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Alfred Kirschner Obituary

Alfred Richard "Dick" Kirschner, 97, of Bristol, widower of Ann "Betty" Kirschner and Bernice Shelberg, died peacefully at home on Wednesday (February 16, 2022). Dick was born on October 2, 1924 in New York City and was a son of the late Gerhardt and Clara (Gurau) Kirschner. He moved with his family to Bristol at an early age, graduating from Bristol High School in 1942. He had many fond memories of his trips to NYC visiting his grand parents, seeing movies and going to New York Yankee baseball games. In his early teen years, he became active as a Boy Scout where he earned the Eagle Scout Award. He continued to be active in the Boy Scouts as an adult, serving several roles including Scout Master. Dick married the love of his life, Ann "Betty" Seeds in 1948. They enjoyed 53 years of marriage until the passing of Betty. While attending a grief support group, he met and subsequently married the second love of his life, Bernice Shelberg. Dick worked for the Bristol Post Office as a letter carrier, where his true passion was being an active union member and leader. His union leadership roles included serving as Chief Steward, President of the Local and State Secretary and included lobbying elected leaders in Washington D. C. Dick was an active 32nd Degree Mason and member of the Frederick-Franklin Lodge #14 AF&AM, Plainville. His early years as a Mason was at the former Franklin Lodge #56 on Lake Avenue in Bristol where he served as Worshipful Master. He was also a Shriner and member of the Sphinx Temple in Newington. He was an active member for over 50 years of Asbury United Methodist Church, Forestville, where he served on many boards and committees. A proud family memory is when Dick and Betty traveled with a group of Asbury members to the 1963 Civil Rights March on Washington D.C. Left to mourn his passing are five children: Richard Kirschner and spouse, Nancy of Bonita Springs, FL, Mark Kirschner and spouse, Grace Jaklik of Kensington, Kathleen McFarland of Groton, Kristine Kirschner of Bristol, and John Kirschner of Burlington; three siblings: Robert Kirschner of Florida, Dorothy Carey of East Hartford, and Kenneth Kirschner of Southington; nine grandchildren: Jeff Carlson, Stephanie Kirschner, Matthew Kirschner, Christopher McFarland, Megan Kirschner, Franklin Kirschner, Michael Kirschner, Casey McFarland, and Lauren Kirschner; three great-grandchildren: Will Carlson, Collins and Rhodes McFarland; several nieces and nephews; and former daughters-in-law: Judy Kirschner and Margaret Kirschner. He was predeceased by a sister: Lorraine Erlandson. Alfred Richard Kirschner will be remembered at a memorial service on Saturday (April 30, 2022) at 11 AM at Asbury United Methodist Church, 90 Church Ave., Bristol. Burial will be private in West Cemetery, Plainville. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Asbury United Methodist Church Book of Remembrance Fund, 90 Church Ave., Bristol, CT 06010. Funk Funeral Home, Bristol, is honored to serve the Kirschner family. Please visit Alfred Richard Kirschner's memorial web-site at www.FunkFuneralHome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Feb. 25, 2022.

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Marcia Pendleton-Sacco

February 27, 2022

I met Mr. Kirschner by chance one day in the Middlefield Cemetery. I was tending the Pendleton family plot nearby as I saw him sitting by Bernice's grave. I introduced myself, because you see, we are family by marriage. Bernice's mother, Beverly, and my grandmother, Leonora, were sisters. Mr. Kirschner was genuinely pleased to visit and share stories. Such an intelligent gentleman. We visited many times when our paths crossed at the cemetery. I could always spot him in that red car. When he became unsteady on his footing and hesitant to transverse the uneven ground, I placed his flowers on Bernice's grave for him. I know he will be missed by family and friends. I send my sincere condolences to those left behind to grieve this loss.

Michael E Scheidel

February 25, 2022

To John and the entire family;
My sincere condolences on the passing of your father. May he rest in peace.

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February 25, 2022

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