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NORFOLK, Va. - Stephen Kelly Long, 75, died peacefully on Nov. 24, 2015, at Sentara Norfolk General from complications after a battle with cancer. His family was by his side.

Born in Charlotte, NC to Harry G. and Catherine L. Long, Stephen was the third of four children (Sherry, Harry, Stephen, Walter).

He graduated from Clemson University in 1962 with a degree in Industrial Management. While at Clemson, he helped organize, and was the first president of, the local fraternity Sigma Alpha Zeta, which later became a chapter of the national fraternity Sigma Alpha Epsilon. As a senior, he was also elected Chief Cheerleader. Throughout his life, Stephen remained a passionate and devoted Clemson fan at-tending numerous football games with family and friends.

During his senior year, he met Mary Anne Gault at Columbia College. They married in March 1964 and settled in North Carolina where Stephen built his career in the textile industry. They had two children: Jennifer Anne (Jenna) and Stephen Kelly, Jr. (Steve). Mary died from complications from lung cancer in 2004.

Stephen and his future wife, Sandra Richter, met during a beach music festival in Myrtle Beach. They married in May 2010 and he moved his residence to Chesapeake, VA. Stephen got in Sandy a permanent dance partner. They enjoyed shag dancing, and for two years, Stephen served as President of the Boogie on The Bay Shag Club. He was also an avid golfer and continued playing regularly until he became ill.

Stephen is survived by his wife, Sandra Long; two brothers, Harry Long, Jr (Jane) and Walter Long (Cathie); his daughter Jenna Lambert (Larry) and his son Steve Long (Ron Wootten); step-children Keith Richter (Jill), Laurie Sargent (Matthew), Carrie Richter (Frank Daniels); along with three grandchildren Lauren, Jack, and Landon Lambert and step-grandchildren Caden and Josh Richter; Jonas Sargent. He was preceded in death by his mother Catherine, father Harry and sister Sherry.

A memorial service will take place on Saturday, December 5 at 1 p.m. at the Chesapeake Chapel of HD Oliver Funeral Apts, 1416 Cedar Road. The family will receive friends at a reception immediately follow-ing the service.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a special fund set up at Clemson, the Stephen Long '62 Memorial Holding Account, and sent to the Clemson University Foundation, PO Box 1889, Clemson, SC 29633. "For the Stephen Long '62 Memorial Holding Account" should be written on the check.

Online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver.com.

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Published by Gaston Gazette on Dec. 2, 2015.

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Milt Gold

January 18, 2016

Sandra,
Sorry to just recently hear of Steve's passing. Steve and I lived in Dunn,N.C. in the late '70s and early '80s when we worked together at Burlington Ind. in Erwin, N.C.. We reconnected in the early '90s working for Amital. I have fond memories of Steve, both from the working relationship and playing golf together.
I wish you and family God's speed in the heart healing process.
Sincerely,
Milt Gold

December 2, 2015

Sandy, we are so sorry for your loss. I know you and Stephen have a lot of good memories to cling to now during this time of grief. I remember when you guys were at SOS and Stephen entered the Jack & Jill contest. He was just having such a good time clowning around. I'm not sure his partner thought so. I got sooo tickled watching him out there just goofing off. It made my whole weekend. Our thoughts & prayers are with you now. Elena & Robert Myers

Harvey & Joyce Seargeant

December 2, 2015

Sandy,

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. There are no words to ease the pain in your heart. May the memories you made together help to sustain you in the weeks ahead. Stephen will surely be missed.

Paul Quinn

December 2, 2015

The Long family were our neighbors growing up on Home Trail in Gastonia NC. Stephen - 4 years older - was my childhood hero and the reason I went to Clemson. He could do anything he set his mind to, always kind and considerate of others. I regret not keeping in touch as I always thought we would meet again at a Clemson game or reunion somewhere. My deepest sympathies go to his family and friends. May he rest in peace.

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