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Melissa Coates Obituary

COATES, Melissa JoAnna "Missy" Age 52, beloved Daughter of Dr. Janice E. Coates, local optometrist and the late Stephen L. Coates, made her transition Tuesday May 21, 2019 at Indiana University Health Methodist Hospital in Indianapolis, Indiana. Memorial services for Missy will be held at 1pm Saturday, June 1, 2019 at Bold Believers Church of Christ, 1309 Salem Avenue, Dayton, Ohio 45406. The family will receive family and friends at 12 Noon.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on May 26, 2019.

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Glenn Corbett

July 18, 2020

May the Lord bless the Coates family and keep them;
May the Lord make his face shine on the Coates family
and be gracious to them;
May the Lord turn his face toward the Coates family
and give the them peace.

Stephlynn Coates

May 21, 2020

My sweet sister, it has already been a whole year since you left us, but I still am at a disbelief that you are not here with us. I know your place is a place of love, joy and peace and am grateful that you are whole and healed. The burden of grief has not yet abandoned me, as much as I long to feel your arms giving me a tight squeeze or your tender kiss upon my check, I also long to hear your voice and see your beautiful face. I live each day always thinking of you and knowing I will see you again someday. Continue to be at peace and flying high as you are watching over us. Missing you every single day, I love you so very much. Until it's time, farewell, my sister and my friend, always, Stephlynn (your pooh-pooh)

Terrell Davis

June 3, 2019

Heartfelt condolences to everybody affected by Missy passing. Super cool family. May your journey be a glorious and peace filled one. Great laughs are appreciated by all while you were here on Earth.

GUSTAVUS HUTCHINS

June 1, 2019

Condolences to the Coates family. May God provide peace and comfort that surpasses all understanding.

Joanna Stummer

June 1, 2019

Missed was such a beautiful person inward and outward. She will be missed. Her smile was so precious. My condolence to the family.

Ginny Mayle

May 31, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Missy's passing. May the love of family and friends comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead.

Phillip Buxton

May 30, 2019

My sincerest condolences go out to the Coates family. May God bless you and comfort you during this time.

Sincerely,

Phil Buxton

Crystal & Andrew Donohoe

May 30, 2019

So sorry for your loss. Prayers going up for your family. Andrew & Crystal Donohoe. And the Cromwell family.

Ruth Tichenor

May 30, 2019

My most deepest condolences to the family. I know the lost you are feeling.

Comfort Planter

Golden Watson

Sent Flowers

Reginald Hall

May 30, 2019

The Most High laughs at a man with a plan. The paths we walk are guided. The steps we take have been walked. The breathe we live by has been breathed. It is with joy and honor that we know this Woman. The power of this knowledge allows for Melissa to forever be known.
We must decide to dance and sing for the newly elected Ancestor. The reign of Melissa's power has just begun. Live in it, know it, believe it.
These times test our abilities of peaceful resolve within ourselves. We do what we do and have done what we did. Now we celebrate in that. Love is forever for those that knew and know. Melissa means "bee" in Greek.
Bee free Melissa. Bee great standing with the Ancestors Melissa. We Give Thanks For You!!!
(SSC) Stephlynn Sweet Coates, I know I speak for many when I say WE LOVE YOU!!
Reginald

Angela Capers

May 30, 2019

Missy,
There is so much I need to talk to you about. I love and miss you terribly. Rest easy, Sweetheart. Until we meet again.

Angie C, aka Sweet Pea.

Patsy Tames-Bouchard

May 30, 2019

Our deepest condolences to family

An Angel for us all

Stephlynn Coates

May 30, 2019

My dearest sister, I love you so much and miss you already! I know God's plan is in the works and until we see you again, I will hold on tight to your love, our memories and the good talks that we shared. You taught me how to be a big sister along with so many other lessons... words cannot form for how I am feeling! I know you loved us and I believe you know just how much you are loved...Rest peacefully pooh-pooh...you fought strong and hard, you are the bravest I've ever known...No more pain, no more waiting, no more fear or sickness! Once again, you are whole! You have earned your wings sweet angel, go and fly free...All of my love, always, Stephlynn...

R C

May 29, 2019

Im so truly sorry for your loss. My deepest and heartfelt condolences to all the family and friends of Melissa. May you be comforted by your cherished memories, as you await the fulfillment of Gods promise to one day be reunited with your loved one again (John 6:40)

Kiva Henderson

May 28, 2019

Missy had such a beautiful spirit. She will be truly mised. May God continue to comfort you all at this time and always. Sending lots of love your way. #JT4Life

Melissa Coates ❤

May 27, 2019

Dwayne Bickham, Sr.

May 27, 2019

In God's care, rest in peace.

May 27, 2019

I love and miss u so much Aunt Missy.

Missy Cromwell

May 26, 2019

Sending my love and prayers to the family at this difficult time. Missy was a beautiful lady with such a beautiful and caring heart. Thank you for all the wonderful memories of times shared together. Rest in Heaven my cousin and friend, until we meet again.

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Bold Believers Church of Christ

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