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Christopher J. Mefferd

1970 - 2022

Christopher J. Mefferd obituary, 1970-2022, East Hampton, CT

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Christopher Mefferd Obituary

We are heartbroken to announce that Christopher J. Mefferd passed away on 11/8/2022. Christopher leaves behind his wife Kellee, daughters Sydney and Piper, mother and stepfather Gail and John Benker, sister Melissa, grandmother Mabel Marshall, and many close friends and relatives, all whom he loved and cherished dearly. Chris was preceded in death by his father Jeffery Mefferd and grandfather Truman Marshall. Chris grew up in Middletown, Connecticut where he attended Xavier High School graduating in the class of 1988. He attended Western Connecticut State University where he studied criminal justice which let to his 21-year career as a Hartford Police Officer where he achieved the rank of lieutenant. Following his retirement from Hartford PD, Chris joined the East Hartford PD, where he served for 5 years before starting a successful business. Chris was an avid runner and enjoyed golf and skiing. He loved the beach, especially trips to Block Island. Chris had an extremely big heart and his sunshiny, cheerful personality was contagious to everyone he met. Friends and family all agree that they were extremely lucky to have had Chris in their lives and his smile will be missed. A memorial service to celebrate Chris' life will be held at 1:00pm, Friday November 18th , at the VFW, 3272 Main St, Rocky Hill CT.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 15, 2022.

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Jackie Dunning (HPD)

November 6, 2023

Chris
Happy 1yr Anniversary In Heaven.

Monica G

January 5, 2023

I am just finding out about Chris passing and I am so sorry to hear this.....I dealt with Chris over the past years with his business insurance and had numerous conversations, a very nice guy....So sorry for the Mefferd' s family loss ....to young to soon! Monica

Keith

November 19, 2022

I was a few years older than Chris and his sister, but we did all play together at times , in winter time snow tunnels in the piles the plow left, i remember back then he was approx 6 to 10 years old and he was kind of shy then but that was ok too. It was nice to see him relax and open up a little as we got to know him, when your from that neighborhood we cant help but to all feel like family. I send everyone my Love .
May God fill your hearts with his grace thru this time.
Keith

Orest and Lucy

November 18, 2022

We are extending our sincere condolences for your loss. It is never easy to except the loss of a family member. Your hearts will feel the pain of their absence, but may you always remember the good times you had together. Our prayers are with you.

Jack Maille, MD

November 18, 2022

I send my deepest heart felt condolences to Gail, John and the entire family. May God grant you the fortitude to weather those immense loss

Carolyn Venceslau

November 17, 2022

Kellee, I was so sad to read of Chris´s passing. Sending you and your girls a big HUG! Wishing you all many smiles as you think of the memories you all made together . - Carolyn V.

Tracy Edwards

November 16, 2022

Deepest sympathies and condolences to the friends and family.

Robin Johnson

November 15, 2022

My condolscences and prayes goes out to the Mefferd family.

Robin C. Johnson
Hartford Police Department

Jackie Dunning (HPD)

November 15, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Paul Kutcher

November 14, 2022

Please accept my deepest condolences in the loss of your loved one .
Chris was a joy to work with and always a pleasure to be around..
He will be truly missed I am sure .
Respectfully
Sgt Paul Kutcher ( Retired )
Hartford Police Department

Ric Edwards

November 14, 2022

I'm sorry to hear of Chris's passing. My condolences to your family. I know Chris from the Garage Expert family of Franchisees.

Liz Whitty, Xavier High School

November 14, 2022

Xavier High School extends sincere condolences to the Mefferd Family. Your loss is our loss. Chris, his family and friends are in the prayers of this Xaverian community.

Jan girandola

November 13, 2022

Always a smile and soft spoken kind word great man and father. So sorry to your girls and your family at this time of loss. Great boss. Jan girandola

Pete Brings

November 13, 2022

Missy, Gail, Kellee and Family, I wish I could take away the pain you all feel and please know that you're not alone. All of us that were close to Chris feel it as well. Lots of memories and all of them good growing up with him down the street. I feel lucky to have known him. I'll miss his company, his heart and his spirit. He helped me get through some tough losses in my life and I'll be forever grateful to him for that. Thanks for being a good friend and a good influence on me. I remember when we used to climb the same trees. He would always climb higher than me and I have this image that keeps coming up in my mind of him swinging the tree up high and laughing while I was beneath him freaking out and holding on tight. That's how I imagine him up in Heaven right now.

Pete Brings

November 13, 2022

Tony Gennaro Middletown PD (Ret.)

November 12, 2022

Deepest sympathies and condolences to the friends and family.

Shawn DiBella

November 12, 2022

Very sad news. My condolences to Chris´s family. RIP.

Michael Fago

November 12, 2022

Chris was a very good man who was extremely well liked. My deepest respect and sympathy.

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