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Arlene Cole Obituary
She is survived by her children Morrigana Rose and Magdalene Star. Her parents Robert B. Cole of Florida, Karen A. Cole of Ware, Stepmother JoAnn Bartholomew of Ware and her grandmother Arlene A. Cole. Aunts and Uncles, Rockland and Dorotthea Steel, Robyn Cole, Robert Cole Jr., Eric and Laurie Cole, James and Nicolette Growhoski and several cousins.
A Liturgy of Christian Burial for Arlene will be held at Our Lady of the Valley Church, 33 Adams Street, Easthampton, MA. Tuesday, Nov. 28, 2017 at 10 a.m. Burial will be private and at convenience of the family and there are no calling hours.
The GRAHAM FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION SERVICES, 18 Adams Street in Easthampton, has honorably been entrusted in providing for Arlene's care and services.
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to a local Food Bank of choice.
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for Arlene Cole
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Paul Phipps
May 2, 2022
Very saddened to learn of this. Though I did not know Arlene well, I recognized her kindness and talent as an artist. My deepest sympathy to her family and friends.
J L
April 22, 2020
Every so often I find myself wondering what you would have to say about all the things going on in the world today. Continued peace to you and your family.
Brandon Kelt
September 16, 2019
Was a lovely girl, My heart goes out to those close to her. Rest In Peace Arlene :)
Amanda Rolon
May 12, 2019
I was sad when I heard about your passing. We stayed in contact a bit after our Tri-County days and then went our separate ways. I wish I had the chance to connect with you again.
R.I.P.
LUKA
May 4, 2019
Rest In Peace
April 10, 2019
I hope your having a nice time up there Im honestly hear for your family and friends if they ever need to talk. Ever Im so gutted I didnt find you sooner
Bethany Walker
March 20, 2019
I wish I got a chance to meet her since I would be considered Autistic more in the realm of Aspergers but, I know she is happy, I am very sorry. I wish I could say more but I can't. I have a great feeling if we have met we have been friends, just upsetting that I was late
Jordan
March 17, 2019
Rest in peace, and know you're never alone.
Salim Kinidi
February 22, 2019
We will meet again... In the next world.. In the heavens or elsewhere, I beg you read this from high above.
WE WILL MEET AGAIN
Dannah H W
January 19, 2019
I just found your Vlogs... I'm sorry to hear of what happened. You Vlog lives on. People are still visiting.
J L
October 22, 2018
I've been getting to know Arlee, in some small way, in retrospect with everything she's left behind online. I wanted to leave a little message of love and support for her and her family & friends who may be reading this.
Kent
July 27, 2018
Through a bit of coincidence, I just caught up to you, Arlee. I knew you as a grade schooler and I lived with you and your extended family for a while. Your many gifts were evident. May your family find peace, and may your sweet soul rest In peace.
Anabis Semidey
April 1, 2018
I am sorry you had to leave this world this way.I saw and read about what happened.A mother , just like me and almost my age.
Rest in Peace girl <3.
toomany kats
January 23, 2018
we had some great chats togeather. ill remember you.
Courtney C
January 13, 2018
Rest in peace. I did not know you, but I found your videos online also, and we live in the very same state. Such a small world. Rest easy, beautiful girl. My condolences to the family. <3
Kelly Weldon
January 8, 2018
Found your story online, and lo, and behold, you lived right next to me. I wonder if we've ever crossed paths, and wish your spirit the peace you deserve. Your family and friends are your legacy, rest in paradise and may you guard your loved ones with the grace of an angel.
R Lilly
January 8, 2018
My heart goes out to the family
Shelly Bennington
January 1, 2018
My condolences to your family. You touched many souls and helped many people with your vlogs. And now you have your wings and be with your children always as there guardian angel. Rip beautiful Angel .
Tomas J
December 30, 2017
your beautiful love fills my heart
J J
December 30, 2017
Sending much love to you and your family. May you Rest In Peace.
Steven Nichols
December 25, 2017
This world has truly lost one of the good ones. I've only just found your YouTube channel a few days ago. I was instantly heartbroken to find you had already passed. Through your videos I see a sweet, kind and gentle soul that just by being alive made the world a much better place. I hope your journey has become a calmer, more peaceful one. Thank you for your inspiration. You will never be forgotten.
Rhonda M
December 25, 2017
Arlee, you have such a beautiful soul,the brightest light that we'll all miss so much! You really had no idea how many of us you touched, sweet girl. The only solace in all of this is knowing that you won't ever have to leave your babies again...you're their angel now. <3
Al H
December 24, 2017
Sorry for your loss.
Brittney
December 21, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss, she was an amazing person I loved watching her videos and seeing her art. She brought lots of joy to me.
Nikki k
December 20, 2017
Arlee I miss you so much
sebastian fernandez
December 20, 2017
Rest in peace sweet angel, you touched my heart with your persona and youtube videos
Veronica D.
December 19, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family. My love and prayers are with you
December 18, 2017
Rest in peace lovely.
Laura D.
December 18, 2017
Karen, Robert, Morrigana, Magdalene and Family;
I am so terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved daughter / mother. As a fellow Youtuber when I heard the news my heart broke. I am currently going through some life issues of my own with depression, and will look to Arlene's shining star to bring strength. Please let the happy memories guide you, and take comfort in the fact she is at peace. In the future, I would be more than willing to help set up some sort of memorial fund in 'Arlee's memory. I know this must be the hardest time of your life, and while words may not help, time has a way of helping to heal a bit. She will never, ever be forgotten, and I know she impacted many lives of people she had never even met in person- how amazing is that?! She was so spunky and creative. I am thinking of you all, and sending all my love.
Kindest Regards,
Laura
Jake Liddell-Kokins
December 18, 2017
Arlee I loved your youtube videos
Ben Earth
December 18, 2017
Rip I now understand you way better
Kelly Ragsdale
December 18, 2017
Rest In Peace
Dwight Bartholomew
December 8, 2017
RIP sweet girl
A B
December 2, 2017
So sorry for your loss. I did not know Arlee personally, but her life and her story moved me. I hope it will bring her loved ones a little comfort knowing that she is at peace.
Rockland Steel
December 1, 2017
We miss you.
Sandy Houle
November 29, 2017
My deepest condolences to you Karen & your family. There are no words for your loss, except that she is home and in peace now. I'm here for you if you need to talk.
Nathaniel Moses
November 27, 2017
Arlee, you changed my life for the better and opened my mind in ways I can't describe. You'll always have a place in my heart & memories..
Ashido Aezirath
November 27, 2017
Arlee, you were taken too soon. You still had more people to inspire. You lit up my heart and mind to new things and taught me a lot. May the Masters of Nibiru guide you into the everlasting cosmos. You will be missed by many my favourite Cosmic Spacedog.
-Wikked
Gina Rosario
November 25, 2017
I hope this light helps you find your way, Arlee you are and will be missed may your soul rest in peace. SCUBBA I pray you too find peace and know you were a good father and did all you could. You allowed her to be herself and express herself in the way she felt made her happy. She will be forever with you because she knew the love was unconditional and without judgement..... we will keep the family in our prayers ❤
Edwin Padilla
November 25, 2017
You made a difference in this too often heartless world. Your open mind and loving attitude will be something I will always cherish. May you be in peace.
Gina Rosario
November 25, 2017
Arle I can't believe your gone you were a free spirit and young. You were loved and I know you will be watching over those that are behind. You will always be in our thoughts may you rest peacefully.
Love, Gina
Rockland Steel
November 23, 2017
Arlene, I'm sad right now because I realize that you're not gonna ever again call me on my cell phone and say: "Uncle Rocky, I'm hungry, can you order me a pizza?" I need help to understand this. Arlene I love you very much. I hope you are in a place somewhere really nice that has no pain or sorrow. I will always love you Arlene. Love, Uncle Rocky❤
Dave Cooper
November 23, 2017
Arlene words can never explain how you made me feel being in my life, but I will try. You were a loving, caring, and wonderful person! Most times I saw you, you were smiling! You had this thing about you that could really lift someone's spirits. You introduced me to the love of my life, thank you! You will always be a part of us and all who loved you! R.I.P your friend Dave
Heather Hartman
November 23, 2017
I light this candle in your memory. It was a wonderful gift to have you as a friend, Arlee. You made my days brighter and taught me so many interesting and different things. I close my eyes and I hear you laughing and see your smiling face. I will never forget the times we shared, the memories we made, and the places we traveled. Everytime I see an alien face or think of space, I will smile and remember you.❤It's hard to imagine this life without you in it, I pray you have found peace. My deepest condolences to all of your family; I am here for them if needed. I love you spacedog.
Rockland Dorothea and daughters Charlene and Ali and Theresa Steel
November 23, 2017
Arlene, your Uncle Rocky and I and your cousins Charlene and Ali and Theresa all hope you are in a much happier place now and are at peace. We all love you so very much. The Steel family
Dorothea Steel
November 23, 2017
Arlene, I will miss you so very much. I loved you so. I thank God for all the times we spent together : just visiting or celebrating the Holidays. It was wonderful!. I will always love and miss you Arlene. Sincerely; Aunt Dottie
Dorothea Steel
November 23, 2017
Arlene, I will miss you so very much. I loved you so. I thank God for all the times we spent together : just visiting or celebrating the Holidays. It was wonderful!. I will always love and miss you Arlene. Sincerely; Aunt Dottie
Robert Cole
November 23, 2017
I light this candle because you were the light of my life.
Charlene DiNicola AKA - Grandma and family
November 23, 2017
Arlene, you were a wonderful young woman who loved life. We enjoyed meeting you and spending time with you, it was really nice. We are very thankful for those times. As for now we hope you are in a much happier place now with no pain and beautiful blue skies. May God wrap His loving arms around all of your family and friends right now in this time and comfort them and help them to understand. May God bless you and your family and friends in this time and always.
Charlene DiNicola AKA - Grandma and family
November 23, 2017
Arlene, you were a wonderful young woman who loved life. We enjoyed meeting you and spending time with you, it was really nice. We are very thankful for those times. As for now we hope you are in a much happier place now with no pain and beautiful blue skies. May God wrap His loving arms around all of your family and friends right now in this time and comfort them and help them to understand. May God bless you and your family and friends in this time and always.
Norman martineau
November 23, 2017
you will be missed Arlene.glad you crossed my path in this journey of life.rip.
Chester Gingrich
November 23, 2017
I will always remember you Arlee. My dear friend. My deepest condolences to your family and other friends.
Faith & Eric Merry
November 23, 2017
I am so devastated to hear of your departure from Earth, "Arlee", but I hope you have passed the moon and seen many wonders now you have taken your place among the stars. You will always be sorely missed among those you left behind, and I pray we meet again in friendship and togetherness. We will never forget you or the good times we had together. See you in a better place and good journey from both of us with all our love.
Faith and Eric Merry a.k.a. "Sere&Eric"
Rockland and Dorothea and Theresa and Charlene Steel
November 22, 2017
Arlene you were a wonderful and energetic person. You will always be remembered by your family with fondness. Arlene, our hearts are broken now and there will always be a part of our hearts that is missing. We loved you so very much Arlene.
JoAnn Bartholomew
November 22, 2017
"Arlee" you will always be in my heart, I love you so much. Stepmother
Karen Cole
November 22, 2017
"I love you more than life itself" You will be in my heart and mind forever. My loving daughter, "Arlene,-aka-Arlee"
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