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Ciara McDermott Obituary
McDERMOTT, Ciara M. Ciara M. McDermott, Police Officer, 30, of West Hartford, was uplifted into bright light, pure spirit, eternally perfect and intact on Monday, (November 21, 2005). Born in Hartford, she is the cherished and beloved daughter of Peter J. McDermott and Maria (Mazzoccoli) McDermott, of Durham. Ciara was raised in Durham before recently moving to West Hartford. Ciara graduated from Mercy High School, Middletown, and Fairfield University, Fairfield, with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in English and Women's Studies. Ciara is a member of Phi Beta Kappa. Ciara was a superb poet and enjoyed painting and reading. After graduating from the Police Officer Standards and Training Academy, Meriden, she joined the Newington Police Department as a Police Officer. Ciara was committed to the students of Newington High School, as the school resource officer. Ciara leaves her loving brother and sisters, Jeffrey McDermott and his wife, Jennifer, of Las Vegas, NV, Lori McDermott and her husband, Brian Jessurun, of Pomfret, Marita McDermott and her fiance, Douglas Farwell, both of Easton, MD; her two nephews, Connor and Jack McDermott of Las Vegas, NV. She also leaves her aunts and uncles, William and Susan McDermott, of Southington, Brian McDermott and Sue Schwartz, of Minneapolis, MN, Maureen McDermott and her husband, Robert Olschefskie, of Old Saybrook, Joseph Mazzoccoli, of Newington, Rocco and Margaret Mazzoccoli, of Unionville, Ouida Mazzoccoli, of Tallahassee, FL, Dominic Mazzoccoli, of Rocky Hill, Susan Mazzoccoli and Margaret Mazzoccoli, both of Newington; her Godchild Ava Kowal of Durham; many dear cousins and friends, and her two adorable pugs, Gracie and Boo-Boo's. Relatives and friends are invited to call on Saturday from 3-7 p.m. at the Newington Memorial Funeral Home, 20 Bonair Ave., Newington. Her funeral service and interment in Cedar Hill Cemetery will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Ciara M. McDermott Scholarship Fund, c/o Capital Region Federal Credit Union, 1233 Silas Deane Highway, Wethersfield, CT 06109. To share a memory with the family, please visit us at www.newingtonmemorial.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Ciara McDermott
Mary Hevican Cantelmi
November 25, 2005
Cousin Peter, although we haven't seen each other for a few years, my heart goes out to you and Maria in your time of sorrow. May God's love comfort you and your family as He holds Ciara in His loving arms in Heaven.
Jen :o)
November 21, 2006
Its been a year to the date...its so hard, I don't know whether to be happy because its my best friends birthday or be upset because you passed away a year ago. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and wonder if you are looking down on us. You were always there for me and I will never forget that! You were one of my best friends when I was in high school. Everyone has that one person that they feel comfortable talking to...and that person for me was YOU! Thank you for keeping me out of trouble and watch over us! Make sure we are all safe! I love you Ofc. McDermott. I miss you!
jennifer ginn
November 19, 2006
I cant believe in a few days that its going to be a year. Everytime i go to the high school to visit I always want to stop by and say hi. But i know now your in a better place and im sure your wacthin over newington. R.I.P
November 18, 2006
It has been a long and difficult year since I last saw you. I take comfort in knowing that I have you as my angel. You are forever loved.
Jen
July 10, 2006
McDermott, I wish you were still here, I could use your comfort more then ever right now! I miss you so much! You were one of my best friends. Someone I could always talk to, no matter the situation...I dont have anyone like that anymore, really! It's kind of sad. I can't believe you are gone, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you and all that you have done for me! I love you so much!
April 21, 2006
Five months have come and gone so quickly. We love and miss you tremendously. Until we meet again..
Stephanie Madeira
April 3, 2006
I Miss You Officer McDermott. I can't believe that you were taken from us... You will never be forgotten.
Marsha Nelson (Coachman)
March 29, 2006
I am still sad everytime I think of Ciara. I miss her dearly. She was beautiful on the inside and out. Our talks were refreshing and I was always excited to see her. For the last year she had been on my mind, probably because we lost contact and I never saw her anymore. I also missed Maria too. They were both in my heart. They still are. I love them both. Warmth and love to the entire family.
Love Marsha (Studio, W.H.)
March 14, 2006
i'm finally legal, my first martini is for you. love always
Kelly
February 5, 2006
Happy Birthday Ciara. We love and miss you. Keep smiling!
Heather Paskewich
February 2, 2006
Ciara was an inspiration to everyone who was blessed to have ever crossed her path. Not only was she selfless and beautiful, but she was one of the brightest people I have ever met. My deepest sympathy goes out to all family and friends. Maria, Door, and Marita..you are all wonderful people and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I'll never forget all the wonderful childhood memories that you have given me. You are the most open, kind-hearted family. Just want you to know that I am here for all of you during this awful time.
January 24, 2006
Not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts...im done with school now and if you could see me cross the stage that would be better than reciving my diploma. The day before you left us , i saw you walk out the school with a smile on your face...that was usually what you did everytime you left. I hope you are looking down on us smiling and everytime the sun shines i will know its you with your beautiful smile helping us all get through another day...
Stephanie '06
Kelly
December 21, 2005
It has been one month since you left us and everyday hurts as much as the moment I found out you were gone. I know you're at peace and in a better place and it is comforting to know that. You are my hero, my inspiration and my angel. I love you and miss you.
Steph Milluzzo
December 7, 2005
It's been about a week since you've left us! Everyday goes by and I always think of you! You were a great friend and person and I'll never forget you. I miss you!
RIP CIARA MCDERMOTT
<3 Steph Milluzzo
December 4, 2005
Whenever I take Daisy out for a walk I think about you, Boo-Boos, and Gracie. I can hear your voice every night before I go to sleep and when I wake up in the morning. Whenever a cruiser drives past me I look to see if it's you. Michael starts at school on Monday and I know you'll give him words of wisdom on how to survive high school. I miss you so much. Love your little red head <3
Rachel Groll
December 3, 2005
i cant believe this had to happen to u....u were such a good person n an great cop, u will be missed by so many people u were so good to everyone....thanks so much more being there for me my 3 years of high school and helping me get threw it all.....I LOVE YOU N WILL MISS U VERY MUCH......R.I.P.
Rachel
Wendy. S Friedman (a friend)
November 30, 2005
To the Mcdermott Family,
I was blessed in my life to have known Ciara.
She was a wonderful friend and an incredible cook. Ciara will always be remembered for her smile and her even bigger heart. Ciara always taught me to breath, through the rough times. I will continue to miss her as well as her family and friends.
I do believe she is with the angels now watching over us.
Betty Ficacelli
November 30, 2005
To the McDermott Family and Newington Police Department:
Words are so hard to find to express our sympathy for your loss of such a beautiful daughter and fellow officer. As a Newington resident I would see Ciara driving around town and would admire how beautiful she was and from all the entries i have read she was a beautiful person inside too. As a mother of a fellow East Hartford police officer i know the worry we as parents have at all times. As a matter of fact, my son had Mr. McDermott at the Policy Academy for training a few years back. Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss and please know that this tragedy has affected so many people. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. May God Bless you and give you strength to get through this.
With love, The Ficacelli Family
Rebecca Sargent
November 30, 2005
I send my deepest sympathy to Ciara's family and friends. This was a shock and extremely unexpected, I myself have only met her a few times, She was a very kind person. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I am very sorry for your loss.
Rebecca
November 30, 2005
I send my deepest sympathy to Ciara's friends and family. This was a shock and extremely unexpected, I myself have only met her a few times inside the bank but she is a very kind person and always had a nice conversation. I am very sorry for your loss.
November 29, 2005
A senseless tragedy. But rest assured that she accomplished a lot and touched many peoples lives in a short amount of time. Many others spend a lifetime trying to achieve what she did. I'm very sorry for your loss.
November 29, 2005
This is a great loss to the NHS community, to the police community to the town of Newington,
and to the friends and family of Ciara! Our prayers and deepest sympathy!
a teacher NHS
Friend
November 29, 2005
Even though I did not know Officer McDermott, My condolences and prayers go out to the family. May God Bless You and comfort you at this time.
martha serrano
November 29, 2005
she will be truley missed she touched the hearts of the children at newington high. we will miss you thanks for being there for my kids.
November 28, 2005
The days without you have passed but the pain is still strong in my heart. It is not the same without you and your physical and inner beauty, intelligence, and contagious smile. I talk to you everyday and I know you are listening. Give your family, friends, and Jimmy the strength to find comfort in loved ones and the strength of healing. Always in my heart and prayers.
Tanya Kilis
November 28, 2005
Officer McDermott was the most compassionate woman I have ever known. Im a 2003 graduate from newington high school. If it wasn't for her i would have never made it out of school. She was like a mentor to me. She wrote me a quote "We are about as happy as we make up our minds to be." she wrote that to me in my junior year of high shcool. I keep it in a picture frame which is always right next to me. officer mcdermott is very loved and as much as well missed. She is now my guardian angel. I will never forget her. My deepest regards to the her family. OFFICER MCDERMOTT THANKS FOR EVERYTHING YOU DID FOR ME...I LOVE YOU AND I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU..RIP
Sylvia Rebelo
November 28, 2005
Even though I did not know Officer McDermott, my prayers go out to her family and friends. God Bless!!
a friend
November 28, 2005
I have know Ciara for almost all of my life. She was a beautiful person with an electric smile and a contagious laugh. My sister was one of her best friends and I have many fond memories of the two of them growing up. I have seen Ciara go from that little girl to a beautiful, intelligent woman. My heart goes out to you and your family during this tragic time. As I have already expressed to you, Ciara will live on forever in our hearts and in our family as well as yours. She will be missed deeply.
Heather (Nelson) & David Frangione
November 28, 2005
To the McDermott Family - the many times I would see Ciara in town I would roll down my window to say hello to her, she would turn around with that wonderful smile and chat with me for a second or two or during the summer she would come through Churchill Park during softball games, I would wave at her and she would always stop and say hello and we would chat then too. She always had a minute or two for anyone and before you knew it everyone would gather around just to say hello to her. I'll miss seeing you and chatting with you in town and at the park. You will be missed greatly by us but never forgotten in our hearts. Rest in peace Ciara.
michael cirilli
November 28, 2005
To McDermott family,
Our thoughts and prays are with you in hope of getting through the days and years ahead. I did not know Ciara, but had heard so many good things about her, so long ago, that I can only imagine that she grew up to be someone very special. It is hard for any words to help you in this time need, just to have had Ciara been part of your family is a blessing in itself which will live on forever.
The Cirilli Family
steffany miller
November 27, 2005
wow... i cant beleive ur gone.. you've helped me with so much youve watch me change from a badd problem troubled teen to a respectful , succesfull adult... u are truely my inspiration officer mcdermott.... when i needed help i camed to u when i was in trouble i was sent to you..... u knew everything about me and what i wanted in life.... juss 2 weeks before this devistating loss of your pressence we sat down and talked about getting me into the hartford cadet program to then follow to meriden police academy.. i wanted to be jus like you my attitude my strength you thaught everything abut me would b great in this profession.. my grandfather (myron verner retired chesire cop) is proud of me that iwant to b a cop but better yet worried because my idol is now gone out of my life....officer mcdermott.. i no you are watchin down on me seeing if im goin to stay on honor roll and follow thru with everything ive told you... and i know you would b smiling when u hear this..... but im going to follow thru with this cop program and everything in your behalf....im sorry i never got to say thank you sooner.. but i will say thank you know and pray to you everynight to tell you whats going on.. i will never forget you mcdermott.. may you rest in peace and forever be in my heart... with all my love.
Please watch over Brendan for me. and tell him i said hi.
*Steffany miller*
Martha Lavery Riccio
November 27, 2005
You are in our prayers. We offer our most heartfelt sympathies.
Newington High Student
November 27, 2005
Our deepest sorrow for your loss. Officer McDermott was not only an honorable officer but an honorable person.
Anne LaCroix
November 27, 2005
Pete,you may not remember me, but I remember you from my days with WHPD. I was heartsick when I heard that such a tragedy had befallen your family, especially at this time of year.
Ciara was obviously a wonderful person, dedicated officer and a credit to both her family and her profession. I hope you find peace knowing she can never be hurt again. She will always be with you, and has a special place in many hearts.
Anne
Lori Smith
November 26, 2005
To the McDermott family,
and Newington Police Dept Family.
My very deepest condolences to you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow
I didn't know Off. McDermott but my son who is a senior at NHS was very fond of her, and said she was a great person,and a true friend..
She will be missed by everyone.
Matthew Cook, Fairfield Univ. '97
November 26, 2005
To the McDermott Family:
I was stunned to hear the tragic news about Ciara. Since graduating from Fairfield, I have followed her career through the papers and friends. I was extremely happy to have had the opportunity to see her again a few years ago and catch up. I will forever remember her warm, caring smile, profoundly powerful poetry and her strong dedication to serving the community, particularly those in greatest need. You all are in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
With sympathy,
Connecticut Resident
November 26, 2005
Though the world is filled with many flowers, each one is unique. After one is appreciated, as it is obvious Ciara was, her beauty, charm and dedication will be forever missed. May she go on to the glory she so deserves.
Suzanne Bielinski
November 26, 2005
I would like to offer my sincerest condolences to the McDermott Family and friends, the Newington Police Department, the law enforcement officers of surrounding communities, and all others touched by the tragic and untimely passing of Officer Ciara McDermott.
Though I never had the honor of knowing her, it is obvious by what I have read that she was a truly special person with an earnest calling to serve. I hope it brings you some comfort knowing that she will live on in the strength, caring and encouragement she gave to so many others.
My heart and prayers go out to you all in this time of sadness. Peace.
Ruth de Haas
November 26, 2005
Dear McDermott family and friends,
My deepest sympathy for all of you during this tragic time and sad days. Ciara was obviously someone to be very proud of and was very special. I know that she won't be forgotten.
Charlene Orsine(Heck)
November 26, 2005
Capt. McDermott and Family:
My most heartfelt sympathy on losing Ciara. She was a beautiful soul who will be missed.
Glenda and Nate Schmelter
November 26, 2005
To the McDermott family,
We are sorry for the loss of your daughter Ciara. Our hearts go out to you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rev. Bill Hinckley
November 26, 2005
On behalf of the Plainfield police department and the International Conference of Police Chaplains. Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire McDermott Family, the Newington Police Department and Newington school system, for your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. officer Ciara certainly will be missed.
Chaplain Bill Hinckley (Plainfield, CT Police Dept.) CT Rep. I.C.P.C.
[email protected]
Sgt. Rick Rodriguez
November 26, 2005
From the men and women of the New Haven Police Department School Resource Officer Unit our deepest sympathy to you Pete and your familey. You are all in our prayers.God Bless
Michael & Tina Kuracz
November 26, 2005
Our deepest sympathy to the McDermott family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Officer John Lazarus
November 26, 2005
Dear Cpt. Mcdermott
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Respectfully Officer John Lazarus Bloomfield PD
Amy Powell
November 26, 2005
I remember meeting Ciara several years ago while working as a temp at a company in Berlin. We chatted about many things over a period of a few days, and during our brief time together, she shared with me her dreams of one day becoming a police officer. She was friendly, charasmatic, and a person whom I would remember for a long time. Although I was delighted to hear that she pursued her dream which proved to be successful and fulfilling I am still shocked and devastated over this horrible tradgedy. My thoughts and prayers are with the McDermott family during this difficult time.
Steve & Karen Weisher
November 26, 2005
Pete and family -
We're so sorry to hear of Ciara's tragic passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.
Kevin Nugent
November 26, 2005
Dear McDermott Family:
I still cannot place into words my reaction to the tragic loss of Officer Ciara McDermott. Upon hearing of her death the world lost a wonderful woman. It is with my sincere condolences and most deepest sympathy that I give to the entire McDermott family. Officer McDermott was a great young woman, dedicated to life and helping everyone in every way possible. Her smile was like that of a beautiful sunny day. We have lost a warm-hearted, compassionate, courageous, wonderful person. I graduated from NHS just last year. It was so great seeing officer McDermott last Friday when I went to visit at the high school. We would always talk to each other, saying hello and seeing how things were. I would like both the family as well as herself to know that it truly was a blessing to know such a woman as her. Ciara McDermott, You will be deeply missed by myself as well as everyone who was so very fortunate to know you. You will always live on in my memories, and in my heart. You are with God and the Angels now, in a better place. We all love you and miss you. My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Officer Ciara McDermott.
Bob and Mona Distin
November 25, 2005
Pete and Maria: Our hearts go out to you. What a beautiful woman she became inside and out. Our prayers are always with you.
Bob and Mona
Lewis Rome
November 25, 2005
My deepest sympathy for the loss of such a very special person and so well loved and missed by young and old alike whose life she has affected. My prayers are with you. Lew Rome
November 25, 2005
"you'll be with me like a handprint on my heart... i've been changed for good"
"Requiem aeternam (Eternal Rest)
Dona eis domine (Grant them O Lord)
Eis domine (O Lord)
Et lux perpetua (And May perpetual Light shine upon them)
Luceat eis (Shine upon them)"
Terrance Treschuk
November 25, 2005
Dear Peter:
Susan and I wanted to extend our deepest sympathy to you, Maria, and the rest of your family, on the tragic loss of Ciara. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at your time of sorrow.
Terry and Susan Treschuk
November 25, 2005
To the McDermott Family,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Although I did not know Ciara, she stood for everything that was good in law enforcement and more importantly, in life. It's unfortunate that God usually takes the best ones first but know that she is always looking down on you. God Bless your family always and thank you Ciara. With love and respect, a New Jersey police officer
Casher Holt
November 25, 2005
Peter & Maria My deepest condolences on the loss of Ciara. Our prayers are with you in your time of mourning.
Sheryl Dougherty
November 25, 2005
Marita,I am so so sorry for your loss.My thoughts are consumed with you and your family. If there is anything I can do for you, now and forever I am here for you. Ciara was a sister to me. Especially after the loss of my own sister not all that long ago. I know what you are feeling Marita. Love, Sheryl
Chief Duane Lovello
November 25, 2005
On behalf of the entire Darien Police Department, please accept our deepest sympathy on your tragic loss. Although I did not know Officer McDermott, what I have read leads me to believe she represented all that is good in our law enforcement profession.
Dick Leavitt
November 25, 2005
Dear Pete, Maria and family,
Although there are no words that can express the depths of our sorrow at the loss of Ciara, please know that we are with you and praying for Ciara and her entire family.
Matthew Burgess
November 25, 2005
To the McDermott Family: I want to send my deepest condolences to your entire family. I was shocked and saddened when I first heard the horrific news. I am proud to say that Ciara was my friend. She was such a terrific person. I also want to send out prayers to everyone that knew her. I know some of her best friends, and they too are going through unbearable pain. I know God has a place in heaven for her. God Bless You. R.I.P. Ciara.
Kelly Mills-Correa
November 25, 2005
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I didn't know Ciara but just to hear of something that tradgic saddens me.
jeanie corning
November 25, 2005
Officer McDermott had an opportunity to help our family a few years back. The lasting impression she made upon our family , especially our son, will never be forgotten. Even prior to her tragic death we never took for granted how she helped our son. She was a Police Officer, but, first and foremost was a compassionate, gentle spoken , caring , considerate person. And that's how she treated our family as well as treating us with dignity. Our experience with her was a "bookmark" in our lives and thanks to her our son was able to turn his life around. I don't believe that we would have seen the same outcome had it not been for her compassion and burning desire to help our son. I can only imagine that there are many other families in Newington that had similar experiences with Officer McDermott. It is overwhelming sad that a woman who treated people with dignity would have that taken away from her at her hour of death. I have no doubt she is in heaven and will be NHS's angel. Our entire family is saddened by this and will keep Ciara in our prayers. I am so very sorry that all that were personally close to her have this burden on their hearts. God Bless you all and help you deal with this tragedy. There are no magic words to speak to help you if there were I'd say them and so would many others. Hold onto each other and let time pass and hopefully your days will get better... Fondly , The Corning's
Tiesha Thomas
November 25, 2005
Dear Capt. McDermott
I'm praying for you and your family. Ciara was not only a sister officer to me but she was like the sister I never had. Ciara will be greatly missed.
Officer Tiesha Thomas
Bloomfield P.D.
Resident
November 25, 2005
"Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy."
ED FURSTEIN
November 25, 2005
PETE,MARIA AND FAMILY,
WE WERE SADDENED TO LEARN OF THE UNTIMELY AND TRAGIC LOSS OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL CIARA. YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
ED AND MAGGIE FURSTEIN
Jim Gay
November 24, 2005
Dear Pete,
Cindy and I wish to extend our deepest sympanthy to you and your family. Words are very hard to come by in events such as this, so please know that you and your family will be very much in our thoughts and prayers.
Raymond Shea
November 24, 2005
Dear Peter:
I write to express my sincere and deep sorrow for the sudden loss of you beautiful Ciara. Not knowing her I still am happy to join with so many of your friends in giving my sympathy to you. I am sure she had many of your attributes of which I certainly know. you were a great Dad and I merely express my deepest sympanthy to you in your loss.
Angela Hofmann
November 24, 2005
Officer McDermott and I were very close since my freshman year 2001. She has always helped me even if i was in the wrong.always teaching me the right thing to do. she was a good friend and easy to talk to...i will miss her very much always in my heart. I LOVE YOU!!! RIP!! you are the best!!
LOVE YA~Kelley Swanson, Jen Tyszka, Ivory Barber and myself
Mark Catania
November 24, 2005
Pete and Family,
I, like everyone else am deeply saddend by the loss of Ciara. I know my brother Rob and she were very close friends and her loss will be greatly felt by all she met and knew. I met Ciara about three years ago and there was no mistake, she was a class act. There was also no doubt she was a McDermott, a genuine good person and an asset to our profession.
May she rest in peace.
Mark Catania
Glenn Catania
November 24, 2005
To The McDermott Family,
My wife and I feel your pain. Recently we lost our 37 year old son.
Although I didn't know your daughter, I did have several interactions with you Pete. You were always helpful to my family no matter what. I'm sure your daughter was as dedicated, committed and professional as you were.
We are truly sorry for your loss and feel the pain you are experiencing. Such a tragic loss of a beautiful young woman.
Sincerely,
Glenn & Pat Catania
Lawler & North Main, West Hartford
Captain Jack Casey
November 24, 2005
Pete, Maria,& Family
The tragedy of Ciara's loss will be felt by many but her eternal smile will light your hearts forever as fond memories will visit you daily and warm your souls as she is still with you in your own hearts and no one can ever take that away from you. She was a beautiful,dedicated, intelligent and committed officer who touched all who knew her in a special way. I am so sorry for your loss. To the men and women of Newington PD we are here if you need us, hang in there. Jack
Dick Nardi
November 24, 2005
Pete to you and you family I offer my deepest regrets in the loss of your daughter, Ciara. Although I never met her, I know she is surely missed by many. God Bless.
Steve and Marcia Pryor
November 24, 2005
Pete and Maria, we are truly sorry for the loss of Ciara. Your love for your girls has always been eminent. We are praying for your comfort under such tragic tunes. May God keep you close to Him. Love, Steve and Marcia Pryor
John G. Zabel
November 24, 2005
Dear Peter and Maria,
We were very saddened to hear of Ciara's untimely death. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
John G. Zabel and Jennifer Zabel Moran
Thomas Clark
November 23, 2005
Officer Mcdermott was one of the most nicest people i have ever met in my life. this is going to be hard for all of NHS students to recooperaite from her death. But all ihave to remember is she is in my heart and looking over all of us. Most love for the McDermott family.
Andy
November 23, 2005
Ciara, You are a great person and will be deeply missed. I enjoyed the talks we had. I will be thinking of you. Rest in Peace.
dorothy souza
November 23, 2005
Pete, Maria and McDermott family: your loss is truly felt by thousands of us in the sate of ct and throughout the country. Our hearts are heavy with grief over how you will cope with this tragic event. May our prayers help and guide your family, day by day and May the lord watch over all of you. May Ciara finally rest in the heavens and shine down upon you with her loving spirit and memories.
Erika Gamble
November 23, 2005
To the McDermott family and other loved ones of Ciara,
Many thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless your family. While I did not personally know Ciara, it is apparent that she will always be remembered as a hero and a true inspiration for many. May her spirit always live on forever.
Laurie-Ann Jones
November 23, 2005
To the McDermott family I send my deepest condolences and prayers to you in losing such a wonderful person like Ciara. She helped my son with situations that could have gotten him in trouble but with her guidance and way of being there not only as the resource officer but as a friend really made my son listen and feel that she cared about his situation. She truly was a special human being who touched so many. As a parent I knew she truly cared about the kids more than it was her job. She will be miss and unreplaceable to your family and to her Newington High School kids. God Bless You.
Pat Sullivan
November 23, 2005
Pete: My heart goes out to you and your family. May God be with you.
Pat Sullivan
Retired, Windsor Police Department
Laurie-Ann Jones
November 23, 2005
To the McDermott family I send my deepest condolences and prayers for you in losing such a wonderful person like Ciara. She helped my son on more than one occassion with situations that would have gotten him in trouble but her way of being there not just as as the resource officer but as a friend really made my son listen and feel that she cared about his problem. She truly was a special human being who touched so many. We will miss her with all our hearts. God Bless You.
ROSANNE COLETTO
November 23, 2005
TO THE FAMILY OF OFFICER MCDERMOTT AND THE STATE OF CONN. WE HAVE LOST ANOTHER WONDERFUL POLICE OFFICER IN OUR STATE. WE HAVE LOST TO MANY IN THE LAST TEN YEARS OR SO. I AM A PAST RESIDENT OF EAST HARTFORD AND I REMEMBER WHEN OUR TOWN LOST ONE OF OUR OFFICERS IT WAS LIKE LOSING A FAMILY MEMBER. LETS ALL PRAY THAT CIARA IS THE LAST ONE, THE KILLING OF HUMAN LIFE NEEDS TO STOP. GOD BLESS HER FAMILY AND LETS KEEPS ALL OUR POLICE OFFICERS SAFE ON THE STREETS AND ESPECIALLY IN THEIR OWN HOMES. ROSANNE COLETTO
Sharon Chapman
November 23, 2005
My brother, Jim Mudge told me of your loss. I'm so very sorry. I empathise with you. I lost my daughter a year and a half ago. Please accept my deepest condolences. There is nothing one can say to ease your pain. God Bless you all. Sincerely Sharon Chapman
Karen (Marks)Swidorsky
November 23, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Michael J. McMullen
November 23, 2005
Pete and Maria - Debi and I extend our deepest heartfelt condolences and sympathies to you and your extended police family. We pray the Lord will help guide you through these difficult times and share your pain.(Enfield PD Ret. & Vernon PD)
Bette Cushman (former H&G contemporary)
November 23, 2005
Lori: My sympathy to you and to your family at this painful time. May God bless all of you in your healing process.
Alan Goldstein
November 23, 2005
To the McDermott Family:
Although I didn't personally know Ciara, I know she had a tremendous impact on the lives of many people.
My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire McDermott Family and the Newington Police Department for your loss. You're in my thoughts at this most difficult time.
Officer Alan Goldstein
West Hartford Police Department
Joel & Deborah Kent
November 23, 2005
Peter & Family
May the Lord grant you the strength to carry on in your time of grief, and continue to honor Ciaras memory by your continued love and service to mankind. Our thoughts and prayers are with you...
Rich Alifano
November 23, 2005
To Pete, the McDermott family and the members of the Newington Police Department. I am so sorry for your heart wrenching loss. I had the pleasure of having Ciara in one of my I&I classes. She was a beautiful and pure spirit who had the ability to touch those who she met. My prayers are with Ciara and you all. She had my otmost respect. May she rest comfortably in Heaven. Amen
Rich Alifano NCPD
reader
November 23, 2005
To the McDermott Family:
You have lost an ANGEL. Society has lost has an ANGEL. Just reading the words from the people whose lives Ciara touched brings sadness to my heart. At some point during the celebration of this young ladies AMAZING life you will think of the lives she has touched and affected. It will ease the sorrow a bit during the time you grieve. Those who were lucky enough to experience this ANGEL'S compassion, caring and love will be affected forever, and I believe, just from reading their words, that they will pass along those qualities to people in need.
I pray that your loss is lessened with the memories, lessons and thoughtfulness she gave to so many. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Christen Veach
November 23, 2005
McDermott Family
I consider myself truly blessed to have known Ciara. She was an amazing woman who touched the hearts of so many people. Ciara will be remembered as a caring, thoughtful, sensitive and incredible individual. She was a smiling face who always found the best in everyone. I will always remember the wonderful moments that we shared during our time at Fairfield University. Ciara was a tremendous person who will remain in my heart and memories forever. My prayers and sympathies go out to your family.
Rick, Tammi, Caitlin & Morgan Kelly
November 23, 2005
Peter & family, we are so sorry for your loss. Will keep you in are thoughts and prayers.
The Ginelewicz Family
November 23, 2005
The McDermott Family,
Our hearts & prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Mark A. Zenobi
November 23, 2005
To the McDermott Family My heartfelt sympathy , although I didn't know her she was a wonderful person judging by the outpouring of support and grief shown by everyone especially the students whose lives she touched,her work on earth is through but she will live on in the lives of everyone she met and touched and even those she didn't. God Bless Her And hold her in the palm of his hand..
Sgt. Louis Gannon
November 23, 2005
I would like to offer my sincere condolences to Peter McDermott, the entire McDermott family as well as the Newington Police Department on the tragic passing of Ciara. My thoughts and prayers go out to each of you. God bless each of you.
Mariane & Joseph Sullo
November 23, 2005
Our family was so sorry to hear about the death of Ciara, she truely was a remarkable person. Although we had never met her, we have known the Mazzoccoli family for many, many years. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.
George & Marie Hickey
mike rahilly
November 23, 2005
I knew Officer McDermott very well. She was a very nice and caring person who did not judge by first impressions. I am very sadden to hear that such a great person has been taken from communtiy. You will be missed
Cheryl Phillips
November 23, 2005
i cant believe that she's gone. She was such an understanding, nice person and was ALWAYS there for anyone and everyone that had a problem. She helped me through A LOT of really tough times. I know she earned her spot in heaven. But She will be greatly missed by everyone. =-( R.I.P
mary and vicent yedynak
November 23, 2005
i did not know ciara but my husband is a former police officer and his and my prayers are with you at this time
Ron
November 23, 2005
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Though I did not personally know Ciara, she had caring place and role in my daughter's life. Know that she is at rest, at peace, and has made Heaven a better place.
God Bless You
Glenn Cusano
November 23, 2005
Pete and the McDermott Family,
My heart & prayers go out to you with deepest sympathy. God bless you & your family.
Francine Stavola
November 23, 2005
Lori: I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your sister. I met her for the first time through you earlier this year and liked her immediately. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Fondly,
Francine
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