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Thomas Chalmers Obituary

Thomas Edward Chalmers

Amherst, MA - Thomas E Chalmers of Amherst, 88, passed away peacefully June 8 surrounded by his loving family. Born in Holyoke Hospital on July 30, 1935, he was the son of the late Kenneth and Helen (Flemming) Chalmers. Tom was a graduate of the University of Massachusetts and retired from Alcoholism Services of Greater Springfield where he was an EAP counselor. He was also a friend of Bill W for over 51 years. Affectionately known as Big Tom, he helped many people and his reach spread far and wide.

Tom adored his children and grandchildren, attending many sporting events. As a long time Yankee fan, he had a playful banter with his Red Sox loving grandsons, Justin and Jamie, who once decorated his car with Red Sox memorabilia. With a great sense of humor, he drove that car around with pride. He was an avid golfer and was a long-time member of the Amherst Golf Club where he had once served as President and Club Chairman for the Francis Ouimet Caddie Scholarship Fund.

Tom leaves behind his loving daughters Karen Carey and Shawn Durocher, son-in-law Rick Durocher, grandchildren Justin Carey, Jamie Carey, Olivia Dame and her husband Andrew Dame, Christina Durocher and Ava Carey, sister Barbara Romashko and sister-in-law Kathleen Weatherwax. He is predeceased by his wife of 58 years, Jane and sons Brian and Tommy.

Calling hours will be Wenesday, June 19, form 4 – 7 Pm at the Douglass Funeral Service, Amherst. A graveside service will be Thusday at 11 Am in South Amherst Cemetery.

Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Jun. 15, 2024.

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Dave Frazier

June 17, 2024

Rest in Peace Big Tom. Your giant smile, warm, welcoming personality and booming baritone voice will never be forgotten.

Bob McAllister

June 17, 2024

Tom was a character. Great smile, wonderful personality, with always a story to tell. I have many great memories of he and Jack Shea "holding court" at Amherst Golf Course after golfing events. He was like "Mr. Amherst", and will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to know him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. RIP Tom.
Bob McAllister

Sylvia and Bob Carey

June 15, 2024

Sorry for your loss. Tom was a character, we all enjoyed. He will be missed by all. RIP Tom.

Alice Murphy

June 11, 2024

RIP, "Big Tom" ! Til we meet again!
Alice & Keith M.
Holyoke

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4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

DOUGLASS FUNERAL SERVICE

87 NORTH PLEASANT ST., AMHERST, MA 01002

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SOUTH AMHERST CEMETERY

SOUTH EAST STREET, SOUTH AMHERST, MA 01002

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