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Michael T. Ahearn

1965 - 2021

Michael T. Ahearn obituary, 1965-2021, Northampton, MA

BORN

1965

DIED

2021

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Ahearn Funeral Home - Northampton

783 Bridge Road

Northampton, Massachusetts

Michael Ahearn Obituary

Michael Thomas Ahearn, 55, of Northampton died peacefully Sunday, January 24th, 2021 after a brief illness. Mike was born on February 9, 1965 to Michael J. Ahearn, Jr., and Patricia E. (Miller) Ahearn.

When Mike was six months old, his parents purchased their beloved home at 20 Fort Street in Northampton where he and his brothers spent a wonderful childhood with their many neighborhood friends.

A 1983 graduate of Northampton High School, Mike attended St. Anselm College where he played on their Division II soccer team. Later, he graduated from the New England Institute of Arts and Applied Sciences, earning a degree in Mortuary Sciences in 1986.

He worked for several years at the former John F. O'Connell Funeral Home in Northampton, as well as the AA Mariani Funeral Home in Providence, RI and the Tripp Funeral Home in Pawtucket, RI. In 1995, he moved back home to his beloved Hamp, working for various local funeral homes before founding the Ahearn Funeral Home at 783 Bridge Road in Northampton, which was built from the ground up and opened, coincidentally, on his 35th birthday in 2000.

Mike served on the Boards of Directors for the Western Mass Independent Funeral Directors Association and the Massachusetts Funeral Directors Association, as well as the Cooley Dickinson Hospital Development Committee and, most recently, the Cooley Dickinson Charity Golf Tournament. Mike was a long-time youth soccer coach for the City of Northampton and was, until November 2020, the Assistant Golf Coach for Northampton High School.

He was a long-time member of the St. Patrick's Association and was named Marshal in 2004 for the Northampton contingent. Since 2001, he was very active in the Holyoke St. Patrick's Parade Association and was named the Gallivan Award winner in 2009 and served as its President in 2016.

An avid golfer, since the age of 7, Mike learned golfing from his father and grandfather, both Leeds boys, and has been an active member of the Northampton Country Club, a place, to quote his good friend the late Jim Durfer, that is "a social club with a golfing problem". He played and won countless matches on those hallowed greens and formed many, many lifelong friendships.

Mike was a longtime communicant of the former St. Mary's Church of Northampton and now the St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Northampton.

He was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Patricia in 2016 and Michael in 2020; and girlfriend, Kara Shanahan in 2015.

He leaves his wife Bridget Goggins, his brothers Patrick C. Ahearn and wife Molly of Alexandria, VA and Daniel F. Ahearn and wife Jenny of Austin, TX; and his former wife and dear friend Janet Ryan. Mike adored his nephews and nieces, Jackson and Aidan Ahearn and Rowan and Finley Ahearn. He grew to love as well, Hadley and Hayes Talbot and Sullivan, Finnegan and Murphy Burke, and Bridget's family, Pat and Denise Goggins, Molly and Jamie Talbot and Erin and Sean Burke.

There will be calling hours on Thursday, January 28th from 1-2 pm for those over 65 or immunocompromised. Open to the public from 2-6pm. The funeral will be private on Friday, January 29th but can be seen virtually at https://youtu.be/0qkrMHBQCOU.

COVID guidelines must be followed at all times, with no contact with the family being much appreciated.

While flowers are appreciated, donations can be made to the Cooley Dickinson Hospital Charity Golf Tournament or the Northampton High School Golf Team.

Ahearn Funeral Home

(413)587-0044

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Jan. 26, 2021.

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Nicole Clausing

February 1, 2021

What a tragic and untimely loss. My condolences to the Goggins and Ahearn families.

Helen Myers

January 31, 2021

Dear Bridget:

I am sorry for your loss. Mike was a very special and kind man. I am sure with the Ahearn and Goggins families you are sure to get a lot of love and support. I watched his Mass online. He had what the Irish would call a "GRAND SEND OFF."

Your friend,

Helen Myers and the Myers family

Reverends Ron and Margery Hale

January 31, 2021

We got to know Mike both personally, as he worked with us on final preparations for our family, and professionally as we worked together for others. We were always thankful for the comradery.
There was also the "favor" of giving our daughter a ride in the limo for her wedding. Plus the Super Bowl rivalry between the Giants and Patriots. He was just a great guy.
We pray his family be touched by Almighty God's peace.

Bernard Bachand

January 30, 2021

Rest In Peace Mike--Your Never Ending Smile & Dedication to Your Family--Friends--Irish Heritage--The City You So Loved--And the Game Of Golf You Loved So Much. Will Stay In Our Hearts Forever.

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Rocky and Colleen Allen

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Ed McColgan

January 30, 2021

I remember Mike when he was a little fellow on Fort Street. I was great friends with his Dad. I came to know Mike as an adult through the St. Patrick's Association and he was a good friend when my grandson died. My deepest sympathies to Bridget and his family.

J Moulton

January 29, 2021

I’ll never forget how kind Mike was to our family when my father passed. Condolences to his family and friends. May he rest in peace.

Lan Katz

January 29, 2021

Condolences to the family.
As my son’s youth soccer coach 30 years ago, Mike was kind and supportive in ways that had a long term positive effect on my son’s life. We appreciate that.
Lan Katz

nancy wilson

January 29, 2021

Ahern Funeral Home and Mike Ahern buried my parents, Dorothy and Jerry Custeau, in 2008 and 2012. He also took care of my mother-in-law, Merle Wilson in 2013. Mike was wonderful to our family. He gave us alone time to say good-bye and he was very sensitive to our needs at the moment. At our Dad's funeral, he chuckled with us as we poured
a little bit of scotch on Dad's grave, a request of our father as he always loved a fine scotch. Thank you, Mike for all that you did for us. May you rest in peace. Sincerely, The Custeau and Wilson Family

Lisa Suleski Barnes

January 28, 2021

I knew Mike in school and through church and CCD at St. Mary’s. I saw him in September when he took care of the arrangements for my sister’s funeral. What a special combination of talents he had – so, so funny but also remarkably comforting to so many during hard times. I am sorry to hear of his passing and am praying for his family and friends and wishing them peace.

Terry Carr

January 28, 2021

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Love and prayers.

Jon Lees

January 28, 2021

We were all so sad to hear of Mike's passing. He was such a great friend and fan of the band, and loved the old Irish tunes. We will miss him and be thinking of him and his family, especially during the St. Patricks holidays. ""May the Irish hills caress you. May her lakes and rivers bless you. May the luck of the Irish enfold you. May the blessings of
Saint Patrick behold you." In sympathy, the Boston Blackthorne Band (Jon Lees, Jim O'connor, Chetz Keegan, Pete McAvoy, Dale Monette).

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Louise Farrelly

January 28, 2021

So sorry to receive this news, I will remember Mike as a kind person to me during some dark days. RIP

The Rowbotham Family

January 28, 2021

Oh Mike - we are truly heartbroken! We will miss your smile, your kindness, and most definitely your camaraderie. You were someone we always enjoyed catching up with whether it was at NCC, bowling and of course, during all of the St. Patrick’s Day shenanigans. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, the rains fall soft upon your fields and, until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand. Rest In Peace Mike

Bernard R Bachand

January 27, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Brenda A Waslick

January 27, 2021

Mike’s superpower was his warm and welcoming smile, perpetually lighting up the atmosphere and those around him. Following his father’s flare of service to the community, he was taken too young and soon, leaving an unimaginable void. Mike and his jocular, humble and healing aura will be unceasingly missed.

Melissa (Driscoll) Potamianos

January 27, 2021

I was saddened to hear the news of Mike's passing. As a classmate of mine at Northampton High, I always remembered him as a kind young man with an infectious smile. Later in life, he displayed that same benevolence to myself and my family as we prepared to say our final goodbyes to my mother. I know he will be missed by many . Please accept my sincere condolences.

Steve and Susan

January 27, 2021

When arriving at NCC Mike always said
Hello Mr and Mrs Goose. I loved it . I will truly miss his genuine character and his smile.

Peter Rafferty

January 27, 2021

We met Mike in Kinsale Ireland, Christmas 2018 with Bridget. He was a wonderful man, a treasure. Our wish is that we could be with you Bridget to hold you close while you grieve the loss of such a perfect Gent. We will always hold him close in our hearts and we send love and prayers to all the Ahern and Goggins families. Know that we are with you. Raff & Roseanne, Ireland Family.

Trish Rockett

January 27, 2021

My sincere condolences to Mike's family and friends. I will miss his smile, laughter, and his greeting "hey cuzz!". Heaven has gained another angel.

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Chris Mullins

January 27, 2021

Prayers to Mike and his family. I have very fond memories of playing baseball with Mike and the boys from Northampton back in the Summer of 1982. He always kept everyone smiling and laughing.

Amy Cartledge

January 27, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person.

Helen Gibbs

January 27, 2021

Bridget, and family,
I'm so very sorry to hear of Mike's passing.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
May your wonderful memories bring you peace.

Timothy O’Grady

January 26, 2021

Michael was a people person gave his all in everything he was involved in. It was an honor and a pleasure to have known him something I personally will never forget. God bless those he has left behind. I will never forget the friendship and respect he gave me he was a great guy. He will be sadly missed by everyone who that knew him.

Timothy O’Grady

January 26, 2021

Michael was a people person gave his all to many things he was involved in it was an honor and pleasure to have known Mike and someone I personally with never forgot God bless those he left behind he will always be remembered by many people who new him. A great guy Rest In Peace my friend you will be sadly missed!!

Ed & Shirley Hennessy

January 26, 2021

Our deepest sympathy to the Ahearn & Goggins families on Mike's passing. Mike always greeted you with his beautiful smile. Keeping you all in our thoughts & prayers during this difficult time. God Bless.

Marianne LaRochelle

January 26, 2021

My condolences to Mike's family. As the Details clerk at the VAMC in Northampton, Mike was my, go to guy who would never turn me down when it came time to give some dignity to some of our indigent veterans, driving them to the Bourne National Cemetery after an incredibly small service (myself and David Whiteley, our chaplain).
I was blessed to know this man, whose heart and smile fought for which was bigger. Rest in Peace

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The Savino Family

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Gary and Denise Burt

January 26, 2021

Condolences to Mikes family and to all of his friends at Northampton Country Club
His passing leaves a big hole in all our hearts.May the Sun and the wind be at your back. And until we meet again May God hold you in the palm of His Hand

Gaelyn Sawyer

January 26, 2021

Bridget,
Wish I could be there to comfort you as you grieve. I’m holding you in my heart.

Cheryl Kuflik, Charlotte, NC

January 26, 2021

I’m saddened to hear this news, I was a childhood friend and went to HS with Mike and his brother Pat. My grandparents also lived on Fort Street so I spent many of my summers running around with the Fort St gang, lots of good memories. I remember Mike as always having a smile on his face and the closeness he had with his family and friends. I haven’t seen Mike in years, but I’d like to send my thought and prayers to his family & friends during this difficult time. RIP Mr Mike

Tommy O’Connor

January 26, 2021

Mike Ahearn was a true Home Town hero. From the days his Dad coached us on the Elks little league Team to NIS Babe Ruth we have always stayed in touch and it was like Mike, Pat and I had never left that diamond when we’re got together. As it was said in the movie Stand bye me “You will never have friends, like you did when you were 12 years old”. Mike help so many people in their darkest times. There is a crowd of Irish waiting at the gate to greet Mike... old friends. You will be missed my friend.

Cindy

January 26, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

john gustavis

January 26, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sue Poulin

January 26, 2021

Bridget, Dan, Patrick and all of Mike's family and friends,

The instruction is to write a memory of Mike ...... well there are so many great times and sad ones that I wouldn't know where to begin.

My thoughts, prayers and LOVE are with all of you. Mike will be missed BIG TIME, his beautiful smile, encouraging words and his hugs were top notch and I know that these words will be echoed by so many. Remembering ONE HECK OF A GUY.... may God walk with you all during the days ahead and know that there are so many people who are here for all of you especially ME.

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