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Jerry York Carnegie Jr.

1951 - 2024

Jerry York Carnegie Jr. obituary, 1951-2024, Cos Cob, CT

BORN

1951

DIED

2024

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Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home - Greenwich

31 Arch Street

Greenwich, Connecticut

Jerry Carnegie Obituary

Jerry York Carnegie, Jr.
4/29/2024
JERRY YORK CARNEGIE, JR., eternal optimist and proud father, died on Monday, April 29, 2024 at the age of 72. Jerry was born in Nyack, NY on November 12, 1951, to the late Jerry York Carnegie and Bess Sweeney Carnegie. He spent his early childhood living above Jerry's Tavern, his parents' restaurant in New City, NY. He graduated from Princeton University in 1973 and met his beautiful bride, Lynn Evensen, on a bus commuting into Manhattan. They settled in Cos Cob, CT, and raised their family. He is survived by Lynn and their four children, Jerry III (Ashley), Charles (Allison), Britt (Alec Lash), and Karin Shetty (Sho), and eight grandchildren (and counting!). Jerry was an Enrolled Actuary and a Fellow of the Society of Actuaries. He spent the bulk of his professional life at Hewitt Associates, where he became a partner in 1982 and served as the principal pension consultant and trusted advisor to Xerox Corp, Citigroup, and many others. He used to say, "anything worth doing is worth doing right," and he took great pride in his work. After retiring in 2004, Jerry pivoted to his preferred occupation of Little League baseball coach. He wore a warm, earnest smile and loved spending time with family, playing golf, buying groceries in bulk, and rooting on the Amazin' Mets. He was always quick to offer his family or friends a ride, and his five-star rating will live forever. On April 27, 2015, Jerry became the first man in history to have his first grandchild and win the Greenwich Country Club bowling championship in a single day. Jerry loved to say things were "gorgeous" – a word we should all think and speak more often. The family will receive friends and family on Thursday, May 2nd, from 2:30-4:30 p.m. and 7:00-9:00 p.m. at Gallagher Funeral Home, 31 Arch Street, Greenwich, CT, and will celebrate his life at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, May 3rd at St. Catherine of Siena Church, 4 Riverside Avenue, Riverside, CT. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating in Jerry Carnegie's memory to Compassionate Care ALS at ccals.org, RVNAhealth Hospice at rvnahealth.org, Fairfield County House https://www.fairfieldcountyhouse.org, or a charity of your choice.

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Published by Greenwich Time on Apr. 30, 2024.

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Honey Lou

June 17, 2024

I just now learned my cousin Jerry has passed into Eternity ... May he rest in peace...

Betty Roberts

May 6, 2024

my love and prayers are with all of you
Betty

Betty Roberts

May 6, 2024

I am sending you my love and payers
Be strong
Betty Roberts

Diane and Rob Zingali

May 3, 2024

Dear Lynn and family... we are so sorry to hear that Jerry has passed away. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

John & Leslie Cooper

May 1, 2024

So sorry to read this, as Jerry was the original nice guy and his family meant everything to him. Your memory will live long through each and every one of your children and grandchildren. Condolences to Karen and family.

Ron Garfunkel

April 30, 2024

Very sad to lose this most amiable upbeat golf pal. My condolences to the family-rag

Sandy Waters

April 30, 2024

So sorry to read this news. Heartfelt sympathy to Lynn and the family.

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Memorial Events
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May

2

Visitation

2:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home - Greenwich

31 Arch Street, Greenwich, CT 06830-6512

May

2

Visitation

7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home - Greenwich

31 Arch Street, Greenwich, CT 06830-6512

May

3

Celebration of Life

11:00 a.m.

St. Catherine of Siena Church

4 Riverside Avenue, Riverside, CT

Funeral services provided by:

Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home - Greenwich

31 Arch Street, Greenwich, CT 06830-6512

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