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Elizabeth "Betty" Cone Bates, of Naples, FL, and formerly of Chester, Madison and Old Lyme, CT, died February 24, 2017, at the age of 99. She is survived by daughters, Carolyn Greenho (Earl), Susan Nuernberger (John), Elizabeth Valsala; a son, Wells, Jr. (Diane); seven grandchildren and thirteen great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her husband, Wells; her parents, Frank and Celia Terry Cone; an older sister, Carolyn Hulswitt; a younger sister, Jane Ambrose, and a granddaughter, Jennifer Phillipi. She was a graduate of Roger Ludlow High School in Fairfield, CT, and Skidmore College. She and Wells were married for 72 years. For many of those years, they lived in Chester, CT, where she was active in civic affairs and was a deaconess of The United Church of Chester. In 1978, Betty and Wells moved to Naples, FL, where they became members of Hole in The Wall Golf Club, Royal Poinciana Golf Club and Wilderness Country Club. They spent their summers in Connecticut, where they were members of The Madison Beach Club, The Old Lyme Country Club and Black Hall Golf Club, where she served as a governor. Throughout her life, she actively or financially supported many charitable organizations. There will be a private burial service in Old Lyme, CT, at a later date. The family wishes to express their appreciation to her wonderful caregivers.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Mar. 2, 2017.

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March 4, 2017

Betty and Wells were special long time friends from Essex and Naples. We spent many wonderful times golfing and gathering. I, happily, spoke to Betty just before she left us. My love and sympathy to you all. Maxine Arnold

Sue Carnell

March 3, 2017

Dear Family of Betty,
I am so sorry for your loss of a remarkable woman who truly lived a full and happy 99 years of life. She and her beloved Wells are now in heaven playing golf (and getting daily holes in one) and Betty is once again creating her beautiful needle point art work that are now treasured by her family. She adored her family and friends and will be missed by all who loved her. May your beautiful memories of Betty help to lesson your grief. Rest In Peace. ❤❤❤

March 3, 2017

I got to know Wells and Betty about 45 years ago at theBlack Hall club in. Old Lyme, CT.Played a lot of golf with them in Old Lyme, Fishers Island, and Naples. I felt privileged to have known them. Have many fond memories of our many dinners together. Will miss you dearly. With love, Don Gliha

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