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Chris Darland
November 9, 2024
I met Tom in the Summer of 1982, when I joined that year's group of Apprentices at MHCST. Tom (and his wife at the time, Mary) were so very important to my growth as a budding theater professional, and Tom's confidence and friendship were critical to the strengthening of my then fragile teenage self-confidence. I became the sound designer of MHCST for 2 years after I completed the Apprentice-Journeyman program, and then went on to work with Tom at the Children's Theater, both as an actor and technician.
Although we have not spoken in years, Tom has always been in my heart. I shall miss him terribly.

Matthew Coombs
June 17, 2024
Aang Lehrer
June 13, 2024
Met "Mr. McCabe" when I was 14 years old. He thought I was shining him on with the formality. As of today : laying down while on a work call- never has happened. Being on time: check. Always doing something to provide to the process of (theatre/ entertainment/ storytelling) with efficiency and precision: check.
I lack his warmth. But hold it his my heart. Good long life!
Beth Schaefer Burke MHC 87
June 8, 2024
In 1985 I played on the tennis team at MHC. I was finding it too much pressure, quit and auditioned to play an elf in a zany xmas show on campus. Didnt really know what children's theatre was like but seemed like a fun idea. ended up to be much more fun and better outlet from academic stress. Was my first meeting with Tom at the audition. He cast me as Feemer the crazy elf. From that insanely fun experience he then convinced me to audition for the MHC summer theatre-which didnt even knew existed. I had never taken an acting class, was history major and was terrified. He gave me a monologue, spoon fed me on what to do for the audition basically and then I showed up and told him I was too scared,didnt memorize anything and not auditioning.lol. He freaked and said just get up there and say /do anything. I totally panicked but then got an idea. i ran home, got my ukulele and hit the stage. Told the directors and I was just going to sing a long cowboy song my mom taught me and my sisters on long car rides. Im not a great singer or uke player and walked off the stage totally embarrassed but thinking-its ok, ill never see these people again! I done! Next day I find out I got cast in bunch of shows that summer, played the patchwork girl of oz, met wonderful Jack Neary and had a play written for me-Jerry Finnigans Sister and the rest is history! It was the highlight of my 4 years at MHC and all because of Tom McCabe believing in me when I didnt! He was my biggest fan and i'm sure he inspired zillions of other kids and adults with his big heart and presence. So lucky to have met him! I just cant believe he is gone. Huge hole. He really made the world a better place.
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Sheila Ray
June 8, 2024
Due to the unpredictable weather, we´ve decided to move tomorrow´s celebration of life to Tom´s daughter Kristen´s home at:
1140 Florence Rd.
Florence MA 01062
Please join us from 2-4 pm.
Lynn Matteson and John Hoops
June 4, 2024
Tom had a special place in our lives. He was at our wedding and during dinner Tom stood and began to tell stories about people falling in love, how people found love, and how they knew it when they did. He told our story, too. It was a deeply touching moment and allowed our guests to think about their own love stories. Tom's presence graced our wedding and made it richer for everyone. His life was like that. He added grace and love in many places.

Jennifer Burdick
June 3, 2024
No one will ever be able to fill these shoes.
Chris Sawyer
June 2, 2024
I remember Tom as well from the summer theater days. But what comes to
mind is the story times at Arcadia nature center in the late 70's.
What a yarn he could spin!
Chuck Collins
June 1, 2024
I remember playing hearts at the dining room table with the children´s theatre gang at his home In Florence. Add card sharp to his list of achievements.
Jack Neary
June 1, 2024
I posted this on my Facebook page yesterday: "Last week, my old friend from our grad school days at Smith College and later at the Mount Holyoke College Summer Theatre, Tom McCabe, and I met for breakfast at the Owl Diner in Lowell. Tom was his old self, telling stories and laughing at all my lame wisecracks. We left the Owl promising to send each other our latest writing efforts, and pledging to get together again soon. I hadn't seen Tom for over ten years and it was wonderful to relive some pleasant memories and talk about the future. You just never, ever know. RIP, Tom... you made a difference."
Roberta Lojko
June 1, 2024
To the McCabe family, I enjoyed working with and watching Tom´s many performances at Mt Holyoke Summer Theatre and at New Century Theater. He was a master story teller, creative writer and educator. I picture him surrounded by children and loved ones now, enraptured by his storytelling talents. May he rest peacefully with the angels.
Bev Bullock
May 31, 2024
Dear Anne,
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He willbe greatly missed here, at the Mountain View CSA and in many hearts. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Bev

Troy
May 31, 2024
Love by many and beloved by all
Dianne Baranowski
May 31, 2024
Dear Anne,
I´m so sorry to hear about Tom´s passing. I enjoyed his shows at the Children´s Theatre at Mount Holyoke College many years ago. I also miss seeing you at Kerry´s when I would get my nails done during the time I lived in Western Mass. Wishing you love and peace during this difficult time.
Dianne Baranowski
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