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Stephen Cato Obituary
Stephen Douglas Cato, age 61, passed away on Monday ~ May 11, 2020 peacefully at home. He was born on July 25, 1958 in Norfolk, Virgina. Stephen was a proud United States Navy Veteran. He also was a member of the Good Hope Hunting Club and very passionate about hunting, especially for deer and turkeys. After a successful hunt, he liked to have his game mounted. He also could be seen playing golf or bowling. While he had many hobbies, his biggest enjoyment in life was spending time with his family.
Those left behind to cherish Stephen's memories is his loving wife, Diana Varnadore and their son, Chris Cato. Also grieving, is his brother, Tony Cato, as well as his two sister-in-laws Martha and Jan Varnadore and one mother-in-law, Louise Cook.
Stephen is the son of the late Franklin Douglas Cato and Frances Marie Hall. He is also proceeded in death by his father-in-law, Raymond Varnadore, and sister-in-law, Debbie Wentz.
A visitation will be held Wednesday ~ May 13, 2020 at 6:00pm until 8:00pm at Carothers Funeral Home at Gaston Memorial Park. A graveside service will be held Thursday ~ May 14, 2020 at 1pm.
Expressions of love and fond memories may be made on Stephen Cato's guestbook at www.carothersfuneralhomegastonia.com
Stephen and his family are in the loving care of Carothers Funeral Home at Gaston Memorial Park.
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Beth & Bruce Valentine
May 18, 2020
Diane and Chris, I am so very sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He was a good man and friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Beth & Bruce Valentine
May 18, 2020
Diane and Chris, I am so very sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He was a good man and friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Debera Hyder
May 13, 2020
So sorry hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Alex Romero
May 12, 2020
I'm Sadened by the loss of such a great person and our friend Steve. My thoughts and prayers are with all the family during these tough times.
Timothy Albers
May 12, 2020
May God grant you in Heaven, that ever elusive 50 point non-typical deer.
Tim and Candy Albers
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