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Eileen WILSON Obituary

WILSON, Eileen Therese Eileen Therese (Wardwell) Wilson, age 49, of Niantic, slipped gracefully from this life on Saturday, Dec. 19, 2009, just days before the Christmas holiday she looked forward to all year long and for which she had, as was her tradition, made special preparations for her family. Eileen, of Niantic, was the wife of Robert Cremins Wilson and the mother of Colleen Elizabeth, Robert Edwin (Rew), Fallon Therese and Ireland Anne. She was the center and anchor of a family that is deeply involved in all aspects of the local community, and who turned to Eileen for her guidance, her support and, above all, her love. The Wilsons will greet family and friends at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home, 48 Grand Street, Niantic, on Tuesday, Dec. 22 from 3 to 8 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m., Wednesday, Dec. 23, at St. Agnes Church, Niantic. Interment will follow immediately at Union Cemetery, also in Niantic. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Eileen's memory may be made to Robert & Eileen Wilson's Children's Education Fund, care of Chelsea Groton Bank, 21 Pennsylvania Avenue, Niantic CT 06357. Please visit www.neilanfuneralhome.com for complete obituary.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 22, 2009.

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Mary Ryan

January 10, 2010

Dear Moose and Family,
We were so saddened to hear about the death of your sister Eileen. Although we never had the chance to meet her, I'm sure she was a wonderful mother, wife, and person, just as you yourself are. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
The Ryan Family

Geralyn Johnson-Reis

January 8, 2010

Rob and family:

You have been in my thoughts and prayers these last few weeks. I know friends and family are blessings during these times - to know people are praying for you and sharing in your grief. There are times when life doesn't make sense, and this is one of those times. May God stay close to you as you face the journey ahead. Peace, Geri Johnson-Reis and family

Patty Herbert-Frick

January 7, 2010

Rob & Family--my heart goes out to you and your family at this time. I had the great pleasure of working with the both of you at Rocky Neck. I could count on Eileen's radiant smile every day. You are in our prayers. God's Peace and Comfort, Patty Herbert-Frick

JOHN LOMBARDO

January 5, 2010

ROB,
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

John Leahy

December 31, 2009

Rob and Family-just heard about your loss, so sorry for your whole family. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

December 28, 2009

Rob - Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your memories comfort you in the days to come.
The Binaco Family - Kim, Samantha and Matthew

Julie Pryke

December 28, 2009

Dear Wilson family,

My heart goes out to you at this time. I Had the privilege to meet and work with Eileen when organizing the venue of the East Lyme High School after graduation party for 2009 and I always admired her energy and enthusiasm.

Words are not enough to express the sorrow and she will greatly missed.

December 28, 2009

Dear Rob, Colleen, Rue, Fallon and Ireland:
We are very saddened by the sudden loss of your wife and mother. Eileen was truly one of those people who make a significant mark in their community in the most selfless and giving ways. Her ability to “handle it all” with apparent ease and grace is what made her such a pleasure to know.
Russell, Susan and David Brown

Diane Swan

December 27, 2009

Dear Rob and family,
Words can't express the saddness we feel for you and your family. Eileen has touched so many lives. Her legacy will live on through everyone she has touched! You will all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers!
Diane, Rob and family

Felicia Waites

December 26, 2009

Dear Rob and family,
We are all deeply saddened by the passing of Eileen. We hope the beautiful memories you have of her will help you during this time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers every day.
The Waites Family

Teresa (Elam) Eller

December 26, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

December 26, 2009

Our sympathy goes out to you Rob and family. We will always remember all you and your family did for our Lisa in time of need. We share your sorrow as if it was our own.
Jack and Diana Slocum (Waterford)

December 25, 2009

Robby,
Susan and I are truly sorry for your loss. This is a terrible time of year to have to face something as tragic as this alone. So it is important that you know that you and your family are not alone. You are in our thoughts and prayers always. Bill and Susan Ames

Lynn Ruenger

December 24, 2009

My sympathy to the Wilson and Wardwell families, for the loss of Eileen, so early in life. I regret having only the one opportunity to spend time with Eileen during Matt and Kim's wedding.

December 24, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Christine and Bob Dixon

Walt Dodson

December 24, 2009

Rob and Family,

Please accept our hearfelt sympathy for your loss from our family to yours. May you find comfort within your family during this holiday season. May God bless and keep you all save.

December 24, 2009

Dear Rob and Family,
We only just heard of Eileen's passing, and are deeply saddened by your loss. Our daughter followed behind Colleen at Niantic Center school by one year, and Eileen was a true inspiration to us. It was always a pleasure working with her, and we speak of her fondly. We extend our heartfelt sympathies and most sincere condolences to you and your family.
Maureen, Randi, and Jennifer White

Betsy Faulise

December 24, 2009

Dear Wilson Family,
I am truly sorry for your tremendous loss. I did not have the pleasure of knowing Eileen but, I worked with Leslie at West Broad Street School and over the years she spoke of her family often. She was so proud of all of you. I am sorry I did not read the paper in time to make the services. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time.

maureen Penman

December 23, 2009

Rob,Marge & Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss! May the good memories help u get thru your days!

Joe Bobinski

December 23, 2009

Rob

My heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your wife. I just found out from my parents. May God comfort you and your family and let perpetual light shine upon her as she enters the gates of heaven

December 23, 2009

Dear Wilson Family,
Im very saddened to hear of your great loss...be assured she and your family will be my prayers..and Godspeed to Rob
this guest book is quite a reflection of her memory.
Jaime P.

Gordon Tucker

December 23, 2009

Rob - my parents made me aware of this sad news. I'm so sorry for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

December 23, 2009

Dear Rob and Children: After seeing you last night, I wanted to share a few words with you. We do not know why someone like Eileen was taken so soon. All I know and choose to believe is that God needed a very special angel. Someone to organize, plan and help get His house in order, like she did here on earth. She will be deeply missed by so many. When my Dad died a long time ago. I was so sad, missed him, worrying he would forget me. My minister told me in heaven, there is no time, what to us in years; for our loved ones departed just seconds. She will live on through you and your children and someday you all will be reunited. Don't be afraid to reach out to your friends, if you need to. You are not alone and never will be.

Always, Mae, Michael and Carly Trask

December 23, 2009

Our heart and thoughts are with your family at this difficult time. We are neighbors of Rex and Ellen.
With sincere sympathy,
Dian and Irv Friedman

Tamara Staehle

December 23, 2009

Rob, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. God bless all of you. Tami and Armo

Sheri & Tim Grills

December 23, 2009

Dear Rob and family - We are so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories you have.
The Grills Family

Don and Ruth Ames

December 23, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mary Anne Afieri

December 23, 2009

Rob, I don't know if you remember us or not, but both my husband and I worked with Eileen at Electric Boat back in the 80's and when my husband Tony Alfieri had to retire due to a Heart Condition Eileem planned the best retirement party any could have had..we did see each other once in awhile. We still often talked about his party when we look at some of the picuture that were taken that night.
We send out deepest condolences to all of you..I am sorry I did not make the wake last night as I only found out this morning when I came to work..I have not read the paper in days..but may God keep you and your family in his prayers.

Natalie & Peter Das

December 23, 2009

We are neighbors of Rex and Ellen and just wanted to share our sincere sympathy to you and the children at this time. God be with you.

Debbie Mandel

December 23, 2009

Dear Rob and family, and dear dear Ellen,

I was so saddened to read of Eileen's untimely death. There are no words big enough to express one's feelings at such a time, but know that you are thought of and loved by so many people whose lives you and Eileen have touched along the way. Debbie Mandel

Linda (Foltz) Leonard

December 23, 2009

Rob,my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

Bethany Rose Loftus

December 23, 2009

Dear Mr. Wilson and family,
My heart is deeply saddened by the loss of your wife and mother. I remember Mrs. Wilson as one of the very special moms from Mrs. Mack's Vocalmotion girls singing group. She always had a big smile on her face and was so proud of her family. I have no doubt that she will be greatly missed by all who were lucky enough to have known her. I also wish to extend prayers and sympathies on behalf of my brother, Patrick Loftus, and my father, Daniel Loftus. We will be praying for you to find the strength you need during this very difficult time.

FRED AND ROBIN NELSON

December 22, 2009

ROB AND ENTIRE WILSON FAMILY
WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS SHE WAS A GREAT PERSON AND WE ARE SO GLAD THAT WE WERE ABLE TO SHARE LIFES GREATEST TIMES WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY..MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND BE WITH YOU THUR THESE HARD TIMES

December 22, 2009

Eileen had helped to plan a high school reunion for our class 10 years ago. So upbeat. What a shining light. Eileen is shining from the heavens now. Peace, comfort and hugs are wished for all of Eileen's family and close loved ones. ---Lisa Rue and Family (East Bridgewater, MA)

Laurie and Bob McGrath

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and children,
We are so sorry to here of Eileen's passing. We will keep you in our hearts and in our prayers. God Bless you all. Laurie, Bob and Josh McGrath

December 22, 2009

Dear ROB ......sooooo very sorry to hear of passing of your wife...i want to offer you my condolences and to your family i will keep you and eileen in my prayers.......Ted D

Heather and Mike Spellman

December 22, 2009

Rob and family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy on your loss. Our sincere condolence to all your family, and you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim Brown

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and family,
I am so sorry to hear about, this sad passing, of your wife, mother, and friend. My sorrow, thougts, and prayers are with you. Jim Brown

Yuhas Family

December 22, 2009

Rob and Children,
Our deepest sympathy to you all. Eileen was a very nice person. I know she will be missed by all.Our condolences are with you all at this very sad time.

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and the Wilson Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Eileen. Our deepest condolences go out to you and both sides of your families.
Steve Clawson and Meghan Beato

Barbara Howard

December 22, 2009

I was so sad to read of Eileen's passing in the Day Paper this morning. I worked with her at E.B. many years ago, and lost touch when she decided to be a stay at home mom and help with Rob's chimney business. She was always a bright side of my day and I missed her when she left. The obituary described her perfectly, that is how I will always remember her, she loved you Rob, so very dearly, and was happy to become a mom when Colleen was born. It's a sad day for a lot of people who knew her because she surely was a blessing, I offer my heart felt condolences to you her family, you are in my prayers and thoughts at this very sad time

December 22, 2009

Our hearts are broken for you and your family. We send you many prayers and express our heartfelt symapthy. Heaven is smiling to welcome home such a beautiful soul, may you feel her arms around you in your grief. Bruce and Ellen Whewell and family

Charlene Corkhill

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you so sorry to hear of Eileen passing she was a wonderful person.

Doug & Charlene Corkhill

December 22, 2009

To the entire Wilson family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Sounds like Eileen Was a very, very special person. Her memory and accomplishments will live on forever.

Toni & George Kohl and the "boys"

December 22, 2009

Our prayers and thoughts are with Eileen's family during this sad time.
She was an inspiration for all who knew her. Her strength, faith and courage is an example to all. Rob, you and your family have so many friends. Knowing that can not relieve the sorrow, but will hopefully give you comfort knowing that so many people care and will be there for you if you need anything.
Your old friend,
John P. and Karen Jones

Melissa Calkins

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and family...

My heart is absolutely broken over the loss of your Eileen. The obituary was a beautiful tribute of her life. I remember meeting her at your home during our last class reunion. She was an absolutely beautiful shining star. May all your wonderful memories help you through the upcoming days, hold them close to your hearts, share them and know she'll always be a shining light from above.

Blessings to you all...

Melissa Meadows

December 22, 2009

My heartfelt condolences to all of you, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. REW and Fallon--I always looked forward to seeing your Mom on parent visitation days at the middle school. She always came in smiling and supportive. Words can not express how deeply sorry I am for your loss.

Donald Cone

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and family:

I want to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your wife Eileen. I am in Florida and will not be able to attend the funeral, but Athena is in Ct. and will attend. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Don & Athena Cone

Chris and Donna Smith

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and family,
We can't tell you how devasted we are at your loss of Eileen. Our hearts are aching for you all. Please know you are all in our prayers and you have our deepest, most heartfelt sympathy. If there is anything you need at all, we are here for you. God bless xoxo
Chris, Donna, Dylan, Logan, and Ryan Smith xoxoxo

December 22, 2009

Rob and Family - Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are so saddened by the passing of "one of the good ones". Always sweet, always kind - we know she will be missed tremendously not only by you but by all she has come in touch with. Carol and Frank Geluso

Jim and Linda Shields

December 22, 2009

Rob ,we will never forget Eileen and her awesome smile, and her graciousness to entertain us before our stadium trips together , we will never forget that, she was simply the best.and when we think of her, we will smile. If you need anything, at all, we are here for you,,,God bless you and the kids

December 22, 2009

Rob & family:
My deepest sympathy in the loss of your dear wife, Eileen. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you strength and courage. I hope the wonderful memories you have will sustain you and your family.

Maureen Gressler, Niantic, Connecticut

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob & Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. Eileen always went above & beyond for Nikki and everyone around her. She made your home so warm & welcoming. It was obviously clear how deeply she loved each of you. She will be missed greatly.

Thinking of you all.

Dave, Cheryl, Britt, Nicole, Mikaela & Summer LoPriore

Beyer

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and Family,

We are so sorry to hear about Eileen. May God be with you and your family.

John Lake

December 22, 2009

I am saddened to hear of the passing of Eileen, My sympathy goes out to the Wilson family at this difficult time.
My prayerers are with you Rob .

John and Nena Lake

Sheila Reams

December 22, 2009

We are so sorry to learn of the death of Eileen. Our sons grew up with the Wilson "boys", and they join us in extending our sympathy to the whole Wilson family. Though we did not know Eileen, after reading this beautiful obituary, we feel that we did! Ralph and Sheila Reams, Oakland, Maryland

Jeannine Sicard Smith

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and family: I was saddened to read of the loss of your beautiful Eileen, a devoted wife and mother. There is no reason as to why you have lost her at such a young age but look at what she has accomplished and you will see her daily in your beautiful children. My deepest sympathy. Jeannine

Sharon Reagan

December 22, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Donna Roselund

December 22, 2009

Rob and family, we are so sorry to hear the news. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim and Donna Roselund

December 22, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
The Barbeaus

Frank Donahue

December 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you Rob.God bless you and your family.

Kim Z

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your wife's passing. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Kim Z.

Rosanna Carabelas

December 22, 2009

My heartfelt sympathy to you all. Just from the few times over the years that I spoke to Eileen, I could tell how fiercely she loved her family, espiecially you, Rob and your children. I hope that you can take some comfort in knowing that she rests eternally in loving hands.

SHELLI GORDY

December 22, 2009

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY. OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE WILSON FAMILY
SHELLI GORDY

David, Rose and Julia Armen

December 22, 2009

Our sincere and deepest sympathy as you face this tremendous loss. This is a beautifully written obituary and Eileen was indeed an amazing woman and a bright light in the lives of her family and friends. She will be sorely missed. Our love, hearts and tears are with you.

December 22, 2009

Rob, Aunt Marge and all the family: This obituary is a fitting tribute to Eileen. She was a great person with a giving heart who will be missed by so many. We pray for you all and hope time helps to heal the big hole that will be missing in the Wilson family.
Love Pete, Betsy and Tim

Paul & Pam Vezina

December 22, 2009

Leslie, Rob and Family,

Paul and I send our deepest regrets for the loss of your sister. There are no words that can take away the sorrow you are feeling today, but know that we are here for you whenever you need us.

Love,
Pam and Paul

james m fitzgerald jr

December 22, 2009

Deeply sorry to hear of the loss of Eileen.

December 22, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Fecteau Family

donald michaud

December 22, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Miss Knopf-Roberts

December 22, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Julie Clements-Reagan

December 22, 2009

Dear Rob and family - Our deepest condolences on the loss of Eileen. May you be comforted by your many, many happy memories.
- The Reagans

December 22, 2009

Our heartfelt condolences to all of you, you are in our thoughts and prayers. The Huffman family

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