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David Guy Clapham was born in San Jose in 1952 to parents John and Jackie Clapham. Dave attended Overfelt High School where he began his football career. He went on to play at San Jose City College, and earned a scholarship to The University of Nevada Reno, where he graduated with a degree in political science. While at UNR, he earned All American NCAA status as an offensive lineman and was later inducted into the Hall of Fame for both football and boxing. He also played for the San Francisco 49ers rookie squad in 1974, and multiple seasons on the San Jose Tigers, where he again achieved HOF recognition.
Dave married his beautiful bride Lauren (Johnson) in 1983. Family members fondly recount how the couple would light up the room with their love and charisma. Dave and Lauren made their home in Hollister, CA, and raised two sons there: John David "JD" and Adam.
Clapham's coaching career spanned over 25 years, and included Gavilan College, West Valley College, San Benito High School, and Central Coast Barnstormers; leading to multiple State and National Championships.
Dave had a long career in Probation at Santa Clara County. He had a passion for helping young men transition into adulthood, and positively impacted numerous lives.
Dave was a devoted husband, amazing athlete, passionate coach, a rockstar father, and an advocate for social justice.
Dave is survived by his two sons: JD and Adam Clapham, numerous nieces and nephews, and a large extended family. He is preceded in death by his wife, Lauren. Dave's family is comforted knowing he is finally reunited with the love of his life. Dave liked to joke, danced, and lived like he brought the party. He will be greatly missed. Rest easy, coach.
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Linda Williams
September 1, 2024
Big Dave, oh how you´re missed. But you´re now in great company with my Jim Williams, Lauren, Duane and now your son JD. You were all taken from us way too soon. You are thought of daily and missed more than you ever know. May you all RIP.
Love you all, Linda Ovalle Williams
John Olenchalk
November 5, 2022
Sorry to hear of Dave's passing. He was a great man in all aspects. I was fortunate to be a teammate in 1977 in San Jose. Prayers and condolences to all.
Ken McGinnity
August 26, 2022
Sad to hear of Dave,s passing. I played against Dave in Junior College, and again at Reno. I was lucky enough to play next to Dave for three years with the San Jose Tigers. What a wild bunch we were. In fact I introduce Lauren to Dave at a party. The rest was history.
What we do in life echoes for eternity
Jerry Scattini, Head football Coach
July 14, 2022
I recruited Dave to the university of Nevada where he played outstanding football for three years as a offensive tackle. Dave had outstanding athletic skills and a super competitive attitude. He played with several excellent offensive linemen and the results were winning seasons with the offensive line leading the charge. A loyal Nevada alum that supported football for many years. So sorry for Daves passing as I only heard about it today. His presence will be missed.
Laura Dubois
July 14, 2022
So sorry to hear of Dave's passing- he was such a nice man and an exemplary father. Hugs to JD and Adam, thinking of you. Godspeed, Dave....
Yolanda Correa
July 13, 2022
Such a gentleman, he always made everything feel special. Rest In Peace amigo
Bob Hewitt
July 12, 2022
My condolences and best wishes to all of the Clapham family.
Linda white
July 12, 2022
I'm so sorry to hear this... I worked with him at James Ranch many years ago. He was a great guy. My condolences to his family.
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