Jamie block
April 26, 2021
I was an old pal from Chapel Hill. All these years later and I am just finding out about Amy´s untimely passing. I would be remiss, not matter how much time has passed, if I did not add my comment now. Amy possessed a remarkable spirit, positivity, and kindness. She even showed me how to waterski! Music was another passion we enjoyed together. I think of her often and will never forget a magical summer we spent together a long time ago now. My deepest condolences. She was one of a kind . God bless you Amy.

Queen of the Lake
September 3, 2008
Dawn
August 4, 2008
I knew Amy from "the coffee shop". Amy coached my nine year old daughter in how to sell for her school fundraiser. Only one person in 40 declined to purchase. Amy was so fun and joyful, my daughter loved her instantly as we all did. She will be greatly missed.
Brittany Crossland
August 3, 2008
I met Amy through the coffee shop she used to go to. We almost immediately became friends, I mean, how could you not want to become friends with such a caring, genuine, and bubbly person like Amy? I will never forget Amy. She will truly be missed and my thoughts and prayers go out to all of her family and friends.
Christopher Tobin
August 3, 2008
I was so distressed when I heard about Amy today in Cary. For about 1 and a half yearsAmy was a truly stellar life coach to me. Also I went waterskiing with her and Geoff.
June Tuck
July 31, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Ballinger & Family:
We were so saddened to hear of Amy's passing. Eddie, Molly and I remember her from her visits to Ballinger while Molly was a student there. She was a talented and beautiful woman. Please accept our sincere simpathies and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carla Bender
July 30, 2008
My heart aches for the Ballinger family as you experience this pain! I wasn't fortunate to ever get to meet Amy, but her sister, Anne, is my dear friend! I loved meeting and getting to know Patsy at CM retreats! I got to see lots of pictures of Amy as Patsy cropped and hear the stories that went with them! May the gift of having her as a daughter/sister and good memories be a tremendous comfort forever! I pray that God would be your greatest source of strength! You are in my prayers!!
Jane Brooks Rosser
July 26, 2008
I knew Amy from Western Guilford. She was a talented and lovely young lady. I am so sorry for your loss. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you.
Laura McCoy
July 24, 2008
I had the pleasure of meeting Amy only once when she came to our office for job training she was in charge of. Amy had such natural charm and radiated a genuine concern for those she interacted with. She sent me several emails after I broke my ankle, offering encouragement, and it impressed me deeply that she would extend such concern for a near-stranger as myself. She was truly an asset to this world, and I send my love and sympathy to her family and loved ones.
Tiffany Payton
July 21, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bill Cannell
July 18, 2008
What an amazing life. Unfortunately I only knew Amy in High School. She was a wonderful classmate and incredibly talented. I particularly remeber her in Fiddler on the Roof. I played her father and had the pleasure of listening to her sing "Far from the Home I Love." It brought tears to my eyes.
God bless you all.
Tina Rogers
July 18, 2008
To Amy's family and close friends: I offer you my heart-felt sympathy during this very difficult time. It seems like such an empty gesture but is one that is very genuine -- just like Amy.
Amy touched my life briefly but even before her death, she had permanently left her mark with me. She was always such a joy to be around and one of the few people that actually knew what confidentiality meant when you asked her to keep something for you. She always made time to touch base with those that she cared about -- and that was a lot of people. And it was amazing to see her around "difficult" people. She would warm up to them and her thoughtfulness and kind-hearted nature would back them down from their negative attitude rather quickly. She was so amazing and is very much missed.
Monica Caviness-Thames
July 18, 2008
Jonathan, Mrs. Ballinger, & families,
May you find comfort in the love of our Lord. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
In Christian Love,
Monica Caviness (WGHS '82)
Jayme Eldridge
July 17, 2008
I did not know Amy well, in fact I only had the pleasure of meeting her on a few occasions. We shared a mutual best friend, and I will always be grateful to Amy that she was there for our friend when I could not be.
Thank you.
May God bless, and be with her family in this difficult time.
Marcy Mann Moseley
July 17, 2008
I am so sad to learn about Amy's death. I had the privilege to get to know her through the singles group at Providence years ago. We were roommates for a time in Cary and shared many good times together. She was always eager to lend a hand and to love other people. She will be greatly missed and I will always cherish her friendship.
Meredith Webster Indermaur
July 17, 2008
Dear Ballinger family,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Although I've not seen Amy in quite a few years, I will remember her for her energy, intelligence and sweet spirit. I am praying for you all.
Bill Jarrell
July 16, 2008
I remember Amy from Ballinger Academy, but I was a couple grades ahead so I never knew her. My thoughts are with the Ballinger family at this difficult time.
Dorothy (Dotty) Hiott Muller
July 16, 2008
Dear Patsy, Max, Amy's family,
I was in Walterboro last weekend when Ed called to say that Amy had died. Please know that Momma and all of us are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you.
De
July 16, 2008
I did not know Amy but passed by her in our subdivision. She always passed with a smile. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
Floyd and Yvonne Needham
July 16, 2008
Dear Patsy and Max,
Floyd and I would like to express our deepest sympathy
to you and your family. We have not been in contact with you for many years so you may not remember us. We are the parents of Duane and Kim Needham who attended Balinger Academy many years ago. Our hearts go out to you in your sorrow.May God bless you,
Kathryn Hopper
July 16, 2008
I was a classmate of Amy's at Western Guilford and UNC Chapel Hill. I remember her glorious voice and wonderful dancing when we did Oklahoma. She was always so upbeat and encouraging and will be greatly missed by all of us lucky enough to have known her.
Patty Gardenhire
July 16, 2008
Family and Friends of Amy's: I am so very sorry for your great loss. I believe that God puts people in our lives for many reasons, and I am so thankful that He put Amy in mine. I worked with Amy at Bank of America, and we stayed in contact through the years. One of my fondest memories of Amy is that she came to my house to teach my two youngest girls to swim (who were 4 and 6 at the time). I went into the house to cook supper and by the time I came back out, the girls were swimming from one end of the pool to the other. Amy was so very talented in so many ways. She touched so many lives, that I know she will be missed by people everywhere, as evidenced by these notes. I consider myself blessed to have been her friend. The mark she has made on this world will carry on. Her faith was strong and her spirit was one of the sweetest I have ever known. My thoughts are fondly of Amy and my prayers are with you all.
Bob Plain
July 16, 2008
Mr & Mrs Ballinger, Max, Jonathan and Wendy,
We are so, so sad to hear about Amy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Amy's voice and spirit from Ballinger Academy will always be remembered.
Bob & Colette
Mike and Mary Anne Murray
July 16, 2008
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know we will hold you and your family up in our prayers.
Tom & Karen Sandhoff
July 16, 2008
Our heartfelt concern goes out to all family members, along with prayer for all experiencing the grief which accompanies the loss of one so loved. May the peace of Christ guard your minds and hearts at this difficult time.
Teressa Vannoy-Goss
July 16, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Ballinger and Family,
I am very sorry to hear about the tradgedy that took your beautiful Amy to be with the Lord. May GOD bring Peace like only HE can in times of heartache. I wish that I could be there to give you a hug. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope to see you soon! Much Love, Teressa
L. Dan Stewart & Carlton Landrum
July 16, 2008
We came to know Amy and Geoff several years ago through our friends Debra (Contaldi) and Andrea Senekal. And like the many others, we noticed Amy's positive energy and abundance of life. We are deeply saddened with the tragic loss. Our thoughts are with the friends and family
Amber Lanier
July 16, 2008
I only knew Amy through a great vacation to Cozumel. She was the person on the trip who was not content to lay on the beach and drink like the rest of us. Amy aquired every scuba diving certificate you could within 5 days and loved every second of it. She took pictures of everyone as if she were the paparazzi. It is impossible for me to imagine her without life. What a loss for all of us. Good bye Amy, hope you brought a little spunk into heaven!
Larry Johnon
July 15, 2008
Dear Max and Patsy,
Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences for you and your family in the passing of Amy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. SIncerely, Larry and Donalyn Johnson
Gayle Price Cannon
July 15, 2008
Max & Patsy, Max Jr & Johnathon:
I was stunned when I heard your precious Amy is no longer with us. I also was thrilled to read on her guest book that she knew Jesus Christ and was a warrior in His army.
Max... I am so heartbroken for you and all your family and Geoff's as well for your loss. I can't imagine.
You are one of my dearest friends in all the world and I ache too for the pain you and Patsy and all must be going through. I pray that as time goes on you each will know the comfort of God's touch. Knowing that she is now in the arms of Christ is all that makes this terrible loss bearable.
Jeremiah 29: 11-13

July 15, 2008
Bettie Josey
July 15, 2008
To the Family,
I didn't know Amy or any of you, I must say I have never sign a Guest Book for some one that I didn't know, but I read about Amy's death in the Danville Register this morning & my heart just broke for all of you.
She sound like a very nice, loving & caring young lady. I feel that she really enjoyed life.
I just can't imagine what you are going through, but know that family, friends and people that don't know you are praying for you at this time & will continue to pray.
You are all in my thoughts & prayers.
My Deepest Sympathy goes out to you all.
Ann, Walter, Walter IV and Jim Lockhart
July 15, 2008
Patsy, Max and Family. Please accept deepest condolences from all the Lockharts. We have fond memories of Amy during our Academy days, Our prayers are with you.
John Faulkner
July 15, 2008
Dear Mrs. Ballinger,
I was a student in your third grade class at Sternberger in the late '60s and knew Anne while we were Sternberger classmates. Although I never knew Amy, it is obvious from the newspaper article and the entries in the guest book that she was an exceptionally gifted and inspiring person who loved generously and was well-loved. I cannot imagine the heartbreak that you and your family must be feeling right now. I just hope that God will grant all of you peace and comfort during this painful time.
Mrs. Ballinger, you are one of the most kind, gifted, gracious and inspiring people I have ever known. I can only imagine that Amy was a lot like her mother -- an inspiration and a gift to all who knew her and a person who touched countless lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Anne and all of your family.
Amy Torcasso
July 15, 2008
Amy was someone who awed me. Her love for life and others was clear. Amy was a great friend and mentor to me, together we prayed and thought and planned how we would "press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus" a key scripture that she repeated over and over to me. I wish to have even half her focus and energy. I just can't say enough about her! She will not be forgotten, she has left an eternal imprint on my live an I'm sure many others!
I pray that God will be of comfort to you in this great loss!
Betty Swift
July 15, 2008
Patsy, my heart goes out to you and the other members of your family on the loss of Amy.
Mike Micele
July 15, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Ballinger, I only met Amy once with Jonathan. it was brief but I never forgot her. I can only say I am sorry for your loss, My prayers are with you in this time of tragedy. Your Friend, Mike MIcele
Kay Lanier
July 15, 2008
To Amy's Family
I met Amy last year when she was vacationing in Cozumel. We managed to tip a cataran completely upside down. As we floated out to sea, before our rescue, she shared with me little pieces of her life. Having read the obituary, it was just that-little pieces. She did more in 42 yrs. of life than most do in a 100. I feel honored to have met Amy. My condolences to the family.
Holly Holliday-Joseph
July 15, 2008
Dear Max, Patsy and Family, I am deeply
saddened by the passing on Amy. I remember her fondly from the Academy days and her riding her pony through the fields. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this horrible time.
I'm also writing for my mother Bertha Anthony Holliday who sends her thoughts and prayers to Max, Patsy, and family.
She talks about such wonderful times growing up down the road and playing in Guilford college with you all. She is thinking of all of your in the painful time and we will try to get her by to see you when she is feeling better. All our love-
Pete Donahue
July 15, 2008
To Amy’s Family and Friends,
Amy’s positive attitude, vision and warmth will not be forgotten. I came to know Amy & Geoff while riding road bikes with them at the MS Bike Tour (an annual fundraiser to help those touched by Multilpe Sclerosis) in New Bern, NC in September 2005. Amy’s friendly and welcoming manner to those she encountered served as a role model. She never met a stranger. She truly left this world better than she found it. In moments of JOY remember Amy… Respectfully
Andrea Bryan Hoss
July 15, 2008
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Ballinger, Max, Anne & Jonathon;
I was a student at Ballinger Academy during the early 70's. I have such a clear picture of Amy as an extremely intelligent and thoughtful person who could play a mean game of soccer (we loved the girls vs. boys games)! She had accomplished so much, and from reading the other condolences, was surrounded by an abundance of love. Cherish that love. My heart goes out to your family.
Mary Rose
July 15, 2008
To Amy's family: I came across Amy's website when searching for help with my life. I know that God guided me to her because she was able to direct me to new ways of thinking which have made and continue to make a wonderful, positive impact on our lives. I am so blessed to have known her. I am so sad that she is no longer here. My condolences and prayers to you all.
Peggy Dillard
July 15, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about Amy. Amy was a joy to be around, always so pleasant and uplifting. I remember hearing her sing on numerous occasions in Barbara's basement to the Karaoke machine and on our 4th of July gatherings. Amy helped Barbara decorate for my daughter Tiffany's wedding last October and we so appreciated her gift for decorating. My family will be lifting all of you up in our prayers. May God Bless You and Give You Grace and Peace in this difficult time. In Loving Memory...
Tomas Labanc
July 15, 2008
I met Amy on the ship with her mam in europe... She was /is/ beautyful person. I want give my condolence all family. Every time I told her "God is good and he loves you" Now pray for us Amy. "God is good"
Tomas Labanc, Kosice, Slovakia europe
Wanda Wyant
July 15, 2008
Dearest Mrs. Ballinger and Family -- The Wyant family extends sincere condolences to your family during this most difficult and heartbreaking time. At the conclusion of my daughter Jessica's Kindergarten graduation at Ballinger Prepatory Academy, which was also the last class held at the Academy, Patsy asked Amy to sing "Summertime" for her. I remember being mesmorized by Amy's voice and have thought about that several times since. She was a beautiful young woman and I know Patsy you will treasure your memories and always hold her so tight in your heart. I know she is singing with the angels and YOU WILL SEE HER AGAIN ONE DAY! My love to you.
Sue Gupton
July 15, 2008
To Ballingers and Grishams,
Tim and I were so shocked by the news (as I'm sure everyone has been). Our prayers are with each one of you during this very difficult time. Amy was very special to us and we will miss her tremendously. Her smile was contagious. Tim and I will not be able to attend the funeral in Greensboro as he is out of town, but our thoughts and prayers will be with you. May God wrap His loving arms around each of you and give you comfort during this most difficult time.
Love,
Sue and Tim Gupton
Frank Spears
July 15, 2008
Dear Family of Amy: My deepest sympathy; words cannot express my feelings that go out to you at this time. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. We met a couple of years ago while riding motorcycles. She has been a big supporter of our cause in aiding the families of fallen Police Officers. We will all miss her greatly
Frank Spears
Chaplain
Raleigh Blue Knights
Mike
July 15, 2008
My heart goes out to Amy's family and loved ones but truly wish someone could have found a better pic for the obit. At least her love for power-tools was mentioned. Amy was a wonderful human being full of enthusiasm and inspiration. I hope she's riding free now....
Vange Wilhoit
July 15, 2008
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
WGHS '83
Montine Gill
July 15, 2008
To the Ballinger family:
My deepest sympathy goes out to you. I hadn't seen Amy since we were kids but she sounds like she was a wonderful and outgoing woman. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Montine (Rudisill) Gill
204 Mooresville Rd.
Greensboro, NC 27410
Thomas Wilkinson
July 15, 2008
I am deeply saddened by the loss of the wonderful Amy Ballinger. I was a close personal friend of Amy's and can honestly say that she was instrumental in helping me get my life on track. Her energy, sense of humor, and generosity will surely be missed in this world. I was fortunate enough to spend the Christmas holidays with Amy and no one celebrated that special time quite like Amy. I was also able to perform with her as her accompanist on several occasions. I treasure many of my memories of time spent with her and her smile. The world will be a much less interesting place without her. I will be praying for her family, who were always kind and welcoming to me. There is no way to say how disturbing and unfair it is that this has happened to someone with so much left to give the world. She will be missed terribly by all who were lucky enough to be her friend.
Vonda Livingston
July 15, 2008
I have so many precious memories of time spent with Amy...the trip to the Grand Canyon, skiing out on the lake and many many trips to Seaboard Cafe. I am so glad I was able to see her last September when we returned to The States. I was so looking forward to introducing her to my other daughter once we return for good. Amy was a woman filled with life and adventure, and I am so sorry for the void that I know is in your hearts. Please know that even though I will not be able to attend the funeral, I will be lifting you all up in prayer. Love, Vonda (Williams) Livingston, Germany
Marcia McNamara
July 15, 2008
I worked with Amy at a Raleigh law firm many, many years ago. I loved her smile and upbeat zest for life. My sincere condolences to Amy's family. Marcia McNamara
Mary Pollard
July 15, 2008
Max & Patsy & family, I did not know your daughter, but she sounds like she was a wonderful person. I extend my heartfelt sympathy to all of you & my prayers will be with you at this very difficult time.
Alice Clodfelter
July 15, 2008
I have a daughter who is 42 and I have lost a son with cystic fibrosis. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Just wanted to let you know.
Jill Goldsmith
July 15, 2008
Amy was a special friend who could always make me laugh no matter how challenging life became. She was truly "one of a kind" and I will miss her terribly. I love you Amy.
Tomas Labanc
July 15, 2008
I met Amy on the ship in Europe with her mam... She was /is/beatyfull personI want give my condolence to all family. Everytime I told her ? God is good and he loves you?
Now pray for us Amy.
?God is good?
Tomas Labanc, Slovakia europe
Lois Levy
July 14, 2008
I met Amy many years ago at a Fred Kaufman training to which we were both invited. We got to spend two intense weeks together in a group, but we hit it off right away. I haven't physically seen her since, but we have been in constant email communication over the years and I "talked" with her last week.
I'm so sad for all of us here on earth. Amy was an amazingly vibrant spirit who communicated light to everyone she met.
To her family: I will be with you in spirit at her service. And I will keep you all in my prayers.
Renee (& Leon) Tucker
July 14, 2008
Amy was a special person with a passion for life and a deep love for people. I was honored to be in her wedding a few years ago, and I am sorry that I will not be able to attend her services due to being on my husband's sabbatical in the north. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Amy will be missed, but we will see her again one day in Heaven, where she is now with our Lord.
Lynn and Dean Peterson
July 14, 2008
Extending our deep and heartfelt sympathy to the Ballinger family. You're in our thoughts and prayers, now and in the days to come.
Bob Gardner
July 14, 2008
Dear Anne and Grisham Family:
Erica called us today with the news and we wanted to express what a special experience it was knowing Amy. Her company was enjoyed in Mexico and we appreciated that she always made time available for visiting when we were in North Carolina. Our condolences to all.
Bob Gardner and Kay Lanier
Debra & Johnny Guin
July 14, 2008
We were one of the first people on the scene of the accident Friday, and even though we had never met Amy, our hearts go out to you in this very difficult time. We have prayed for you and will continue to pray for you in the days to come. Our sincerest sympathies.
Martha Ferrell
July 14, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the Ballinger family at this time. Amy will always be remembered by me as a bright little girl with a great sense of humor.
Wayne & Beth Strader
July 14, 2008
Max, Patsy, and the Grisham Family, our hearts are heavy for you during this time of grief. We pray you may find comfort in the days ahead, through close friends and God's love.
Leigh Anne Losh
July 14, 2008
I met Amy through Investors Title last year. She has been an inspiration to me in my career and my personal life. It seemed there was nothing she couldn't do. I will miss her deeply.
Philip & Laure Hoffman
July 14, 2008
Dear Anne, Max Jr. and Family,
We were so sorry to open the paper today and read of Amy's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please give our condolences to your parents and families!
Lonnie Albright
July 14, 2008
Dear Max, Patsy and family, You have my deepest sympathy. I only wish there were some small way in which I could lighten your burden of sorrow.
Vickie Maness
July 14, 2008
I was so sorry to hear about Amy. Please know that you will certainly be in my thoughts and prayers.
Just know that her love will always live in your heart!
Kelli Worley
July 14, 2008
I am a coworker of Geoff's. Our prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Bob and Pauline Payseur
July 14, 2008
Patsy, Max, and family: We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter and sister. Even though we have lost contact over the years, we have continued to value your friendship. May the presence of God be with you during thse days.
Betty and David Alexander
July 14, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. We know that Amy brought a lot of joy to everyone's life.
Lisa Ambrose
July 14, 2008
Please know that as wonderful a life as Amy had, it is truly downtrodden compared to where she is now.
Dana Austin
July 14, 2008
I did not know Amy well, but I could tell she was a beautiful person from the inside out. She will be greatly missed and fondly remembered. May God bless and keep you through your sorrow.
Janene Swift Tompkins
July 14, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of Amy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I always remember the fun times we had on the Farm when we were little kids.
Sheila Burdick
July 14, 2008
I am a Red Hat sister of Amy's sweet mother Patsy. My heart is deeply saddened for all of your family at this time and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Sheila
Barbara Slaght
July 14, 2008
Dear Patsy and Family and Grisham Family: My deepest sympathy; words cannot express my feelings that go out to you at this time. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love,
Debbie Elig
July 14, 2008
Amy was truly a fun loving, high spirited individual. One I will truly miss. I met Amy through Investors Title and will cherish the laughs we shared.
Gail Hinton
July 14, 2008
May your hearts be warmed by all the good memories and comforted by the presence of God surrounding you at this very difficult time.
Luke Steele
July 14, 2008
We met Amy at Falls Lake. Didn't know her off the water, but her smile and her determination made us look forward to seeing her there. She inspired both my daughters to reach outside their comfort level, and we will miss her greatly. She was a beautiful lady in so many ways.
Mike and Leasa Henry
July 14, 2008
Max and Family,
We are thinking and praying for you with this loss. May God comfort you during this time. Our deepest sympathy.
Bill & Cathi Angel
July 14, 2008
Our Prayers are with the Family, Please call on us (God be holding your hand in this time of need)
Tracey Rasnake-Gallardo
July 14, 2008
I was a student at Ballinger Academy in the late 70's and early 80's. I remember Amy fondly. She was always happy and outgoing. I am truly sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.
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