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MOYNIHAN, Deborah Lynn "Debbie" (Anselmo)
Deborah Lynn "Debbie" (Anselmo) Moynihan, 49, of Newington, the beloved wife of Patrick Moynihan, passed away on July 14, 2013 at her home. Born in Hartford, daughter of Shirley Accatino, she was a "south end girl" who graduated from Bulkeley High School and after marrying moved to Newington where she had resided for many years. Deborah worked as a bookkeeper for her husband's company, Moynihan Plumbing. She had a big heart and a fun-loving spirit with a terrific sense of humor that will always be fondly remembered by all who knew her. In addition to her loving husband Patrick and her mother Shirley; she leaves her brother J.R. Anselmo; her nieces and nephews, Robert, Heather, Michael and Matthew Anselmo; her beloved aunt Sylvia Sussdorff; her cousin Robert; her aunt Sally, the wife of her beloved uncle Bob Accatino and her cousin Diane (Accatino) Grieco, who was there when Debbie first met her husband Pat. Also her uncle Charles Accatino and his wife Jane; and her beloved dog Sammy.
Deborah's funeral service will begin at 10:45 a.m. at the Newington Memorial Funeral Home, 20 Bonair Ave., in Newington, followed by a Mass of Christian burial at 11:30 a.m. at St. Mary's Church in Newington. She will be laid to rest in Mount Saint Benedict Cemetery immediately following the Mass. Relatives and friends are invited to call on Friday from 4-7 p.m. at Newington Memorial. To share a memory with her family, please visit us at www.newingtonmemorial.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Deborah MOYNIHAN
Marty
July 12, 2021
It still saddens me when I am reminded of your passing. I will always remember hanging with everyone at your place in our high school years. Your laugh and smile will always be a great memory.
Deb Manikas
July 12, 2020
Thinking of you Debbie!!! I miss you and miss seeing your beautiful smile and hearing you laugh!!! Im sure you are rocking the heavens!!! Sending big hugs!!! ❤
Eileen W.
July 24, 2013
Dear Pat,
My deepest sympathy and know my thoughts are with you. Deb just called me a few months ago in anticiption of booking a vacation to the islands next year with you. She was a sweet vibrant soul with a good heart.
Eileen W.
Cheryl LaPorte
July 23, 2013
Shirley, So sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family during this most difficult time.
Michael & Lori Gallon
July 20, 2013
Pat,
Lori and I extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers at this time. We are so sorry for your loss.
Uncle Rich & Aunt Elaine Anselmo
July 19, 2013
Gone too soon? It always seems there is no reason why. But her task must have been completed here on earth, and so God called her home to be with him and all her loved ones who have gone before her. From now, and until you meet again,Debbie will be your "Guardian Angel". Shirley,JR, and Pat we pray that God will comfort you and help you through this very difficult time. Our deepest sympathy.
KEITH HANN
July 19, 2013
DEB, U WERE COOL FROM THE OLD SCHOOL.RIP
Shon Hatcher
July 19, 2013
Patrick - I am so sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shon
Joe & Kelly Caruso
July 19, 2013
Pat,
We are so sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. You are all in our prayers.
Jennifer & Chris Ryan
July 19, 2013
Dear Patrick, I am so sorry to hear this sad news about Debbie. My heart goes out to you. I feel your pain. Please know you are in our thoughts at this most difficult time.
John Whittaker
July 19, 2013
My deepest condolences to the family of Debbie Anselmo. My prayers and thoughts are with you all
Mary Happenny
July 19, 2013
My deepest sympathy to Debbie's family. Your laughter will always be remembered. You are gone too soon.
July 19, 2013
My deepest sympathy for Debbie's family. I will always remember her laughter. You are gone too soon.
Timothy kiniry
July 19, 2013
The south end has lost a true friend. I will never forget her smile and the way I used
to drive her crazy. She was my big sister!!! Debbie we love you
and miss you!!!!!!
Diane Accatino Grieco
July 18, 2013
Auntie Shirley, JR and Pat- There are no words to express how sorry I am for what you are going through. It's heartbreaking to think about Debbie not being with us to make us laugh anymore.
Aunt Shirley you will always be Mama Mama (I can hear her now) She loved you like no other. JR she loved you and adored all your kids. Being an Aunt was probably one of the best things in the world to her. Pat, she loved you sooo much!! You made her life complete by being her best friend and her husband. I'm glad I could be apart of your wedding day to see just how happy you made her. I know she is at peace and will always be apart of us with the many memories we have to hold onto and to share. I hope the memories will help to comfort you all in the next few days as well as years to come. I have you all in my heart and prayers...With all my love, Diane....xo
Laura Sardo
July 18, 2013
With a heavy heart my condolences go out to Debbie's family.
July 18, 2013
Dear Moynihan Family,
So sorry to hear of the
passing of Debbie.
It was nice knowing her
as our neighbor.
My thoughts and prayers
are with you at this time.
Most sincerely,
Elizabeth Kostreva
Mark Roback
July 18, 2013
I remember Debbie from the Foster Heights neighborhood and Bulkeley High.
I would like to extend my sincere condolences to her family and friends.
nancy nash
July 18, 2013
Pat so so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you.I remember you and Deb visting with us on sunset beach,good times
July 18, 2013
Shirley and Family, Accept our deepest sympathy and know that she was one of God's special creations and He called
her home. May you have solace knowing that she is with Our Lord.
Cousin Dan and Marge, Melborne, Fl.
Tony Bartone
July 18, 2013
From the entire Bartone family, our deepest sympathies on the passing of Debbie.
Julia & Peter O'Leary
July 18, 2013
Shirley, our hearts go out to you and your family. we're so sorry for your loss. I know Debbie is at peace and with the angels.
July 18, 2013
You were my Sister-in-Law for many years.....We had our ups and downs but I alwways was there for you when you called.....I just talked with you on Matts's Birthday on the 8th.....I know you loved all my children and they loved you too!!! You werre a wonderful Aunt!!!!! Pat, you have been thru so much in your life and I feel for you, you are an AWESOME guy and we a wonderful husband to Debbie.....You took my son to work with you and fed him the best of steaks!!!LOL... All my kids LOVE you......We are so sorry for your loss!!!!!RIP Aunt Debbie!!!!!!!!!XO
Michele Lavoie
July 18, 2013
To the Entire Anselmo Family:
My sincerest condolences on the loss of Debbie. May you all find comfort sharing memories; she will always be in your hearts.
And to my dear friend Patrick: My heart is so heavy for you. There are no words ...please know your friends are here for you, and you are in my thoughts and prayers. We never truly lose those we give to God; they are always with us, as they are always a part of who we have become, and who we continue to be, in their memory...May you somehow find comfort.
July 18, 2013
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Lucy Nadeau
July 18, 2013
Debbie was the life of a party back in high school. We spent many a days hanging out at her apartment and she was just the best. She was a dear friend and I regret not keeping in touch with her after high school. I am very sad to know she will no longer light up our world with her humor and she had the coolest laugh. Debbie may you rest in peace and give everyone a chuckle up there.
PAUL & DONNA PAGE
July 18, 2013
Shirley & J R our deepest sympathy
July 18, 2013
Dear Shirley,
I am so sorry for your loss. Parents are not supposed to have their children go before them. My heart goes out to you at this sad time.
Sincerely
Nancy Anselmo
( Wife of Genaro )
Heather Anselmo
July 18, 2013
Aunty, May heaven bring you happiness and love. You will be forever missed.
Mike and Kim Gilland
July 18, 2013
Pat, today and always, may loving memories bring you peace, comfort, and strength.
Drieu and Mike Connors
July 18, 2013
Pat, we are so sorry to hear about Debbie! Please know we are thinking of you and are so sad we are out of state and can't be there at this time! You are in our thoughts and prayers!
Joe DellaFera
July 18, 2013
Keep remembering all the good times
Martin Coyne
July 18, 2013
My condolences to the entire family and close friends. We lost a great "south end girl" who always had a beautiful smile. Peace and love Debbie!!!!
Susan Coyne
July 18, 2013
I was very sad to hear the news of Debbie's passing. We were friends in highschool and had a blast. My thoughts & prayers go out to all of her family.
Tina DeCarlo
July 18, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.
Melissa Allaire
July 18, 2013
Will treasure you in my thoughts and always with a smile.
Debbie Santilli Gigliuto
July 18, 2013
Shirley & family,
I remember Debbie as a young & beautiful child from so long ago @ Skip & Patty's house. That painful void that you now feel will change eventually...into a book of cherished memories. Wishing you peace & serenity.
With deepest sympathy,
Lisa Cavanaugh
July 18, 2013
My deepest sympathy for the family and for my friend JR. She will be missed.
Deb Manikas
July 18, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with Deb's family & friends. Her beautiful smile, laughter and friendship will remain in our hearts forever.
Chris Kelly
July 18, 2013
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Christine O'Halloran
July 18, 2013
Please accept my deepest sympathies. My heart goes out to Deb's family and as I try to take comfort, I know we have the prettiest Angel with the biggest smile watching over us. Debbie, you will be missed.
Julie Lewis
July 18, 2013
I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even in death, They continue to be in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our heart our sole and the memories that we shared...Please know that Debbie will be with you always...My you find peace...
Newington Memorial Funeral Home
July 18, 2013
With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.
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