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Diane Elizabeth Wassman Darst

Diane Darst Obituary

DIANE ELIZABETH WASSMAN DARST, PH.D., of Greenwich, passed away gracefully surrounded by her adoring family on June 22, 2010, at the age of 62. A Greenwich resident since 1981 and a true Renaissance Woman, Dr. Darst was a founder and director of Learning to Look, a nationally-known art education program for children, the author of two books, and a leader of numerous civic and cultural organizations as Chairman of the Boards of the Greenwich Library, the United Way of Greenwich, and the Bruce Museum. Daughter of Eleanor and E. Robert Wassman, she was born in New Rochelle, N.Y. on April 11, 1948. She graduated first in her class, summa cum laude, and Phi Beta Kappa, from Connecticut College and was awarded a Ph.D. in European Cultural and Intellectual History from Columbia University under Jacques Barzun. At Columbia she took courses as well with art historians Theodore Reff and Meyer Schapiro. She also studied in Florence, Italy and lived for six years in Zurich, Switzerland, where she danced professionally with the Zurich Opera Ballet Company. She is the author of Western Civilization to l648 (McGraw-Hill, l990) and Learning to Look, A Complete Art History and Art Appreciation Program for Grades K-8 (Prentice Hall, l992), and served as a regular columnist on art history for children in Instructor Magazine. She also wrote the chapters on visual arts in the revised series of What Your Kindergartner (1st Grader, 2nd Grader) Needs to Know (Doubleday, 1998). Dr. Darst was Co-Director of Learning to Look, an art education program taught in numerous schools that she developed and taught for the past twenty-seven years. These multi-year courses introduced children and adults to the process of looking at painting and sculpture by analyzing the elements of art and by incorporating various interactive and dialogue-based activities. Each year she conducted approximately ninety seminars to train adults to present Learning to Look in Connecticut and New York Metropolitan area schools. A frequent and popular speaker on art history, she lectured graduate and undergraduate students and the general public throughout the northeast. An active leader in the Greenwich community, Diane served as President of the Greenwich Library Board of Trustees from 1998 to 2000 with oversight of its $30 million Cesar Pelli-designed building expansion, Chairman of the Friends of the Greenwich Library, and Trustee of Greenwich Academy. She held the office of Chairman of the Board of the United Way of Greenwich from 2004 to early 2007 and served as a founding Director of the Alliance for Cancer Gene Therapy (ACGT). She served on the Board of Directors of the Bruce Museum of Arts and Science for the past six years including as Co-Chairman of the Board from 2007 to 2009. Diane also curated several art exhibitions at the Flinn Art Gallery and served on its Selection Committee. She received the Spirit of Greenwich award in 2000. Diane was dearly beloved and most admired as daughter, sister, wife, and mother. She is survived by her husband, David M. Darst, of Greenwich; her daughter ,Elizabeth M. Darst and son-in-law, Charles S. Leykum of Greenwich; her son, David M. Darst, Jr. of New York, NY; her brother, E. Robert Wassman, M.D., of Marblehead, MA; her sister, Debra Wassman Lanman, M. Arch. of Millbrook, NY; and many loving cousins, nieces, and nephews. Her beautiful spirit, her strength of character, and her unending love will live on in all of us forever. Services will be held at 10 a.m. on Friday, June 25, 2010, at the First Presbyterian Church of Greenwich, One West Putnam Avenue in Greenwich, CT. Donations may be made in her memory to the Bruce Museum, the Greenwich Library, or The United Way of Greenwich. Fred D. Knapp & Son Funeral Home of Greenwich is assisting with arrangements.

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Published by GreenwichTime on Jun. 24, 2010.

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Spencer Warren

December 17, 2020

I may have written here already. I don’t remember. I met Diane once, when about 2000 I happened upon a tour she was conducting at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. The absolutely brilliant way she opened up and explained the paintings put to shame every docent I have ever heard. Afterward we talked on the steps on Fifth Avenue and I asked her about the book I was writing on how Changes in movies across the decades reflect changes in culture and society. I retained her to consult as art is not my field. I shall never forget her talks on the paintings, the most thrilling intellectual experience I have ever had. She was the most brilliant person I ever met, and I too attended Columbia. I only learned of her passing many years later and am so sorry for her and her family. Way too soon.

Gary Brandwein

January 10, 2014

Dear David and family.
Sorry to have stumbled on Dianne's passing. I was doing some research in the Art History/architecture Dept when Dianne's name came up. (You might remember me from Stuyvesant High School.) I hope you are well. With sadness, Gary Brandwein

Chew-Mee Kirtland

July 9, 2010

Dear David, Sr.,

I never met Diane but reading the many entries in the guest book from friends, I can imagine her spirit and personality. We heard the news from Les and felt sad to know that she has departed so early. Gordon, our girls (your fellow Exonians) and I think of you, Elizabeth and David, Jr. and send you our condolensces and sympathies for your loss. With love,

Kitty & Guy Darst

July 7, 2010

The princess kissed the frog and then she went away. . .

Stephanie Minkove

July 1, 2010

It was an honor to learn from Diane. She had a gift for transmitting both her knowledge and her passion for art, and all children and parents who are fortunate enough to experience her Learning to Look program will continue to be influenced by Diane's remarkable teaching. We knew that she was fighting her illness, and yet each time we saw her she put her best face forward, figuratively in terms of the energy she put into each lesson, and literally, in how beautiful and elegant she always looked. I am sure that I speak on behalf of our SAR community when I say how very much we admired Diane and how much we will miss her. My deepest sympathy to the Darst and Wassman family. Stephanie Minkove

Ellen Etkin

July 1, 2010

Diane grew up in the house nextdoor to our's. From her first day until her last, she was a sweet, bright and beautiful star. Condolences to the Darst and Wassman family.

Mr. G. Alex Martin

June 30, 2010

I've never met Diane but I know David Sr., which they say it's the woman behind the man, that makes him the man he is; In that case all I have read and all that have been said, she must have been a wonderful person, I wished with all I now know about Diane we would have met, I can say if David is the man he is because of Diane, she did great.. Ciao Bella..I wrote a little something for you Diane;
Written for D.E.W.D.

we seldom look forward to our destined futures
we know it is there
we never know why, when or how
we grow to expect it
we have been destined without choice
we are never willing candidates
we will always be surprised
we must live while we are able
we more than ever shall enjoy the day
For We All Will Move On.....
By. Mr G. Alex Martin
R.I.P. D.E.W.D.

Sandra Gruenberg

June 28, 2010

We at Solomon Schechter Westchester are saddened by Diane's loss. She was a gracious, spirited lady who taught us all the power of art and the influence it could have on our children's and our own lives. We, the staff, parents and children of our community feel lucky to have known Diane; to have studied with her; and to have benefitted from her knowledge and her passion! May her memory be for a blessing for all of her family and friends.

Carey Gangitano

June 27, 2010

To the Darst Family,

It was my privilege to know Diane and have the opportunity to learn and spend time with her.
I have great admiration and respect for her, and her contagious enthusiasm for art, she was the consummate teacher. I will remember her fondly.
Thank you for sharing her with us.
With deepest sympathy,
Carey Snyder Gangitano

Deborah Taylor

June 26, 2010

Diane, for whom I had enormous respect, was one of the finest, kindest and intelligent persons I knew in highschool.
My deepest sympathy to the family.

Grethe Holby

June 26, 2010

I danced with Diane all though our childhood years, and went to school with Diane from 6th grade on. We were in the same classes, and lived in the same neighborhood. This news is unfathomable for me, as I am sure it is for us all. And yet, what a wonderful life she led.
I send my love and condolences to Diane's family, and want you to know I hold these memories of Diane in my heart.
Very truly yours, Grethe (Palmer) Holby

June 25, 2010

Diane's brightness can never be extinguished. I have always been in awe of her yet, she was never in awe of herself. Always kind, gentle and loving with an amazing sparkle. I will miss her presence here. I am so sorry and send my love to the whole Darst family. Jane Dunn

Gail Friedman

June 25, 2010

My heartfelt condolences go out to Diane's family, her circle of friends and community. What an exceptional woman. My thoughts are with you.

Sheryl Littmann

June 25, 2010

Diane was beautiful and so talented. Her work with Learning to Look inspired so many. May her memory always be with blessings.

Connie Hochman

June 24, 2010

Diane taught by example: her integrity, commitment, joy, generosity, love of beauty, sensitivity, and modesty. It was a privilege and gift to know her.
Thank you, Diane.

June 24, 2010

Diane was truly a gem! All of us in our Tuesday morning Ballet class will miss her smile, spirit, determination, and her grande jete.
Our Love and prayers go out to the entire Darst family and Bob and Debbi as well.
Thinking of you all during this very sad time.
Jayne Santoro

June 24, 2010

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Diane Darst

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June 24, 2010

Diane was the epitome of the life long learner and a model to all of us at Greenwich Academy. Hundreds of young women learned to appreciate and value great art thanks to her vision. A great loss for the community and her wonderful family.
With deepest sympathy, Patsy Howard

Yvette Finkelstein

June 24, 2010

To the Darst family,

My condolences to all of you. Diane...oh, Diane...an incredible lady, with a beautiful spirit. Diane radiated grace and intelligence. Her passions for art, as well as dance, were contagiouos. Her pride in her family - in her talented and accomplished children - and her dedication to her loving husband - were profound. Diane's influence on my life and the multitude of others with whom she interacted will be felt forever. We are all so much sadder for the passing of this magnificent woman.

Yvette Finkelstein

Gregory Nihon

June 24, 2010

My most sincere and heartfelt condolences go out to Elizabeth and to Mr. Darst and David Jr. The courage exhibited by Mrs. Darst and by your entire family will continue to inspire me. My thoughts are with you all.

Judy Holden

June 24, 2010

Diane gave so much to all of us in the last four and half years. Her wisdom and care for the institutions she loved is an inspiration.

Debi Calabrese

June 24, 2010

It was always a pleasure to see Diane's smiling face in the Trustees' Office at the Greewich Library. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.

Anne Adler

June 24, 2010

What a beautiful obituary for a beautiful woman - beauty of heart, mind and body. She gave so much but was not given enough time. Take care...

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