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Barbara Backus Obituary

Barbara Olson Backus of West Hartford, CT passed away peacefully on May 4, 2019 at the age of 75. She was the daughter of the late Erik and Astrid (Carlson) Olson of West Hartford and was predeceased by her husband John Backus. Barbara is survived by her daughter Kristine Filippelli and her husband Frederic, her son Robert Backus, her brother Roger Olson, her grandsons Cameron and Mason Backus, and Michael and Steven Filippelli, her great grandsons Erikson and Beauregard Backus, and her cousins Carol Bengston and Linda Mackenzie and her husband Ward.Barbara worked for the State of Connecticut, Service Merchandise, and Restoration Hardware. She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends and was happiest when she could help other people. Barbara loved her annual vacation on Cape Cod where many fond family memories were made. She was extremely kind and thoughtful and was always telling everyone how important it was to laugh, that it really was the best medicine.In celebration of Barbara's life, friends and family will be received at the Taylor & Modeen Funeral Home, 136 South Main Street, West Hartford on Monday, May 13th from 10:00 to 11:00 a.m. followed by a funeral service at 11:00 a.m. A private graveside burial will take place immediately after the funeral service at Fairview Cemetery in West Hartford. For directions and online condolences please visit www.taylorandmodeen.com
Published by Hartford Courant on May 10, 2019.

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May 10, 2019

May her memory be for a blessing.
Barbara was kind,loving and a wonderful mother and grandmother . I send my sympathies and love to her and all her family
Ann-Beth ostroff

May 10, 2019

With deep sadness on Bobbie's passing, I extend my most heartfelt sympathies to her brother Roger, her children Kristine and Robert, her many grandsons and the rest of the family, as she was dearly loved by all.
I will miss her more than I can really express. Having been born a week apart, we spent our 75 years together from infants to adulthood, not just as cousins but as friends who shared all of life's wonderful and sad moments. Bobbie had a knack of making the ordinary special simply because she was so very special, and those special times shall remain in my heart forever. Thank you, Bobbie.

God bless all of you. Love, Carol

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10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Taylor & Modeen Funeral Home

250 Center Street, Jupiter, FL 33458

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13

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

Taylor & Modeen Funeral Home

250 Center Street, Jupiter, FL 33458

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Fairview Cemetery

West Hartford, CT

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