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Shirley Lai Obituary
(September 5, 1931 - November 28, 2009) Shirley Lai, fondly known as Mama Shirley of 204 Pangelinan Way, Barrigada, was called to her eternal rest peacefully at her home, at the age of 78. She will be greatly missed and remembered in hearts of her entire family...Last respects will be held on saturday, December 5, 2009, from 10:00am to noon at Guam Memorial Funeral Home (Tel: 734-9835) in Leyang, Barrigada. Burial will follow at the Guam Memorial Park.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shirley Lai
Don Long
December 15, 2009
My most sincere sympathy to Shirley's family and friends. Her food and restaurants are iconic to many past residents and travelers.
I have been away from Guam for years, but I will never forget the old Agana Shirley's Coffee Shop with Shirley keeping the coffee cups full and hot. Shirley, we miss you!
Patrick Watson
December 6, 2009
What a lady. What an inspiration and role model not only to women but all who knew her.
We thank you Shirley for all the wonderful meals and great times over the many years we spent visiting your establishments.
Our condolences go out to all your loved ones.
Hawley Iseke
December 5, 2009
To the family of Mama Shirley,
We would like to express our deepest condlences on your loss. My mother worked with Mama for close to 20 years starting at the original location next to the former Le Tasi Bistro. Since we resided in Anigua, it was only a 2 minute walk for my mom each morning from the apartment to Shirley's. My father Hawley Clayton Iseke, also know as Uncle IKE was a dear friend of Mama Shirley as well. I recall Mama Shirley being one of the first ones to come to the apartment when my father passed away in 1995. Though my mom eventually moved on from Shirley's, the respect and friendship she was given from Mama and the Lai family was profound. Go and Rest now Mama and may your memories live on in your children, grandchildren, and in the company you started so many years ago.
Ant. Pina's son Jr.
Julia Berg
December 5, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Elaine Jimenez
December 5, 2009
mama shirley will always be in my heart. my prayers go out to the whole family. love elaine
kb mckinney
December 4, 2009
I invented Le Bistro back in the 80's and lived on Guam for 23 years....Shirley was my friend and I know her great sons will continue the tradition of Shirley's.
Vanessa E.
December 4, 2009
Rest in Peace Mama Shirley my family ate in Shirley's at least once a week during our 6 yr tour in Guam and we have just returned to the island in September '09 and Shirley's was the first place we went to once we checked into our hotel. Our deepest condolences are extended to her family.
God Bless.
Sharyl, Jerry & Dacotah Hofer
December 3, 2009
Our deepest sympathy to Shirley's immediate and extended family. As former residents of Guam and frequent visitors to the Dededo Shirley's, we know the terrific customer service that she displayed and instilled in her employees. When we came back for a visit, Shirley's was the first place we returned to eat!! The warmth that all displayed when we came (even when our son would walk down there to eat by himself!!) was so appreciated and is now so very much missed. Please comfort in knowing that Shirley touched so many lives and will be missed by all.
KwikSPACE
December 3, 2009
Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Lai family during their time of sorrow.
Shirley will surely be missed.
God Bless.
M/M Peter E. Gill and
The KwikSPACE Family
Rodolfo Velasco
December 3, 2009
As a former bussboy, and to the family, my prayers for mama Shirley. and my condolences.. We love you very much...... Rest in Peace.....
Lib Redito
December 2, 2009
As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens.
Cristina Gutierrez
December 2, 2009
George, Sam and family. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
God bless you.
Cristina (Gutierrez), Maia and Kailee Santos
DeeDee Rojas
December 2, 2009
To the family of my friend Shirley,
My deepest sympathy and condolences. God bless you.
Jan & Maxine Lund
December 2, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Katherine Heathman (Becker)
December 2, 2009
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
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