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Mary Lester Beall

1927 - 2016

BORN

1927

DIED

2016

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Douglass Funeral Service

87 North Pleasant Street

Amherst, Massachusetts

Mary Beall Obituary

AMHERST - Mary Lester Beall, who passed away Tuesday, Nov. 8, 2016, was born in 1927 in Baltimore, Maryland. When the Great Depression forced her father to close his home construction business, she and her family returned to their roots in of Saratoga Springs, New York. Her father Dudley Gove Lester ran the Saratoga Vichy Company for many years and Mary grew up along side her beloved sister Nancy.

In 1955 a mutual friend arranged for Mary to meet an eligible bachelor named Harry Beall for dinner in New York City. After a six-week courtship, they were engaged, soon married and spent the next 58 years together. Harry was the love of her life.

Mary's professional career started after she received a masters in library science, as the personal librarian for Charles Houghton, the founder of Steuben Glass. She also worked at the New York Public Library. After a decade or two spent being a mother, Mary became the program director at the Englewood, New Jersey, Public Library.

Her greatest joy came from being a consummate wife, friend and mother. Her beloved Harry spent 35 years in the business of classical music. They spent several years split between winters in Boston and summers at Tanglewood in Lenox, while Harry was the press director for the Boston Symphony. In the mid 1960's, when Harry returned from a day trip to New York, with an attractive job offer, he said to Mary, "Do you want to move back to NYC?" to which she replied, "Give me 20 minutes" Mary always knew what she wanted.

From the mid 60's, until Harry's retirement in 1992, Mary supported her husband, as he looked after classical musicians including Lily Pons, Clifford Curzon, Gary Graffman, Jessye Norman and the Guarneri String Quartet, who he managed for 35 years.

They retired to Western Massachusetts in 1992, when they bought a restored church, on top of a hill, in Shutesbury on a whim and spent the last 25 years together making new friends in Western Massachusetts.

Mary was never whole again, after she lost Harry in April of 2015. This week would have been their 60th wedding anniversary and who's to say that they might not be celebrating together again now.

She is survived by her son Martin and his wife Jane of Midlothian, Virginia; her son Andy and his wife Hut of Pelham; and three beloved grandchildren, Chris and his wife Caitlin and Alex and Charlie.

Mary had many happy summers at Camp Runoia in Maine with her sister Nancy, cousins and friends. The camp helped form Mary into the person we all loved. She would break into the Camp Runoia's theme song at the slightest provocation, so anyone so inclined might send a donation to Camp Runoia, C/O Jody Sataloff, 9 Birch Knolls, Cape Elizabeth, ME.

Mary will be interned in the columbarium at Grace Church in Amherst, next to Harry, at a date yet to be determined by the family.

Memorial register at www.douglassfuneral.com.

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Nov. 10, 2016.

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Jean Pulver Hague

November 10, 2016

Let me add my deep sorrow and sympathy to the family of Mary Beall - my dear friend since high school days in Saratoga Springs. We traveled the country together, lived together in New York, loved our husbands and watched our children become adults. You will be missed by each of us. Jean Hague

chuck and margie marino

November 10, 2016

we will long remember many Holidays spent together in Amherst-and made much richer by sharing them with Harry and Mary. We miss them both. Love you to Andy and Martin and their families at this sad time.

Laurie Korza

November 10, 2016

Dear Andy, Hut and family, my sincerest condolences go out to you all with the loss of Mary. I feel so honored to have known Harry and Mary, and the rest of the family that so loved and supported them. They were an amazing couple and their devotion to and love for each other couldn't have been more obvious. We shared laughs through some trying times. They will live on in your hearts and memories. They were blessed to have such a wonderful family to support them. My thoughts are with you. I hold the memory of them near and dear to me, and hope the strength and resilience I saw in them, can be used to help others in my practice. Be well.

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