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Memories and Condolences
for Ferdinand Sauer
Lorraine Cannatta
June 23, 2019
Everytime I pick acorn squash from my garden in late summer, I remember bringing some to Dr. Saur.
After having a cesarean with my son two years previously, he helped me birth my daughter for a normal birth. I will always be grateful to him for that amazing experience almost 40 years ago. Several years later I worked as a scrub nurse on many cases with him in the Operating room. .He was always so respectful of us and grateful for our help. He as the kindest Dr to his patients.
i was fortunate to share both working side by side with him and also being his patient.
Donna Walz
June 28, 2017
14 years have passed and I still pray for you and your family every day ...
June 28, 2015
Twelve years later and still praying for you and your family........DW
May 15, 2013
I cried when you passed away...I still cry today...Although I loved you dearly...I couldn't make you stay....A golden hear stopped beating...hard working hands at rest....God broke my heart to prove to me he only takes the best....Praying for you all these years...DW
Amy Kennedy
February 4, 2004
Dear Mrs. Sauer & family: I am so very sorry to have just recently learned of Dr. Sauer's death this past summer. It has taken me months to truly believe it is true. He delivered my now 3-year old, Emily Diana, in the middle of a Noreaster in December 2000. I was one of the only women in labor that day. He was wonderful. He was there for me every step of the way, and he was so funny about everything. I will never forget making fun of him with his silly green clogs - we could hear him coming down the hall a mile away.
I started coming to him on the suggestion of a personal friend/doctor, who had gone to him herself. Although it is almost an hour drive to the office, I never thought twice about it. I looked forward to each of my prenatal visits with him. My husband thoroughly enjoyed Dr. Sauer, too. He was a beautiful person and we miss him dearly. I am sure he is in a better place, though, and hope you will find comfort in knowing that.
Barbara Murawski
November 16, 2003
It was with great shock and sadness that I learned of Dr. Sauer's death. One of his staff at Grove Hill told me of his passing at my son's wake in August.
Dr. Sauer had been my doctor for 18 years. I had complete faith in his ability, but more than that, his manner and sense of humor made difficult situations somehow seem okay, that everything would work out. I had moved from the area in 1991, but felt it was worth the hour+ drive to have an appointment with him.
The world has lost yet another wonderful human being who will be missed by many. God bless.
Patti McNally
August 10, 2003
To the family and friends of Dr Sauer,
It is with great sadness that I write this note. I have known Ferd Sauer since 1982, when I joined Grove Hill as a Midwife. Ferd was my boss, my doctor, and my friend. Although I left Grove Hill several years ago, I will always have fond memories of his jokes,and his kindness.
My sincere sympathy to his family and friends. You will be missed, Ferd. You were a very special man. Patti
Linda and Ken Steller
July 29, 2003
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Dr. Sauer and wish we would have taken a moment over the past 18 years to tell him how much we appreciated his skill, wit, and sincerity. He was a special person whom will never be forgotten. Our condolences to his family and colleagues.
Carrie Chace
July 28, 2003
To the family, friends and co-workers of Dr. Sauer:
As I have sat and read the entrys to this guest book, tears are streaming down my face. I have been a patient of Dr. Sauers for close to 20 years and I did not know anything about his personal life except for that he was a great person and Doctor. I tend to be the kind of person that keeps everything inside so I did not share any problems with Dr. Sauer, BUT I always knew if I needed to, he was the kind of Doctor who would listen. He had a manner about him that just can't be replaced.
My condolences to his family, friends and co-workers.
Sue Swol
July 28, 2003
I just wanted to say what a wonderful Doctor Dr.Sauer was and how much I appreciated his support during the birth of our preemie baby Carolyn Amy Swol born at UCONN health center.
Joyce Porter
July 25, 2003
To the Sauer Family,
My husband and I echo the sentiments of so many who were touched by his care, I was a patient for over 18 years. Hw saw me through my pregnancy and several other problems with professionalsim, grace, and humor. He always spoke of his family with loving warmth. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Sarah Voog
July 25, 2003
To those that loved and admired a truly wonderful person,
Dr. Sauer will be dearly missed. I will never forget how he helped me when no one else had. I suffered for a long time with a condition that I could not seem to overcome, but he helped me make a sound decision and it was my faith in his knowledge and genuine caring of my well being that I allowed to guide me. I came to him on a friend's recommendation and from the moment I met him he charmed me. His funny stories and his special way of making you feel totally at ease are qualities I admired in him. My heart goes out to his family and friends, such a loss is so hard to understand and we no not why God works in the ways he does. I wish you acceptance and the loving comfort of those who cared for him as I did.
Loretta D. Violette
July 23, 2003
I just want to express how deeply sadened I am by the sudden passing of my Dr. Sauer. I'm sure we all felt him as "my doctor", as if I was his only patient. I have been a
patient of his since he began his
practice at Grove Hill. It is so
difficult to understand how someone
who has given so much to his family,patients, community and
who still had so much more to give,
could be taken away from us so
suddenly. I will truly miss his
sense of humor, that very
distinctive voice and of course
his special care I always received
from him. Good bye for now, till we
meet again, I will miss you so! You
have taken a piece of my heart with
you.
Cindy Marut
July 23, 2003
Dr. Sauer was my first and only Ob/Gyn. I have been his patient for approximately 18 years. I can't even imagine going to another doctor. Although he didn't actually deliver my daughter, he was there for most of the 23 hours that I was in labor. I will always remember my last exam which was in March. Dr. Sauer was so excited to be babysitting for his granddaughter that weekend. I'm so sorry that she only knew her Grandfather for such a short time. My condolences to Dr. Sauer's family and co-workers.
Mary Beth Milewski
July 21, 2003
Dear Mrs. Sauer and Family,
My sincere sympathy to your family on the loss of your husband and father. I have been a patient of Dr. Sauers for 20 years. Through the years I have had a wide range of problem pregancies and Dr. Sauer seemed to make me get through the difficult times alot easier with his sense of humor and gentle manner. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lori Hurst
July 21, 2003
To the family of Dr. Sauer,
I would just like to say how heartsick I felt when I found out about his passing. He was a wonderful man and an excellent doctor, not to mention handsome! Dr. Sauer delivered my first baby in 1993 and what a hard time it was, but without his kind words and sense of humor, I don't know how I would have done it. I was so impressed that day because he was called out of the OR to come help deliver my baby. I still have the picture of me, the baby and Dr. Sauer in her baby book and will cherish it forever! Prior to my first baby, I had some problems that required some minor surgical intervention. I was nervous but Dr. Sauer made me feel so comfortable and even made me laugh to try to ease my anxiety. I moved to North Carolina in 1995 and when I was pregnant with my second child, we traveled back to CT for a family wedding and I was 2 weeks from my due date. My doctor here adviced me not to travel, but I said to myself that if I went into labor I wasn't worried because I knew Dr. Sauer would deliver my baby if I requested him. He was such a lovely person and was taken from us and the medical community way too soon. I would like to express my sincere sympathy to all his loved ones and former patients as well. He will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless!
LUCIA FORTIN
July 21, 2003
MY HUSBAND AND I EXTEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. I WILL MISS DR.SAUER VERY MUCH, HE WAS A FUNNY MAN. I'M VERY GLAD THAT HE WAS PART OF ARE FAMILYS LIFE . ONCE AGAIN ARE DEEPEST SYMPATHY. TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER.
Barbara Niesyn
July 18, 2003
I moved to Connecticut about 7 years ago and started seeing Dr. Sauer upon a friend's recommendation. This was one of the best decisions I ever made. Dr. Sauer was a sensitive and kind individual as well as a fantastic doctor! No matter how busy or frantic he was, he always had a smile, a joke, whatever it took to make me feel totally comfortable with my examination.
A few years ago, I had a close call and Dr. Sauer was very comforting when he spoke with me about it and arranged for emergency laparascopic surgery. I can truly say that I was not afraid and felt very confident that I had the best doctor doing the surgery. I will miss him very much. My heart goes out to his wonderful family and my prayers are with them.
Anna Marie Porriello
July 16, 2003
I can only say what a loss his life will be to me and all others who had the opportunity to know him as their doctor and friend.
Most women are uncomfortable seeing their OBGYN. I always felt not only comfortable but I looked forward to seeing Dr. Sauer. I knew I would get an excellent exam and come out laughing.
He was by far the most sensitive Doctor I have ever known. He made me feel so important to be in his care.
My prayers are with him and all of his loved one's.
Leila DellaCamera
July 14, 2003
To Dr. Sauer's family - I was greatly saddened to hear of Dr. Sauer's death - my husband & I read about his passing in the New Britain Herald on Monday, June 30th. He was my doctor since 1991- I previously had seen Dr. Sam Johnson and had switched to another OBGYN group upon Dr. Johnson's retirement. I was dissatisfied and decided to re-join Grove Hill, and when I asked the staff who they would recommend for me, based on my own personality, they not only welcomed me back, but said, "well, you're a bit kooky, how about Dr. Sauer," and I had been going to him ever since!
He was such a kind, doctor, as well as smart, and offered me such wonderful advice.... always there to reassure me. He never made anyone feel rushed - he took the time to answer any questions and had a great sense of humor, too. I will really miss him and am glad to have had the opportunity to know such a great doctor and wonderful person!!
Kristine Mothersele
July 14, 2003
Like so many others, I am both shocked and terribly saddened by the loss of such a wonderful man and doctor. He has been taken from our lives far too soon. My deepest condolences to his beautiful family and his colleagues. We will not soon see another quite like him. I first met him in 1978 - as he shared office space with my midwife at Grove Hill (HE had the couch to catch 40 winks on!). He was an exceptional straightforward, caring, and alway very funny guy - incredibly full of life, energy, wit and compassion. I join the legion of patients, friends, and family who will miss him - and that twinkle in his eyes - dearly. To his family, I hope you will take some comfort in reading all these amazing tributes and know that the time he was away from you tending to his adoring patients was beyond valuable to us - we loved him too.
Pam Lorenzo
July 13, 2003
My husband and I extend our deepest sympathy. In addition to being extremely skilled technically, Dr. Sauer was a particularly perceptive and compassionate physician.
We send our best thoughts to his entire family.
Sincerely,
Pam and Joe Lorenzo
Lynn Ragali
July 12, 2003
Dear Kathleen, Gay, Jeremy & Jane, Keith, Heather & Abigail, associates and friends,
I am profoundly saddened to learn of the passing of Dr. Sauer. Dr. Sauer was my doctor for over 20 years but to me was so much more than my doctor. He was a friend and a confidant. I am in shock by his passing and cannot imagine the world without his humor, compassion, kindness and those smiling eyes. On my yearly visits, we would discuss all sorts of topics and each would have his own personal spin and humor. He always spoke of his family and medicine and you could feel his love of both in every word.
I was away when I heard of Dr. Sauer's passing and I felt in that moment and each one since that this life will never be quite as special.
May it comfort you all in some small way to know of the impact that your husband, son, father, and grandfather had on so many lives. So many lives forever changed for the better for having known him and been touched by his warmth...
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
May God Bless you all and bring you comfort.
Sincerely,
Lynn Ragali
Jennifer Minery
July 12, 2003
I am very saddened to hear of Dr. Sauer's death. My heart goes out to his wife and the rest of his family, friends, associates and patients. I never got the chance to bring my 10 month old daughter to visit him. He was my doctor all through my 1st pregnancy and he made me look so forward to having a healthy baby. I just found out the news today as a letter was sent from the office. I only wish I could have sent my condolencses sooner. He will be greatly missed
Shani Hardy
July 10, 2003
How saddened was I upon returning from vacation to hear that Dr. Sauer was gone. I wish to send comfort to his family and staff during this very difficult time. God Bless you all.
Shani Hardy
Adriana Bachand
July 9, 2003
I called the office today and was told of Dr. Sauer's passing. I am greatly sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful man and Doctor. I will dearly miss him. Please extend my sincerest condolences to his family and office staff.
Debbie Dawidowicz
July 9, 2003
Dear Kathleen, boys and your families, and of course little Abigail....
I was on vacation when "my Doctor" of 28 years died, one day after I cancelled my yearly appointment with him....I can still remember this very handsome, young, as I was, Doctor - who strode into the labor room in 1975 to see me, under the eye of Dr. Wright. He said "Ah! I see you have been schooled in Ferdinand Lamaze, GREAT!!) I am Dr. Sauer! In my very transition voice, I shouted "WHAT kind of a name is THAT" as I heard "Sour", and without missing a beat, he yelled back "WELL, WHAT kind of a name is DAWIDOWICZ"??? and I laughed and laughed in spite if the pain and being 21, and scared.
THen again in 1981, I was so frighened when at 8 months pregnant with my third child, my husband suddenly became life threateningly ill with Uncerative Colitis, and almost died. I was on my own for the 9th month, and he was so wonderful to me, and to my husband Frank - he even sent a wheelchair down to the ER when I came rushing in, for Frank too. He had just gotten out of the hospital 2 days before and I was 2 weeks overdue from all the stress...he was so compationate, and loving to his patients. I had another surprise baby on the day of my 42nd birthday, and Doc delivered Evan Andrew too. His warm way of calming all my fears of a baby who may have problems disappeared, (he does not), and he told me I had 29 chances to 1 of a healthy baby, and he was. He has taken me from a young mother, to a middle age mother, and now when I am 50, he has been called home. I am bereft, and cant even think of finding another OB/GYN right now.
Words cannot express how sorry I am that this wonderful family man, (yes, I saw all the pictures in the office too!) has been taken this soon. Your pain must be great, and I am so very sorry...I will remember every smile and encouraging word. I will never forget him. God Bless you all, this man was such a gift from God.
Fondly,
Debbie and Frank Dawidowicz
Southington, CT
Cynthia Circosta
July 8, 2003
To the Sauer Family,
My deepest and heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all. I'm truly shocked over the loss of Dr.Sauer. I've been a patient of his for about 10 years now and he truly was my Favorite Doctor. He delivered both of my children, with my son I was having a hard labor and when he came in the room he just had a way that just calmed my down. Then when I had a hard time getting pregnant with my second, he was there and never gave up for my husband and I. After having my second child, I told him I did not want to have anymore because of having such a hard time with the second, he then came back in the room with his granddaughter's picture. I asked him if he was showing me the picture so I would change my mind and have more kids. He just laughted and put a big Smile on his face. He had a wonderful sense of humour.
I will never find another Dr. like him, his shoes will be hard to fill.
My family and I are truly saddened for your loss. He was truly a special and unique man. I was truly Blessed to have known him.I thank-you all for sharing him with us.
Dr. Sauer and you his family will always be in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless You All Always.
Carol Urick
July 8, 2003
How sorry I am for your loss. Dr. Sauer was my doctor for many years. He removed my tumor, and performed several other surgeries for me. Dr. Sauer was always kind and caring and even after I left the New Britan area, I traveled to his office to stay as his patient. When my husband passed away, Dr. Sauer was so kind to me. Dr. Sauer was a wonderful man and the news of his passing hit me so terribly. I am so very, very sorry for your whole family. He will be sorely missed by all that he touched with his gentleness and kindness.
Jane Benoit
July 8, 2003
My condolences to your family. Dr. Sauer was a wonderful person and equally excellent doctor. As a long time patient, I will miss his great bedside manner and his silly jokes. He made my annual visit enjoyable. He was truly one in a million, and he will be impossible to replace. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Jody Raleigh
July 8, 2003
My deepest sympathy to Dr. Sauer's family. He certainly was an amazing individual. He had the carisma to make every patient feel as though they were a special patient. He also had the amazing ability to make you laugh even when you were experiencing significant contractions. As I sat in his office waiting, experiencing such contractions, Dr. Sauer came in and commented on my distress. He said "oh you don't like the Sauer weight reduction program" with that we laughed. He truly was an exceptional doctor. His charm, wit and sensitivity were just a few of his many attributes that made him so special and unique. I am grateful to have known Dr. Sauer and will miss this wonderful man. My prayers are with him and his family.
Jennifer Healy
July 7, 2003
Dear Family and Friends of Dr Sauer,
My family and I are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of such a wonderful doctor and human being. We send our deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to all of you. He was my Dr. during my pregnancy, and on June 11, 1997, I had the privledge of having him deliver my daughter Taylor. He will forever be a part of my fondest memory, and we will miss him a great deal.
Karen (Hayward) Clancy
July 6, 2003
Dear Mrs. Sauer, Family and OB/GYN Staff:
My sincere condolences to you all...Dr. Sauer delivered my first child. We were in the labor room, when he came to check on us. He and my husband sat on the end of the bed watching football on TV while I was having contractions. He had a wonderful way about him, calming, soothing, and gentle and he was also a very funny man. Everything went successfully even though it was a long 32 hour labor. My daughter is now 17 years old and had her first visit at Grove Hill OB/GYN. She went to Art Rich Studio last month for her senior pictures. When we walked in to the studio, there was a large, beautiful picture of the Sauer Family. Even though he is gone, he will always be fondly remembered by me and my family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Karen Clancy
freda wurtzel
July 6, 2003
To the family of Dr. Sauer., It is with great shock and sadness that I heard of his passing. I was a patient for 24 years. He delivered both of my girls. There was not one visit that he did not talk about his wife his kids and most recently his new granddaughter. I remember when he delivered my first daughter in 1981, immediately after from the phone in my room he called his home to be sure his boys were OK as there was a babysitter watching the kids. I remember when he was so excited about buying his new car and putting the car seats in. He had compassion and was a great and wonderful man. He loved his family, he always taked about his sons. There was not one visit that he did not mention them. My family and I are so very sorry for your loss. Freda Wurtzel
Mae Cumminsky
July 6, 2003
To the Sauer family:
Shortly after moving to Ct almost two years ago, I discovered I was expecting. I was refered to Dr Sauer by and employer of my insurance company. Dr Sauer made me feel very comfortable, and setteled my mind when my pregnancy turned less then normal. I was truly grateful for him to be the one to deliver my precious son. Then came in the next day to say "you are one tough cookie". Boy did I need that. My deepest sympathies to Mrs. Sauer and your family. Dr Sauer was one of a kind and he will truly be missed
Diane Hamel
July 5, 2003
I Can't begin to tell you how deeply sorry I am to hear of your loss, our loss Dr. Sauer was the kindess funniest happy-go-lucky doctor I have ever met. I have been a patient of his for 25 years and have to tell you when I first met him I was a mess, so to speak 19 years old 5 months pregnant scared to death as I was having a difficult pregnancy, and I was told by another doctor that if my condition did not change by morning they were gonna take my baby, devastated I left the hospital before morning. A friend gave me his number although I never could keep my doctor appointments with him due to hospitalizations, he was always thier always comforting and very new at my complications. Well we did it My son Justin was 2 months early delivered breach - c-section and when I went for my 6 week check-up I brought Justin with me he was all of 5 lbs and Dr. Sauer took him from me and held him in 1 hand up in the air telling all that this was the little guy that gave him a run for his money (thought I was gonna fall off the chair) Oh and did I mention 52 hr labor born on Thanksgiving. Guess we did give him a run. He is a healthy young man of 24 today thanks to Dr. Sauer I went on 8 years later to have 2 more full term babies and yes you guessed he was the Dr. It was mentioned by my husband when I had my second child shouldn't we get a Dr. closer to home I replied nope. more recently I brought my seventeen year old daughter to him for the first time, his comment was oh my I do good work, it reminded me of when she was born and he came in the delivery room to perform my c-section radio playing the beatles and him singing his heart out during the whole thing. He was a wonderful man and professional he will be missed by so many people. God Bless His little grandaughter who he spoke so highly of. Always keep him in your heart and he will be by your sides.
Grace Anne Kramer (Nolan)
July 5, 2003
Dear Mrs. Sauer, children, and colleagues of Ferdinand (espcecially Karen F.),
I wish you all my deepest condolences on the loss of Dear Dr. Sauer. He saw me through three of my five pregnancies, one miscarriage and cervical cancer. There is no other like him. His sense of humor was always a breath of fresh air in such a serious world. I always loved that he displayed pictures of you in his office. He was so approachable. He was so willing to put himself out on a limb for his patients who wanted a natural or at home delivery. I will never forget him. Know he was loved like most other docs or people will never experience and he gave his love of life freely like free jar candy. My heart is with you in your grieving. He waits for you in heaven, I'm sure. God bless you all.
Sincerely,
Grace Anne Kramer
Sara Beckham
July 5, 2003
To all of Dr. Ferdnand Sauer’s family and friends I give you my deepest sympathies. I am here still in shock wandering why such a good man has been taken so early. I can not imagine the profound loss those who were close to him must feel.
I was one of the many patients doctor Sauer saw at least once a year and looked forward to those brief moments with him. He was always so genuine. He always had time to listen to some of life’s little grievances.
When I was pregnant with my son I had complications. He made me believe that everything would be fine and always considered what I wanted and needed to maintain a healthy pregnancy and a happy outlook. I consider myself very fortunate to have had Ferd as a Doctor. He kept me calm and humored me (always). I remember the chaos in the delivery room and he was just so calm and so matter of fact, he almost made me laugh in the middle of hard labor. Even knowing my son was early and small, he still could make me laugh.
I was talking about him just the other day. I have referred every pregnant woman I have known (including some strangers) to Doctor Sauer. All I could say was he was the best, he always listened. As I read through his guest book I am amazed at how he maintained such an incredible bedside manner with so many women.
He was a great doctor who touched many lives. Even if he was only half the man he was to the many women who saw him, he was a great man. I thank God he was in my life and was there to help my son into his life.
Thank you for sharing him. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Sara Neff Beckham
(Southington, CT)
Karen Silverman
July 4, 2003
I would like to send my heartfelt condolences to Dr. Sauer's wife and family. I was a patient of his for many years and he delivered my son in 2001. He was an ourstanding doctor and a wonderful source of comfort and support for a nervous first time mother and father. He will be missed very much.
Kristine Barnett
July 4, 2003
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Dr. Sauer saw me through two pregnancies, and delivered my second child. When she became stuck, he got up on the bed on all fours, and proceeded to push her out. The whole time, while he was inches from my face pushing on my belly, he was telling me *hilarious* jokes and stories to take my mind off the pain. I knew him only briefly as an unbelievable and unforgettable doctor...I can only imagine the great joy and blessings he brought to your lives. He will be missed.
Margaret Rushlow
July 4, 2003
Mrs. Sauer and Family,
My condolences to you and your family.
Dr. Sauer walked my husband and I through infertily workup seventeen years ago. Sixteen years ago our twins Kevin and Kristin were born. I will always be grateful to him for his patience and humor.
Margaret Rushlow
Heather Hurley
July 4, 2003
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Sauer's passing. Although I knew him only slightly, I remember hearing incredible stories about how wonderful a person and physician he was. May your cherished memories of him sustain you in this difficult time.
Amy
July 4, 2003
I'm heartbroken to hear about Dr. Sauer's death. He was such an amazing man! My husband and I often laugh when we recall the day our son was born. My labor was going well and the nurses at New Britain were taking GREAT care of me. When it got closer to the actual time of delivery, the nurses called Dr. Sauer. He arrived at my hospital room shortly after, bounced into my room (sporting his jogging suit & sneakers), took one look at me in the stirrups and yelled, "WHOA! There's a naked lady in here!" My husband and I just burst out laughing! Minutes before our son was born, Ferd made a prediction: He guessed that our son would weigh 9lbs.12oz. I told him he was crazy-that I could never deliver a baby that large! I was extremely nervous and he attempted to ease my fears. He told me that if the baby WAS that exact weight, I was to buy him a beer. I told him that I'd buy him a CASE of beer if the baby was that large! Well, our son's birth weight was 9lbs. 11 1/2 oz. Dr. Sauer called to check on me later that evening and the first words out of his mouth were, "I like Bud."
Thanks for sharing this remarkable man with us. We'll miss him and we'll keep him in our hearts and you in our prayers-ALWAYS!
John Gennaro
July 3, 2003
I only know Ferd through Gay, Phil and Linda. However since they spoke of him highly and often, I do feel the great loss we all share. My sincerest and most heartfelt condolences.
Christina Czyrko
July 3, 2003
The medical profession has lost one of our most esteemed colleagues. Ferd lived and practiced medicine/surgery with all the skills and compassion that have allowed him to deliver the care that he did to thousands of lives. As a colleague, you had the utmost confidence that his spoken word was kept. He never hesitated to go the next step on behalf of his patients.
It is with great sorrow and grief that remains in his absence. My prayers and thoughts are with the extended Sauer family.
My deepest condolences,
Christina Czyrko, MD
Lynda Macha
July 3, 2003
I have been a patient of Doctor Sauers for a very long time, and although i chose not to have children, he was still kind, caring and gentle. I will miss his sense of humour and wonderful advice.
I am so sorry for your lose.
John Pitblado
July 3, 2003
On behalf of my family, we send our deepest condolences to the Sauer family for your unbearable loss. Dr. Sauer oversaw our son's delivery last year, as well as some complications that arose in the process. His expertise and personal care saw us through the process and all are fully healthy and happy. Dr. Sauer also delivered three of my wife's younger siblings, so his excellent doctoring has touched two generations of my family. I only hope you may find some comfort -- however slight at this difficult time -- in these pages filled with the messages of those like us, that so many children have been welcomed to the world by such a wonderful man.
Nora Hansen
July 3, 2003
I am so pleased to have an opportunity to leave a few words. I am shocked and saddened by the loss. Dr Sauer monitored my pregnancies and delivered my three children in 81,83,and 87. He was a professional who added class and humor to what some feel is a tedious situation. Although Dr. Sauer felt that I could have delivered my babies without him (as I had the most trouble free pregnancies and childbirth scenarios imaginable) he said he showed up for the Dom Perignon. I have not seen Dr. Sauer for many years but am deeply affected by his loss. My thoughts are with the family.
Beth Audette
July 3, 2003
I was shocked to hear about your Husband and Father. Dr. Ferd not only delivered my last two children, but also was someone I could trust and share my life with, if not only for once a year. He never judged me and I loved him for that. I never met a doctor who was so smooth under pressure, so caring.
I lost the man I loved 2 years ago unexpectedly and I wish somehow I could ease the pain for you. You will never stop missing him, but you will learn to live with the loss. Continue to speak to him and ask for his guidance and trust me, it will come. Be patient.
My sincere condolences,
Beth Audette
Tracina Burgos
July 3, 2003
To the wonderful family of Dr. Sauer,
As I read through a few of the guset book entries, I realized that Dr. Sauer treated all of his patients the same. Wonderful!! He was funny, kind, compassionate, and full of life. I have been a patient of his for over 15 years, and even with my first child, being a young mom, he treated me with the same respect and dignity he treated all his patients. My 2nd child was born 18months ago and he was there to deliver, and I was so happy to see him. But I do remembr my husband and him carrying on a conversation about digital cameras and printers..oh about the minute after I delivered. (Haha!)
He meant so much to so many people and I just can't understand why such a great man was taken from us so soon. He will be greatly missed.
I want to thank YOU, his family for sharing your husband and father, so all of us could be so blessed to have him bring life, our tiny little miracles, into this world.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tracina (Carlos, Joel and Nathaniel)
Ellen Orzel
July 3, 2003
It is with a heavy heart that I sit here and offer my deepest sympathy to the family of Dr. Sauer. I was fortunate enough to have him as my doctor for 18 years...delivering both of my beautiful children. I remember he had to leave for a while during the birth of my second child,much to my dismay, but he made it back in time! I think I would of held her in until he got there! As I sat in his office on Friday afternoon,the day before he died, he was his usual calm, pleasant and humorous self. The world has lost a great man...he will be dearly missed by all who knew him. May you memories be a comfort to you during this time.
Dorothy DeGiorgi
July 3, 2003
That so many people have written such warm and heartfelt tributes to Dr. Sauer is visible proof of what a great doctor and human being he was. The greatest tribute of all would be that those who have been fortunate enough to have studied under him and worked with him will take something of him with them into their own practice of medicine. The world would be a far better place with more doctors and human beings like Dr. Sauer.
My sincere sympathy to his entire family - he was taken from you far too soon. May God bless you and help you through these difficult days.
Kathleen Kores
July 2, 2003
I am very sad Dr. Sauer has passed from this life. I first met him at UCONN Health Center when he was a resident. In 1983, He delivered my son, Noah, by natural childbirth after a previous ceasarian. No other physician would take the risk to help me deliver my son, naturally. He spent three days guiding my very long labor, delivered my son at 6 a.m. and left for New York to give a speech.
Dr. Sauer was my physician and my friend. I will miss his compassion, his friendly, easy nature and his wry humor. I will miss our conversations about diet, health and exercise. My life was better for knowing him. My prayers go out to his wife, children and family for their loss.
Lee Cunningham
July 2, 2003
Words cannot express the saddness and shock that I feel right now. I was with Dr. Sauer for aprox. 18 years, he delivered both of my children and has been through a few serious illnesses with me. I don't think I would be alive today if it wasn't for him. He always made me feel comfortable and was always willing to listen to my problems and concerns. My deepest sympathy goes out to the whole family and to all those that have worked with him. He will truly be missed. May god bless all of you.
Kari Rector
July 2, 2003
My thoughts and prayers go out to Dr Sauer's family. I have been a patient of his for about 6yrs or so.My husband and I had fertility problems he was able to get us the help we needed. We now have 2 beautiful children. I will have many memories of his humor when visiting him. I always loved going to the Dr when I knew it was him.
God bless everyone he touched with his humor and caring.
Brian Burt
July 2, 2003
Dear Sauer Family:
I knew Dr. Sauer for only 6 weeks when I recently had a rotation at New Britain OB/GYN and it was truly an honor and a pleasure to have been able to learn under him. He was a fantastic teacher and was amazing to watch him work. I am sure he will be missed by all of you. Sorry for your loss.
Doreen Stanulonis
July 2, 2003
I was one of many patients of Dr. Sauer's for over 20 years. He saw us through the birth of our son. He was a wonderful, understanding and compassionate physician. I never once felt hesitant about asking any question because he made it so easy. There were never any stupid questions. I believe that's one of the many reasons he was such an outstanding doctor.
Even though the majority of my knowledge is through doctor-patient relationship, the first thing I think of is a minor accident I had.
When I was single I worked part-time cleaning Grove Hill Medical Center during which time he was always very personable to the cleaning crew. He treated us all like we were all just working together - including him. Never looking down on the crew. I was on my way into work and was rear-ended. I sat in the car afterwards gathering myself while cars passed around us. I saw other physicans leaving. Dr. Sauer stopped. He didn't know it was me, one of his patients/one of the cleaning crew. He ran out of his car and asked me if I was ok. I was...but that was the moment I knew how lucky I was to know him and have him as my physician. The next day when I thanked him for stopping, he made it seem like it was no big deal.
He was a man of character and a wonderful doctor and will be greatly missed by not only myself and my family but a great many people.
Our condolences to his family and co-workers.
Stanulonis Family
Debbie (DeGiorgi) Sala
July 2, 2003
To the Family, Friends and Associates of Dr. Sauer,
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all on the passing of such a great human being. Dr. Sauer was my GYN Dr. for only the past 14 years, but what a lasting impression he will leave in my memories. I don't know of too many women(if any at all !!) who look forward to their yearly checkup, but I can actually say that I looked forward to the few minutes that I would spend in the company of Dr. Sauer. His humor, compassion and love of life, family, friends, co-workers and patients will stay with us all forever. In todays HMO world its increasingly difficult if not nearly impossible to find such a warm and really caring person with terrific bedside manor in a doctor. Dr. Sauer was someone who you could open up to and have a real conversation, if even only for the briefest few moments during a yearly visit.
At my last checkup with him earlier this year he made the same comment to me that he's made to me since I first started seeing him as my GYN doctor; "So you are just so disgustingly healthy and in such good shape, you don't need to stay in this exam room any longer !!" I said back to him, "I'm sure its an easier day when your patients don't have any problems". He then told me that unfortunately he sees some patients that don't come to see him until something's been bothering them for a while, and when they finally come in to see him he sometimes discovers conditions of a far more serious nature that are then much more difficult to treat. What struck me about his comments was the genuine sadness he seems to feel whenever this happens.
Thank you God that you put such a beatiful person on this planet that actually cared for people, including his patients!! I will always remember this expression of true compassion and desire to help people in the best way that he knew. He was a true shining STAR in all of our lives (and in mine if only for a few minutes each year). Let us all cherish and pass on to others the gift that was Dr. Sauer. May we all learn from his way of living, working, having fun, and loving and caring for others so that we may share and keep the gift of his life with us all forever.
God bless Dr. Sauer, and may god bless us all. I will miss him a lot !!
Tammy (Beaulieu) Donovan
July 2, 2003
Dear Keith and Family,
I was so shocked when I opened the paper Sunday Morning. I remember your dad from our years together at Mooreland Hill. One day I was walking down the street with a friend and he came jogging towards us. We must have looked worried because he made a point of stopping to say "Don't be scared girls, I'm just jogging by."
I have worked in healthcare for eleven years and have always heard such wonderful things about your father. I can't imagine what you must be going through right now, but I want you to know that my family and I are praying for you all.
Athene (Teenie) Garcia
July 2, 2003
I AM SO VERY TRUELY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS...I WAS A PATIENT OF FERD'S...I KNEW NOTHING MUCH OF HIS PERSONAL SIDE, BUT IF HE WAS EVEN HALF THE PERSON HE SHOWED THROUGH HIS BEDSIDE MANOR...HE MUST HAVE BEEN A SPECTULAR PERSON...MY GOD, MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL... MAY HE REST IN PEACE... & I HOPE YOU ALL SEE YOUR WAY THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME.... YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS & I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM... AGAIN, I AM SOOOO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS... ATHENE GARCIA
Tammy Windish
July 2, 2003
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to the Sauer Family.
As I sit here writing this, I am still so much in shock.
Dr. Sauer was my absolute favorite Doctor. Always so kind and making you feel so comfortable and if he wasn't telling you a joke, he was telling you about his family. He really was someone who genuinely cared about his patients.
Out of all the surgeries that I've ever had (and there have been quite a few), Dr. Sauer was the only one to ever call me at home to see how I was feeling after a surgery that he had performed.
He was a wonderful man and I will truly miss him.
Chris Vendetta
July 2, 2003
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Sauer's passing. My prayers and condolences to his family, friends and co-workers.
He obviously touched so many people's lives. He is special to me as well. I was his patient for over 20 years. During that time, I had been through a lot of life's trials and tribulations. I can honestly say that Dr. Sauer was not only a doctor, but also a friend. He never hesitated to spend time with me on the phone or in his office, no matter how busy he was. He talked to me about medical issues, but also about relationships and life's sometimes uphill battles. He always had words of encouragement, jokes that were really funny, and a warm and understanding way about him.
In going through infertility battles, Dr. Sauer was always very encouraging. I have two beautiful children; thanks to Dr. Sauer and his guidance.
He was obviously loved by so many. I am grateful that I have memories to cherish as well.
Mary Milewski
July 2, 2003
My most sincere sympathy, prayers and thoughts go out to Kathleen, Jeremy, Keith and all of Ferd's family.
I met Ferd on the lake a few years ago. He was out skiing with Jeremy. We started skiing together. Ferd motivated me -- he ran 10 miles in the early mornings before slalom waterskiing, which can be exhausting itself, and then he'd have plans for raquetball in the afternoon. So, I got back into running on my own also. Afterall, if I wanted to be an excellent slalom skier, like Ferd - I'd have to be in good shape.
I felt honored that he cared enough analyze slalom technique with me. I felt honored every time he asked me to ski - and enjoyed having a friend with the same absolute passion for the water and the art of slalom skiing. I loved his sense of humor. He was compassionate and intelligent. Ferd loved his family and worked so very hard to balance it all. And to be excellent at it all.
When we parted ways on the dock June 8 - there was much joy. My wedding was the same day as his son's wedding. And we planned to ski again after the honeymoon. He said, "Goodbye - see you in a couple weeks!"
But I never, ever realized that in a couple of weeks I'd be saying goodbye forever.
This is all I could think today while saying that shocking, final "goodbye": "Ferd, It's beautiful weather out. It's 90-degrees and sunny. C'mon - we're supposed to be skiing. We always ski on Tuesdays and Saturdays. Get up, Ferd. C'mon - you're not supposed to be dead. It's too soon. You're too young. Besides - you need to get that 6th buoy this summer. Come on, Ferd - let's go work on your turns so you can get that 6th slalom buoy this year. You can even go first if you want. Ferd - you're such an amazing, aggressive waterskier with textbook technique, you're a great friend, motivator and mentor. And you're on my voicemail still - from Friday, to go skiing Saturday - except I missed you because I got home from my honeymoon on Sunday. Come on, Ferd... come on. You're not supposed to be gone. Let's just go ski one more run..."
Ferd - I will think about your determination and passion for waterskiing every time I'm out there. Your spirit is alive, and each time the angel of the lake whispers in my ear - I'll know you're ok. I'll know to LIVE LIFE for today and to grasp every moment as a gift. I'll know to have fun, laugh a lot, work hard - but know when to rest, be compassionate, love and appreciate family.
Thanks, Ferd, for all you gave everyone you touched.
- Prayers and fond memories forever,
Mary Milewski (& Richard Mason)
Marlborough, CT and the lake - East Haddam, CT
Linda A. Boucher
July 2, 2003
Dear Kathy, Jeremy, Keith & family,
No words can adequately express my/our heartfelt sympathy in your loss. Kathy, when you and Ferd first came to CT I had the pleasure of meeting your husband when he was interviewed by Dr. Jack N. Blechner for his residency. (I was Dept.Head Secretary of Ob/Gyn and used to travel back and forth to NBGH to collaborate/coordinate the dept's activities with his secretary there.) My first impression of Ferd was what a wonderful person he was, and how lucky we were to have him on our team, along with Dr. Tony Luciano . . .
When I left UCHC a few years later to attend nursing school, I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Sauer on the floor. A moment I'll never forget was when one of my fellow students was coaching a couple, and the baby was lost during a very difficult labor. She was so torn apart with emotion, and Ferd took her aside to console and comfort her in his genuinely compassionate way. As I listened to her story, I can remember how "proud" I was to have known him as long as I had at that point--also a confirmation of my pending decision re: who I'd be choosing to care for me during my pregnancies and deliveries someday--hopefully soon--then newly married for about 2 years. Not long before that I'd met the man who'd delivered me--Dr. Solomkin--just before he died,when he'd visited Dr. Blechner @ NBGH. Many fears had surrounded my ability to bear children since my parents had struggled 21 years in vain with infertility problems before having me--with my Mom at the age of 42 perimenopausal and my Dad at the age of 49 (in addition to my Mom's sister who remained very jealously childless despite all measures.)Yet, Dr. Sauer gave me hope.
Anyway, here it was, April 1980 and a + EPT! On May 2 I first saw Dr. Sauer, who had no reason to doubt that this was "for real!" I'll never forget how elated my Mom was to have him invite her to join us to view the ultrasound of her first-to-be-born grandchild and actually hear the baby's heartbeat! That was so special for the both of us to be able to share such a super experience! My last trimester was very trying as we watched my BP soar with toxemia and came close to having to be induced when STRICT BEDREST got things under control just in time and Jennifer Noel was born Christmas morning 1980 in the middle of a blizzard. I'll never forget Ferd showing up to deliver her that morning in his jogging outfit as he jogged to the hospital and the memorable pictures we took together that morning--the best Christmas of my life as we all took turns holding our "precious little Christmas present" who has now just graduated from the University of Hartford Art School in Graphic Art & Design. Then came my 2nd pregnancy 5 years later, when Jen got to see the actual room she was born in during the Sibling class you ran, Kathy, which wound up being the very same room that her sister Danielle Marie was born in--she just turned 18 years old recently on May 29! I'll never forget that night when Ferd coached me one-on-one for the last hour, having left Grove Hill at 9 p.m. to do so after hours.
Ferd was one of the best MD's I've ever known, and he loved you all SO MUCH . . .supporting you all every step of the way. When I was training at SJC as an MFT, he told me how you, Kathy, were going to do the same and then how you did. Then we'd share stories every yearly visit about our kids and our "special moments" as parents. . .His sense of humor and genuine concern/emotional support through some very difficult times of loss are unique qualities I'll always remember. . .as well as his support of my goals as a Holistic RN practitioner, allowing me to make informed choices about my personal health & wellness over the years beyond what the medical model had to offer.
Thank you all for sharing Ferd with our family and all the friends I've referred to him. He was truly sent to us as an angel and has done his work above and beyond the call of duty. May God Bless you all and bring you PEACE, LOVE & HEALING as Ferd would want it to be. As difficult as all this surely is right now, I'm sure that Ferd is looking down on you and smiling with pride . . .as he'd want you to hold those "special" memories of him in your hearts FOREVER . . . and keep his humor flowing in his memory. Your lives and all those he has touched have been truly BLESSED.
Take Care . . .Be open to his efforts to communicate with you, for he will . . .somehow . . . he loves you . . .
With our deepest sympathy & love,
Linda A. Boucher, RN, MAMFT, CSH & Jennifer Noel & Danielle Marie Ewaski
Marianne Pajak
July 1, 2003
I have read through a good portion of the tributes to Dr. Sauer, and being one of his patients for 20 years, I cannot say anything you have not already read many times over. However, I am reminded of when he delivered my only daughter, Valerie Rose on March 1, 1989 at around 9:30a.m... He arrived on the scene at NBGH all dressed up in a suit; I remember saying to him (since I expected to see him in his surgery-wear)"Aren't you a little dressed up for this." and his reply was, "Oh, you have plenty of time, I will be back..." and of course he was, and in "time". Even when you are in the throws of labor, he could make you feel comfortable and set you at ease. He was truly a great man, and if you don't mind me saying, I loved Dr. Sauer and his way. He loved his family and his grandchildren. Please know Mrs. Sauer, and family - your husband and Dad was a wonderful man, I always was in awe of his boundless energy, and positive attitude, he made what he did look easy, when you know darn well it wasn't!! I was shocked, my condolences to you.
Claudia St.Pierre
July 1, 2003
Family of Dr. Sauer
My husband and I would like to send our condolinces to his family. He will be surely missed by all who knew him. We have four beautiful children that he delivered. He was a wonderful man and a super doctor and always took time to ask how everyone was in our family, he has a special place in alot of people's lives and I know that he will have a special place in alot of hearts forever. God Bless you all
John and Claudia St.Pierre
Kerry McKeown
July 1, 2003
He was a wonderful uncle. He taught me how to fish, water-tube, and almost water-ski. I gave up on trying to learn how to water-ski for the past two years. He always took my cousins and I out on his boat. We would always go water-tubing. This past year he got a second tube. We did something called water-tubing wars. That was very fun. This year it will be so different without Uncle Ferd because he would take us out whenever we asked. Now we will have to wait until Keith or Jeremy can take us out. It won't be the same water-skiing without the help of Uncle Ferd.
Love Always,
~*~Kerry~*~
Linda Riel
July 1, 2003
To Mrs Sauer and Family,
I am so saddened to hear the news of Dr Sauers death. He was compassionate, funny, and always willing to listen. he will be truly missed.
Robin Bores
July 1, 2003
Dear Mrs. Sauer and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I will always remember how he wiped the tears from my face and told me everything would be okay when I needed emergency surgery 22 years ago. He was right, everything turned out fine.
He was a sweet man, and I will miss him so much.
God be with you all in this very sad time.
Robin Bores
Lore Kearney
July 1, 2003
Dear Mrs. Sauer and family,
I have had the honor of having Ferd as my physician for the past 23 years. This wonderful man delivered all four of my children. I received laughter, care, compassion and support through every one of those babies. I feel as though I have lost a beloved family member. My prayers are with all of you.
With great sadness,
Lore Kearney
Dawn Pfeffer Torento
July 1, 2003
To Dr. Sauer's Family, Co-workers, and Friends,
Dr. Sauer was my doctor for 18 years and delivered two of our three children. I saw him on Tuesday night, June 24, 2003, for my annual visit. He came in singing "Crazy" by Patsy Cline and said to the nurse "we were a bunch of singing fools" when I started singing along. We spoke briefly and he was happy that the night had gone smoothly and he expected to be able to go home soon. He gave me a high five as I thanked him and said good night.
It was so thoughtful of him to keep the Tuesday night hours even though he didn't have to, he did it for his patients. I've been seeing him on Tuesday nights for nearly 10 years and no matter how late into the night I finally got to see him, he always seemed to be happy to see me. I know he made all of his patients feel that way.
I always enjoyed seeing Dr. Sauer to see his wonderful smile.
He was so proud to be a grandfather. He didn't just tell me he was a grandfather, he told me to go into his office and look at the pictures he so proudly displayed.
I remember several years ago he was going to England for two weeks and he was leaving the next day, on a Wednesday morning. He was so excited because he told me it was the first two week vacation he had ever taken. I assured him he was entitled and everything would be fine. When I saw him again the following year, the first thing I asked about was his vacation and he said he had a wonderful time.
He will be missed by everyone who knew him. He will be in my thoughts and his family will be in my prayers.
Laurie Sangeloty
July 1, 2003
My deepest sympathy to the Sauer family. Dr. Sauer will always be remembered in the smiles of the gifts he helped to deliver - including those of my three children in 1987, 1990 and 1995. I was a patient of Dr. Sauer's for 19 years and I have spent the last few days telling my children about this talented man who was so intelligent, funny and compassionate. I wish I had told Dr. Sauer how much I valued his expertise, his humor, and his energy for life. Instead, I will tell his family that he will be tremendously missed and that they should take pride and comfort in the knowledge that he was a special person with a special gift. He will not be forgotten.
Lorena Carlson
July 1, 2003
Dear Sauer family,
I was a patient of Dr. Sauer's for 24 years. He was always comforting, understanding, appropriate humor and a devoted man to his occupation.
I am deeply saddened by his passing and pray that God will bless you.
Thank you.
Cheryl Brown
July 1, 2003
I have been a patient and collegue of Dr. Sauers' since he started his practice at NBGH. Above all, he delivered both of my children and has been a very dear friend for over 25 years. When I was diagnosed with cancer, Dr. Sauer called me at home, and we spoke for a very long time with him giving me the courage and faith to fight the battle, and here I am two years later feeling fine. My sincere sympathy to his family for the loss of a one of a kind beautiful human being. He could never be replaced. I will miss him dearly.
Valerie Roarke
July 1, 2003
My daughters and I are members of the Avon waterski club. Abbey and Lisa were fond of your husband/father. We will miss seeing him.
Joan Lenart
July 1, 2003
To the Family and Friends of Dr. Sauer, I wish to offer my condolences. I had been a patient of Dr. Sauer for 25 years and truly appreciated his talent. In addition to providing superb medical care, he was able to make me laugh when I needed to relax and to have serious discussions when appropriate.
He will continue to be in my thoughts.
Valerie Griffin
July 1, 2003
Dr. Sauer delivered both my boys and kept things humorous during both difficult deliveries. I referred all my friends to him because of his great bedside manner. I am still left in such shock and know there will always be an emptiness in the halls of Grove Hill in his absence. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and co-workers.
norma brown
July 1, 2003
To the family of the late Dr. Sauer:
My prayers are with you all. Dr. Sauer delivered all three of my children and provided excellent care not only to me, but to my husband as well. His friendly smile will be greatly missed! He always encouraged me to hang in there and to enjoy my children as they grow.
God Bless....Norma Brown and Family
Sandy DeVivo
July 1, 2003
Dr Sauer -- delivered the second of my two children and always made me laugh when I was pregnant with my son. He always had a kind word or a joke to bring a smile to your face. Over the years he always asked about my son and my family. He was a very nice and caring person.
Risa Bunce
July 1, 2003
When I heard the news yesterday,Monday,I actually began to cry.Dr.Sauer was such an amazing person.He made you laugh and smile every time he was in your pressence.He delivered my twin boys in January of 2003.He not only delivered my boys but was also my mothers doctor while pregnant with me.He will be greatly missed by all.
Barbara Kilburn
July 1, 2003
My deepest sympathy to the family of Dr. Sauer for your loss. I am still in shock after reading the obituary in the newspaper. I was a patient of his for over 18 years. He was warm and caring as well as extremely funny. When he delivered my son over 16 years ago, he said he was going to have soul because of the music playing at the time - Dionne Warwick! Of course, he sang along! He was warm and caring when I had a miscarriage and genuinely happy for me after my son was born. We always laughed during my regular appointments. He will be missed.
Rebecca Stevens
July 1, 2003
Dear Mrs. Sauer and Family,
Dr. Sauer was my doctor for almost 20 years. He delivered my first child on Monday, June 23, 2003. When I went into labor on Sunday, June 22, I knew that Dr. Sauer was not on duty and I hoped that he would be by the time I was ready to deliver. I am so happy that on Monday, June 23, 2003 at 3:25 pm, I have a wonderful memory of not only my precious baby girl being born but of having my Dr. Sauer there to bring her into the world.
I saw him on Wednesday, June 25, the morning I was discharged. I gave him a hug and thanked him. I spoke to him again on Friday, June 27, and he reassured me everything was ok.
May you find comfort in the Lord during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Rebecca Stevens
Rick and Mary Healey
July 1, 2003
Dear Kathy, Jeremy and Keith - Ferd's wonderful sense of humor effectively complemented his great skill as a doctor. We went to see him in his office late in the afternoon when Mary was expecting our second child. Ferd said that she was very close, but that we should go home instead of to the hospital. I asked if she could eat. Ferd smiled, his eyes brightened, and he said, "Can she eat? Have you seen those teeth?" Mary gave birth that night. Ferd left patients in his office; got there in time for the delivery; returned to the office to finish with his patients; and rejoined us at the hospital afterwards to share a glass of champagne. Our prayers are with Ferd and you.
Pat Tenney
July 1, 2003
To The Sauer Family:
I was a patient of Dr. Sauer for 18 years. He was recommended to me when I moved to CT. That was the best recommendation I could have had. He pulled me through 2 difficult surgeries. I feel I wouldn't be here today if it wasn't for him. I owe him so much. His gentle way, his incredible sense of humor, his willingness to go above and beyond for everyone.
I believe he's one of God's angels now, and he's up there watching over all his little babies!
My prayers are with you all.
L Pawlik
July 1, 2003
To the Sauer Family,
I was very sad to hear of your recent loss of Dr. Sauer. I was his patient for over 8 years. My prays go out to you all--as he will be sadly missed!
Donna-Lee Rulli
July 1, 2003
To the Family & Friends of Dr. Sauer,
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of this very special person. Dr. Sauer delivered both our sons. He never failed to ask how they were doing. His kindness and gentle nature will be greatly missed. His unexpected passing is a tremendous loss to all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. The Rulli Family
mary mengual
July 1, 2003
Dear Mrs. Sauer and family, I am a patient of your husband. I am deeply sorry for the loss of your husband not only for his family but all his patients, friends, colleages
as well. We all are suffering from this loss! He was a great doctor! He always loved his family there never was a visit when he didn't share with me a tidbit about his family!I am so grateful that I got to know him for these past 20 years.
He delivered 2 of my children and took good care of me for 20 years!He can never be replaced! My heart and prayers go out to you and your family!! God Bless all of you
Mary Mengual
Karlene DeVine
July 1, 2003
To the family of Dr. Sauer,
I am deeply saddend by the loss of this wonderful doctor. He has been my doctor for 18 years. He truly was a healing presence when he operated on me, not by the work of his hands but by the work of his spirit. He humbly changed the subject when I shared that observation with him in my first post-op check up. As we grieve, there is a heaven celebrating the return of a powerful healing spirit.
Celeste Armstrong
July 1, 2003
Dear Mrs. Sauer and family,
I want to send my deepest and heartfelt sympathy at the loss of Dr. Sauer. I had the honor of working with Dr. Sauer in the operating room at NBGH for 7 years now. He was one of the best surgeons I've had the opportunity to work with. He was in a word-amazing. I've seen that man perform miracles laproscopically when I was certain that we would have to open. He did his work quickly and competantly, while still cracking a joke and making us laugh. He was a great teacher to all of the residents. I would always listen when he was teaching, so I too could learn something.
I can't tell you how much all of us are going to miss Dr. Sauer. He was was a gold standard that others were compared to.
The weather is beautiful and sunny today. I can't help but think he'd want it that way. You could tell Dr. Sauer was genuinely happy, in a way that a person can be only when they're happy with their home life. He was so excited to become a grandpa, and we all knew it. He loved you all very much-you just knew it.
He'll always live in my heart, like I know he'll live in yours. That way, he's never really gone, and will be here forever.
With much sympathy,
Celeste Armstrong,RN
Tammy Windish
July 1, 2003
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to the Sauer family.
He was my favorite Dr., always so kind and never rushed with you. He was someone who deeply cared for his patients.
Out of all the surgeries that I've ever had (and there have been plenty), Dr. Sauer was the only Dr. to ever call me at home to see how I was feeling.
I will truly miss him!
Danelle DeCiantis
July 1, 2003
I was a patient of Dr. Sauer's for the past 12 years. He always made me laugh. My prayers are with the entire Sauer family on their great loss.
Jim Kryszak
July 1, 2003
As I read through some of the wonderful tributes to this outstanding physician with a zest for life and humor, I am taken back almost 16 years ago to the birth of my first daughter. As my wife was being prepared for delivery, Dr. Sauer "breezed" into the birthing room and declared..."Wait, before we get started, we need some tunes"! With that he switched on the oldies station, and began his work, as the caring staff at NBGH along with my wife and I burst into laughter. His expertise and care for ALL his patients will be truely missed.
susan rogers
July 1, 2003
DEAR mrs.sauer and family.i am deeply sorry for your loss.DR.sauer
was my doctor for over 20yrs. he was so much more than my doctor to me.he was my friend,a very good friend.there wasn't anything that i couldn't tell him.he was caring,compassionate,funny,smart.he was the only doctor who ever truly listened to me.he never rushed through my office visits.he was truly a very great doctor and friend.he will be deeply missed.
sincerly,
susan rogers
Kathy Jose
July 1, 2003
To the Sauer Family,
I worked with Ferd for many years as an OB nurse at UCONN and New Britian before moving to TN. He was a wonderful physician and a compasionate man. He was a joy to work with and a fine educator. I know he will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kathy Jose, RN
Laurie Whelan
July 1, 2003
To the Family and friends of Dr. Sauer,
My deepest sympathies on the loss of one of my favorite people. I have had the pleasure of knowing Ferd for 24 years as his patient. This is a tremendous loss to all.
My thoughts are with you all.
Sue Norton
July 1, 2003
Family and Friends my deepest sympathy,
Dr. Sauer was my physician for over 18 years. His compassion, humor and incredible bedside manner were incomparable. He truly made a difference; he was one of a kind. Rest in peace Ferd, you will be sorely missed and warmly remembered always.
Tricia Schuler
July 1, 2003
To the Sauer Family,
I cannot tell you how sorry I was to hear of Dr Sauers unexpected death. He is such a wonderful man. I have been a nurse for 3 short years at NBGH and in that time I have learned so much from him. Dr Sauer was always teaching and it didn't matter if you were a nurse, resident, or med student he always had great advise to give!! My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Tricia Schuler
Michele Vitale
July 1, 2003
My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Sauer family. He was with me through 2 pregnancies. One thing that I enjoyed so much about him is that he reminded me so much of my father with his sparkling personality and sense of humor. A wonderful man and doctor will be greatly missed.
Aditi Dagli
July 1, 2003
To the family of Dr Sauer:
I had the good fortune of working with Dr Sauer at New Britain General Hospital for a few months. He was kind enough to let me come from India to learn a bit more about the way medicine works in the US. He welcomed me with open arms and made me feel at home. I learnt a lot from him. His wonderful recommendation was the reason I got into a Pediatric residency in Chicago and I will always be indebted to him for his help.
In the little while that I knew him, he touched my heart. I can only imagine the loss you feel. I hope reading how much he was loved by all offers some solace. My sincere condolences
Aditi
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