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Cathy Runquist Obituary

Cathy (Ojakian) Runquist died peacefully at Mercy Medical Center in Springfield, Massachusetts on June 17, 2020. Cathy battled multiple sclerosis for over 25 years which left her immobilized and in a wheelchair for over a decade. Despite her ongoing strength and will to fight and not succumb to her disease, Cathy tragically passed away due to complications from injuries obtained in a car accident while being transported to an appointment. Cathy was born on July 6, 1958 in Hartford, Connecticut to Nancy and Eugene Ojakian. Cathy grew up in West Hartford, Connecticut with her parents and three brothers before relocating to Longmeadow, Massachusetts where she spent most of her teenage years. Cathy attended St. Brigid School in West Hartford and Longmeadow High School where she had many friends and was recognized as a star athlete. Cathy spent years cheerleading and was never without her partner in crime and best friend Barbara. Cathy enjoyed musicals and was involved in the community theatre where she performed with her mother. Cathy attended school for court reporting and excelled at her work as a stenographer. She also worked in several banks and restaurants. Cathy had three daughters to which she devoted her entire life and heart to. The 4 C's they would call themselves. They went on many adventures most of which were during the summer months in Rhode Island and at the Cape. Cathy never missed one of the girls dance recitals, soccer, basketball, softball, field hockey or lacrosse games. She was always the most consistent and biggest fan of the girls and their friends. Cathy was the proudest mother and showered her daughters in the most unconditional love. They shared an incredible bond, and Cathy would often say that God gave her three daughters for a reason. Cathy is survived by her daughter Christina and her husband John Williams, daughter Cassandra and her husband Johnny Gisolfi, daughter Carly and her wife Jessica Runquist, grandchildren Mya, Andre, Amelia and Giuliana, mother Nancy Ojakian, brother Mark Ojakian and his husband Jason Veretto, brother Paul and his wife Tina Ojakian brother Chris Ojakian and his fiance Marie Lanoy, sister and best friend Barbara Bilodeau, several nieces and nephews and countless friends and loved ones. Cathy's strength and resilience was admirable to anyone and everyone who knew her. She has touched many lives throughout her lifetime. She tirelessly fought an ugly and unpredictable disease for many years, yet still carried on with a smile on her face and found joy and happiness in little things everyday. Cathy will forever be remembered for her kind and generous spirit. A private funeral service and burial of ashes will be held for Cathy's family. A memorial service and celebration of life will be scheduled for a later date. To honor Cathy's memory, please consider making a donation to Ojakian Commons, an independent living facility in Simsbury, CT designed for people with MS and other physical disabilities. Please make any donations payable to the Petit Fund at The Multiple Sclerosis Society and mail to Mark Ojakian, 43 Mountain Brook Rd. West Hartford, CT 06117. Online condolences may be made at www.SheehanHilbornBreen.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 25, 2020.

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Donna Maradie

July 2, 2020

To the Ojakian and Runquist families -

Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of Cathy. I had the privilege of coaching softball for St. Brigid School when I was a junior at Northwest Catholic. We won the CYO Championship in 1972, and we couldn't have done it without our star 2nd basemen, Cathy Ojakian. Cathy was not only a tremendous athletic back in 8th grade, she was a joy to coach, a great teammate, fun to be around, and a great young lady. Boy, could she run! I was so sorry to hear of her struggles with MS, because she was so young and had such a wonderful family to share her life with. I know that she will be so missed by all of you.
My thoughts and prayers to her entire family.

Connie & John Sessler

June 28, 2020

Dear Christina, CC, Carly and your dear families ~ Your Mom was loved and admired by so many for her kind heart and courage. We are so sorry for your loss. Love You, Bless You ~ Connie & John

Maria Tavarozzi

June 27, 2020

With our sincerest sympathies. Cathy was a model of strength and courage to all of us. May she find her place of peace.

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Kathryn Runquist

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Peggy Gray

June 27, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gregg Richers

June 26, 2020

Steve
You and Cathy brought up 3 great kids together. I'm sure there very proud of you and their Mom.

Joyce & Bill Donovan

June 25, 2020

Christina, Carly, Cassandra, & Nancy,
Our thoughts and prayers to you and your families during this difficult time.
I am so grateful to have had years of shared life experiences with Cathy. I welcomed her daughters into my preschool, we enjoyed activities at St. Paul Church and we would visit for hours talking about our children and grandchildren. Cathy was genuine, loving, vibrant, and spirit-filled.
She is now singing and dancing in the arms of our Lord. Rest peacefully my good friend. We will miss you.

Barb & Dave Mulak

June 25, 2020

Christina, CC, Carly & Steve, We have such great memories of Cathy from Greenacre Lane when our families were just beginning. Whether it was fun family trips to Sesame Place, 4th of July parade parties or hanging out on the back porch while babies slept. Cathy possessed a great sense of humor, was an awesome cook and had a kind heart. Please accept our sincere condolences. Love, Barb & Dave Mulak

Tamara Tarpinian

June 25, 2020

i am so sorry for your the tragic loss of your daughter, mother and sister. My condolences.

Dale MacDonald

June 25, 2020

Christina, Carly and Cassie, my heart is breaking for you and your families. Your mom was an amazing person and mother. I treasure all the memories I have of you girls growing up and all the events we had at St. Paul's. Heaven has gained an angel! Sending you all hugs and prayers!

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KEVIN SARGIS

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Mary Petrone

June 25, 2020

My heart hurts for you all right now. I loved Cathy so much! I only got to see her once in recent years and I wish I'd been able to spend more time with her. She was such a loving, kind, funny, fun and beautiful person inside and out. And she had the best smile!

I will never forget the time she accompanied my family on a trip to NC. We sang along to movie soundtracks the whole ride. She was like another big sister to me. Sending much love and prayers to you all.

Gloria Reddy

June 24, 2020

To the Ojakian and Runquist Family,
My heart breaks for everyone on the passing of Cathy. Although we have not seen each other in years weve messaged each other through Facebook. I will always treasure her writing me a few weeks ago on the passing of my mom. She was everything you wrote about her. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

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