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Arthur M. Kohs

1937 - 2022

Arthur M. Kohs obituary, 1937-2022, Higganum, CT

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Arthur M. Kohs of Cromwell CT, formerly of Higganum CT for 47 years, passed away peacefully at his home on Sunday, March 20, 2022. Arthur, the son of Max and Miriam Kohs, was born in Brooklyn, N.Y., on April 29, 1937, and moved to Hadlyme, CT, in 1938. "Artie," as he was affectionately called, graduated from Nathan Hale Ray High School in Moodus CT in 1955. He earned a Bachelor of Science from Springfield College in 1959, and a Master of Science from the University of Oregon in 1960. That same year, he began his teaching career in Hanover Park High School in New Jersey. In 1961, he returned to Hale Ray High School as teacher, Director of Athletics, and head coach for soccer, basketball, and baseball, winning multiple championships including the class S soccer state championships in 1961 and 1962. In 1963, Art was hired by Xavier High School in Middletown as its Director of Athletics and teacher of physical education. Art was Xavier's first hire, as the school was being constructed, and was charged with building Xavier's athletic program. At Xavier, Art also served in numerous other capacities including as Xavier's first head basketball coach from 1963-1979. He amassed over 200 victories and reached the CIAC state semifinals in 1969 and 1975. As Athletic Director, Art was instrumental in the formation of both the All-Connecticut Conference, and in 1994, the Southern Connecticut Conference of which Xavier is a member today. Art was also active in athletics outside of Xavier. He served as a soccer official for 25 years for the Central Connecticut Soccer Officials Association and the CT State Soccer Officials Association, working numerous state championship games, and was also past president of both organizations. He served on numerous committees for the Connecticut Interscholastic Athletic Conference, Connecticut Association of Athletic Directors, and the Connecticut High School Coaches Association. Along with his longtime friends, coach Jake Salafia of Cromwell HS, and coach Wally Camp of Coginchaug HS, Art co-owned the Fundamental Basketball Camp located first in Moodus, then at Mitchell College in New London for over 25 years. Art earned numerous awards throughout his career, including the Central CT Soccer Officials Distinguished Service Award, the Central CT Board of Basketball Officials Commissioners Award, the National Interscholastic Athletic Administration Association State Award of Merit, the CT Association of Athletic Directors Distinguished Service Award, and the Connecticut High School Coaches Association Dedicated Service to Youth Award. He was inducted into Xavier's Hall of Honors in 1988, the Nathan Hale-Ray High School Sports Hall of Fame in 1993, and the Middletown Sports Hall of Fame in 2003, alongside his daughter Paula. After his retirement from Xavier in 1997, he was honored with the naming of Xavier's gym as the Arthur M. Kohs Gymnasium. Art remained active throughout his retirement. He was on staff as an assistant basketball coach for several years for his son Michael at Xavier. He also continued to serve the Southern Connecticut Conference as its scheduling coordinator until his passing. Beyond his professional career, Art was devoted to his loving wife Carolyn and to his children and his grandchildren. He coached his children in Little League baseball, and always enjoyed playing golf with his family and friends. He and Carolyn never missed any athletic events of their children and grandchildren. Art and Carolyn were passionate supporters of both Xavier and Mercy High Schools, especially their basketball teams. When his mobility slowed and he sometimes couldn't attend games in person, he continued to support both teams by watching their livestream broadcasts. Arthur was predeceased by Carolyn Kohs, his loving wife of 55 years. He leaves behind son Todd Kohs and wife Suzanne of Cheboygan, MI; son Michael Kohs and wife Robin, and grandchildren Sarah, Stephen, and Lauren of Portland CT; son Tim Kohs and wife Carlye, and grandchildren Avery and Brett of Higganum, CT; and daughter Paula Kohs Drake and husband Mark, and grandchildren Thomas, Emma, Leah, and Clara of Waxhaw, NC. He also leaves his sister-in-law Diana Schleis, nieces Kim Fetera, Barbara Walker, and Lorraine Schleis, nephew Joseph Schleis, and their families. Art was also predeceased by his infant son Thomas Kohs, and his two brothers-in-law, Edward Schleis Jr., and Arthur Schleis. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Artie's name to the Arthur M. Kohs Scholarship Fund at Xavier High School or to Mercy High School Athletics. Visiting hours will be on Wednesday (Mar. 23rd) from 4 to 7 p.m. at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver St., Middletown, CT. The Funeral Mass will be held at St. Pius X Church, 310 Westfield St., Middletown, CT, on Thursday (Mar. 24th) at 10:00 a.m. Burial will follow at St. Bridget of Kildare Cemetery in Moodus, CT. To share memories or express condolences online please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Mar. 22, 2022.

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John LEMIRE

March 15, 2025

I'll never forget a legend i was blessed to know him!!!!My father loved the guy that speaks volumes !!!Today is the ciac high school basketball championship and is a day I rember all the past 2 great coaches Gene Reilly and Artie ❤

Kenny Champion 1975

April 1, 2022

Xavier is known for providing First and Best Life Coaching to young students. When presented with Xavier's expectations to Be A Man...it was very clear to us that Coach Kohs had the map you wanted to follow in the life after Randolph Road. We were wise to follow his path. He will be kindly remembered.

Tony Milardo

March 30, 2022

My condolences to the Kohs family!

Rod Roelants

March 26, 2022

Have great memories at CCC playing golf with Artie and the “boys”. He was a force to be reckoned with, both during and after the round. Our thoughts are with the family.

Nuncio carr

March 25, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.I had some good conversation with your dad after some of the basketball game..

Nick Chaconis

March 25, 2022

My sincere prayers and condolences to the Kohs' family. Coach Kohs was a huge positive influence on me and all who knew him. A coach, A.D.,educator and Family man, who truly cared about everyone.

Leonard Fredericks

March 24, 2022

Coach Kohs was a wonderful man. He will always be remembered. He was a role model for me and for all the men of Xavier. Rest In Peace. My sympathies go out to the Koh’s family.

Martin Natale family

March 24, 2022

Tim, Mike, Paula and entire Kohs family: So sorry for the loss of your dad. He was truly a dedicated family man.

Marty, Mary Ann, Ashley Natale, and Dana Perry

Norman Winnerman

March 24, 2022

My sincere condolences to the Kohs family on the loss of your Dad. I had the pleasure of knowing Art over the years when I was an active AD in Danbury. As a former President of CAAD, we spent many meetings together and traveled to numerous NIAA National Conferences together. Art was "larger than life" and a wonderful, caring person. He clearly impacted the lives of his colleagues, students and team members over the years. He will be missed by so many people.

Norm Winnerman

The Nettis Family John,Sue,Matthew,Christopher

March 24, 2022

We are deeply saddened to learn of your loss.Wishing you strength and support for the coming days.Our paths crossed at the many functions held at Xavier; especially as Artie assisted in coaching basketball.Your family has much to be proud of as they recall your legacy.May you find comfort and peace during this very difficult time.

Lorenzo Marshall

March 24, 2022

My sincere condolences to the entire Koh's family !!! Prayers of Peace and Love to you all!!
He made a difference and left his mark!!

Beverly Towns

March 24, 2022

My deepest sympathy to all of you He has now joined his friends Sally Jake and Al . They are coaching the Heavenly Teams

Gregg Feitel

March 23, 2022

He was a legend in the Xavier community and he will be sorely missed. I send my deepest condolences to the Kohs family and I will miss him as a Gym teacher and a friend.

Rusty Gordon

March 23, 2022

My Condolences to the Kohs Family

Charlie Larson

March 23, 2022

It is with a very heavy heart that I send my condolences to Todd, Mike, Tim , Paula and their families at this most difficult time.
Artie was my friend for over fifty years and I will truly miss our times together. They were good times and I will always think of them with a smile on my face.
Artie and his family will be in my prayers. We have all lost a good friend.
RIP Coach!

Judi and Dave Bike

March 23, 2022

The Bike family send our condolences to the Koh family. Artie, Carolyn and the Kohs children were so admired and enjoyed by our family. Artie was so enjoyable and
entertaining to be with. We have many wonderful memories of the time spent with him while our sons were at Xavier and will hold them close to our hearts. RIP Artie with ur beautiful wife Carolyn. A life well lived!!❤

John M. Botti

March 23, 2022

My thoughts and prayers are with the Kohs Family on the passing of Artie, he was a great AD, coach, mentor and truly a Xavier High School Legend who will be missed. (J-Nick, Jack Botti "72")

God Bless

Pam Kleckner Coleman

March 22, 2022

The Kleckner children have many fond memories of Coach Kohs from our participation in the Lake Hayward Association summer programs. From swimming lessons to tennis lessons and Friday afternoon hikes, our summers were full of adventure. Coach was always kind, patient, and encouraging. My dad, Coach Mel Kleckner, had a great deal of respect for Art as a colleague. My condolences to the Kohs family. Please know that he made a difference in many lives.

Herbert Neuhauser

March 22, 2022

Go back to Springfield College (Roommates) University of Oregon(Grad School) we were very close this time of our lives. Many great memories too numerous to relate.
Our lives grew apart as our teaching and coaching careers took us in different directions.
My condolences to Arts family for their loss.

Gary Grockowski

March 22, 2022

My prayers and condolences go out to the entire Kohs family. He was great for Xavier and will be missed by the Xavier family. It was an honor and privilege to know him for my four years at Xavier. (Gary "Grock" Grockowski, Class of 1972)

Robert Bowen Jr.

March 22, 2022

As a member of the graduating class of '67, I remember Coach Kohs not only as a dedicated teacher and coach, but as a very sweet man. More an example of what it is to Be a Man than the conventional rugged individualist paradigm of masculinity idolized by our hero worshipping American culture. Funny, I only wish we could have changed the school motto from Be a Man to Be a Human Being. I was always beleaguered and terrified as an adolescent (and even into my wizened years) that l could never be man enough. Thank God for saints such as Coach Kohs who, by his very humility and embrace of his own humanity helped me maintain a sense of my uniquely expressed masculinity in a world of impossible expectations. In this regard the best of this beloved mentor lives on. I shall ever be grateful for his influence in this regard.

My sincerest condolences to his family, friends and beloved students in whom his legacy lives on.

Audrey Wayland

March 22, 2022

My love and prayers are with each one of you. Your Dad and grandfather was a very special man. He was kind, caring and always fun to be with. I feel lucky to have had the time I had with him. He loved you all so much and was so proud of all of you. I will miss him so much.

Lois (Sullivan) & Carl Bukowiec

March 22, 2022

Our deepest sympathies to Mike, Tim and the entire Kohs family. I’m sure Artie is with his beautiful Carolyn in heaven .

Steve Kirck

March 22, 2022

Mike, Tim and Kohs family: So sorry to hear of Dad’s passing; a true gentleman in all of my interactions with him, on and off the court. Please know that he and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Steve Kirck Sr.

PAUL TARBETSKY

March 22, 2022

Artie was one of the "ORIGINALS" That I met at Xavier High School and he was one the those special people that made Xavier what it is today. An irreplaceable man with an irreplaceable heart. He was a leader in the best sense of the word. He will be missed. speaking for the class of 1970 "RIP"

John Ruffino

March 22, 2022

Coach Kohs was a great person and always a lot of fun as our Physiology and Gym teacher. I loved talking college basketball with him after class. He built the athletic program at Xavier from scratch and his legacy will live on.

My thoughts and prayers go to his immediate and extended family. RIP Coach Kohs.

John Kycia

March 22, 2022

My condolences to the entire Kohs family. I will always have the fondest memories of Artie, he was a Roll model, mentor, teacher, coach and friend. Heaven just received a 1st round 5 star blue chip recruit! Rest In Peace. John Kycia 79

Chris and Laura Boone

March 22, 2022

Tim and family I am very sorry for your loss. Your father was amazing champion for athletes in the Middlesex area including myself who attended his basketball camp in the 80's. My deepest condolences to the entire Kohs family in this tough time

Steve Trifone

March 22, 2022

What a legend he left behind- A great coach and One of the founding fathers of the very successful Southern Connecticut Conference. A big thank you for all he did for kids.

Tom Malin

March 22, 2022

Barbara and I are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Artie! Our deepest sympathy and condolences are with the entire family. I always respected and valued the words and thoughts of Artie as an athletic director as for years we were members of the same conference. Above all the communications surrounding athletics that we had, I always considered Artie a special“ person and friend! I can still visually see you sitting in that lawn chair at Dillon Stadium watching a soccer game and sharing old and new stories.

Rest In Peace, and God bless,

Tom Malin

John Robinson

March 22, 2022

Rest in Peace Mr Kohs, JOB WELL DONE..

Bro. Jim Connolly

March 22, 2022

Dear Mike , Todd and family.

Know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers as you bid farewell to your Dad.
My he rest in the peace of Christ His Lord and Brother.
On my many trips back to Xavier he was most welcoming to me and gave me updates as to what was going
on at my first mission
He was a first class Christin gentleman!

Pax Christi,
Bro. Jim Connolly, CFX
Xaverian House
Chaplain - Essex Co. MA Jail

Dottie Wocl

March 22, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Artie, Carolyn and I were in school at the same time. Long time friend's and great memories. May you rest in
PEACE with Carolyn once again. Fondly, Dottie Wocl

Barbara Bondi

March 22, 2022

So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

John lemire

March 22, 2022

Sorry for your loss!Quite sad because I just saw mike and Tim at the state games and I asked how the father was!!!My father died erwin in oct who really looked up to Art!!!!!!!If my father liked someone he had to be a special a guy!!!!!God bless you all!He raised great kids with alot of class and I always respected your family sense the CYO days!!!!!John lemire

John and Linda Carta

March 22, 2022

To the family of Art Kohs from the Rook Retirement community we send our Condolenses and Prayers we will miss our set back partner and good friend he will be missed.

Jim Vendetti

March 22, 2022

Kohl´s Family;
Our family is saddened by the passing of Art...Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time of grief.

Jim Vendetti and Family

Stanley Stachura 68

March 21, 2022

To the family of Artie, I and my wife Debra were friends of your dad and are very sorry for your loss. As a former student, coach and friend, Artie was a great listener and educator. Artie was a great dad as he always looked forward to seeing his children play sports and couldn't wait to tell us how they did. Artie was one of a kind and will be missed.

Vito Grieco ‘95

March 21, 2022

My deepest condolences to the Kohs family. I remember Mr. Kohs well. He was a great man who will be missed by so many.

Barbara Miller

March 21, 2022

Tim and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. May your memories be a blessing. Barb Miller

Fran DelMastro 79

March 21, 2022

The world is a much lesser place without Mr. Kohs, While I’m sure his spirit will eternally live through the Hall’s , Field’s & Gym of Xavier high school. My deepest condolences to the entire Kohs family.

Bob and Susan Delvecchio

March 21, 2022

We were so saddened to hear of Art’s passing. Art, Carolyn and family were wonderful neighbors. All of us send our thoughts and prayers to all of you.
With love,
Bob and Susan

Michael Fraulino

March 21, 2022

I am shocked and very saddened to learn of Mr. Kohs passing. A member of Xavier’s first graduating class, I have known him since 1963 when our class entered as freshmen. “Artie” really did it allbiology teacher, physical education teacher, athletic director, soccer coach, basketball coach and baseball coach! I don’t know how he did all that! Throughout high school and as an adult I knew him to be a personable and kind gentleman.
I enjoyed conversing with him after the 9 a.m. Mass each Sunday, and I certainly will miss him.
Sincerely,
Michael Fraulino
Proudly, X.H.S. ‘67

Paul Poissant

March 21, 2022

Had many memorable experiences with Artie while I was at Xavier, rest in peace

Francis Pawlowski

March 21, 2022

I first met Mr. / Coach Kohs when I was a freshman at XHS in September 1963. Mr. Kohs was my Biology teacher and also my soccer and basketball coach. It was during one of our basketball practices that I "suffered" a temper tantrum. Coach K told me to go sit against the gym wall for fifteen minutes. When my time was up, I re-joined my teammates, the practice continued, and I learned a lesson in life from that experience. Coach did not yell at me, he did not punish me, he did not embarrass me in front of my teammates.

In that brief encounter, Coach K taught me what it meant to be a man. I will never forget that life lesson and will always remember who taught it to me. He was one of the best teachers and coaches I have experienced in my lifetime.

Ken Rizza

March 21, 2022

I remember him well as always being upbeat and a good instructor. Rest in Peace Mir Kohs.

Patrick Kennedy

March 21, 2022

Mr. Kohs' kindness and dedicated spirit is an inspiration to us all.
Our condolences to the Kohs and Xavier families.
Art will bring you peace and strength to get through this difficult time.
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Aileen, Joe and Patrick J. Kennedy (XHS 2019)

Seb Emanuele

March 21, 2022

I am saddened by the passing of a wonderful man whose contribution to the community and state have been immeasurable. I will always remember the wonderful smile , kindness and professionalism that he displayed always. Mr. Kohs, you will always be remembered well. Rest In Peace. Seb Emanuele

Charles Tomaszewski

March 21, 2022

Mr. Kohs was a fine man. I am a better person to have known him. My condolences to the Kohs famly.

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