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John Conte Obituary

John Robert Conte, Jr.
John Robert Conte Jr. died suddenly, at home, on April 22, 2025.
John was born in Greenwich, CT, at Greenwich Hospital on July 16, 1959, to John and Principia Conti. He attended Greenwich schools and graduated from St. Mary High School in 1977, where he played goalie on the varsity hockey team and was Senior Class President.
After high school graduation, John attended the State University of New York, where he earned a degree in horticulture. With a passion for the beauty of trees, he later became a CT State licensed arborist. John went on to become a CT and NY licensed Landscape Architect as well. To further his professional acumen, he also studied Architectural History at Columbia University and Horticulture at Harvard Graduate School of Design. He frequently described these studies as a "hobby" because he so loved what he did in his work life.
John had decided early on that he wanted to work alongside his father in their family business, Fairfield Tree Service, which was founded by his father, in Greenwich, in 1937.
John and Kim took over ownership of Fairfield Tree Service in 1985. Along with his love for trees, he developed a passion for landscapes and their design. He grew the business into Fairfield House & Garden Co., specializing in landscape construction and fine home building. Along with Fairfield House & Garden, John later formed a second business in Greenwich, Conte & Conte, which focuses on Landscape Architecture and Engineering.
John was a true visionary. As soon as he stepped onto a property, he could visualize how to transform it into something magical and unique. Over the years, he developed an extensive portfolio of beautiful landscapes that came to life under his direction, many of which can be found right in Greenwich. John envisioned and created unique design solutions, always seeing past the ordinary to find the extraordinary. And always, John was a champion of trees and their protection.
John married his beloved wife, Kimberly (Stevenson) Conte, in 1983. Like John, Kim too is a lifelong Greenwich native. They raised their two adored sons in Greenwich, while running the family business together for 41 years. John met Kim in 1982 on the Byram Park softball field when Kim was set up for a blind date with someone else. Unfortunately for that date, John spotted Kim and Kim spotted John at that game, and it truly was love at first sight for each other. They were engaged seven months later. That love was at the center of everything they did – how they raised their children, how they worked so beautifully together, and how they treated their family, friends, colleagues, clients and strangers. All with love.
John was a consummate family man. He most loved time spent gathering with his family and friends. He threw many large gatherings at his beloved "Langhorne Lodge" home. His home was always open to everyone, and John had a knack for making those in his presence feel comfortable, cared for and loved.
John had so many talents and enjoyed many hobbies. What made them most enjoyable to him, though, was sharing them with others. He loved taking family members for a spin on the Long Island Sound in his beautiful boat, or painstakingly setting up his intricately-created Christmas train scene on the outside porch for all the grandchildren and nieces and nephews to enjoy. He loved to keep the outdoor fireplace he built, stoked for visitors to gather around, while bringing you the best tasting cappuccino around. John loved people and John loved life.
Upon returning home to Greenwich whenever traveling, John always commented on what a privilege it was to come home to the beautiful town of Greenwich. He marveled at its beauty and character. And he was passionate about keeping its best qualities for generations to come. Because of this, John gave generously of his time, throughout his life, to the many town organizations in which he was involved. John's wise, steady counsel made him an asset to the numerous non-profits and Greenwich Town agencies on which he served. He was a board member of Family Center, the Greenwich Chapter of the Boy Scouts, the Greenwich Land Trust and Greenwich Audubon. John was Board President for Greenwich Green & Clean, the Round Hill Association, and the Greenwich Tree Conservancy. John spent many years as Co-Chair of both the Greenwich Inland Wetlands & Watercourses Agency and the Architectural Review Committee.
John will be so sorely missed. But those who knew John can be continually reminded of him as they ride through the beautiful Greenwich streets. It is likely they'll be passing by a landscape that he designed, or a welcoming park that he created, or a lovely storefront design that he approved, or a tree that he saved.
John is survived by his beloved wife, Kimberly, sons, John III (Juliana) and David, grandchildren, David Jr., Giovanni and Eloise, and siblings: Cheryl Conte, Regina Lupo (Anthony deceased), Sandra Marr (Richard), sister-In-law, Leslie T. Stevenson; brother-in-law, Peter B. Stevenson (Kathy), and many beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Calling hours will be from 4-7pm at Coxe and Graziano Funeral Home on Tuesday, April 29. A Memorial Funeral Mass will be held on Wednesday, April 30. Services begin with eulogies at 10:45am and the Mass at 11:00am at St. Michael's Church, North St., Greenwich.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in John's memory to the following charities: Greenwich Botanical Center, Greenwich Tree Conservancy, Greenwich Land Trust, Greenwich Audubon, or, simply, just plant a tree.

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Published by Greenwich Time on Apr. 25, 2025.

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Dan Keefe

August 9, 2025

Just saw this about John. Was in his class at St. Mary's and remember that smile and his sense of humor. What a great legacy he left to Greenwich and his family.. way to go John.

Kathy Stevenson

May 13, 2025

I forgot to mention the wonderful times that we shared with Kim and John on their boat. John was a great captain and Kim was a great first mate.

Peter B Stevenson

May 13, 2025

I also have to mention the great times we had on the boat with Kim and John. John was a great captain and Kim was his first Mate.

Kathy Stevenson

May 13, 2025

John was a great man. What I admired most about him was his love for Kim. Also he had tons of love for his two boys and his 4 grandchildren. Especially Eloise. John you are sorely missed please Rest in Peace. Kathy (sister-in-law)

Peter Stevenson

May 13, 2025

I still can't function I miss you terribly so much history between us your my brother forever

Patricia Genise Clark

May 2, 2025

So sad to hear about John passing. He was a kind hearted person. RIP John

Neil Palermo

May 2, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rest In Peace John.

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Angie Mynarski

April 30, 2025

I was very sorry to learn of John's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. May John rest in peace. My love to Cheryl, Reggie and Sandra and all of the family.

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April 28, 2025

My prayers and sincere condolences to John´s family. May God comfort you during this time of loss.

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Terri Harman

April 28, 2025

My deepest sympathy go out to John's family and friends. During this sad time please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Pamela Frisoli

April 27, 2025

John was a true gentleman, kind and knowledgeable and loved to share his passions. My condolences Kim, I will always remember how proud he was of your beautiful family and home. God Bless.

John Micik

April 27, 2025

Very sorry about John's passing.

Dale Accurso Ford

April 26, 2025

I am in complete and utter shock. My deepest condolences to Kim and the family. Right now I have no other words..

Chris Erway

April 26, 2025

So sad to hear of John passing. So many good memories from our earlier years. May God bless him, and may he RIP. My sincere condolences to Kim and his entire family

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April 26, 2025

Neil Palermo

April 25, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rest In Peace John.

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