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Brian Francis Zito

1950 - 2022

Brian Francis Zito obituary, 1950-2022, Hartford, CT

BORN

1950

DIED

2022

Brian Zito Obituary

Brian Francis Zito, 71, of Wethersfield, CT, beloved husband of 48 years to Sally (Archacki) Zito, passed away peacefully on July 5, 2022 with his family by his side holding his hands. Brian fought the most courageous, difficult battle against cancer for many years, never once giving up. Brian was born in Hartford on July 19, 1950 to the late Patrick and Phyllis (Jakobot) Zito. He will always be remembered as a selfless, generous, kind, and caring person. He cherished his family more than anything in the world and valued his friendships with all his heart. He always felt so blessed to have friends that were like family to him. Everywhere he went, without fail, he'd know someone who would affectionately call out "Hey BZ." These unexpected run-ins would usually turn into hours of catching up. Brian served as a Connecticut State Marshal for approximately 35 years until his retirement in September 2021. Prior to that time, he managed the Red Coach Grille in Wethersfield and also was employed by Hartford Jai Alai. Brian will be especially remembered for his sense of humor and outgoing personality. He was always telling jokes and would laugh just as hard as the people he was telling them too. Beyond his sense of humor, he was the first person that his friends and family would reach out to in order to resolve a problem. No matter how difficult the task, he was able to fix anything and everything. He had a great love of theater and was a member of the Hole in the Wall Theater in New Britain for many years. He appeared in numerous productions and acted in various venues across Connecticut, including the Bushnell Memorial. Brian and Sally spent much time at their second home in St. Petersburg, FL. Brian was an avid fan of the Tampa Bay Rays and Buccaneers, but his favorite pastime was fishing with his dear friend. Besides his wife, Brian is survived by and will be dearly missed by his most cherished daughter and son-in-law, Kimberly and Kevin Klaskin. He is also survived by his aunt, Jane Skowronek, and numerous cousins. Brian was predeceased by his father, Patrick, mother, Phyllis, sister, Patricia, and in-laws, Joseph and Veronica Archacki. He was also predeceased by his best girl, his dog Candy, in April of this year. Brian's family would like to especially thank all of the kind and caring doctors, nurses, and support staff at UConn Health Center who treated Brian over the years and comforted both him and his family. Brian was very devoted to St. Jude and always referred to him as "my guy." St. Jude helped Brian through many difficult times. Memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. At Brian's request, there will be no calling hours. A mass of Christian burial will be held at Sacred Heart Church, 56 Hartford Ave., Old Wethersfield, CT on Saturday, July 16, 2022 at 10:00 a.m., followed by a reception to celebrate Brian's life. For directions, to share a memory or view his tribute, please visit www.desopofuneralchapel.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 10, 2022.

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richard

July 4, 2025

I will never forget my friend Brian!

Richard

December 13, 2023

I will never forget my good friend Brian. God bless Sally and Kimberly may they always have the good memories and love that I have for Brian.

Richie Stebbins

July 12, 2022

My sincere condolences to the entire Zito family. He will be truly missed. He was a good friend. RIP My friend

Anne Coombs

July 11, 2022

Dear Sally and Kimberly, I'm so very sorry to learn of Brian's passing. He was, without a doubt, the sweetest, nicest person and I always enjoyed talking to him whenever I got the chance to see him. My heart is with both of you during this difficult time.

Richard and Patty

July 11, 2022

We will miss him a whole lot. I will never forget all the things we did in the 50 years we were friends. He was like a brother to me.

Jerry Schoolnick

July 10, 2022

My prayers go out to Sally and her whole family!! Rip my friend

Allie Lamphier

July 10, 2022

While Brian's passing is sad news, it also brings back many memories of laughter and smiles shared at Hole in the Wall Theater. May those he left behind find comfort and peace in the happy memories.

John Cusano

July 10, 2022

My condolences with prayers go out for Brian whom I have know for many years. God Bless.

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