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Alexander Dreier Obituary

Alexander Richardson Dreier, a poet, comedian, psychotherapist, and farmer who helped start the Hartsbrook School, died on June 23 at his home in Belchertown, MA. He was 70 years old.

The cause was Lewy Body Disease, his family said. Having been diagnosed with the disease, which leads to dementia, at the age of 63, Alexander went on to write poems inspired in part by the gradual cognitive changes he experienced, publishing a book of poetry entitled, "The Brain is a Boundary: A Journey in Poems to the Borderlines of Lewy Body Dementia."

After growing up in Washington, D.C., and attending St. Albans School, where he found few avenues for his innate creativity, Alexander made his way to Antioch College in Ohio, where he relished the freedom to explore avante-garde ideas. It was at Antioch that he first heard of Rudolf Steiner's anthroposophy, which became a source of inspiration throughout his life.

Alexander's interest in anthroposophy soon led him to a biodynamic farm in Connecticut, where he met his wife of 43 years, Olivia Phelps Stokes Dreier. Together, they attended Emerson College in England, where Alexander trained in biodynamic farming and they both participated in the first year-long course at Emerson's Social Development Centre. After getting married, they lived first at Hawthorne Valley Farm in Harlemville, New York, where Alexander helped run the organic dairy, and then for 3 years at the Gould Farm therapeutic community in Monterey, Massachusetts, where Alexander ran the organic farm. In 1982, Alexander and Olivia settled with their two children in the Pioneer Valley.

Soon after arriving in the Valley, Alexander and his wife became involved in helping to start the Hartsbrook School, serving for many years on the school's board and securing land for its Hadley campus. Then, after enrolling in a doctoral program in counseling psychology at Harvard's School of Education and completing all but the dissertation, Alexander co-founded and worked for many years at Windhorse Integrative Mental Health in Northampton, which offers a holistic, relationship-centered approach to supporting people with mental health challenges. He was also a member of Windhorse's board, as well serving on the boards of SteinerBooks and the Hawthorne Valley Association.

Known in the community for his acting with the Hampshire Shakespeare Company as well as his comedic monologues, Alexander went on to become a founding member of the popular comedy improv troupe The Villa Jidiots, performing for years throughout the Valley. He also co-founded NetMirth, which offered tailored comedy to enliven workplace culture.

Having lived for 34 years on the family's small farm in Belchertown where, before his illness, he enjoyed raising livestock, often donating the meat to the Food Bank, Alexander continued to live at home even after the onset of dementia, supported by many neighbors and friends. He died peacefully at his home on Sunday morning, June 23, surrounded by loved ones.

He is survived by his wife; their two sons, Matthew B., of Prague, Czechia, and Lucas C. of Santa Marta, Colombia; a brother, John S., of Brevard, NC; a sister, Susan, of Cambridge, MA; and two grandchildren. A celebration of Alexander's life will be held on Saturday, August 17, at 3 pm at the Hartsbrook School in Hadley.

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Jun. 28, 2019.

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Carol Ann Williamson

December 10, 2023

I knew Alexander in Spring Valley in the 70's, when I was in the Eurythmy School. Alexander had a commanding presence. A funny, lovely guy. I was happy to meet his son Lucas, after the World Conference at the Goetheanum the beginning of October 2023. Somehow Lucas reminded me of Alexander, in a new way. Another commanding presence, with different tasks. And they performed in eurythmy, one of Alexander's funny poems at the World Conference. A gentle reminder of Alexander's brand of humor. Carol Ann Williamson

bertha

July 8, 2019

Alexander brightened the world and so many lives with his talents, kindness and humor. So grateful to have known him. Heartfelt condolences and love to Olivia, Lucas and Matthew.

July 1, 2019

Dear Olivia, Matt and Lucas,
With deepest condolences on the passing of Alexander.
We appreciate his life and presence amoung us.
The neighborhood will not be the same without him.
Sincerely,
The Leone-Forgette Family

Cindi Theriault

June 30, 2019

I'm truly sorry for your loss Olivia, Lucas, and Matt......my condolences to you all during this difficult time.

Lee Sturgeon Day

June 30, 2019

I remember Alexander (Hair Dryer) as one of the funniest and truest people I have ever met in a pretty long life. I will never forget our times at the Social Development
Center in England. So many stories!!! I am just so glad and honored to have met him. Much love to his family. Lee
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