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Annmarie BALISANO Obituary
BALISANO, Annmarie (Coates)
Annmarie (Coates) Balisano, 64, of Amston and Naples, FL, beloved wife of Patrick for 32 years, passed away Tuesday (June 12, 2012) at Hartford Hospital surrounded by her loving family. Born Aug. 2, 1947 in Middletown, she was the daughter of Stefania (Otfinoski) Coates of Amston and the late Thomas Coates. Mrs. Balisano worked for the Connecticut Dept. of Motor Vehicles for 36 plus years and was the first woman to be promoted and serve as Hearings Officer. She was revered for her ability to resolve consumer issues and was later assigned to the Office of the Commissioner of DMV before her retirement. In addition to her mother and husband, she is survived by daughter, Lindsey Balisano-Hebler, her husband, Bryan Hebler and their son, Walker Patrick Hebler, all of Amston; siblings, Thomas Coates and wife, Esther of Middletown, John (Jackie) Coates and wife Karen of Hebron, Margaret Stroli and husband, Frank of Hollis, NH. Maureen Coolidge and husband, John of Wellesley, MA and Stephen Coates and Holly Marrero of Marlborough; several nieces, nephews and extended family members and friends.
The Funeral Liturgy will be celebrated 1 p.m. Friday directly at the Church of the Holy Family, 185 Church St. (Rte. 85), Hebron. Interment will follow in St. Peter's Cemetery, Hebron. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Helen and Harry Gray Cancer Center, P.O. Box 5037, Hartford 06101-9960 or to the Florida Cancer Specialists, 6300 Pine Ridge Rd., Ste. 2012, Naples, FL 34119. Care of arrangements has been entrusted to the Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home of Colchester. For online condolences, please visit www.auroramccarthyfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Annmarie BALISANO
June 26, 2012
Pat and Family, We just found out today about Annmarie's passing. We are so sorry for your loss. We always enjoyed seeing you and Annmarie on the very few times we would meet over the years. Annmarie was always such a sweet and fun person. You guys made a great couple. I am still in shock and really don't know what else to say...May you find strength during these rough times and cherish the wonderful memories you have. Hugs to you, Mike and Ronelle Fiori
Carlton Csiki
June 20, 2012
Pat,
I have just been made aware of Ann's passing.
My wife Susan and I extend to you our deepest sympathy on your loss.
Having worked with and for you and having Ann as a colleague was one of the best experiences of my working life.
Ann was truly a great lady and it was to my benefit to have known and worked with her.
The office staff of the CVSD reflected her personality and we all benefited from her grace, ability and dedication.
Mary Howard
June 19, 2012
My deepest sympathy to Annmarie's family. I was a classmate of hers since 6th grade thru WWSHS. She was special then and thru her life. You have your Annmarie angel in heaven.
Sincerely,
Mary Pacholski Howard
June 19, 2012
Pat ... I am so sorry for your loss. I have wonderful memories of Ann and I during our DMV days and treasure our time working together. I will keep Ann in my prayers as well as your family.
Debbie Kingsbury
Ken Gambardella
June 17, 2012
Pat. Its been a long time but I have good memories of Ann and you from the old DMV days. She was a very nice person and I am deeply sorry for your loss. May god bless both of you and your family.
June 17, 2012
Pat, Lindsey and Brian, sorry for your loss. Although I have not seen Ann for years, her and Pats friendship and support as my co-workers will always be rembered. God Bless Her and the family. Jay Surdyka
Lindsey Hebler
June 17, 2012
Mom I miss you more than words can say. I was not ready for this but I know you were in pain. I hope you are no longer suffering. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
June 16, 2012
To Ann's family and friends I extend my sincere sympathy in your loss. I best remember Ann when we first met in fifth grade and sat next to each other and learned how sweet and sincere she was. With such character established so early in life it is no wonder that her obituary rings so true. God bless her and fond memories of so long ago. Jeff Meehl, Class of '65 WWHS
Betty Balesano
June 16, 2012
Dear Pat, so sorry to hear about Annmarie. My prayers are with you and the family. Love to all, Betty Ann
Jhune
June 15, 2012
Pat, so sorry to hear about Ann's passing. She was a very wonderful person and always seen the goodness in people. she will be missed by many, but her memories and kindness will stay with everyone she touched, including me and my family. <3
June 15, 2012
Sandi, although I never met your brother or sister-in-law, you spoke of them often. I know how much you love them and how you will miss Annmarie. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
Barbara Berggren
June 15, 2012
pat and lindsey my heart goes out to you both.i was very sorry to hear about ann.
Jim and Gail Pasqurell
June 14, 2012
Pat: We are truly saddened as a result of Annmarie's passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Fred Pettengill
June 14, 2012
Pat,
My deepest smpathy.
June 14, 2012
Pat, so sorry for your loss,our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. love Joan and Larry Parsons
Robert Nash
June 14, 2012
Dear Patrick,
I was so sorry to read about the passing of your wife. May her memories of many loving years keep her in your heart and soul forever.I will remember you and her in my prayers.
For a reminder, we went to school in Hartford.
May God Bless you and Annmarie,
Bob Nash
Darcy
June 14, 2012
Pat and Lindsey,
I'm very sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you both.
Cynthia Love
June 14, 2012
Through all the years of working with Ann (unfortunately, not directly), what I most remember is her smiling & laughing whenever I saw her in the halls. That is a great way to be remem bered. I am so sorry for your loss.
June 14, 2012
Tom, So sorry to hear of your loss. Jacky Greene
Doherty Boys
June 14, 2012
So sorry for your loss, she was a great woman who will be missed by all. We have fond memories of her as we were growing up.
Buddy & Mary Maunz
June 14, 2012
Pat,
We are so sorry for your loss. We will miss Ann Marie and will keep you and Lindsey in our thoughts and in our prayers. With heartfelt sympathy. Buddy & Mary
Lynn Bjork
June 14, 2012
Pat and Lindsey,
So sorry for your loss...I know it has been long battle...she is at peace now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. I have some great memories. Fondly, Lynn
June 14, 2012
Pat, I am so sorry to learn of Ann's passing. She was a wonderful person. She will be missed. Love and Prayers. Maureen Tynan Witherell
Dawn Bassett
June 14, 2012
I have so many memories of Annmarie and the whole Balisano family. Lindsey, you are like my sister. When you cry, I cry. Mr. B & Lindsey, may you find comfort in knowing that Ann brought happiness to so many people and will be remembered that way. God Bless.
Mary Roy
June 14, 2012
Lindsey
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I know you had a special bond with mom. She will be with you always
Love Mary
Carol Natitus
June 14, 2012
Pat,
My deepest smpathy.
Bill Brown
June 14, 2012
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
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