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HELENA - Decorated World War II Army and retired National Guard veteran Col. Joseph Weldon Upshaw, 90, of Helena, died of natural causes Thursday in Helena.
Funeral services are 11 a.m. Wednesday at Our Redeemer's Lutheran Church in Helena, followed by a reception at the church. Interment with military will be held at 1:30 p.m. in Montana State Veteran's Cemetery at Fort Harrison. Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home in Helena is handling arrangements.
Joseph Weldon Upshaw was born Feb. 10, 1920, in Mesa, Ariz., to Forrest and Eunice Upshaw. He was the ninth of ten children, three of whom died in infancy. Our beloved Joe passed away on Dec. 23, 2010, in Helena, Mont.
When he was two years old, his family moved to Driggs, Idaho, and to Chinook, Mont., one year later. The family lived on farms in the Chinook area. When the Great Depression came in the early 1930's, all of the family worked on the farm or took whatever employment they could find to augment the family income. The older children did not attend high school in order to help the younger ones. The family lived three miles from school in Chinook so those in school had to walk six miles each day round trip.
The family had moved into Chinook when Joe entered high school. He found a job as a school janitor weekday evenings and also as a night clerk at a local hotel on weekends. He graduated as valedictorian of his class in 1938, and lettered in several sports. When he was a high school sophomore, he joined the Montana Army National Guard one month short of his 16th birthday. Joe was always a lover of America and the one dollar he received for each day of National Guard training was saved for his graduation expenses. Joe received a scholastic scholarship to Montana State University and planned to work for two years to save the additional money needed for college. He found a job with the Montana State Highway Department on a gravel search crew and continued in this job until September 1940.
Joe had remained in the National Guard and was called to active duty to train for the war which now seemed imminent. He served five years active duty including three years in the Southwest Pacific. He served with distinction in New Guinea in his beloved 163rd Infantry Regiment as an Infantry leader in battle. He received many medals and decorations including the Bronze Star for Valor, but was most proud of his Combat Infantry Badge.
After the war, Joe worked at the Chinook Post Office and married the love of his life, Gloria Skoyen of Chinook, on May 9, 1948. Joe and Gloria had three sons, Dale, Gary and Eugene. During this time Joe was instrumental in organizing the post-war National Guard in Chinook, and soon became company commander. In 1961, he was asked to work full time with the National Guard and the young family moved to Bozeman and later to Helena, where he served on various assignments on the staff of the Adjutant General. He retired as a colonel in 1977 after 40 years of combined active duty Army and National Guard service.
Prior to retirement Joe served as president of the Montana National Guard Officers Association and president of the Montana Chapter of the U.S. Army Association. After retirement, he remained very active in military affairs. He served a term as Civilian Aide to the Secretary of the Army and was president of the 163rd Infantry WWII Association, member of the Montana Military Museum board, member of the Helena Chamber Military Affairs committee, and for several years was chairman of the annual 163rd Infantry reunions. He was very proud of the Montana Guard and worked with them in various capacities after retirement. He was most proud of having the current 1-163 Montana Guard Infantry Battalion of Fort Harrison designate a 2005 Iraq combat mission as 'Operation Upshaw', which not only honored him but all the 163rd Infantry boys, especially those of 'M' Company of Chinook, Harlem and Fort Belknap.
Joe was very civic minded and served in many capacities after military retirement. He was a member of the State Regulatory Board of Public Accountants, Governor's Select Board for Health Care Cost Containment, Governor's Council on Aging, AARP National and State Legislative Councils, Helena Civic Center Board, Grand Street Theatre Board, Our Redeemer's Lutheran Board, and various other boards and civic organizations. Joe was AARP State Director of the "VOTE" program and Vice Chair of Montana Senior Legacy Legislature. He also found time to appear in several Grand Street Theatre productions.
Joe always kept his love for Gloria and his family first and foremost. He often said he was eternally grateful for Gloria's love, understanding and quiet guidance without which he could not have survived these many years.
Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Forrest and Eunice; brothers John and Oscar; sisters Jewel, Lydia and Faye; and grandson Joseph "Joey" Evan Upshaw.
He is survived by Gloria, his loving wife of 62 years; sons Dale of Dayton, Ohio, Gary and wife Jane of Federal Way, Wash., and Gene of Manitou Springs, Colo.; sister Wanda Sheets of Tigard, Ore.; granddaughter Erica Austin and husband Damon of Laguna Beach, Calif; grandchildren Jennifer Upshaw of Wenatchee, Wash., and Curtis Upshaw of Tacoma, Wash., and many nieces and nephews.
The family wishes to thank the staff of Big Sky Care Center, the Waterford on Saddle Drive, our many Helena friends and our relatives for their kind support during the past several months.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Joseph's name to Our Redeemers Lutheran Church, 1400 Stuart Street Helena, MT 59601; the Montana Military Museum, P.O. Box 125 Fort Harrison, MT 59636 or the Joe Upshaw Memorial Project (JUMP) in memory of his grandson Joseph Evan Upshaw, 1278 Club View Lane, Centerville, OH, 45458.
Condolences may be posted online at www.aswfuneralhome.com and/or gftribune.com/obituaries.

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Published by Great Falls Tribune on Dec. 27, 2010.

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Barbara Lafrantz

January 1, 2011

Richard Wagner and Barbara Lafrantz would like to express their condolences to the Upshaw family. Rich was in the Montana National Guard with Joe and I knew him when he worked in the postoffice in Chinook. He always was so cheerful in the Post Office. He certainly lived an interesting and productive life.

Connie Harshman Bergen

December 27, 2010

I am sorry to hear of the passing of your husband, father, and grandfather. I still remember the Upshaws from across the alley and the day that they moved away. My parents (Maurice and Arlene Harshman) always spoke fondly of Joe.

Bonnie Mount Bentley

December 27, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Joe's Passing, he was a great man, My Father (J.J. Mount) Talked highly of him, and the time they served together during World War 2. ( 163 Infantry).

Shiela Harshman Brubaker

December 27, 2010

My condolences to the Upshaw family with the loss of their loved one Joe. I remember as a child the Upshaws living across the alley from my family --the Maurice Harshman clan.

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