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Steven Farnham Obituary
He was born June 6, 1960, in Providence, Rhode Island, the son of David and Lindy Farnham. Steven grew up in Hadley, Massachusetts, working on local farms and graduating in 1978 from Hopkins Academy, where he was a varsity soccer and baseball player. After attending Cushing Academy for one year, he enrolled at Keene State College, graduating with a degree in industrial engineering.
While at Keene, Steven played four years of soccer and was a proud member of the 1981 team that had a record of 20-0-5. They were the top-seeded team in the National Association of Intercollegiate Athletics New England Tournament, and Steven scored the winning goal in sudden-death overtime to send the team to nationals, where they came in third place. As a member of this team, Steven was inducted into the Keene State Hall of Fame. Also while at Keene, Steven was a brother and president of the Alpha Pi Tau fraternity.
After graduating from college, Steven was a salesman at various companies, including John Deere, Reed Screenall, Bomag, and most recently Champlain Valley Equipment in Middlebury, Vermont. He was a member of the Amherst Golf Club and two-time Steam Boat Tournament champion. He was also active in coaching soccer, returning to Hopkins to coach the varsity boys team for one year and then in the Amherst Youth Soccer Program in which he coached his two beloved children. In addition to soccer and golf, Steve loved ice skating and carpentry. He will be remembered as a sweet, outgoing guy with a big heart and infectious laugh.
Steven is predeceased by his mother Veronika "Lindy" Farnham of Hadley, Massachusetts.
He will be missed by his two cherished children, Jack and Grace Farnham, and their mother Tracy Farnham of Belchertown, Massachusetts; his father David G. Farnham of Hadley, Massachusetts; his older brother David F. Farnham, wife Jacqueline Waldman-Corbat and daughter Olga of Amherst, Massachusetts; and his younger brother Michael Farnham, wife Sally and children Caleb and Mary Kate of Hadley, Massachusetts.
Douglas Funeral Home in Amherst, Massachusetts, will handle arrangements. Burial will be at the convenience of the family in the family plot in Wildwood Cemetery in Amherst, Massachusetts.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to PeoplesBank for the benefit of Hopkins Academy Boys and Girls Soccer Programs. PeoplesBank, c/o Steven Farnham, 5 South Maple St., Hadley, MA 01035.
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Memories and Condolences
for Steven Farnham
Scott Jones
August 31, 2023
Although it has been over 40 years since my high school days, I can still fondly remember Steve as being a good-natured person with a keen sense of humor. He was fun to be around.
The world was such a different place back then and I believe, in many ways, it was a better place.
Lind Lipski Plowuch
September 27, 2014
Michael, I just found out about Steve's passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Michael Farnham
September 18, 2014
You will never be forgotten, Mr. October. Your spirit lives on forever. Auf Wiedersehen, big brother. ~Love, Michael
David Farnham
September 15, 2014
Rest in peace my dear brother- David
Bob O'Hare
September 10, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. After hearing of Steve's passing I have spent a lot of time thinking of our KSC days. They would not of been the same with out him. Rest in peace friend.
Richard
September 9, 2014
Michael,
I have struggled to consider how I realize the pain you may going with yourself and all family members. Things will get better my friend, life we treasure will go on and memories of those lost will will fill hearts with joy of times past.
Maureen Horyschuk-Guier
September 9, 2014
Our sincere condolences go out to the Farnham family. Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you during this difficult time. The Horyschuk Family
Arman & Kathleen Carreira
September 9, 2014
Mike & family, So sorry for the loss of your brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Leslie Hoffman
September 9, 2014
To Tracey, Jack, and Grace: I am so very sorry to learn of Steve's death and your deep loss. Steve was always so kind and welcoming, and I will always remember his beautiful smile and the profound love he had for each one of you.
April Gougeon
September 9, 2014
To the Farnham Family, Our prayers are with you at this time of sadness. I have such fond memories of Steven and remember his bright smile that immediately made you feel comfortable. With Our Love, The Archambault Family & April (Archambault) Gougeon
Steve Russell
September 9, 2014
So sorry to hear about Steve's passing. To Dave and the entire Farnham family very sorry for your loss.
Thankfully I was able to enjoy time with Steve in Little League and other sporting events he was a great person and one who will be sorely missed.
I remember a time when we were sitting on the bench at a Little League game in North Hadley. We weren't on the same team but for some reason we were there together talking. Behind us was the housing building known as "The Beehive". We heard some free spirited hippy behind us sneeze and someone else behind us at the Beehive say God Bless you in the most unusual voice. Being kids we thought it was hilarious and we shared in the silliness for the moment. And every time we saw each other after that incident at school or elsewhere we instantaneously would say God Bless you both of us mimicking that unusual voice. We got a lot of laughs through the years from that one moment in time. Steve, I will always remember as a fun loving guy with a good sense of humor. And a real good athlete. To all the Farnham family may God comfort you and encompass you with his love and His peace that surpasses all understanding. We are praying for you. Sincerely, Steve & Judy Russell
September 9, 2014
To Tracy and her children:
My heart breaks for you all.
Lesley Berg
Scott Jones
September 9, 2014
To everyone in the Farnham family, please accept my deepest condolences upon the passing of Steve.
September 9, 2014
Dave Sr.: I am so sorry for your loss. I remember you mentioning your son to me at my Dad's 90th birthday party. Dad (Vic) also sends his condolences.
Take care.
Carole Cendrowski Dunton
Joyce Mazeski
September 9, 2014
I am so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to the entire family. Keep the memories close and Steven will always be near.
Maria Gallo
September 8, 2014
I am so very sorry for the loss to his family and the community. I remember Steve coming up to me at some horse event with a BIG smile, saying HI Maria! I didn't even recognize him at first, it had been so many years since high school. Ah, but there he was, as usual, all smiles and joy, making me feel like he was genuinely happy to see me. A very special person and sad loss to the world. May he be at peace now. God rest his soul.
Robin Kellogg
September 8, 2014
You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Jamie Thaman
September 8, 2014
Michael, Sally, and family:
I am so sorry for your loss; I can only imagine how difficult this must be for all of you. My thoughts are with you.
Lauren Rabin
September 8, 2014
My deepest sympathies! May Steve be at peace and continue to live forever in the hearts of so many that loved him.
September 8, 2014
To Michael and Family
My deepest sympathy and prayers during this most difficult time.
Cheryl Vickowski White
Vicki Bell
September 8, 2014
My thoughts & prayers are with you all.
September 8, 2014
To Michael and family,
My deepest condolences during this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Wendy Rosati
Jeff Killip
September 8, 2014
My heartfelt condolences go out to Dave Sr., Dave, Mike, Steve's children, their mother, and the rest of the entire family. Steve took me in as his best bud the summer of '77 when I stayed and worked with the Mish clan that summer along with Steve. He was a good guy and a good friend. We lost touch and went our separate ways but I will always have fond memories of that summer paling around with Steve. Peace.
September 7, 2014
For Michael and family I have the deepest reflections of sympathy. I have never experienced the loss of a brother yet. i suppose my best advise would be to relive the good memories you had with Steven when you all were youngsters. Silly and innocent times, growing times.
Jon Kokoszka
September 7, 2014
Dear Michael and family,
My condolences to you and your family on the passing of Steven. Words are never adequate in moments like these. Thinking of you and your family at this time. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Take Care,
Jon Kokoszka
David Hiatt
September 7, 2014
My prayers to the entire Farnham family. I loved Steve like a brother. He had a fantastic way of making everbody feel good when he was in the room.
Joseph Vollaro
September 7, 2014
Mike & Family
It's been quite a year. You have all been in our prayers since the start. We know that God has a plan for all of this and trust that it will be revealed to you. It's tough to make sense of it now, but it will all become clear. You are and will remain in our hearts and prayers.
Joe & Robin Vollaro
September 7, 2014
To Grace and Family,
We are very sorry to learn about your father's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kim, Alicia and Jay Chin-Gibbons
John Kelley
September 7, 2014
Mike,Dave and Families
So sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Steve.
Kevin and Denise Mawn
September 7, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Farnham family during this most difficult time. Steve was a genuine character and loved by all. May he rest in peace.
September 7, 2014
To the Farnham family: I am so sorry for your loss. Steven was a great guy and I have fond memories of him at Keene State. He was well liked by his team mates (soccer) and his house mates. We had some fun times together and I will cherish those times. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time.
Deb (Baker) Davies. Rhode Island
Ronni Paulive Miller
September 7, 2014
My thoughts and prayers to the Farnham Family. I will never forget your son, brother and dad. He was a very special person.
Steve Berg
September 7, 2014
So sorry for your loss Mike and family. Remember the good times and we keep you in our prayers.
Steve & Donna Berg
walter kroll
September 7, 2014
very sorry for your loss. My condolences to your family. I can still remember him joking with me at Hopkins even though I was just a 7th grader and he was a senior. RIP my friend.
Susan (Moreau) Childs
September 7, 2014
My sincere condolences to the entire Farnham family. My thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.
mike @ florence pizza
September 7, 2014
Mike am sorry for the loss of your brother Steve
September 6, 2014
Dave & Mike, I am so very sorry for the loss of your brother. Such a shock and huge loss for the family. Remember the good times. Memories last a life time. Steve lives on in each one of you. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this most difficult time.
Diane Szymkowicz, Lakewood CO
September 6, 2014
Dear Michael,
I just learned of the passing of your brother. Recall the pleasant memories you shared with him while growing up together and that may give you a start to having peace.
Vin and Kelly Vassallo
September 6, 2014
My Condolences to all of you. Steve was a great friend to me when I was living and growing up in Hadley and a big influence in me playing soccer. Rest easy my friend
Paul Ciaglo
September 6, 2014
My condolences to the Farnham family. Always a pleasure meeting and laughing with Steve. The skills he taught us while coaching Hopkins are the main reasons we won the league in 1984. I remember his college comrades visiting him with bear hugs and calling him "Crazy Legs". Steve was a fun loving person, I will miss him.
Tony Hanna
September 6, 2014
Farny, one of the original 1B studs of freshman year Randall Hall. My heart is broken my friend. I will always cherish those days of our youth. God Bless you and keep you in his loving peace. To the family my prayers are with you all and please hold each other tight.
Suki Morley
September 6, 2014
I will always remember Steve's smile and his wonderful laugh.
My prayers for the Farnham family.
September 6, 2014
Our sincere condolances go out to the Farnham family. Your smile and wonderful self will be remebered by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time. May you rest in peace Steven.
Bill and Robbin Podolak, Hadley, Mass.
Cheryl & Bob Sabola
September 6, 2014
May peace be with you.
Machelle Vanderlick
September 6, 2014
My heart is so saddened by the loss of Steven, My deepest condolences to Mr. Farnham, David, Micheal and your loved ones. Rest in Peace Steven ...
Judie Pickett
September 6, 2014
You are at peace now, Steve. May wonderful memories carry your children and your family through this difficult time. Thinking of, and praying for all of you...
September 6, 2014
Michael and Family - Many prayers and peaceful thoughts to you and your family at this most difficult time. I am so very sorry for your loss. Mary Ann Vinelli, Easthampton, MA.
September 6, 2014
Michael and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bethann Ells Whately Mass.
September 6, 2014
Condolences to the Farnham Family. I remember Steven as a fantastic soccer player with skills and a dedication to the game. I coached at Easthampton High School and remember spirited games between the two schools.
Again, sorry for your loss.
Rick "Coach K" Konieczny
Formerly at Easthampton High School
Greg
September 6, 2014
God speed my friend. You made me laugh many a morning at those soccer games for Grace. I'll miss that part the most. Our prayers are with you Farnham family.
Dean Robbins
September 6, 2014
Steve will forever have a special place in my heart. A true gentleman and friend. Peace brother.
John Swartz
September 6, 2014
Mike and Family - so sorry for your loss - you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
September 6, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Mike and family. Thanks for all the memories. Ken Petrillo , Branchburg N.J.
Sal and Jim (Beals) Gross
September 6, 2014
Our hearts go out to you at this sad time in your lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tom Kieras
September 6, 2014
My sincere condolences go out to all of you. Hang in there Dave. ;( - Tom Kieras
Dottie Tatoian
September 6, 2014
To Michael & Family - May you always have fond memories of Steven and know that he is now at peace.
Fondly,
Dottie
Nancy Hanks Knihnicki
September 6, 2014
Rest peacefully my friend, you were a wonderful, funny and sweet man. My condolences go out to your family at this difficult time. ?
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