our country. I know the pain you're going thru. I lost my brother in the Vietnam war when I was only 7 yrs. old, and he was from Stanley also. My prayers are with you all.
Heather McCormick
June 11, 2011
I don't know your family. I was born and raised in Belmont, NC. My husband, Captain Joseph McCormick, serves full-time as a C-130 pilot in the NC Air National Guard in Charlotte. I know the heart journey that takes place will watching someone you love do what they do best! I personally thank you for your service and support. My family and I are praying for your family and extended friends that have been greatly effected by your sons life and service for our country. Thank you again. May God touch so many lives through yours.
Heather White McCormick
Belmont, NC
Mary Gardner
June 11, 2011
Our prayers go our to you as the family of a hero. My son was @ Parris Island @ the same time your son & was in Kilo Co, 3rd Batt/ and graduated just a few weeks before Nicholas. Oh, how we also tried to talk him out of joining...but oh how very proud we are now of his service and dedication to his belief for freedom and for all of the US Marines and their dedication to protect our country and preserve our freedom. My heart and prayers are with the O'Brien family. Your son is a true American hero. God Bless and keep you in His care always.
June 11, 2011
A very sad change in the lives of those who loved Nic. He is an example of the kind of youth that we so admire and need to move our nation forward. Now his family, friends and our nation will be the ones to suffer from this tremendous loss.
With heartfelt sympathy.
Linda Lane
June 11, 2011
So very sorry for your loss. Your son was an amazing young man doing what he loved. My the lord be with your family.
~~ Stowe
June 10, 2011
May the Lord bring you much peace in knowing that your son made the ultimate sacrifice... He layed his life down for his country and stood fast... Semper Fidelis Nic... always faithful... ooh rah
Lela Parker
June 10, 2011
Our prayers go out to your family! May God Bless and keep you. Nic is with the other angels now and better off than we. God Bless him and keep him close.
Pat Stevens
June 10, 2011
May God wrap His loving arms around the
O'Brien family and know I appreciate all your son did for our country!!! I didn't know him personally but my heart goes out to his family!!!
donnie woodall
June 10, 2011
thank you nic for everything you have done for our country. your a true hero. If we only had more people like nic out there to serve our country. You will be missed by many bro. nic's family and hayleys family are in our prayers.
Renee Smith
June 10, 2011
Did not know Nic but you have our sincere sympathy. Thank you for your sons service to our country. He IS a real hero. God bless you
June 10, 2011
I didnt have the pleasure of knowing Nic, but went to school with his aunt Bonnie, and just found out that my son Travis Varner knew him well, may God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. We praise him for his courage to stand and fight for America and his fellow Marines. Our thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.
Pamela Deason
June 10, 2011
Richard Tammy & Haley I am so heart broken to hear of Nic's death in Afghanistan. It is a terrible shock to hear the news. You have my heartfelt sympathy.
I can't say enough good things about Nic. He was a wonderful person and had such a great sense of purpose and a strong patriotism that was an inspiration to us all. I remember the day Tug talked to him about going; he was very determined, which made us so sad and proud at the same time.
I will always have wonderful memories of him growing up. It seemed like we spent more time at a ball field with Trey and the other guys than we did at home, and we didn't mind in the least.
Your family has suffered the greatest tragedy and our community and country have suffered a tremendous loss as well. I know that you are proud of Nic and so are all of us. He will be sorely missed.
Stay strong and God Bless.
In Friendship & Grief,
Pam and Tug
Julie Gaddy
June 10, 2011
Just a word to say thank you to this young man for his ultimate sacrifice for his country. I lost a 15-year old daughter in a car accident in 2000, so I know the loss of a child and there is nothing that can fill that hole in your heart. Sending prayers of peace to all of Nick's family and friend. He is a soldier in God's military right now!
Allan Haney
June 10, 2011
SEMPER FI MARINE!
Justin Franklin
June 10, 2011
I cant believe hes gone but i will never forget every memory i had with him. I knew him from middle school to the day we graduated and after and we had alot of memories through high school. He sacrificed himself for everyone so that we can live the way we do each day and it will never be forgotten. Rest in peace brother ill see you again one day
Tim and Eva Brown
June 10, 2011
I am praying for God's peace and love to comfort your family during this time of solace. I appreciate all of our Military Men and Women and we will remember your family.
June 10, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Nick was indeed a good son
Mr. Harry G. Petrey, CLU
Stephanie Jordan Clanton
June 10, 2011
Tammy, Richard and Haley, our prayers and love are with you. We love you dearly. Know that I am here if you need me!
June 10, 2011
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son - May God's love and peace be with you now and in the days to come. Only His Grace can ease your pain right now. Your Son was brave to put his life on the line for those of us to live free. For that, I Thank you for his service to the United States of America. Prayers will be going up for your family.
Rose Huckle
June 10, 2011
I am so sorry for this loss freedom is not free thank you for sharing this one with us
scottie mincey
June 10, 2011
nic was a great guy. he was one hack of a baseball player. he will sadly be miss. he has served his country proud. the east gaston family will alaways love him and never forget hem.
June 10, 2011
Praying for the O`Brien family and his sweet girlfriend Hayley.
Brittany Hathcock
June 10, 2011
Nic, it is still so hard to believe you are gone! You will truely be missed and always be a hero. Rest in peace. We will continue to pray for you and your family.
June 10, 2011
God Bless You Nic.
Mr. Edward Craig
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